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Morse Code Bracelets by All The Sprinkles :: #Review #Giveaway

August 8, 2017 By Deb B. 78 Comments

Sass & Smalls carries a whole new meaning for my blog and it’s taken some time to figure out what that is. However, the moment we came across these amazing morse code bracelets from All the Sprinkles, we knew we found our match. 

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

Our previous blog, babyStylista, focused primarily on Little Mama and her outfits of the day. It was lighthearted, fun, and made sense to us and our loyal readers at the time. But something clicked for me. I started realizing that we were leaving out the good stuff. I mean certainly, a cute romper and matching espadrilles count for good stuff, but what I’m talking about is real life – the good the bad, the ups and downs, the highs the lows, and everything else in between. Many of the moments I was documenting on the blog was rarely including the other people in Little Mama‘s life. Her family, her friends, her interests, our family’s experiences and adventures – most of these things rarely found its way to my posts. Often, George, my husband made an appearance, but for the most part I was hiding behind the camera. 

It was time to share what mattered most to us. It was time to step out from behind the lens and get personal.

I was thrilled to learn more about All the Sprinkles‘ owner and creator, Shannon Casper’s story which, in many ways, parallels Sass & Smalls philosophy. “All the Sprinkles” – sprinkles, being the extra sweet toppings on the icing (you know, the proverbial icing on the cake? Love this…) – is derived from those extra special sweet moments in life. Even sweeter, she shares these moments with her 8 year old little mama, as she documents their mommy and me moments together. This was especially meaningful to me also being the mama of a little girl, and our extra special, sweet, and sparkly moments together.

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

When the morse code bracelets from All the Sprinkles were delivered, we were delighted to receive our very first mommy and me morse code, custom made jewelry pieces. They were lovely, dainty, and held very special meaning for Little Mama and I. 

Sass & Smalls.

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

Aren’t these the sweetest? 

What we loved the most was how we were able to choose our favorite color combinations for both the bracelet and the beads. When we placed our order, Shannon offered to share her vision of what combinations would look best, while taking into account what reflects the sentiment of our message while allowing our personality to shine through. She custom made each piece with such love and accuracy, I couldn’t help but tear up upon receiving it.

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It’s no secret that these morse code bracelets spell out our new venture, Sass & Smalls, but I love the subtly of the morse code concept. No matter where, when, and how we wear it – it will always serve to remind us of our special moments together. Me, and my smalls. 

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Shannon shared with me how these morse code bracelets are designed to give those who wear them, added hope, courage, strength, among other empowering attributes. Customers expressed how meaningful these morse code bracelets were as gifts for themselves and their loved ones who were going through hard times or celebrating milestones. In her shop, there are endless options of meaningful quotes and messages of positivity and strength, as well as the expression of political resistance (quite timely in light of our current political climate). We are so happy to receive two bracelets that mean change for our family, our business, and our overall perspective . 

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

Smalls. 

She may be small, but she’s fierce. She’s gone through more experiences in her 6 years of life than most people I know in 40. Being the daughter of restless folk, moving homes, even countries, is not a foreign concept to her. She’s had to learn how to adjust to a new lifestyle, in a new environment, in whole other timezone – in such a short period of time. She’s experienced loss, and although she may not be aware of it, she has already known grief first hand. She’s learned the concept of empathy and sorrow, and yet, she is one of the most happiest little beings I know. She’s complicated, yet simple. Wise, yet so innocent. She was never one to recite the alphabet backwards while standing on her head after doing a one armed cartwheel – but she has her own set of gifts. The gift of the funnies, the gift of creativity, and the gift of just being a great kiddo. 

She’s my creative, quirky, interesting, little Smalls.  

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

A few years ago, it was rare to see this little girl not fall off her scooter or trip over her own two feet. But now, I can barely get her off her wheels. And in her new self-made tutu, no less! (Don’t worry, no finger pricks came out of this little project of hers, it’s all knots and a whole lot of patience). Well – instead of fighting it – I figured this would be a good opportunity to capture this moment of my little tomboy strutting her stuff, embellished in her beautiful new morse code bracelet (inadvertently-turned-anklet) while scooting around the pier. 

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Wait, aren’t I supposed to be the sass in this relationship?

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Why not join in on the fun, I say.

Anklet it is. 

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Let’s try that again…

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One more time…

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Ahh… much better.

Mommy and me morse code bracelets, which we have, not surprisingly, turned into a set of mommy and me coordinating anklets. Did I not say we were restless? 

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

And there’s more. So much more. Check out All the Sprinkles shop for more ready-to-ship bracelets in a variety of colors, styles, and morse code messages. From grace & wisdom, love & compassion, resistance & persistence, there is definitely a bracelet waiting to be worn proudly and meaningfully. Among the morse code bracelets readily available for purchase in the shop, they also do custom orders – as you see in this post. There are so many amazing ones to choose from, so grab a tea, sit back and get perusing… 

Here’s their shop, Facebook page, and Instagram page to help you get started! Be sure to go and visit and tell them Sass & Smalls sent you! 🙂 

And you know us – we’re not one to go on and on about how faboosh we feel in our gorgeous morse code bracelets without giving you a little bit of the sprinkle action, now would we?

Together, with our friends at All the Sprinkles, we are offering one of our lucky readers a chance to win one of the bracelets found in the shop, as well as a Kid Sprinkles bracelet for their little one. 

All the Sprinkles morse code bracelets Sass & Smalls www.SassAndSmalls.com

:: GIVEAWAY TIME ::

Enter to win a pair of Mommy (or Daddy) and me morse code bracelets from All the Sprinkles. Simply fill out the form below. For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

Contest closes Friday, August 18th, 2017  – at 11:59PM PST! The winner will be revealed Saturday August 19th, 2017! 

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Good luck, friends!

And remember to enjoy all the sprinkles life has to offer,

Deb B. www.sassandsmalls.com

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Filed Under: accesso-PLEASE, mommy and me, the everyday, Tutu Cute Tagged With: accesories, All the Sprinkles, anklets, bracelet, children, custom made, family, fashion, girls, kids, Mommy and Me, morse code, style

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Larissa says

    August 8, 2017 at 10:43 am

    Looking fabulous ladies!
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 13, 2017 at 2:40 pm

      Awww Thank you Mama!!
      Reply
  2. Suzanne G says

    August 8, 2017 at 11:40 am

    I would like just one word Smart.
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 13, 2017 at 2:40 pm

      Love it. Straight to the point, no nonsense, and true 🙂
      Reply
  3. Viv Sluys says

    August 10, 2017 at 8:03 am

    We always say I love you to the sun and back so I think ‘to the sun’ would be a nice message for us
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 13, 2017 at 2:42 pm

      What a beautiful and unique message, that you and your family share. Very sweet. 🙂
      Reply
  4. Paula Schuck says

    August 11, 2017 at 9:42 am

    Breathe could be one of the words, or LIVE, or I love you more. OH so many pretty and lovely ideas that could be made with these adorable bracelets or anklets.
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 13, 2017 at 2:43 pm

      Oh – I LOVE Breathe. Love them all! It’s true – I had another one done as well (which I’ll be posting soon) and it is so meaningful to me. But it took a while to come up with it. So many ideas for this lovely piece right?
      Reply
  5. Lian says

    August 11, 2017 at 2:32 pm

    I think a special nickname or a sweet phrase that is shared between a family would be perfect to use for these bracelets. I think these bracelets are a wonderful idea!
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 13, 2017 at 2:45 pm

      Nicknames are the best, right? That way if you want to keep it subtle and something only you and your family would know and understand, you can. The morse code idea is brilliant isn’t it?
      Reply
  6. Amy Heffernan says

    August 12, 2017 at 7:12 am

    I would get “Love you forever”! Thanks!
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 13, 2017 at 2:48 pm

      Great idea! And then the Kid Sprinkle would say “I like you for always”.
      Reply
  7. Jonnie says

    August 12, 2017 at 9:36 pm

    I would love to get “Footprints” as a reference to our favorite poem which remind us we are never alone.
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 13, 2017 at 2:49 pm

      Oh I love that poem. It always makes me tear up reading it. Beautiful idea!
      Reply
  8. Laurie P says

    August 13, 2017 at 9:18 am

    “Princess” because my kiddo is obsessed!
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 16, 2017 at 6:02 pm

      So is mine! Great idea!
      Reply
  9. Brandee H says

    August 13, 2017 at 12:49 pm

    I am always with you.

    Such beautiful bracelets!

    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 16, 2017 at 6:10 pm

      Love this so much.
      Reply
  10. Diana Cote says

    August 14, 2017 at 8:53 am

    I would chose “Love you x infinity”
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 16, 2017 at 1:32 pm

      Awww that’s the cutest! Kids love being told this 🙂
      Reply
  11. jan says

    August 14, 2017 at 2:15 pm

    find happiness on your own terms
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 16, 2017 at 1:32 pm

      This is very empowering. Love it.
      Reply
  12. cheryl hodgkins says

    August 14, 2017 at 10:23 pm

    RIP my darling husband Don xo
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 16, 2017 at 1:33 pm

      So touching. I love it so much. Rest in peace to your sweet Don… xx
      Reply
  13. kathy downey downey says

    August 15, 2017 at 5:13 am

    I would have “Love you today & love you forever}
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 16, 2017 at 1:33 pm

      So lovely. xx
      Reply
  14. Kristy says

    August 15, 2017 at 5:52 am

    So many great messages you could write! I think I would choose “Follow your dreams”.
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 16, 2017 at 1:33 pm

      This would be particularly amazing for your little ones’ Kid Sprinkle bracelet. Love it!
      Reply
  15. Dana Miller says

    August 15, 2017 at 1:50 pm

    My message would be Always be Kind or Follow your Heart. We would love mommy and me matching bracelets aka anklets. 🙂
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 16, 2017 at 1:34 pm

      We are so in love with ours! Love your message – so great for your little one 🙂
      Reply
  16. Lyndsey OHalloran says

    August 16, 2017 at 10:13 am

    These are super pretty! I’d love a set for me and my daughter
    Reply
    • debalino says

      August 16, 2017 at 1:34 pm

      Aren’t they so lovely? You and your daughter will love it!
      Reply
  17. Theresa says

    August 16, 2017 at 5:55 pm

    No matter what, always say you love your loved ones!
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 16, 2017 at 6:09 pm

      So sweet! Absolutely!
      Reply
  18. Angel says

    August 16, 2017 at 9:29 pm

    Wow, this is absolutely adorable 🌸💕
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 2:52 am

      Aren’t these so cute?
      Reply
  19. Sue Tanya McHorgh says

    August 17, 2017 at 7:33 am

    Looking fab! Love this
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 2:52 am

      Thank you sweet mama!
      Reply
  20. lisa bolduc says

    August 17, 2017 at 8:05 am

    you are my sunshine
    Reply
  21. Addie says

    August 17, 2017 at 9:02 am

    This is so refreshing and cute!
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 2:51 am

      Thank you! We love our bracelets so much!
      Reply
  22. Megan says

    August 17, 2017 at 1:27 pm

    Very sweet!! Very pretty!!
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 2:51 am

      Our wrists and ankles feel just a little more pretty with these sweet little things 🙂
      Reply
  23. Samantha M says

    August 17, 2017 at 8:46 pm

    Sunshine would the word for my little one. Yes, I do sing You Are My Sunshine to calm my little one, but it’s so true. Everything can be and has been not so great at times, but I always have that one beam of sunshine the makes everything OK.
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 2:50 am

      I couldn’t have said it better myself. Love it! 🙂
      Reply
  24. jamie Quezada says

    August 18, 2017 at 12:12 am

    such a lovely photo this are really beautiful
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 2:49 am

      Thank you so much! 🙂
      Reply
  25. Brandon Sparks says

    August 18, 2017 at 5:52 am

    Mommy and me bracelets are the best
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:35 pm

      Aren’t they? We’re so glad we finally have a pair that go together 🙂
      Reply
  26. Lisa Kingsbury says

    August 18, 2017 at 9:29 am

    I love these! I don’t have any children, so I can see them as friendship bracelets as well!
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:36 pm

      What a great idea for you and your bestie. Hmmm… Now you got me thinking!! Thank you 🙂
      Reply
  27. Laurie says

    August 18, 2017 at 9:31 am

    I love this post. The bracelets are a great idea and so is the idea of having something like that to share with your daughter.
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:37 pm

      I know – it was so special to open this package and receive something meant for both me and my little girl 🙂
      Reply
  28. Taylor Fisher says

    August 18, 2017 at 9:47 am

    Accessories are everything! Especially these precious and memorable little gems. Great photo shoot to showcase them.
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:37 pm

      Thank you so much! So flattering coming from a photographer!! I definitely think accessories are essential 🙂
      Reply
  29. Leah Shumack says

    August 18, 2017 at 10:21 am

    I’d love to get Be your best you! for my daughter.
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:38 pm

      That’s so sweet. And you just gave me an idea of what to say to my daughter in my special daily notes to her 🙂
      Reply
  30. Ryan Origon says

    August 18, 2017 at 10:51 am

    Love would be nice!
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:39 pm

      That would be so perfect. Simple, and something we need a little more of these days…
      Reply
  31. Emily Moore says

    August 18, 2017 at 1:08 pm

    I know this post is mostly about the bracelets, but I can’t get over how sweet these pictures are! The mommy & me images are just the cutest <3 Your little one is so talented, those skirts are awesome!!
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:41 pm

      Oh my goodness… thank you. To be honest, these were just taken by my husband, who knows nothing about photography (neither do I). But I guess, he captured who the two of us are when we’re together… so win?? Hahah! Thank you so much! I’ll be sure to pass your sweet compliment to my little one. She loves tying knots and making big fluffy dresses!
      Reply
  32. Lacey says

    August 18, 2017 at 2:14 pm

    My daughter would absolutely love this. I love your sweet photos.
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:41 pm

      Thank you so much! Fingers crossed your little one will win herself a bracelet for you and her 🙂
      Reply
  33. Randa @ The Bewitchin' Kitchen says

    August 18, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    Mommy loves you
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:42 pm

      Awwww… you just made me tear up Randa. This would be amazing for you and your sweet little man!!!
      Reply
  34. Rox Snedeker says

    August 18, 2017 at 7:12 pm

    Oh what a great idea, and super cute bracelets!!! I have my own little creative one at home that would really enjoy something like this.
    Reply
    • Deb B. says

      August 18, 2017 at 7:43 pm

      Aren’t they so cute!? Yes! I love seeing little ones wear meaningful pieces like these…
      Reply
  35. krysta reed says

    August 18, 2017 at 8:51 pm

    Bushel and a peck 🙂 I sing this to my kids daily
    Reply
  36. Jamie says

    August 18, 2017 at 9:30 pm

    How adorable and delicate and fun! I’ve never heard of morse code bracelets, but I love them! Saving this to remember for my own kids.. <3
    Reply
  37. Gina Purcell says

    August 18, 2017 at 11:24 pm

    This is the cutest and most unique idea! My little girl would love this!
    Reply
  38. Trina Dinnar says

    August 19, 2017 at 4:59 am

    Lovely photos and that jewelry is so awesome!!!
    Reply
  39. rizelle says

    August 19, 2017 at 5:19 am

    so sweet, I myself, capture everything that I and my daughters do they grow up too fast.
    Reply
  40. Naomi says

    August 19, 2017 at 7:06 am

    What a need idea for mommy and me bracelets. I love the idea of morse code. Pretty branding pictures as well!
    Reply
  41. sarah says

    August 19, 2017 at 8:37 am

    These are adorable! I love the tutus too such a nice touch! And the mommy daughter shots are perfect!
    Reply
  42. Alyssa Bouma says

    August 19, 2017 at 9:16 am

    i love these! such a creative idea!
    Reply
  43. Valerie says

    August 19, 2017 at 10:08 am

    These are so sweet! I love them so much!
    Reply
  44. Mariana says

    August 19, 2017 at 11:06 am

    What a sweet idea! Love the little secret messages.
    Reply
  45. Jakayla says

    August 19, 2017 at 4:00 pm

    omgeee!! She is so insanely cute! I would love a pair of those for my daughter. The morse code bracelets are suer cool as well!
    Reply

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June hit hard. Work. Caregiving. Mental load to the nth degree. End-of-school-year chaos. Health stuff. Heavy news. Financial stress. And loads of the dreaded Mama Guilt - of not being able to celebrate my son’s birthday for the 3rd year in a row due to unforeseen circumstances…

Then another mama, also tired, also busy, also carrying her own invisible load in the realm of business and caregiving, invited my son to join in for her already-planned birthday celebration for HER son…

And even if he was surrounded by new faces in a higher grade - it ended up being everything my son would’ve wanted: laughter, friends - new and old, Nerf battles, a waterslide bouncy castle of his dreams, a killer last minute donut cake tower from @pacificplatterscharcuterie (Thank you to another Mama that gets it!), and memories to last a lifetime…

It reminded me of something I think many of us need to hear:

Leaning on your village doesn’t mean you failed your child.

It means you SHARED a load you were never meant to carry alone.

There is something powerful about mothers who see each other’s invisible load… and quietly decide to help carry it.

The village I needed wasn’t made up of people with more time or more energy.

Sometimes our village looks like another mom simply saying,

“Don’t worry - I gotchu. Let’s do this together.”

And that is more than enough. ❤️

Bless your big, beautiful, busy heart my friend @sarjo08 and @jasonhemz for inviting us and filling my little man’s cup at a time we weren’t as equipped to. He had a blast and absolutely loved celebrating with him and all his friends … ❤️❤️❤️
For years, I honestly thought this was just mother For years, I honestly thought this was just motherhood.

Being exhausted.
Forgetting everything.
Feeling overwhelmed.
Running on caffeine and adrenaline.
Wondering why I never quite felt like me.

A while ago I started working on my gut 🥤health, and for the first time in a long time I noticed little shifts.

• More mental clarity.
• Less brain fog.
• More creativity.
• Better stress resilience.

It made me ask a question I couldn’t stop thinking about…

What if these weren’t just personality flaws or “mom life”?

What if my body had been trying to tell me something all along?

So I’ve decided to stop guessing.

I’m working with @jac-lyn from @rewildfunctionalhealth , a functional health practitioner, to dig deeper, explore root causes, and document the entire process: the wins, the setbacks, and everything in between.

I’m calling this series “Getting My Sass Back” because that’s exactly what it feels like I’m searching for.

Not perfection.

Just me.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve been living in survival mode, I hope you’ll join me.

❤️ The investigation has already begun, and continues - so be sure to subscribe on YouTube (sass and smalls). Some pretty 👀 opening stuff… 

So grateful to you @i_am_miss_jen for the impeccable matchmaking. My health thanks you… 

#GettingMySassBack #FunctionalHealth #HealthJourney GutHealth BrainFog MomLife MentalLoad HealingJourney Women’sHealth HTMATesting VictoriaBC
It happened on Autism Pride Day. — For years, we It happened on Autism Pride Day.

—

For years, we spent so much energy trying to help our daughter fit into a world that wasn’t built for her.

We chased therapies.
We chased milestones.
We chased the idea of what we thought her future was supposed to look like.

Sometimes, if I’m being completely honest, we were trying to fix things we didn’t yet understand.

We heard heartbreaking predictions.

Some professionals told us she would likely never progress beyond the abilities of a five- year-old child.

We were told to prepare for limitations.

We were told to lower our expectations.

What no one told us was that the goal was never to make her more like everyone else.

The goal was to help her find her way to HERSELF.

That shift changed everything.

Over the years, we homeschooled when it was the right fit, even when others questioned it. We searched for programs that understood her. We listened to support workers who saw her strengths. We found camps, social groups, sports programs, and communities where she wasn’t expected to fit into someone else’s mold.

And little by little, she began to thrive.

She found her voice.

She found confidence.

She found belonging.

Most importantly, she found herself.

This year, after finding a school program that truly supports her learning style and focuses on life skills, she said something I will never forget:

“I finally feel like myself, Mommy.”

Those words healed parts of my heart I didn’t even know were still holding their breath.

Because the truth is, I wasn’t waiting for her to become someone different.

I was waiting to know she would be okay.

And she is.

Autism Pride isn’t about pretending there aren’t challenges.

It’s about recognizing that autistic people don’t need to become less autistic to deserve joy, friendship, opportunity, acceptance, or love.

It’s about taking pride in who they are and embracing the community where they belong.

Today, I celebrate my daughter exactly as she is.

She has taught me more about courage, authenticity, resilience, and unconditional love than I could ever teach her.

I am so proud of her.

And if I’m honest, she’s been my teacher all along.
Nine parents. Nine very different stories. (Mine, Nine parents.

Nine very different stories.
(Mine, included).

Military/Naval families. Solo parents. Single parents. Neurodivergent & Profound Needs families. Blended families. Adoptive families. Families navigating loss, burnout, caregiving, infertility, generational trauma, and everything in between.

What surprised me most wasn’t how different we were and how different our journeys were to get here.

It was how much we SHARED in common.

❤️

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk reminded me that behind every smile, every school drop-off, every achievement, and every family photo, there is often a story no one else can see.

And yet, somehow, we keep showing up.

So take that moment to pause, and pat yourself on the back. Better yet, hug a parent in your life, who may be carrying that invisible load too.

It’s a game changer.

@jenny_p1987 
@caarly.xo 
@westislanddesigns 
@drawnpublications 
@nikkye_music 
@of.ocean.and.earth.photo 
@mama_brykin 
@spoletinigiuseppe 
@gjavier5 

Grateful for the platform you provided for us to share our stories @telus @storyhive  @haus.of.owl
FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly mo FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly more than one burntout mom with a microphone and a dream. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Meet the incredible CREW behind Season 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast … the people who made me LOOK good, SOUND good, stay on SCHEDULE, and reminded me to sip on my HAPPY J 🥤. 

Huge thanks to my KILLER 🔥 CREW: @jakerfilms (editor & Sass 🎵 Man/Deb whisperer), @nikkye_music (set designer & Epi 4 Guest that made me 😭), @remy.is.remy (A/V Tech/ Production/ Lifesaver), @eric.thebald (A/V Tech/ Audio Mixer/Dreammaker), @hoelune (Production Assistant/Admin/Best support evah), @gjavier5 (Production Assist/ Moral Support/Lovah ❤️), @esther.driver (Production Assist/ Keep me in check/Mama support), and @telus @storyhive for making this vision into reality.

Special thank you to, Geoff @themurdles 4 keeping this chaos👸🏻 in line, and my 2 Smallies who inspired all of this. 👶🏻👧🏻 Love u 2 the 🌓 and back ♾️.

The GUESTS are AMAZING.
The STORIES are POWERFUL.
The SET is GORG (@haus.of.owl).
And all the episodes will be ONLINE and ready to binge TOMORROW - JUNE 16, 2026 on YOUTUBE!

It takes a VILLAGE to raise a child AND a PODCAST. 🎙️

Thanks my #BTS CREW, for being mine…

Ima go and cry myself to sleep now. I’m the luckiest & most exhausted 😴 Pod-Mom Host in the 🌎. Love you all too much. 

#humbled #letsgooooo
Behind every Momfluencer… It’s still the month of Behind every Momfluencer…

It’s still the month of May, the month moms get their Hallmark spotlight - So in honour of that, I wanted to share a little story.

When I first moved from LA to Victoria as a new mom and began building my brand online from home, I struggled with finding a true sense of belonging. I never felt like I fully belonged in the “mom world”, especially in a new community, not fully in the creative world, and definitely not in the often viral-chasing digital world I could never seem to keep up with.

Ironically, I was a “part” of everything but belonged to nothing.

…or so I thought.

As I opened myself up to the many communities WITHIN my community, I realized something:

The moment I stopped trying to “fit in” and leaned into who I actually am… that’s when everything changed.

And that’s what I love most about this group of women featured by @islandparent Magazine — in all the ways we are different, we are also one and the same.

Different voices. Different lives. Different ways of showing up for the world.

But all rooted in connection, creativity, community, and a deep love for our families.

Beyond being “mamas of influence,” these women use their platforms while opening their hearts and homes.

Some share family life tips, recipes, wellness journeys, sandwich gen truths, and initiate mental health conversations.
Some inspire through faith, fashion, creativity, gardening, travel, and outdoor adventures.
Some advocate fiercely for neurodivergent children while navigating neurodivergence themselves.

Some use storytelling, humour, or podcasts 😉 to help other parents feel seen and less alone.

And somehow, in between school pickups, medical appointments, assessment forms, homemaking, caregiving, and late nights searching for a little silence and brain clarity after long days of “othering” — we are building businesses, brands, and meaningful lives for our families.

We cheer each other on. 
We lift each other up.

And in finding my place within this realm of motherhood… I found home.

“It takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise the parent.” 

#MomsSupportingMoms #VancouverIslan
POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast FULL TILT… but your ADHD brain 🧠 chimed in:

“might as well just release a whole song while we’re at it” 🤷🏻‍♀️

So now my Auntie Norma 🇵🇭 can stream me on Spotify while she washes dishes 😂 #winwin (but still… #whatjusthappened)

Meanwhile:
🏠 messy house
🎥 unfinished podcast clips
🧺 laundry mountain thriving in the background

BUT ANYWAYYYY—

🎧 “I Need My Sass Back” is now streaming on Spotify, iTunes, Amazon Music & everywhere you listen to music 

Your fault, @jakerfilms for writing the darn thing in the first place… 🤣 #dontthinkstraight

Full video link is in my bio if you want the whole vibe 🎬
Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/h Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/how to actually WATCH this podcast I keep talking about… 😂

So here’s how to find @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Seasons 1 & 2 on TELUS Optik TV + Stream+ Ch.9 

And yes… I said TV. 📺 
(“Mom! Look! I’m on tv!” And yes… I did that too… 🤣🤣)

**Thnx to TELUS @storyhive  for making it possible!!

And until June… it will ONLY be available to those who have @telus as their provider or have access to Stream+ & OptikTV, then it will be out in the interwebs for all to see. 👀

My little podcast-that-could is up and running, alive & streaming. Just search within the app on your TELUS TV, “StoryHive Sass”

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk features raw, meaningful conversations with the many faces of parenthood in our beautiful city, here on Vancouver Island (and beyond), caregivers, creatives, and changemakers carrying the mental load, navigating real life parenting, with honesty and heart. I promise you won’t be disappointed…

Featuring guests including @spoletinigiuseppe, @nikkye_music, @of.ocean.and.earth.photo, and more beautiful humans this season. 

MEET MY VILLAGE… 

Be sure to watch our Music vid tribute on YouTube to all of my guests from THEIR kids and I. Find, like, & Subscribe on YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls ALSO NOW AVAILABLE On Spotify and Apple Music/Itunes! 

#ParentingPodcast #CanadianPodcast #TELUSStoryhive #NeurodivergentParenting #mentalloadofparenting
MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a little help from THEIR kids.. 

I didn’t expect this to actually work…

⸻

For the past few weeks, I’ve been working quietly on something really special — a surprise for every guest who’s ever been part of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast… from my Zoom OGs - circa 2022, to my TELUS @storyhive ⁠seasons on the tube 📺, to my crew/village/emotional support squad.

What started as a gift — a piece of music from my out-of-the-box-thinker & editor @jakerfilms, turned into something SO. MUCH. MORE. MEANINGFUL.

With the help of my incredible creative village at @haus.of.owl @remy.is.remy, led by the big beautiful brain 🧠 of Eric Hinch @eric.thebald, my Director 👏🏼🎬 Hinchalot Films (www.filmnow.ca), and the talented Dan @dn.gib & @erinbradleyartist 💄, we brought it to life!

… but the part that gets me right in the gut??

THE SMALLIES…. THESE KIDS….

The very kids who made all of us parents in the first place — including mine, who aren’t normally THIS comfortable “performing” in front of a camera.

Kids who have felt burnout.
Kids who have felt misunderstood.
Neurodivergent kiddos that hold a special place in my ❤️.

Kids who showed up anyway — with courage, joy, and love — to help me create something meaningful for their parents.

And somewhere in all of this…

I found my way back to me.

Back to music.
Back to creativity.
Back to MY SASS.
‘cuz isn’t this what Sass & Small Talk is all about?

⸻

This video is for my village.
For the parents.
For the kids.
For anyone who’s ever felt like they lost a part of themselves along the way.

⸻

👉 The full video is now on YouTube at https://m.youtube.com/@sassandsmalls
(Link in bio)

** Watch and feel COMMUNITY IN ACTION. Gosh - I love you guys!

Ps… If this resonates - keep up with new episodes already streaming on TELUS STORYHIVE - by liking & Subscribing!

“Cuz it Takes a village to raise a child. 

And a community, to raise their parent”

⸻

#SassAndSmallTalk #ParenthoodUnfiltered #MentalLoad MomLife FindYourselfAgain CreativeMom Storytelling VillageSupport TELUSStoryHive @hoelune @rahannavu @iamharpsra @rajinthehouse @lindakyaw_m @nengineermom @i_am_miss_jen @esther.driver
JENN. Meet my village… There are episodes… and th JENN. Meet my village…

There are episodes…
and then there are stories that change your life forever.

This one is both.

She’s not just my guest.
She’s the woman who offered a piece of herself… when our world was falling apart.

Because of her, we have our son.
Because of her, our family feels whole. 

And watching this back—seeing her complete her family too…
full circle doesn’t even begin to cover it.

I wasn’t planning to share this moment.
But this is what this season is about.

The real stories.
The unseen moments of a mama sitting in her living room after the kids are asleep. 
The love that carries families through the unimaginable.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really looks like behind the scenes of motherhood, loss, and rebuilding…

This episode is for you. 🤍

🎧 Episode 1 is out now. 

TELUS OptikTV StoryHive gave me the platform to share these meaningful stories. 

Because it takes a Village to Raise a child. And a community to raise their parent. 
#eggdonor #chosenfamily #infertility #ittakesavillage #mentalload
Meet My Village 🤍 IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!! Season 2 of Meet My Village 🤍

IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!!

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk, filmed at @haus.of.owl studios, on @StoryHive, Sponsored by TELUS, IS HERE 

… and these are the faces behind the real, raw, and beautiful stories of the mental load of parenting.

From Victoria, and beyond, each guest shares how they carry it all… and keep showing up.

Featuring a very special first episode close to my heart… and a full-circle finale with a dear childhood friend now gracing the stages of NYC - you won’t want to miss.

🎬 Watch now on TELUS Optik TV (Channel 9 On Demand) + Stream+

Let’s support local stories, local voices, and the village that holds us all.

Because it takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise their parent.

#SassAndSmallTalk #StoryHive #MeetMyVillage
Easter used to feel like pressure: The perfect m Easter used to feel like pressure: 

The perfect meal. 
The perfect table. 
The kids sitting through the meal and actually eating it. 
The food not burning.

And somehow… still ending the day exhausted, touched out, and a little resentful… 

This year, I let go. I had no choice… with the launch of the new season on the pod, I had to choose my battles…

My 7-year-old — my busy, high-energy, “maybe not spaghetti” kid — decided he was making “superrrrr spaghetti.”
His way. 
His ideas. 
His “special ingredients.”

Was it messy? Yep.
Was it chaotic? Absolutely.
Was it perfect? Not even close.

But something shifted.

He took ownership.
He created.
He plated dinner like a little chef with a vision (volcano spaghetti and all 🌋🍝).

And he was SO proud.
And me?
I rested. I watched. I let go of control — and the mental load that usually comes with it.

THIS is what I’m learning:
• The more we try to control everything, the heavier it gets for us… and the less space our kids have to rise.

• When we let them lead (in age-appropriate ways), they don’t just help… they LEAD.

More pride.
More participation.
More appreciation.
More connection.
Less perfection. 
More magic.
** BONUS: and less craving for screen time #winwin

This wasn’t the Easter dinner I would’ve planned…but it’s the one we’ll actually remember ❤️

Taking a page outta your book @anna_skates ❤️❤️
Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where they’re at. Embrace the chaos, the messy experiments, the unrelenting curiosity. Let their 🧠 do its thing and step aside to see the magic.

Took me an entire lifetime to figure it out:
• Spent all of my childhood trying to “fit in”
• Struggled to mask but did it anyway 
• Met a boy. Also a creative and professional masker.
• Took a “creative” path less travelled as young adult on a one way flight to LA
• Loved life. 
• Received negative feedback from well-intentioned naysayers and loved ones
• Felt shame for not hitting the markers 
• Became a mom. 
• Read ALLLL the parenting books. 
• Spent over a decade fighting against my  first born’s “artist” brain and finding ways to “fix” what was not even broken
• Hated conforming and made some pivots while wearing metaphorical headphones to block out opinions/outside noise
• Loved Life 
• Had my youngest little man - came out of womb loud, intentional, & unapologetic 
• Threw out all parenting books and accepted the beautiful neurodivergent 🧠s taking over our entire household
• Gave both kids creative freedoms and stepped aside (mostly not intentionally. they’re too fast and I’m too old) 
• Learned how to celebrate the curious, comical, and weirdly wired brains that is our family. 
• Let my kids teach ME to have courage, think differently, and not just take the road less travelled - but actually #owningit
• Jumped into creating my own #podcast headfirst and never looked back

“Don’t Think Straight”, by Jacob Insley, is definitely one of our go-tos I’ll be keeping on my bookshelf for years to come. 

@jakerfilms you killed it with all these nuggets and takeaways! We’re all fighting for a turn to read - look at you causing ruckus in our home!?! 🤣 PS - My little guy requests to be in your 2nd book. 🤣🤣

#bebold #getmysassback #create
Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. It’s been a bitter swe Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. 

It’s been a bitter sweet one this year. But we are working through Grief that will never go away. Especially on milestone days like this. 

Not only is it Dad Felix’s first Heavenly Birthday (Valentine’s Day), it’s also a day we lost our 6th pregnancy before we finally had our little guy. I truly believe Dad is as much present with our babies in heaven, as he is with his 4 Grandkids on earth. 

There’s healing in loving family. Thank you for your constant reminders of this Dad/Grandpa Felix. We miss you so much. 

#sandwichgeneration #caregiving #family #multigenerational
It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. When our f It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. 

When our first family friendly white 🥼 party turns into a full blown midlife crisis.🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

(And no… he is NOT okay)… 🤣🤣

#thisis50
#dadlife  #unclelife
#GenXLife
#ParentingMoments 
#TheyGrowUpFast 
#RealLifeParents
#riuwhiteparty
#mexico
#dinerenblanc
He turned 50. Shouting it from the rooftops was no He turned 50.
Shouting it from the rooftops was not an option, so naturally - we had it announced at 40,000 feet ✈️🎂

For context:
This man avoids attention like it’s turbulence.

This??
Actual NIGHTMARE. 😂🤣🤣

But after a rough year of loss, change, and having to step up in so many facets, he deserved a little LOUD love. 📣🎉🥳

Happy 50th to the man I’ve loved for more than half his life.
You chose me, chaos and all… so really, this one’s on you. 😉😉

Thanks @flairairlines for this unforgettable #birthday moment.

If you’ve got a second, send this sweet, shy 50-year-old young man some love… he’ll be back to low-key status in about 72 hours. ⏰💛

@gjavier5 💙💜

#ThisIs50
#50thBirthday 
#MarriageHumor 
#RealLifeMoments 
#PlaneAnnouncement 
#MilestoneBirthday 
#LoveInTheMiddle 
#LifeLately 
#ImperfectAndReal 
#FamilyLife 
#Grief
#caregiving
#GenX
#sandwichgeneration 
#ReelsThatMakeYouSmile
Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — an Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. Also Me: 🎥📹🔦 Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

********************

Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam an 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
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