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Age Definer Products for Tired Parents :: Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway

September 8, 2020 By Deb B. 72 Comments

Disclaimer :: We received the Aloisio Cosmetics Age Definer Serum and Moisturizer for review. All opinions are our own.

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comBeing parents of a school aged child and a toddler, in our “advanced” years, right smack in the midst of a pandemic no less, is no easy feat. But here we are.

Barely Surviving.

but…

Shockingly Thriving.

We’ve put our all into this wild world of pandemic parenting and what appears to have remained that’s left of “us”, are our laugh lines, and each other.

Here’s the thing – no matter how happy we are in our marriage, filled to the brim with joy being the parents of these crazy awesome kiddos, blessed beyond belief for our good health and the health of our loved ones – we are still feeling a little…. drab. I don’t know if it’s the anxiety after listening to even a few minutes of the news, or navigating through the daily worries of our aging parents, or the nagging of our inner voice telling us we are in big trouble for choosing the homeschool route – our faces cannot lie. We have aged. We feel exhausted. We are in the crux of parental burn out.

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comTeaching a resistant learner how to understand the complexities of math is painful to say the least, but we do it. Packing the kids up for yet the 6th day in a row of beach fun to ensure they’re not glued to the screen or bored out of their mind, is kind of a pain in the butt. But we do it. Cleaning up quite literally, every crumb and lego piece that falls to the ground multiple times a minute, is terrible for a middle aged mama’s back. But we do it. Working at 3AM because our schedule is packed with kid-centered activites during the day, as mentioned above – is not great for our overall functioning. But we do it.

And truth be told – we wouldn’t have it any other way.

But, do you know what we don’t do?

We don’t take very good care of the first thing everyone sees. No… not our living room, we’ve kon mari’ed the heck out of it – she’s doing just fine. The first thing everyone sees – even in the midst of social distancing… is our faces. We haven’t done anything to take care of our faces. We appear as tired as our body feels. And when we look at ourselves in the mirror or look at one another, we just shrug our shoulders and decide – well… we signed up for this. This is our life now. Besides, we’re in a pandemic – so why bother?

Enter, Aloisio Cosmetics.

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comI didn’t exactly bump into this product by chance. A good friend of mine told me about this up and coming local age definer line of products exclusive to her city, Edmonton, Alberta, and suggested I give it a go. Nothing epic was happening with my skin on the face front, so I figured, why not? I spoke with the founder of this product, who was extremely well-versed in the needs of aging skin. It quickly became apparent that he spent much of his collaborative efforts and research, finding the perfect organic ingredients that delivered immediate and visible results with emphasis on hydration, replenishment, and moisturizing – all while supporting local producers and farmers. He essentially told me to brace myself – promising noticeable results on even the deepest of laugh lines and wrinkles, in as little as 7 – 10 days. He told me, I will not only see the results, I will also feel it. As the serum and moisturizer are PH balanced, I am free to use it with my other existing skin care, but he encouraged me to give my current products a break and just use the Aloisio system exclusively, so I can experience its optimal effectiveness.

But it wasn’t until he told me the inspiration behind the brand that really piqued my curiosity. It came with a story. It was about family. It was about what really matters. It was about keeping things real, pure, and honest. It was about supporting local businesses and growing from a strong foundation. It emphasized quality over quantity. That’s when I knew… it was time to give this new line a try.

That is – if these two would let me…

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comThese were some other aspects of this age definer product that caught my attention even before the serum and moisturizer found its way to my self care routine:

  • With the use of only 2 steps – the serum and moisturizer, Aloisio Cosmetics aims to deliver an all-inclusive age definer line of products  (what parent has time for a 5 step regimen, something I admittedly did prior to trying Aloisio…)
  • It helps smooth and diminishes the look of fine lines and wrinkles
  • Gently effective and safe for the entire eye area. (That means… no need for a separate eye cream!)
  • 18 months shelf life for the serum, 3 year shelf life for the moisturizer
  • Improves skin tone and texture
  • The Moisturizer is a new product that just made its debut at the top of 2020 (Just in time to ward off the pandemic parenting induced dark circles)
  • There is immediate and tangible evidence that the product is doing its work, thanks to the tightening effect after applying the serum. I was especially curious about this feature.

George and I decided we would give the Aloisio Serum and Moisturizer a try – but… even more fun, we decided we would do this thing TOGETHER. Funny, when you’re forced into a quarantine lifestyle with your family, you’d think we would’ve had enough of each other. I don’t know if it was the simple act of taking care of ourselves for once, or it if was just doing something that we knew would somewhat fix the seemingly unfixable, that got us collectively excited to do this side by side. Plus, each of our equally competitive personalities (and corresponding egos) reared its ugly head. Nothing wrong with a little healthy competition… right?

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comHere’s a quick synopsis of what we did:

  1. First we used our own cleansers with warm water. That is the key to opening up the pores, allowing the serum to do its magic.
  2. Then, we applied a small amount (1-2 tiny pumps) of serum on our entire face AND neck. It immediately began to dry up and tighten. This means the age definer is starting to work through the pores. This tightening sensation takes all of 2-3 minutes, and promises to help with fine lines, skin elasticity, and wrinkles. Thanks to the protein extracted from eggs, the serum absorbs right in and does not merely sit on top, while replenishing and nourishing the skin. TRUST ME when I say this mamas… it felt as good as it sounds. I actually found that it illuminated my face. I can say with no hesitation, that I have NEVER seen such a sheen on my skin (that wasn’t makeup) before this. For once I had nothing to say, as I was literally dumbfounded. I let it sit and continue to tighten for a few minutes. (Perfect time to multitask with hair brushing, and cleaning counters left in disarray by my competitor and his offspring? Sigh.) But, I digress…
  3. Final step – we applied the moisturizer. Again, both face and neck.

DONE AND DONE.

What we loved the most, as exhausted parents, is that it absolutely did some wizardry on our otherwise relentless dark circles under our tired eyes. Did I mention we have a busy toddler, that we’re trying to keep up with in our mid 40s?

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.com Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comWe tried the age definer Serum and the Moisturizer for 7 days and by that point, we were both already seeing and feeling a difference in the elasticity and overall look of our skin.

No fancy eye creams, no toners, no oils, no more unnecessary steps. None of that extra “noise”. Just two steps. TWO STEPS.

(I see you no-room-for-anything-else-on-your-hygiene-regimen-parents…)

All I can describe it as, is in one word… Lovely. It made me feel lovely.

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comWe did this twice a day, and in the morning I would just add a little SPF moisturizer to follow. Another fun feature that I loved is that this age definer moisturizer made for an exceptional base for makeup application. And although there was a bit of an illuminating/glow effect on my skin (thanks to the age definer serum), it wasn’t thick or greasy at all. In fact, it felt so smooth and light on my skin, I often didn’t feel the need to cover up with make up. For the first time in a long time, I felt my skin was getting the proper treatment it needed, and deserved.

George has never really paid much attention to the need for age definer products. This is the same annoyingly lucky duck guy, NOT being asked for his driver’s license (like his worn out wifey), because he was always the youngest looking of the bunch. But after trying the aging definer products in Aloisio Cosmetics, he was completely converted, almost addicted, to this sacred 3 minute alone time regimen he shared with his 3rd most favourite person.

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comAnd guess what happened, coincidentally within the last few days of our trial? We actually felt good enough about how we looked, not only to ourselves but to the outside world, to GO OUT. We walked with confidence, smiled more, and we even took pictures. Hands up if you’re guilty of spamming the world with your kids’ photos, but letting the ball drop when it comes to shots of you, your spouse, or better yet, you and your spouse together?

Well… we finally felt cute enough to turn the camera on us, for once. Something we rarely think of doing these days. Did I mention we have a busy toddler?

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comIt was a big win for us. We looked and felt great. Even in the midst of a global pandemic, parenting busy little humans – we were inspired to stop and take a break. Not just from two of our most cherished little people, but from the news, from the negativity, from colour coded schedules, and especially from our never-ending to-do list.

It’s almost like our faces helped jump start the rest of our body into self-care mode.

The best part? We began our age definer skin journey with Aloisio Cosmetics just in time to celebrate our 11th anniversary. It’s like they knew we needed some good incentive to force ourselves into a break, and take a moment to smell the lavender fields.

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comI IMPLORE you friends… GIVE THIS A TRY. You will NOT regret it! I am not always this affected by a product, but I’m telling you – it sparked something great for both my husband and I! Please use our Promo Code: SASS15, and receive a 15% discount on your purchase of Aloisio Cosmetics serum and Moisturizer! Shipping is free with a purchase over $100.00 anywhere in Canada! At this time, shipping is only available to Canadian addresses only.

Let’s continue to support our Local and Canadian Brands! They work hard, so we look goooood!

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***********************************GIVEAWAY TIME ***********************************

And to celebrate our 11th year of marital bliss and parental chaos, we are offering our readers a chance to win this amazing age definer line of products and luxurious face cloths, valued at $125.00. We partnered with our friends at Aloisio Cosmetics to offer a Giveaway Basket to one lucky winner. This giveaway is open to Canadian residents only, 18 years of age and older.

Simply fill out the form below. For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

Age Definer Products for Tired Parents -- Aloisio Cosmetics Giveaway www.sassandsmalls.comContest closes Tuesday, September 15th, 2020– at 11:59PM PST! The winner will be revealed Wednesday, September 16th, 2020!

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What have you done to feel good about yourself during this pandemic? And if you haven’t… what can you promise me you will do?

Be good to yourself and be extra gentle to your skin, it needs some TLC,

Deb B. www.sassandsmalls.com

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Filed Under: Perfection in the Imperfection, Sass & Smalls gets real, self care, stylin' stuff, the everyday Tagged With: age definer, age defining, Aloisio, Anti-aging, beauty, dad life, face, local, moisturizer, mom life, natural, organic, pandemic, parenting, parents, quarantine, regimen, self care, serum, skin care, Toddler

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. nicky says

    September 8, 2020 at 12:21 pm

    To feel better, I’ve asked hubby to care for the kiddos while I go for a bike ride.
    Reply
  2. Carissa says

    September 8, 2020 at 1:20 pm

    During this pandemic the best thing I have done is disconnect from electronics! Staying on my computer and phone has been draining…so I take the time to get off and just BE! We have been going on a lot of walks and that’s been relaxing!
    Reply
  3. Elaine says

    September 8, 2020 at 2:58 pm

    I am a big reader so when I would feel anxious I would just grab a book make a cup of tea and binge read. It has really helped me.
    Reply
  4. Chiell says

    September 8, 2020 at 3:55 pm

    As of lately during this pandemic, starting up my blog, stretching everyday and getting a biz coach has been getting my out of this quarantine funk! Definitely takes a lot of mindset shifting to get that boost of energy!
    Reply
  5. Tasha says

    September 8, 2020 at 3:56 pm

    Products can make you feel so much better and really renew your mood. A long shower + a new product to try afterwards is AMAZING! This looks so good!
    Reply
  6. Heather says

    September 8, 2020 at 7:50 pm

    I need all the help when it comes to my skin. I will definitely check this one out.
    Reply
  7. Lisa says

    September 8, 2020 at 9:12 pm

    I need to be better with serum… I have some but need to use it! These products look really great.
    Reply
  8. thehappymommie says

    September 9, 2020 at 12:31 am

    I started my Blog during the pandemic, I wanted to do it since a long time but never put in much effort, during the lockdowns my husband use to help me around and kept encouraging me to start my own blog and here I am ,
    Reply
  9. Yeah Foodie says

    September 9, 2020 at 2:43 am

    Your post hit the right cord when I read it as I am a parent as well as you said my kids are amazing but they do cause me to have extra lines so this product is something I definitely need to try
    Reply
  10. Talya Stone says

    September 9, 2020 at 5:01 am

    Wizardry on dark circles – now you’re talking! As a tired parent I definitely need some of that in my life. Sounds like a really great range.
    Reply
  11. Kristine Nicole Alessandra says

    September 9, 2020 at 5:57 am

    I bought a weighted hula hoop and two 4 pound dumb bells. I used to walk 5 kms everyday before the quarantine, and since I can’t do that anymore, I opted for a weighted hula hoop and dumb bells instead. I put on my ear buds and listen to dance music while I exercise. It really lifts my mood and keeps me fit.
    Reply
  12. Melissa Cushing says

    September 9, 2020 at 8:08 am

    I am always looking for new skincare products and these look fabulous 🙂 Your skin is amazing and you have a beautiful family. I am entering to try and win. too so thank you for sharing and hosting this amazing giveaway!
    Reply
  13. Melissa Cushing says

    September 9, 2020 at 8:16 am

    I have been walking daily with my dater and also hiking each week at a local state park. Love it and it does make us both feel soooo good 🙂
    Reply
  14. vidya says

    September 9, 2020 at 9:37 am

    books, zumba and gardening for me.. and i love this product (was going to enter the giveaway when i saw the canada only part!)
    Reply
  15. Catherine says

    September 9, 2020 at 10:36 am

    Sounds like a great line of products to try out! You look wonderful!
    Reply
  16. Amber S Battishill says

    September 9, 2020 at 11:08 am

    Both of you have amazing looking skin! I love how easy these products are too use and love the skin tightening aspect of the serum!
    Reply
  17. Tisha says

    September 9, 2020 at 2:11 pm

    I’m always looking for a good age defying face cream! Great giveaway. I love to go hiking to kind of get away…it clears my mind a gives me a nice break.
    Reply
  18. Angeline says

    September 9, 2020 at 4:13 pm

    I love this skin care product and how it caters to moms. Well, I have decided to listen to more audio books to help me have a better perspective. ❤️
    Reply
  19. Traci says

    September 9, 2020 at 7:40 pm

    I’ve decided to invest in some new, high quality pieces for my wardrobe to help feel good during this pandemic. It’s a small thing that goes a long way toward improving my mood and outlook!
    Reply
  20. Sonia Seivwright says

    September 10, 2020 at 12:59 am

    I have spent alot of time working on myself during this pandemic. Its amazing how clear i see life now.
    Reply
  21. Marysa says

    September 10, 2020 at 4:29 am

    I haven’t heard of this cosmetics line before, but I really need to change up my skincare routine and would love to try this.
    Reply
  22. Forever Freckled Blog says

    September 10, 2020 at 4:53 am

    You have incredible and beautiful skin! I keep trying to find me time when I begin to feel overwhelemed, it’s been a tough adjustment since the pandemic started but we have all been finding methods to cope
    Reply
  23. Chantelle says

    September 10, 2020 at 6:12 am

    Working as a nurse during this pandemic has been challenging but I take time every night for myself to do something I enjoy (usually cross-stitching and watching Netflix, haha).
    Reply
  24. Tabby72 says

    September 10, 2020 at 6:35 am

    I’m exercising more and eating well!
    Reply
  25. Angela Duku says

    September 10, 2020 at 6:55 am

    I been doing exercising
    Reply
  26. Marlene V. says

    September 10, 2020 at 7:32 am

    I have taken the dog for more walks during the pandemic. It’s good for them and me!
    Reply
  27. Maria says

    September 10, 2020 at 7:42 am

    I go on my daily walks and love love taking bubble bath
    Reply
  28. Sandra Cairns says

    September 10, 2020 at 7:51 am

    I go for daily hikes to stay healthy and fit.
    Reply
  29. Linda Panchuk says

    September 10, 2020 at 7:58 am

    I have hiked our local trails everyday to get some exercise and fresh air.
    Reply
  30. Donna S says

    September 10, 2020 at 8:22 am

    My partner and I were having difficulties but we sat down and had a real heart-to-heart talk and now we are going strong
    Reply
  31. Emily Mercer says

    September 10, 2020 at 8:35 am

    Go for a hike 🙂
    Reply
  32. DebP says

    September 10, 2020 at 8:53 am

    I had a crooked toe surgically straightened, so now I won’t have to worry about it causing problems when I’m older. I feel good about being proactive about this.
    Reply
  33. Sandra Dufoe says

    September 10, 2020 at 9:13 am

    I have started to eat more healthy, catching up on my reading and having long hot bubble baths when the stress gets to be too much.
    Reply
  34. Lynnie M says

    September 10, 2020 at 10:19 am

    I keep meaning to work out at home, so I’m going to start – I promise!
    Reply
  35. Maureen Anderson says

    September 10, 2020 at 11:08 am

    I’ve been cooking and eating very healthy.
    Reply
  36. Erin says

    September 10, 2020 at 11:37 am

    I have been doing more self-care during this pandemic. It has been great for my mental and physical health! I have been doing skin care, going for long walks, and reading.
    Reply
  37. Calvin says

    September 10, 2020 at 12:07 pm

    Finally got some sun everyday for the past few weeks, hope to get moving a little more.
    Reply
  38. jennifer bowen says

    September 10, 2020 at 1:56 pm

    i really have not been doing much but well just takeing care of my self and family so we dont get sick.
    Reply
  39. Kim M says

    September 10, 2020 at 2:34 pm

    I feel good about losing 17 pounds by cutting out wine and potato chips/popcorn.
    Reply
  40. Theresa C. says

    September 10, 2020 at 3:23 pm

    We are trying to stay healthy and positive during this crazy year! 🙂
    Reply
  41. avm says

    September 10, 2020 at 4:31 pm

    taking a hot bath
    Reply
  42. wendy hutton says

    September 10, 2020 at 7:50 pm

    trying to eat healthy and exercise
    Reply
  43. Shirley O says

    September 10, 2020 at 8:39 pm

    Taking some me time to exercise and to try and eat healthier.
    Reply
  44. Robyn Bellefleur says

    September 10, 2020 at 8:55 pm

    My husband and I have been going around picking up clothes and donations for the shelters in our area during the pandemic.
    Reply
  45. 409cope says

    September 11, 2020 at 8:33 am

    I have taken the time to get back to making jewellery.
    Reply
  46. Mel says

    September 11, 2020 at 9:09 am

    Love this product!
    Reply
  47. Silvia D says

    September 11, 2020 at 9:41 am

    During this pandemic the best thing I have done is go for more walks on our beautiful trails and parks!
    Reply
  48. TERESA says

    September 11, 2020 at 9:45 am

    I haven’t had a chance to do anything for myself during the pandemic. I work in the Health Care field for the Medical Health Officer and have been too busy!
    Reply
  49. Melissa S says

    September 11, 2020 at 10:37 am

    Going for hikes weekly
    Reply
  50. LILLIAN BROWN says

    September 11, 2020 at 2:14 pm

    I have started Chair Yoga classes, These are small classes that follow all the safety guidelines. I feel better and look forward to my classes.
    Reply
  51. Heather Swanson says

    September 11, 2020 at 2:34 pm

    I have volunteered at The Salvation Army thrift store.
    Reply
  52. Julian Saunders says

    September 11, 2020 at 8:54 pm

    I’d like to win this for my gf
    Reply
  53. Lynnie M says

    September 12, 2020 at 4:49 am

    I try to use high quality products on my face, every night, to slow those signs of aging!
    Reply
  54. Patsy says

    September 13, 2020 at 1:42 pm

    Coloured my own hair,it turned out nice 🙂 Thanks!
    Reply
  55. tricia hosking says

    September 13, 2020 at 8:09 pm

    I’ve tried to be kinder to myself – staying in your pajamas for the day is okay – once in a while – especially during covid!
    Reply
  56. Linda says

    September 14, 2020 at 3:56 am

    I’ve been exercising at home to keep my spirits up during the pandemic.
    Reply
  57. Allison Matz says

    September 14, 2020 at 11:20 am

    I have been trying different workout programs.
    Reply
  58. Bobby Vu says

    September 14, 2020 at 7:38 pm

    I’ve continued to play Volleyball outdoors. Getting exercise is so important for a lot of things. The first time I was back on the court, I thought my heart was going to explode. It was beating so fast.
    We were supposed to Stay Home, Not Stay Still and do Nothing at Home. HaHa!
    Reply
  59. Kay Abbott says

    September 15, 2020 at 6:25 am

    I will spend lots of time outdoors, walking, golfing, gardening and playing pickleball
    Reply
  60. Karelia says

    September 15, 2020 at 11:43 am

    I like to get outside (preferably surrounded by trees) and work out. And see my friends! (In a safe way!)
    Reply
  61. Trisha says

    September 15, 2020 at 12:17 pm

    One thing I have been doing is trying to get out for some sort of walk or fresh air each day. Taking a moment of calm in the midst of the chaos.
    Reply
  62. Amber Dawn Tonsi says

    September 15, 2020 at 12:54 pm

    So good to see your beautiful face again!
    Reply
  63. Jennifer says

    September 15, 2020 at 2:41 pm

    I make sure I take a bath weekly and use my nice hair and skin care products!
    Reply
  64. Donna F Doyle says

    September 15, 2020 at 6:40 pm

    I have taken a couple of quilt classes using Zoom. Always fun to learn new techniques.
    Reply
  65. janine a says

    September 15, 2020 at 6:54 pm

    i have done home workouts to feel good
    Reply
  66. Rolyn Novak says

    September 15, 2020 at 9:35 pm

    Thanks for the info! Looks like a great product!!
    Reply
  67. Jenny says

    September 15, 2020 at 10:51 pm

    I want your baby bum skin like you!
    Reply
  68. menowitz says

    November 24, 2020 at 11:31 am

    This is awesome! Been looking for an easier regimen for me and my spouse.
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    • Alizas Note says

      September 3, 2023 at 10:14 am

      Well, I was right there with you. Throughout my journey, I’ve experimented with countless products and routines, learning valuable lessons along the way.
      Reply
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    September 19, 2023 at 1:30 pm

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Everyone celebrates the finished product

But I wanted to celebrate the people who helped create it.

This music video may have my face & voice on it, but it belongs to so many incredible people who gave their time, talent, encouragement and 💗.

From @jakerfilms, who completed 2 seasons of Sass & Small Talk with a bang, producing the most epic rebrand catapulting this whole thing - the very thing I never knew I needed.

To @eric.thebald who shared my vision & skyrocketed it to the next level.
 
To @erinbradleyartist giving my hair & face the ultimate retro beat down, reminiscent of the original Sass 👸🏻 in my life, to my fave @lindakyaw_m who challenged me out of my comfies & into my sass atw from LA 💃

to my leading ladies @rahannavu and @iamharpsra making sure I didn’t walk into a close-up with lipstick on my teeth and a shine on my nose - & hand slapping me if I so much as picked up a prop other than my mic, risking a broken nail or wasting a single breath.

@dn.gib capturing every single moment behind the scenes, so I have something to look back at when I need to remind myself how far we’ve come… 

To @rajinthehouse who proudly clapped the Film Slate like a pro / and looking darn sharp while doing so. 

An entire crew and a small and mighty team showed up simply because they believed in me.

Much more than I believed in myself. 

The laughs.

The nerves.

The tiny moments no one usually sees.

These behind-the-scenes moments are some of my favourite memories because they’re a reminder that none of us create something meaningful alone.

I’ve always said:

It takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise a parent.

Today I’d add one more thing…

It takes a village to help someone find their sass again.

✨ Part 1

➡️ Come back for PT2 where I’ll show you how the magic came together.

🎵 Full music video available on my YouTube:
@sassandsmalls

#Sassandsmalls #bts #MusicVideo  FindYourSass CreatorLife VictoriaBC

Filmed, produced, & edited at @haus.of.owl - special TY to @remy.is.remy for having faith in what started off as a ‘crazy Deb I
Can moms chase big dreams without losing themselve Can moms chase big dreams without losing themselves… or the moments that matter most?

This conversation with the incredibly talented Nina Sinclair of @of.ocean.and.earth.photo challenged me in the best way.

We talked about motherhood, ADHD, entrepreneurship, asking for help, and redefining what success actually looks like.

Maybe “having it all” isn’t about DOING it all.

Both Nina and I learned that the hard way… and we’re sharing how, in this episode - “Modern Motherhood: Can Moms Chase Their Dreams too?”

🎧 Full episode now on YouTube. (link on stories & bio)

#WorkingMom #Mompreneur #ADHDWomen #Motherhood #WomenInBusiness ParentingPodcast VictoriaBC SassAndSmallTalk StoryHive
It’s RAW Deb again 😵‍💫😵‍💫 - sharing her early mor It’s RAW Deb again 😵‍💫😵‍💫 - sharing  her early morning ☀️POV from the trenches… 

I don’t think I’ve ever admitted this out loud…

For years, I convinced myself - I was just “busy.” And that I would be immune to consequences of my questionable habits.

But somewhere along the way…

late-night emotional eating became normal.

Four hours of sleep became normal.

Brain fog became normal.

Running on adrenaline became normal.

I wasn’t thriving.

I was surviving.

So instead of chasing another quick fix…

I decided, “Deb - enough’s enough”… 

With Jac-Lyn from @rewildfunctionalhealth, my hubby @gjavier5, my entire village of mamas and friends - at the sidelines, cheering me on and holding me accountable, It’s time to investigate: 
• My gut.
• My minerals.
• My nervous system.
• My habits.
• My faith.
• My mornings.
• The truth.

I’m not pretending to have the answers.

I’m simply inviting you to watch me find them.

Maybe you’re trying to get your ✨spark back too (@mama_brykin 😉) 

If so…

welcome.

The investigation begins.

☀️

#GettingMySassBack #MentalLoad #GutHealth #ADHDMom #MomLife Healing Journey Morning Routine Brain Fog Functional Health Victoria BC

For “Don’t Think Straight” the 📔 book, follow @jakerfilms. lotsa goodies in there…
I carried so much guilt this past year. June hit I carried so much guilt this past year.

June hit hard. Work. Caregiving. Mental load to the nth degree. End-of-school-year chaos. Health stuff. Heavy news. Financial stress. And loads of the dreaded Mama Guilt - of not being able to celebrate my son’s birthday for the 3rd year in a row due to unforeseen circumstances…

Then another mama, also tired, also busy, also carrying her own invisible load in the realm of business and caregiving, invited my son to join in for her already-planned birthday celebration for HER son…

And even if he was surrounded by new faces in a higher grade - it ended up being everything my son would’ve wanted: laughter, friends - new and old, Nerf battles, a waterslide bouncy castle of his dreams, a killer last minute donut cake tower from @pacificplatterscharcuterie (Thank you to another Mama that gets it!), and memories to last a lifetime…

It reminded me of something I think many of us need to hear:

Leaning on your village doesn’t mean you failed your child.

It means you SHARED a load you were never meant to carry alone.

There is something powerful about mothers who see each other’s invisible load… and quietly decide to help carry it.

The village I needed wasn’t made up of people with more time or more energy.

Sometimes our village looks like another mom simply saying,

“Don’t worry - I gotchu. Let’s do this together.”

And that is more than enough. ❤️

Bless your big, beautiful, busy heart my friend @sarjo08 and @jasonhemz for inviting us and filling my little man’s cup at a time we weren’t as equipped to. He had a blast and absolutely loved celebrating with him and all his friends … ❤️❤️❤️
For years, I honestly thought this was just mother For years, I honestly thought this was just motherhood.

Being exhausted.
Forgetting everything.
Feeling overwhelmed.
Running on caffeine and adrenaline.
Wondering why I never quite felt like me.

A while ago I started working on my gut 🥤health, and for the first time in a long time I noticed little shifts.

• More mental clarity.
• Less brain fog.
• More creativity.
• Better stress resilience.

It made me ask a question I couldn’t stop thinking about…

What if these weren’t just personality flaws or “mom life”?

What if my body had been trying to tell me something all along?

So I’ve decided to stop guessing.

I’m working with @jac-lyn from @rewildfunctionalhealth , a functional health practitioner, to dig deeper, explore root causes, and document the entire process: the wins, the setbacks, and everything in between.

I’m calling this series “Getting My Sass Back” because that’s exactly what it feels like I’m searching for.

Not perfection.

Just me.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve been living in survival mode, I hope you’ll join me.

❤️ The investigation has already begun, and continues - so be sure to subscribe on YouTube (sass and smalls). Some pretty 👀 opening stuff… 

So grateful to you @i_am_miss_jen for the impeccable matchmaking. My health thanks you… 

#GettingMySassBack #FunctionalHealth #HealthJourney GutHealth BrainFog MomLife MentalLoad HealingJourney Women’sHealth HTMATesting VictoriaBC
It happened on Autism Pride Day. — For years, we It happened on Autism Pride Day.

—

For years, we spent so much energy trying to help our daughter fit into a world that wasn’t built for her.

We chased therapies.
We chased milestones.
We chased the idea of what we thought her future was supposed to look like.

Sometimes, if I’m being completely honest, we were trying to fix things we didn’t yet understand.

We heard heartbreaking predictions.

Some professionals told us she would likely never progress beyond the abilities of a five- year-old child.

We were told to prepare for limitations.

We were told to lower our expectations.

What no one told us was that the goal was never to make her more like everyone else.

The goal was to help her find her way to HERSELF.

That shift changed everything.

Over the years, we homeschooled when it was the right fit, even when others questioned it. We searched for programs that understood her. We listened to support workers who saw her strengths. We found camps, social groups, sports programs, and communities where she wasn’t expected to fit into someone else’s mold.

And little by little, she began to thrive.

She found her voice.

She found confidence.

She found belonging.

Most importantly, she found herself.

This year, after finding a school program that truly supports her learning style and focuses on life skills, she said something I will never forget:

“I finally feel like myself, Mommy.”

Those words healed parts of my heart I didn’t even know were still holding their breath.

Because the truth is, I wasn’t waiting for her to become someone different.

I was waiting to know she would be okay.

And she is.

Autism Pride isn’t about pretending there aren’t challenges.

It’s about recognizing that autistic people don’t need to become less autistic to deserve joy, friendship, opportunity, acceptance, or love.

It’s about taking pride in who they are and embracing the community where they belong.

Today, I celebrate my daughter exactly as she is.

She has taught me more about courage, authenticity, resilience, and unconditional love than I could ever teach her.

I am so proud of her.

And if I’m honest, she’s been my teacher all along.
Nine parents. Nine very different stories. (Mine, Nine parents.

Nine very different stories.
(Mine, included).

Military/Naval families. Solo parents. Single parents. Neurodivergent & Profound Needs families. Blended families. Adoptive families. Families navigating loss, burnout, caregiving, infertility, generational trauma, and everything in between.

What surprised me most wasn’t how different we were and how different our journeys were to get here.

It was how much we SHARED in common.

❤️

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk reminded me that behind every smile, every school drop-off, every achievement, and every family photo, there is often a story no one else can see.

And yet, somehow, we keep showing up.

So take that moment to pause, and pat yourself on the back. Better yet, hug a parent in your life, who may be carrying that invisible load too.

It’s a game changer.

@jenny_p1987 
@caarly.xo 
@westislanddesigns 
@drawnpublications 
@nikkye_music 
@of.ocean.and.earth.photo 
@mama_brykin 
@spoletinigiuseppe 
@gjavier5 

Grateful for the platform you provided for us to share our stories @telus @storyhive  @haus.of.owl
FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly mo FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly more than one burntout mom with a microphone and a dream. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Meet the incredible CREW behind Season 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast … the people who made me LOOK good, SOUND good, stay on SCHEDULE, and reminded me to sip on my HAPPY J 🥤. 

Huge thanks to my KILLER 🔥 CREW: @jakerfilms (editor & Sass 🎵 Man/Deb whisperer), @nikkye_music (set designer & Epi 4 Guest that made me 😭), @remy.is.remy (A/V Tech/ Production/ Lifesaver), @eric.thebald (A/V Tech/ Audio Mixer/Dreammaker), @hoelune (Production Assistant/Admin/Best support evah), @gjavier5 (Production Assist/ Moral Support/Lovah ❤️), @esther.driver (Production Assist/ Keep me in check/Mama support), and @telus @storyhive for making this vision into reality.

Special thank you to, Geoff @themurdles 4 keeping this chaos👸🏻 in line, and my 2 Smallies who inspired all of this. 👶🏻👧🏻 Love u 2 the 🌓 and back ♾️.

The GUESTS are AMAZING.
The STORIES are POWERFUL.
The SET is GORG (@haus.of.owl).
And all the episodes will be ONLINE and ready to binge TOMORROW - JUNE 16, 2026 on YOUTUBE!

It takes a VILLAGE to raise a child AND a PODCAST. 🎙️

Thanks my #BTS CREW, for being mine…

Ima go and cry myself to sleep now. I’m the luckiest & most exhausted 😴 Pod-Mom Host in the 🌎. Love you all too much. 

#humbled #letsgooooo
Behind every Momfluencer… It’s still the month of Behind every Momfluencer…

It’s still the month of May, the month moms get their Hallmark spotlight - So in honour of that, I wanted to share a little story.

When I first moved from LA to Victoria as a new mom and began building my brand online from home, I struggled with finding a true sense of belonging. I never felt like I fully belonged in the “mom world”, especially in a new community, not fully in the creative world, and definitely not in the often viral-chasing digital world I could never seem to keep up with.

Ironically, I was a “part” of everything but belonged to nothing.

…or so I thought.

As I opened myself up to the many communities WITHIN my community, I realized something:

The moment I stopped trying to “fit in” and leaned into who I actually am… that’s when everything changed.

And that’s what I love most about this group of women featured by @islandparent Magazine — in all the ways we are different, we are also one and the same.

Different voices. Different lives. Different ways of showing up for the world.

But all rooted in connection, creativity, community, and a deep love for our families.

Beyond being “mamas of influence,” these women use their platforms while opening their hearts and homes.

Some share family life tips, recipes, wellness journeys, sandwich gen truths, and initiate mental health conversations.
Some inspire through faith, fashion, creativity, gardening, travel, and outdoor adventures.
Some advocate fiercely for neurodivergent children while navigating neurodivergence themselves.

Some use storytelling, humour, or podcasts 😉 to help other parents feel seen and less alone.

And somehow, in between school pickups, medical appointments, assessment forms, homemaking, caregiving, and late nights searching for a little silence and brain clarity after long days of “othering” — we are building businesses, brands, and meaningful lives for our families.

We cheer each other on. 
We lift each other up.

And in finding my place within this realm of motherhood… I found home.

“It takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise the parent.” 

#MomsSupportingMoms #VancouverIslan
POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast FULL TILT… but your ADHD brain 🧠 chimed in:

“might as well just release a whole song while we’re at it” 🤷🏻‍♀️

So now my Auntie Norma 🇵🇭 can stream me on Spotify while she washes dishes 😂 #winwin (but still… #whatjusthappened)

Meanwhile:
🏠 messy house
🎥 unfinished podcast clips
🧺 laundry mountain thriving in the background

BUT ANYWAYYYY—

🎧 “I Need My Sass Back” is now streaming on Spotify, iTunes, Amazon Music & everywhere you listen to music 

Your fault, @jakerfilms for writing the darn thing in the first place… 🤣 #dontthinkstraight

Full video link is in my bio if you want the whole vibe 🎬
Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/h Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/how to actually WATCH this podcast I keep talking about… 😂

So here’s how to find @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Seasons 1 & 2 on TELUS Optik TV + Stream+ Ch.9 

And yes… I said TV. 📺 
(“Mom! Look! I’m on tv!” And yes… I did that too… 🤣🤣)

**Thnx to TELUS @storyhive  for making it possible!!

And until June… it will ONLY be available to those who have @telus as their provider or have access to Stream+ & OptikTV, then it will be out in the interwebs for all to see. 👀

My little podcast-that-could is up and running, alive & streaming. Just search within the app on your TELUS TV, “StoryHive Sass”

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk features raw, meaningful conversations with the many faces of parenthood in our beautiful city, here on Vancouver Island (and beyond), caregivers, creatives, and changemakers carrying the mental load, navigating real life parenting, with honesty and heart. I promise you won’t be disappointed…

Featuring guests including @spoletinigiuseppe, @nikkye_music, @of.ocean.and.earth.photo, and more beautiful humans this season. 

MEET MY VILLAGE… 

Be sure to watch our Music vid tribute on YouTube to all of my guests from THEIR kids and I. Find, like, & Subscribe on YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls ALSO NOW AVAILABLE On Spotify and Apple Music/Itunes! 

#ParentingPodcast #CanadianPodcast #TELUSStoryhive #NeurodivergentParenting #mentalloadofparenting
MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a little help from THEIR kids.. 

I didn’t expect this to actually work…

⸻

For the past few weeks, I’ve been working quietly on something really special — a surprise for every guest who’s ever been part of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast… from my Zoom OGs - circa 2022, to my TELUS @storyhive ⁠seasons on the tube 📺, to my crew/village/emotional support squad.

What started as a gift — a piece of music from my out-of-the-box-thinker & editor @jakerfilms, turned into something SO. MUCH. MORE. MEANINGFUL.

With the help of my incredible creative village at @haus.of.owl @remy.is.remy, led by the big beautiful brain 🧠 of Eric Hinch @eric.thebald, my Director 👏🏼🎬 Hinchalot Films (www.filmnow.ca), and the talented Dan @dn.gib & @erinbradleyartist 💄, we brought it to life!

… but the part that gets me right in the gut??

THE SMALLIES…. THESE KIDS….

The very kids who made all of us parents in the first place — including mine, who aren’t normally THIS comfortable “performing” in front of a camera.

Kids who have felt burnout.
Kids who have felt misunderstood.
Neurodivergent kiddos that hold a special place in my ❤️.

Kids who showed up anyway — with courage, joy, and love — to help me create something meaningful for their parents.

And somewhere in all of this…

I found my way back to me.

Back to music.
Back to creativity.
Back to MY SASS.
‘cuz isn’t this what Sass & Small Talk is all about?

⸻

This video is for my village.
For the parents.
For the kids.
For anyone who’s ever felt like they lost a part of themselves along the way.

⸻

👉 The full video is now on YouTube at https://m.youtube.com/@sassandsmalls
(Link in bio)

** Watch and feel COMMUNITY IN ACTION. Gosh - I love you guys!

Ps… If this resonates - keep up with new episodes already streaming on TELUS STORYHIVE - by liking & Subscribing!

“Cuz it Takes a village to raise a child. 

And a community, to raise their parent”

⸻

#SassAndSmallTalk #ParenthoodUnfiltered #MentalLoad MomLife FindYourselfAgain CreativeMom Storytelling VillageSupport TELUSStoryHive @hoelune @rahannavu @iamharpsra @rajinthehouse @lindakyaw_m @nengineermom @i_am_miss_jen @esther.driver
JENN. Meet my village… There are episodes… and th JENN. Meet my village…

There are episodes…
and then there are stories that change your life forever.

This one is both.

She’s not just my guest.
She’s the woman who offered a piece of herself… when our world was falling apart.

Because of her, we have our son.
Because of her, our family feels whole. 

And watching this back—seeing her complete her family too…
full circle doesn’t even begin to cover it.

I wasn’t planning to share this moment.
But this is what this season is about.

The real stories.
The unseen moments of a mama sitting in her living room after the kids are asleep. 
The love that carries families through the unimaginable.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really looks like behind the scenes of motherhood, loss, and rebuilding…

This episode is for you. 🤍

🎧 Episode 1 is out now. 

TELUS OptikTV StoryHive gave me the platform to share these meaningful stories. 

Because it takes a Village to Raise a child. And a community to raise their parent. 
#eggdonor #chosenfamily #infertility #ittakesavillage #mentalload
Meet My Village 🤍 IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!! Season 2 of Meet My Village 🤍

IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!!

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk, filmed at @haus.of.owl studios, on @StoryHive, Sponsored by TELUS, IS HERE 

… and these are the faces behind the real, raw, and beautiful stories of the mental load of parenting.

From Victoria, and beyond, each guest shares how they carry it all… and keep showing up.

Featuring a very special first episode close to my heart… and a full-circle finale with a dear childhood friend now gracing the stages of NYC - you won’t want to miss.

🎬 Watch now on TELUS Optik TV (Channel 9 On Demand) + Stream+

Let’s support local stories, local voices, and the village that holds us all.

Because it takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise their parent.

#SassAndSmallTalk #StoryHive #MeetMyVillage
Easter used to feel like pressure: The perfect m Easter used to feel like pressure: 

The perfect meal. 
The perfect table. 
The kids sitting through the meal and actually eating it. 
The food not burning.

And somehow… still ending the day exhausted, touched out, and a little resentful… 

This year, I let go. I had no choice… with the launch of the new season on the pod, I had to choose my battles…

My 7-year-old — my busy, high-energy, “maybe not spaghetti” kid — decided he was making “superrrrr spaghetti.”
His way. 
His ideas. 
His “special ingredients.”

Was it messy? Yep.
Was it chaotic? Absolutely.
Was it perfect? Not even close.

But something shifted.

He took ownership.
He created.
He plated dinner like a little chef with a vision (volcano spaghetti and all 🌋🍝).

And he was SO proud.
And me?
I rested. I watched. I let go of control — and the mental load that usually comes with it.

THIS is what I’m learning:
• The more we try to control everything, the heavier it gets for us… and the less space our kids have to rise.

• When we let them lead (in age-appropriate ways), they don’t just help… they LEAD.

More pride.
More participation.
More appreciation.
More connection.
Less perfection. 
More magic.
** BONUS: and less craving for screen time #winwin

This wasn’t the Easter dinner I would’ve planned…but it’s the one we’ll actually remember ❤️

Taking a page outta your book @anna_skates ❤️❤️
Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where they’re at. Embrace the chaos, the messy experiments, the unrelenting curiosity. Let their 🧠 do its thing and step aside to see the magic.

Took me an entire lifetime to figure it out:
• Spent all of my childhood trying to “fit in”
• Struggled to mask but did it anyway 
• Met a boy. Also a creative and professional masker.
• Took a “creative” path less travelled as young adult on a one way flight to LA
• Loved life. 
• Received negative feedback from well-intentioned naysayers and loved ones
• Felt shame for not hitting the markers 
• Became a mom. 
• Read ALLLL the parenting books. 
• Spent over a decade fighting against my  first born’s “artist” brain and finding ways to “fix” what was not even broken
• Hated conforming and made some pivots while wearing metaphorical headphones to block out opinions/outside noise
• Loved Life 
• Had my youngest little man - came out of womb loud, intentional, & unapologetic 
• Threw out all parenting books and accepted the beautiful neurodivergent 🧠s taking over our entire household
• Gave both kids creative freedoms and stepped aside (mostly not intentionally. they’re too fast and I’m too old) 
• Learned how to celebrate the curious, comical, and weirdly wired brains that is our family. 
• Let my kids teach ME to have courage, think differently, and not just take the road less travelled - but actually #owningit
• Jumped into creating my own #podcast headfirst and never looked back

“Don’t Think Straight”, by Jacob Insley, is definitely one of our go-tos I’ll be keeping on my bookshelf for years to come. 

@jakerfilms you killed it with all these nuggets and takeaways! We’re all fighting for a turn to read - look at you causing ruckus in our home!?! 🤣 PS - My little guy requests to be in your 2nd book. 🤣🤣

#bebold #getmysassback #create
Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. It’s been a bitter swe Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. 

It’s been a bitter sweet one this year. But we are working through Grief that will never go away. Especially on milestone days like this. 

Not only is it Dad Felix’s first Heavenly Birthday (Valentine’s Day), it’s also a day we lost our 6th pregnancy before we finally had our little guy. I truly believe Dad is as much present with our babies in heaven, as he is with his 4 Grandkids on earth. 

There’s healing in loving family. Thank you for your constant reminders of this Dad/Grandpa Felix. We miss you so much. 

#sandwichgeneration #caregiving #family #multigenerational
It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. When our f It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. 

When our first family friendly white 🥼 party turns into a full blown midlife crisis.🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

(And no… he is NOT okay)… 🤣🤣

#thisis50
#dadlife  #unclelife
#GenXLife
#ParentingMoments 
#TheyGrowUpFast 
#RealLifeParents
#riuwhiteparty
#mexico
#dinerenblanc
He turned 50. Shouting it from the rooftops was no He turned 50.
Shouting it from the rooftops was not an option, so naturally - we had it announced at 40,000 feet ✈️🎂

For context:
This man avoids attention like it’s turbulence.

This??
Actual NIGHTMARE. 😂🤣🤣

But after a rough year of loss, change, and having to step up in so many facets, he deserved a little LOUD love. 📣🎉🥳

Happy 50th to the man I’ve loved for more than half his life.
You chose me, chaos and all… so really, this one’s on you. 😉😉

Thanks @flairairlines for this unforgettable #birthday moment.

If you’ve got a second, send this sweet, shy 50-year-old young man some love… he’ll be back to low-key status in about 72 hours. ⏰💛

@gjavier5 💙💜

#ThisIs50
#50thBirthday 
#MarriageHumor 
#RealLifeMoments 
#PlaneAnnouncement 
#MilestoneBirthday 
#LoveInTheMiddle 
#LifeLately 
#ImperfectAndReal 
#FamilyLife 
#Grief
#caregiving
#GenX
#sandwichgeneration 
#ReelsThatMakeYouSmile
Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — an Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. Also Me: 🎥📹🔦 Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

********************

Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam an 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
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