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Keeping it Moto-Cool from Up and Away Jackets #Review and #Giveaway Canada/USA

September 5, 2013 By Deb B. 29 Comments

Up and Away Jackets Babystylista

When it comes to moto-chic, Up and Away Jackets is where it’s at.  The Motorcycle jacket for kids is made of heavyweight nylon which moms know, is the dream ingredient for durability and longevity.  What??  You can clean it with a single wipe?  It’s machine washable?  AND it won’t rip after a couple tumbles down the hill?  [Side note:  I bet if Jack or Jill tumbled down that hill with this bad boy, the only thing skinned would be their knees!].

Aside from it’s practical awesome-ness, it’s also ridiculously cute.

Up and Away Jackets Motorcycle Babystylista

The overall “tude” of this jacket is simply irresistible, with its decorative charm and authenticity.  The “Route 66” patch is what caught our attention, which, for the most part, is not something you see in most Motorcycle jackets for our little monkeys (but really should!).  The three authentic embroidered moto-theme patches is nothing new for our friends at Up and Away Jackets, as they pride themselves in emulating the finest of details as seen in our past experiences with this collection.  (See our post of the Classic M-64 Field Jacket and our post of the  A-2 Bomber Jacket).

We love the flexibility and lightweight feel of this jacket.  This will most likely, be a staple in LD‘s closet for another 2 or 3 years as we anticipate the inevitable chills of fall/winter 2013, with its loose fit atop several layers, and yet light enough to be a spring jacket 2 years from now.  We love how the zippers on the forearm at the back of the sleeves allow for the option of a looser fit.  And while we’re on the topic of zippers, the two front slash zippered pockets is perfect for chilly fingers while the diagonal chest pocket can carry small toys.  Brilliant, really.

The only complex situation LD encountered with this jacket, was choosing the perfect character she would portray while donning such moto-tude.

Would she be an officer?  With her new motorcycle jacket, she need not tap into her inner CHIPS with the complexities of a motorcycle, she’s just fine in her Little Tikes Patrol Cozy Coupe.

Up And Away Jackets Babystylista

Nah – she’s far too fabulous to be handing out tickets today, says she.

Up And Away Jackets

Perhaps, she may add a feminine flair and dress it up with high boots and a mini, which pretty much screams: “don’t mess with this chick”!

Up and Away Jackets Babystylista

However, she chose to walk away from all this pressure.  At the end of the day – it’s about the jacket, in all it’s glory – and not necessarily how she decides to wear it.  She has the next few years to figure that out!

Up and Away Jackets Babystylista

…So after much thought, she decided to just be herself, stick to simply cool, and called it a day.

Up And Away Jackets Babystylista

 ~~ Outfit ~~

Nylon Motorcycle Jacket ~ Up and Away Jackets

Sunglasses ~ The Children’s Place

Toddler AC/DC Graphic Tee ~ Rockware Anthill Trading

Triangle Studded Belt Bag ~ Hi Baby Designs

Jeggings ~ Old Navy Kids

Patent Leather Ankle Boots ~ Zara Baby

Attitude and makeshift-Belt – Yours truly (DIY and DNA)

 We were so pleased with the introduction of this fabulous design from the equally fabulous collection, that we teamed up with our friends at Up And Away Jackets, for a… (drum roll, please)

*****FREE GIVEAWAY*****

 To enter for the chance to win this too-cool-for-school Motorcycle Jacket valued at $49.00, simply fill out the form below!  For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

Contest closes September 15th, 2013 – at 11:59PM! The winner will be revealed September 16th, 2013! If you have an Instagram account, check us out at @babystylista for more ways to enter (Bonus points!)

a Rafflecopter giveaway

 

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About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Jonnie says

    September 5, 2013 at 7:24 pm

    I already liked baystylista but just started liking upandawayjackets on facebook. I should win because this motorcycle jacket is the most adorable thing I have ever seen!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:32 am

      So glad you liked Up and Away Jackets on FB! It really is the cutest jacket! Thanks for entering, and good luck!
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  2. Olfa Turki says

    September 6, 2013 at 12:30 am

    WOW, So stylish. I just love it.
    Reply
  3. Pam says

    September 6, 2013 at 1:19 am

    I’ve been a big admirer of these jackets for a couple of years – heck I even pitched them once.

    I absolutely love your review and your little one is a great fashion model.

    Reply
    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:33 am

      You did? What a small world! Thanks so much for checking out the review. We always have so much fun with their jackets!
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  4. Krista M says

    September 6, 2013 at 2:56 am

    Just because you’re little, doesn’t mean you can’t be hip & chic! This motorcyle jacket is modern, sleek & so fun. I want one in mommy’s size, too!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:34 am

      It’s SO true 🙂 I definitely want this jacket too. The Motorcycle jacket is so light, so it’s also easy to throw in our mommy bags too 🙂
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  5. Krista M says

    September 6, 2013 at 2:58 am

    I liked on FB & Twitter, too 🙂
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:34 am

      Yay! Thanks for entering the giveaway! Good luck 🙂
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  6. Julie Bolduc says

    September 6, 2013 at 11:35 am

    I liked them on FB I really like this its Sooooo cute
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:35 am

      Yay! And the motorcycle jacket is as cute in person as it is on the photo 🙂 Thanks for entering! Good luck 🙂
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  7. Areta says

    September 6, 2013 at 2:37 pm

    I liked @Babystylista and @Upandawayjackets on Facebook! My hubby rides a motorcycle so it would be fun for our little one to have a moto jacket too!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:36 am

      Now you HAVE to win this! Little one and daddy in coordinating motorcycle jackets!? That would just be plain awesome! Good luck!
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  8. Brandy says

    September 6, 2013 at 3:40 pm

    Oh my goodness, that jacket is so adorable! And your child is too cute. I have two boys and never thought to get them a jacket like this. They would love to feel so “cool!”
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:38 am

      Thank you so much. She loves dressing “bad boy” sometimes. She becomes “oh, so cool” by default 🙂 It would look amazing on your boys!
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  9. Jenn says

    September 6, 2013 at 4:40 pm

    OMG she is way too cute! I love that jacket!
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    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:39 am

      Thank you so much! We love this motorcycle jacket too. Wish mama could have it in her size too 😉
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  10. Fariha says

    September 6, 2013 at 5:53 pm

    These pictures are too cute!!!
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    • babystylista says

      September 12, 2013 at 4:40 am

      Thanks so much Fariha! 🙂
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  11. angela m says

    September 7, 2013 at 5:36 pm

    I liked both on facebook.. I would love to win because I have a 3 year old daughter who would look so adorable in this jacket.
    thanks
    Reply
  12. babystylista says

    September 12, 2013 at 4:31 am

    Isn't it adorable?
    Reply
  13. babystylista says

    September 12, 2013 at 4:41 am

    Thanks for entering! And yes – she would look fab in the motorcycle jacket 🙂
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  14. babystylista says

    September 12, 2013 at 4:43 am

    Yay! And the motorcycle jacket is as cute in person as it is on the photo Thanks for entering! Good luck
    Reply
  15. Lauren Warren says

    September 14, 2013 at 1:37 am

    Amazing jacket! Would love to put this on my sweet Stella girl! Thank you.
    Reply
  16. Tracy says

    September 14, 2013 at 3:51 am

    I’ve been a baby stylista fan for quite some time and I just ‘liked’ up and away jackets. I’ve been looking for a motorcycle jacket for my daughter (and myself). I think she would look so cute in this and it’s very practical too. Love that it would be so easy to clean. Fingers crossed! 🙂
    Reply
  17. Brandee says

    September 14, 2013 at 7:16 pm

    I liked both. My son is growing like a weed and a new jacket would be great!
    Reply
  18. Lissa C says

    September 15, 2013 at 2:38 am

    I would love to win this for my daughter bc she is very into fashion and would love to add this to her closets! So cute!
    Reply
  19. Andrina Goetz says

    September 16, 2013 at 3:24 am

    I liked both on FB. My daughter would look to cool in this jacket. I think she would look great riding in her little car wearing it.
    Reply

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    November 24, 2014 at 8:19 am
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POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast FULL TILT… but your ADHD brain 🧠 chimed in:

“might as well just release a whole song while we’re at it” 🤷🏻‍♀️

So now my Auntie Norma 🇵🇭 can stream me on Spotify while she washes dishes 😂 #winwin (but still… #whatjusthappened)

Meanwhile:
🏠 messy house
🎥 unfinished podcast clips
🧺 laundry mountain thriving in the background

BUT ANYWAYYYY—

🎧 “I Need My Sass Back” is now streaming on Spotify, iTunes, Amazon Music & everywhere you listen to music 

Your fault, @jakerfilms for writing the darn thing in the first place… 🤣 #dontthinkstraight

Full video link is in my bio if you want the whole vibe 🎬
Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/h Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/how to actually WATCH this podcast I keep talking about… 😂

So here’s how to find @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Seasons 1 & 2 on TELUS Optik TV + Stream+ Ch.9 

And yes… I said TV. 📺 
(“Mom! Look! I’m on tv!” And yes… I did that too… 🤣🤣)

**Thnx to TELUS @storyhive  for making it possible!!

And until June… it will ONLY be available to those who have @telus as their provider or have access to Stream+ & OptikTV, then it will be out in the interwebs for all to see. 👀

My little podcast-that-could is up and running, alive & streaming. Just search within the app on your TELUS TV, “StoryHive Sass”

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk features raw, meaningful conversations with the many faces of parenthood in our beautiful city, here on Vancouver Island (and beyond), caregivers, creatives, and changemakers carrying the mental load, navigating real life parenting, with honesty and heart. I promise you won’t be disappointed…

Featuring guests including @spoletinigiuseppe, @nikkye_music, @of.ocean.and.earth.photo, and more beautiful humans this season. 

MEET MY VILLAGE… 

Be sure to watch our Music vid tribute on YouTube to all of my guests from THEIR kids and I. Find, like, & Subscribe on YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls ALSO NOW AVAILABLE On Spotify and Apple Music/Itunes! 

#ParentingPodcast #CanadianPodcast #TELUSStoryhive #NeurodivergentParenting #mentalloadofparenting
MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a little help from THEIR kids.. 

I didn’t expect this to actually work…

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For the past few weeks, I’ve been working quietly on something really special — a surprise for every guest who’s ever been part of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast… from my Zoom OGs - circa 2022, to my TELUS @storyhive ⁠seasons on the tube 📺, to my crew/village/emotional support squad.

What started as a gift — a piece of music from my out-of-the-box-thinker & editor @jakerfilms, turned into something SO. MUCH. MORE. MEANINGFUL.

With the help of my incredible creative village at @haus.of.owl @remy.is.remy, led by the big beautiful brain 🧠 of Eric Hinch @eric.thebald, my Director 👏🏼🎬 Hinchalot Films (www.filmnow.ca), and the talented Dan @dn.gib & @erinbradleyartist 💄, we brought it to life!

… but the part that gets me right in the gut??

THE SMALLIES…. THESE KIDS….

The very kids who made all of us parents in the first place — including mine, who aren’t normally THIS comfortable “performing” in front of a camera.

Kids who have felt burnout.
Kids who have felt misunderstood.
Neurodivergent kiddos that hold a special place in my ❤️.

Kids who showed up anyway — with courage, joy, and love — to help me create something meaningful for their parents.

And somewhere in all of this…

I found my way back to me.

Back to music.
Back to creativity.
Back to MY SASS.
‘cuz isn’t this what Sass & Small Talk is all about?

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This video is for my village.
For the parents.
For the kids.
For anyone who’s ever felt like they lost a part of themselves along the way.

⸻

👉 The full video is now on YouTube at https://m.youtube.com/@sassandsmalls
(Link in bio)

** Watch and feel COMMUNITY IN ACTION. Gosh - I love you guys!

Ps… If this resonates - keep up with new episodes already streaming on TELUS STORYHIVE - by liking & Subscribing!

“Cuz it Takes a village to raise a child. 

And a community, to raise their parent”

⸻

#SassAndSmallTalk #ParenthoodUnfiltered #MentalLoad MomLife FindYourselfAgain CreativeMom Storytelling VillageSupport TELUSStoryHive @hoelune @rahannavu @iamharpsra @rajinthehouse @lindakyaw_m @nengineermom @i_am_miss_jen @esther.driver
JENN. Meet my village… There are episodes… and th JENN. Meet my village…

There are episodes…
and then there are stories that change your life forever.

This one is both.

She’s not just my guest.
She’s the woman who offered a piece of herself… when our world was falling apart.

Because of her, we have our son.
Because of her, our family feels whole. 

And watching this back—seeing her complete her family too…
full circle doesn’t even begin to cover it.

I wasn’t planning to share this moment.
But this is what this season is about.

The real stories.
The unseen moments of a mama sitting in her living room after the kids are asleep. 
The love that carries families through the unimaginable.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really looks like behind the scenes of motherhood, loss, and rebuilding…

This episode is for you. 🤍

🎧 Episode 1 is out now. 

TELUS OptikTV StoryHive gave me the platform to share these meaningful stories. 

Because it takes a Village to Raise a child. And a community to raise their parent. 
#eggdonor #chosenfamily #infertility #ittakesavillage #mentalload
Meet My Village 🤍 IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!! Season 2 of Meet My Village 🤍

IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!!

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk, filmed at @haus.of.owl studios, on @StoryHive, Sponsored by TELUS, IS HERE 

… and these are the faces behind the real, raw, and beautiful stories of the mental load of parenting.

From Victoria, and beyond, each guest shares how they carry it all… and keep showing up.

Featuring a very special first episode close to my heart… and a full-circle finale with a dear childhood friend now gracing the stages of NYC - you won’t want to miss.

🎬 Watch now on TELUS Optik TV (Channel 9 On Demand) + Stream+

Let’s support local stories, local voices, and the village that holds us all.

Because it takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise their parent.

#SassAndSmallTalk #StoryHive #MeetMyVillage
Easter used to feel like pressure: The perfect m Easter used to feel like pressure: 

The perfect meal. 
The perfect table. 
The kids sitting through the meal and actually eating it. 
The food not burning.

And somehow… still ending the day exhausted, touched out, and a little resentful… 

This year, I let go. I had no choice… with the launch of the new season on the pod, I had to choose my battles…

My 7-year-old — my busy, high-energy, “maybe not spaghetti” kid — decided he was making “superrrrr spaghetti.”
His way. 
His ideas. 
His “special ingredients.”

Was it messy? Yep.
Was it chaotic? Absolutely.
Was it perfect? Not even close.

But something shifted.

He took ownership.
He created.
He plated dinner like a little chef with a vision (volcano spaghetti and all 🌋🍝).

And he was SO proud.
And me?
I rested. I watched. I let go of control — and the mental load that usually comes with it.

THIS is what I’m learning:
• The more we try to control everything, the heavier it gets for us… and the less space our kids have to rise.

• When we let them lead (in age-appropriate ways), they don’t just help… they LEAD.

More pride.
More participation.
More appreciation.
More connection.
Less perfection. 
More magic.
** BONUS: and less craving for screen time #winwin

This wasn’t the Easter dinner I would’ve planned…but it’s the one we’ll actually remember ❤️

Taking a page outta your book @anna_skates ❤️❤️
Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where they’re at. Embrace the chaos, the messy experiments, the unrelenting curiosity. Let their 🧠 do its thing and step aside to see the magic.

Took me an entire lifetime to figure it out:
• Spent all of my childhood trying to “fit in”
• Struggled to mask but did it anyway 
• Met a boy. Also a creative and professional masker.
• Took a “creative” path less travelled as young adult on a one way flight to LA
• Loved life. 
• Received negative feedback from well-intentioned naysayers and loved ones
• Felt shame for not hitting the markers 
• Became a mom. 
• Read ALLLL the parenting books. 
• Spent over a decade fighting against my  first born’s “artist” brain and finding ways to “fix” what was not even broken
• Hated conforming and made some pivots while wearing metaphorical headphones to block out opinions/outside noise
• Loved Life 
• Had my youngest little man - came out of womb loud, intentional, & unapologetic 
• Threw out all parenting books and accepted the beautiful neurodivergent 🧠s taking over our entire household
• Gave both kids creative freedoms and stepped aside (mostly not intentionally. they’re too fast and I’m too old) 
• Learned how to celebrate the curious, comical, and weirdly wired brains that is our family. 
• Let my kids teach ME to have courage, think differently, and not just take the road less travelled - but actually #owningit
• Jumped into creating my own #podcast headfirst and never looked back

“Don’t Think Straight”, by Jacob Insley, is definitely one of our go-tos I’ll be keeping on my bookshelf for years to come. 

@jakerfilms you killed it with all these nuggets and takeaways! We’re all fighting for a turn to read - look at you causing ruckus in our home!?! 🤣 PS - My little guy requests to be in your 2nd book. 🤣🤣

#bebold #getmysassback #create
Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. It’s been a bitter swe Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. 

It’s been a bitter sweet one this year. But we are working through Grief that will never go away. Especially on milestone days like this. 

Not only is it Dad Felix’s first Heavenly Birthday (Valentine’s Day), it’s also a day we lost our 6th pregnancy before we finally had our little guy. I truly believe Dad is as much present with our babies in heaven, as he is with his 4 Grandkids on earth. 

There’s healing in loving family. Thank you for your constant reminders of this Dad/Grandpa Felix. We miss you so much. 

#sandwichgeneration #caregiving #family #multigenerational
It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. When our f It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. 

When our first family friendly white 🥼 party turns into a full blown midlife crisis.🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

(And no… he is NOT okay)… 🤣🤣

#thisis50
#dadlife  #unclelife
#GenXLife
#ParentingMoments 
#TheyGrowUpFast 
#RealLifeParents
#riuwhiteparty
#mexico
#dinerenblanc
He turned 50. Shouting it from the rooftops was no He turned 50.
Shouting it from the rooftops was not an option, so naturally - we had it announced at 40,000 feet ✈️🎂

For context:
This man avoids attention like it’s turbulence.

This??
Actual NIGHTMARE. 😂🤣🤣

But after a rough year of loss, change, and having to step up in so many facets, he deserved a little LOUD love. 📣🎉🥳

Happy 50th to the man I’ve loved for more than half his life.
You chose me, chaos and all… so really, this one’s on you. 😉😉

Thanks @flairairlines for this unforgettable #birthday moment.

If you’ve got a second, send this sweet, shy 50-year-old young man some love… he’ll be back to low-key status in about 72 hours. ⏰💛

@gjavier5 💙💜

#ThisIs50
#50thBirthday 
#MarriageHumor 
#RealLifeMoments 
#PlaneAnnouncement 
#MilestoneBirthday 
#LoveInTheMiddle 
#LifeLately 
#ImperfectAndReal 
#FamilyLife 
#Grief
#caregiving
#GenX
#sandwichgeneration 
#ReelsThatMakeYouSmile
Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — an Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. Also Me: 🎥📹🔦 Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

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Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam an 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
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