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NDOTO SAVES THE… NIGHT: Sweet Dreams – Review & Giveaway Worldwide

February 16, 2015 By Deb B. 63 Comments

Ahhhh…. Sleep. Sweet, sweet, wonderful sleep.

Something we never get enough of – and I’m speaking on behalf of most parents I know. More specifically, I am speaking about this little person…

Night Night, Sweet Dreams Ndoto Textile Designs  www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

She is smiling like there’s no tomorrow, because she is content, and… rested.

Today.

Not yesterday. Today.

Why? Because for the past 3.75 years, due to our frequent travel schedules, challenging transition between attachment parenting and self soothing, overall erratic scheduling, night wakings (and by night wakings, I mean nightLY wakings – every night), mama’s lack of sleep (turns out, someone is so tuned into her mommy’s sleep schedule, she actually picked up some of my bad sleeping habits) – we have had our share of sleep-related issues in our home.

And then… this happened.

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Our friends at Ndoto gave us the best advice and the best gift of all.

The gift of sleep. Cozy, organic (literally), peaceful sleep.

Ironically, Michal Tidhar, the brilliance behind Ndoto (and also a mom, not surprisingly), fulfilled her ‘dream’ of developing a unique textile design brand, and helped us achieve ours.

It has been our dream to put our sleep-fighting, attached-to-mommy-at-the-hip-especially-at-bedtime 3 year old, down for sleep, without the struggles, and it has pretty much taken us all 3.75 years. We have always been fans of the family bed, and we still love our nightly and morning snuggles. However, it has only recently dawned on us that much of our sleep deprivation was caused… well… by each other. Either, someone‘s foot was kicking another someone else’s eye sockets, or someone would suddenly whip her head to the side and bang right into another someone’s head, or, and more often than not, someone decides to simply turn over, which wakes all the other someones up.

We needed to find another solution. We would either get a bigger bed for the three of us, or we were to give our favorite little someone her own space at night.

So we gave it a try.

And failed.

And then we tried again.

And we failed once again.

We tried every sleep training handbook we could get our tired little hands on and every consultant we could get in touch with (and afford). But nothing worked! We just surrendered to the fact that we were going to be sleeping with our daughter until the day she gets married (and by the looks of it – I don’t even know if that is going to happen – my apologies to her future partner). This has just become our life. And I just had to accept it, right?

However, after the 1,369th day of night wakings, interrupted mommy and daddy Netflix time, and a whole lot of excuses – we decided to take the bull by the horn (or should we say, the bed by the thread?), and do something drastic. We got little mama a bed to call her own. And as a cherry on top, we dressed it up with the beautiful, ridiculously soft, high quality fabrics that is Ndoto (which, in Swahili, means “dreams” – how fitting).

And what a dream it was.

Soft to the touch, unique hand drawn patterns made of organic dyes, and a color palette that doesn’t scream “WAKE UP!” “STAY AWAKE!” “JUMP ON THE BED!” – like most of the beddings out there for kids. No. These neutral tones and modern blends succeed in their claim of providing a relaxing and delicate feel for the best sleep.

Does this not beckon for you to come take a nap?

Night Night, Sweet Dreams Ndoto Textile Designs  www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Night Night, Sweet Dreams Ndoto Textile Designs  www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Little mama even insisted on adding her own leaf to the scene, as all the stars in the galaxy needed protection from the rain. (Yes, who am I to argue with an imaginative 3 year old?)

Night Night, Sweet Dreams Ndoto Textile Designs  www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Manufactured in Israel and available on Etsy worldwide, these beddings have definitely become one of our once sleep-deprived family’s hidden gems when it comes to good, solid, independent sleep.

Not to mention, spritely mornings…

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And will you look at that? It even matches with LD‘s sleepwear! Win-win!

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We love the modern feel and the neutral styles that can absolutely fit any baby nursery or kid’s room.

 

Ndoto Bedding Set Styles www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

 

Every set includes a printed pillow case, a printed duvet cover, and a solid fitted sheet that fits either a crib or toddler bed mattress. With the 100% Egyptian cotton Jersey stretch, it’s no wonder little mama wakes up with a big smile on her face.

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Even the packaging is flawless.

Ndoto Bedding Set Packaging www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

There is even a fort kit for kids to enjoy and tire them out errr… I mean, inspire imaginative play!

Ndoto Fort Kit www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

As I write this, LD is getting snuggly in her new bedding while I am beside myself in wonder. All it took was a box of dreams and a little touch of faith – and now we are all one big, sleeping, family with a whole other set of dreams to follow.

Night Night, Sweet Dreams Ndoto Textile Designs  www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

But you know us – we would be up all night, tossing and turning, if we didn’t give our wonderful readers a chance to win a set of their own!

*****IT’S TIME FOR A GIVEAWAY*****

We partnered up with our friends at Ndoto, for a fabulous, luxurious, and may I add… necessary giveaway of a special gift of sweet dreams to one stylin’ winner! To enter for the chance to win, simply fill out the form below!  For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Contest closes March 5th 2015 – at 11:59PM! The winner will be revealed March 6th 2015! We all want our Valentine Sweethearts to get a beautiful sleep, don’t we? Good Luck!

~ The LOOK:: Want it? GET it! ~ 

Bedding:: Ndoto Galaxy Bedding Set

Room Decor:: Boon Glo Nightlight with Portable Balls

Jellycat Bashful Monkey Medium 12″

Top:: Target “Cutie” Sweatshirt ~ (similar Diesel Hoodie here)

Bottom:: Roots 73 Star Leggings ~ (similar Nununu Girls’ Star Leggings here)

Accessories:: Born to Love Black Rib Visor Beanie

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About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Brenda Lacourciere says

    February 17, 2015 at 8:58 am

    Our struggle is fear of the dark and we use a nightlight.
    Reply
    • debalino says

      March 7, 2015 at 12:29 am

      We use the Boon Glo Nightlight too and it does wonders especially during night wakings. We find night lights to be somewhat bright – so we love that we can dim it once she’s already asleep.
      Reply
  2. Bonnie Way says

    February 17, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    This is AWESOME! I’m so glad you found something that works!!! I’m working on getting my almost two-year-old to sleep on her own too. We just moved her from her playpen/crib into a toddler mattress (currently on the floor). I spent a couple weeks fighting her about NOT nursing at night (she gets breastmilk to go to sleep, and breastmilk in the morning, and not in between) and now for the most part, she is going down at 7 pm and getting up around 6:30 am. HURRAH! 🙂 Now I’m off to check out some nicer bedding for her… 🙂
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    • debalino says

      March 7, 2015 at 12:31 am

      Such a great idea to move the mattress to the floor! I think I snagged the idea of the protective rail on the toddler bed from one of your posts! It’s amazon that she’s asleep by 7p and up at 630a!!! You are obviously doing something right 🙂
      Reply
  3. Jennifer Banks says

    February 18, 2015 at 2:13 am

    My oldest boy is a lot like me…never wants his days to end. My youngest has been a good sleeper his whole life and enjoys bedtime.
    Reply
  4. Gingermommy says

    February 17, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    This is super cute! Always looking for new bedding for my little one
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    • debalino says

      March 7, 2015 at 12:32 am

      Isn’t it adorable? It’s true – the bedding search for the kids is as much work as looking for the perfect bedding for myself!
      Reply
  5. Sarah at Journeys of The Zoo says

    February 17, 2015 at 7:41 pm

    First of all, congratulations to all of you for getting a good nights sleep and finding a solution that works for you.

    Fortunately, our kids aren’t in school so they go to bed when they want to go to bed. Only a handful of times have they stayed up really late. However, after a certain point, we tell them that we’re tired and if they want to be tucked in and/or have a book that it’s time. Letting them think it’s their idea seems to work 😉 Relieved to know that I’m still smarter than my kids. For now.

    I love morning snuggles!

    Besos, Sarah
    Journeys of The Zoo
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    • debalino says

      March 7, 2015 at 12:37 am

      I LOVE that method – Letting them think its their idea! Of course it works! These smart little people need their independence and I can see it happen successfully when us parents loosen up a bit. I know i have been so anxious and stressed about it – and as soon as I just eased up on bedtime (as far as pressure on myself for doing the right things or actually sticking to her schedule during the day and at bedtime, and pressure on her to sleep successfully) – she seemed to be less resistant when it came to bed.

      I love morning snuggles too!!

      Reply
  6. Elizabeth L says

    February 17, 2015 at 7:43 pm

    Right now we are struggling with getting our 3 year old to stay in bed!
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  7. Jennifer Van Huss says

    February 18, 2015 at 3:47 am

    I have been VERY VERY lucky!!! My kids can't wait to go to sleep! Most of the time they stay asleep all night! This bedding however looks like something I need for DH who on the other hand, NEVER sleeps!
    Reply
  8. Kimberly says

    February 18, 2015 at 4:13 am

    Our little girl is a monkey and learned how to climb out of her crib waaaay too early (around 14 months). After she could escape, she wouldn’t go to bed without a fight. We started letting her come in our room and we move her to her own room once she is asleep. It’s not perfect, but it is working for us for now.
    Reply
  9. Randa @ TBK says

    February 18, 2015 at 8:32 am

    I’m really struggling with getting him to bed. It’s a constantly battle, I’m not too sure how to overcome this one.
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  10. Little Miss Kate & Co says

    February 18, 2015 at 4:49 pm

    Love the nice neutral colour of the bedding. We are just about to do a switch around in our house moving my toddler to a bed, and giving the baby the crib. Maybe a new bedding set would help make the transition a little easier!
    Reply
  11. Steph M says

    February 18, 2015 at 5:56 pm

    Our 11mo doesn’t like to go to sleep well. We aren’t really sure what to do with her right now! Some nights she’s great and drifts off on her own; other nights she screams and cries until we pick her up and snuggle her to sleep. Our oldest two weren’t like this at all!
    Reply
  12. Jessica says

    February 18, 2015 at 6:12 pm

    Right now our biggest struggle is our daughter climbing out of her crib. We need to get her a big girl bed asap.
    Reply
  13. Rebecca Orr says

    February 19, 2015 at 2:31 pm

    We co-slelpt with our daughter until she was 2.5 and I was pregnant with our third. My husband HATED it. She was still nursing and would nurse ALL NIGHT LONG. She would kick him out of bed. When she was 2.5, we decided no more nursing and no more sleeping with mom and dad. It was great for the first two nights (happened to be a weekend) when Daddy was home and was the enforcer! Then daddy went back to work (he was working the 3rd shift) and I became a sucker and allowed her into the bed so I didn’t have to listen to the heartbreaking tears and cries for me. So needless to say, she is now almost 3.5 and we still have tears. She has her own bed…in our room. She uses her leftover crib sheets and her brothers hand-me-down comforter from his twin bed. It’s not really her own. I bet if she had some pretty bedding of her own, she would be more willing to sleep in her bed.
    Reply
  14. Lynn Clayton says

    February 21, 2015 at 12:09 am

    my son hates the dark so we need to keep the ;ight on night lights dont work. he then wants to play. its a real strugle
    Reply
  15. Lisa A. says

    February 20, 2015 at 5:10 pm

    The biggest problem I have is trying to get her to go to sleep, of course. She’s a procrastinator! We will read, and read, and read until we’re both exhausted. LOL! It’s a great problem to have…her wanting to keep reading instead of going to sleep. That’s my girl! 🙂
    Reply
  16. Andrea Amy says

    February 21, 2015 at 6:20 pm

    My youngest son still refuses to sleep on his own. He falls asleep in our bed, we move him to his own bed but he wakes up 3-4 times a night and if he wakes up and is in his own bed he comes into bed with us. Because of this we get very little sleep. He's almost 5, and its a struggle. If he would just sleep through the night without waking then it wouldn't be an issue, but he's never slept through the night without waking so far.
    Reply
  17. Jodi Mitrovic says

    February 22, 2015 at 5:44 am

    My Husband and I have recently welcomed our very first LO into the world. Living a whole 3 months and 5 days I have to admit that he’s slept with me very night. Maybe it’s because we tried so hard for him. Maybe it’s because it took so long to meet him or maybe it’s simply because he’s just so darn adorable. I know it’s bad, I know it goes against every article I’ve read and every mom I’ve talked to but I just can’t bring myself to be away from him! I even lie when I’m asked about our sleeping arrangements and I’m not even sure why! It’s my son, my family and my bed! I know without certainty this will cause us great stress in the future but I just can’t let go yet. I place him in his crib, I tell myself tonights the night but he looks so small and venerable there in that big crib all by himself and without missing a beat it’s off to bed we go! But you’re right and I know it! Even as I read your words I’m shaking my head and nodding in agreement. We are our own worst sleep issues. I’ve begged for a bigger bed (falling on deaf ears) I wake up sideways with a hand in my face and a knee in my back! Refreshed? Hardly! Thanks for a great review and giveaway! I enjoyed it very much!
    Reply
  18. Amy Rouse says

    February 23, 2015 at 11:01 pm

    I never really had any problems. They all were so worn out at the end of the day (I kept them pretty active) that they were ready for bed.
    Reply
  19. Jenn H says

    February 24, 2015 at 7:26 am

    we had an issue with getting to sleep at a reasonable time. it was hard for my 2yr old to wind down so we started a routine that began right after dinner (late in my house due to work hours) and that has helped tremendously!
    Reply
  20. Krista M says

    February 24, 2015 at 2:13 pm

    My son was having troubles going to sleep but a very strict CONSISTENT routine worked for us. No toys or anything stimulating in his room. Snack, warm bath, brush teeth, read a bedtime story, and lights out. Very calming activities which relax him & he goes to sleep like an angel now!
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  21. angela m says

    February 25, 2015 at 11:58 am

    My daughter wanted to sleep with me after waking up in the middle of the night. I just kept taking her back to her room and telling she had to stay in her own bed
    Reply
  22. Nate Fuller says

    February 25, 2015 at 9:18 pm

    For awhile my son (age3) would get me to lay down with him until he fell asleep, which caused me to fall asleep many nights at 8:30!
    Reply
  23. Dawn Monroe says

    February 25, 2015 at 3:47 pm

    Right now I am struggling with her going to sleep at regular bedtime. They have cancelled school 8 out of the last 10 days and now we are all out of sync.
    Reply
  24. bilqees bano says

    February 25, 2015 at 10:38 pm

    I am very lucky..he sleeps very fastly every time 🙂
    Reply
  25. Tina F says

    February 25, 2015 at 10:52 pm

    The issue I had was keeping my kids in their beds So many nights when they were first in their own beds many many many nights I had to go in their rooms maybe 15-20 times a night and put them back into their beds
    Reply
  26. Ehara Poetry says

    February 26, 2015 at 5:39 pm

    i have 2 son, age 7 & 5, they sleep in same room, both is very afraid to dark, they always sleep with light on. They also very afraid of ghost story, I must wait at their room until they sleep. I try change the room ligthing with sleep lamp plus glow in the dark sticker, but I still must waiting at their room..haha
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  27. Holly Wright says

    February 26, 2015 at 11:34 am

    The bedtime struggles I have with my little ones is that they DONT WANT TO GO TO BED! I have to deal with this nightly, although a warm bath, book and a back rub help! My 3 B’s
    Reply
  28. Marie S says

    February 26, 2015 at 7:46 pm

    My little does not want to go to bed at all. she would throw everything out of the bed. she now had her good days and bad days still.
    Reply
  29. Marta A Bilingual Baby blog says

    February 26, 2015 at 10:49 pm

    Hi there! Bedtime struggles have always been there. I wish I had a solution to share…
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  30. Amy Heffernan says

    February 27, 2015 at 11:40 am

    My lil guy always had a sleeping problem. I found ROUTINE works best for him. Bath then story!
    Reply
  31. Bailey Dexter says

    February 27, 2015 at 2:41 pm

    So far , we need a music on to keep him from being playful at bedtime. but other than that so far all good. But he is only little still!
    Reply
  32. Isa Val says

    February 27, 2015 at 8:47 pm

    Love the nice neutral colour of the bedding, thanks for chance.

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  33. Tennille says

    February 27, 2015 at 9:04 pm

    I am pretty lucky that my boys are good sleepers but I knew pretty quick that if I wanted to be a good mommy (as in not a huge cranky bitchy mama) I needed to sleep well. If mommy is well rested everyone has a better day! So in order for me to be well rested I am pretty strict with bedtime rules! My boys each get stories and snuggles and love but I don’t want any BS-just go to bed!
    Reply
  34. Anne says

    February 28, 2015 at 1:18 am

    Such a precious giveaway! Would love to win as this beautiful prize will guarantee sweet dreams for my little one! Xx
    Reply
  35. Coline T. says

    February 28, 2015 at 5:58 am

    I never really had any problems, they enjoy bedtime because it’s time to tell stories 😉
    thanks for this lovely giveaway ♥
    Reply
  36. Piroska says

    February 28, 2015 at 8:51 am

    I had problems with both of my boys (hyperactive little dudes), but my last one, a girl, was a dream from the beginning. She loved bed. Bedtime. Naps. She loved stuffies and blankies. Loved to read in bed. Play in bed. Totally different from the boys!
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  37. Amy C says

    February 28, 2015 at 9:39 pm

    My son does not like the dark. We are still struggling with that one but we have recently received a Twilight Turtle Tunes T3. It seems to be helping a lot.
    Reply
  38. Angela Bennett says

    March 1, 2015 at 12:17 pm

    Our struggle at bed time is that my daughter loves to read before bed but being an avid reader she often gets carried away and will read so long that she goes to bed later than she should.
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  39. Holly Thomas says

    March 1, 2015 at 8:25 pm

    I have issues with my kids refusing to sleep in their own rooms. They both sleep out on the couches instead, and most of the time during the night they end up in our bed and I have to put them back out on the couch. I was hoping the older they got the better they would be about sleeping in their own room but it's not getting any better. My son had never slept in a crib, he slept on my chest for the first year of his life every single night, so I know that's what his problem is (he is now 4). My daughter slept in a crib in her own room for the first 2 years, now she's only 2 1/2 but she's old enough now where she sees that her brother don't sleep in his room so she sleeps out on the couch too!
    Reply
  40. Karine says

    March 1, 2015 at 5:03 pm

    Getting my nephews to go to bed is always difficult but probably because it’s out of their routines when I babysit them.
    Reply
  41. Roberta says

    March 1, 2015 at 7:39 pm

    where to start lol usually I start off with a bath and teeth brushing, story in bed and a snack. Mainly that works but if not we give him a show on the iPhone to watch on his bear itech. Not really a struggler lol goes to bed great. Except on the occasional cranky nights. (:
    Reply
  42. Sarh Snarski says

    March 3, 2015 at 9:34 am

    I have a 3 yo son who refuses to go to sleep til daddy gets home at 11:30p, which wouldn't be an issue, but I also have a 4.5 yo son in school and they end up horsing around (yelling back and forth across the house, chasing each other, etc) and then my 4.5yo doesn't want to wake in the am… :/ No solution yet… I can't exactly duck tape their mouths. :p
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  43. Angela W says

    March 3, 2015 at 7:08 am

    We can get our daughter, who is three, to sleep in a bed for a few hours but not throughout the entire night.
    Reply
  44. Paula Caudill says

    March 4, 2015 at 8:25 pm

    Getting the children to bed has been a issue, but I found that baths work really well.
    Reply
  45. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:11 pm

    It absolutely does! They take so much pride in choosing their own brand new linens and it helps that it's super cozy.
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  46. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:12 pm

    You are SO.LUCKY. Kids who love sleep? What IS that? haha. I don't even know what life with that concept means. Haha! Sounds like DH needs some new linens 🙂
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  47. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:14 pm

    That can't possibly be easy for any of you. The winding down process before bed is already tough enough – but with 2 different schedules, I can totally see how stressful this could be. Does your 3 year old also wake up the same time as your 4.5 year old school son?
    Reply
  48. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:18 pm

    We had a chest sleeper too. I loved it at the time, and thought for sure we found the secret sauce to life – She was a beautiful sleeper after all! But then when we attempted to change up the sleeping arrangements – it was a long, stressful, expensive, and sleep deprived process. I had to wait until she was ready to see and enjoy the benefits of her own bed and linens to actually replace being close to mom at bedtime. Prior to that, nothing even came close. But secretly… I loved it 🙂
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  49. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:19 pm

    YES. I find myself skipping the baths and going straight to a quick wash, and on those particular nights, it's hard to get her back to a calm ready-for-sleep state. I'm always just so worried about drying her skin.
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  50. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:27 pm

    I know exactly how that feels about having to stay in the room until she's sleepy enough to let me go without resistance. I know for myself – I'm still not a huge fan of darkness, which is why we have the glow night lamp. It's dim enough so it doesn't prevent her from actually falling asleep, but bright enough to drive away some of the scary darkness stuff. 🙂
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  51. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:27 pm

    Music is great. Whatever works to wind them down for bedtime.
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  52. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:28 pm

    LOVE routine. My little one actually looks at her chart and enjoys telling us what's next. And she's so proud of herself when she follows the routine – and actually corrects me when I skip a step or two 🙂
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  53. babystylista says

    March 5, 2015 at 8:30 pm

    STORY of MY LIFE!! Yes – I had to lay beside her until she fell asleep and it was just oozy to get out of bed. But then I missed out on some quality time with the husband and my own plans. Which meant a messy house, no books read in years, and no primetime tv for this mama.
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  54. Cynthia Cotton says

    March 5, 2015 at 9:26 pm

    With 4 really young kids (the eldest turns 6 today!) and all 4 of them sharing a room, bedtime is usually us lying down with the kids and passing out in their beds! 🙂 Then we usually play bed hopping through the night. Usually the 2 older ones sleep through the night though.
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  55. babystylista says

    March 7, 2015 at 8:21 am

    This is EXACTLY our story. Our little one could sleep through the night so long as she's right up next to me. She could fall asleep in her own bed, but still had the tendency to wake up and beckon for one of us to come and tend to her, namely me. We needed to find the solution to get her to stay in her own bed and not wake up every time she stirred. Sigh. I hope your nights get better…
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  56. babystylista says

    March 7, 2015 at 8:22 am

    SO SO SO jealous! So great that you keep them so active during the day!
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  57. babystylista says

    March 7, 2015 at 8:24 am

    Darkness. Ugh. That's even tough for me. And night lights don't work? Have you tried the Boon Glo night light with the white stand and the three illuminated balls? It changes color and your little one can take it off the stand and it glows neon green. We love it, and it works really well to keep the room as bright or as dim as you want it to be, without any heat emitted. I have the link above.
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  58. babystylista says

    March 7, 2015 at 8:26 am

    Isn't it interesting to have two different types of sleepers – both raised in the same house with the same types of routines? My daughter is like me as well – and we both think the days are MUCh too short!
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  59. babystylista says

    March 7, 2015 at 8:27 am

    Isn't it beautiful? We love that we can use this for her, and then if we even have a second or third child and it turns out to be a boy – then we can still make such great use of it! Plus it's so easy to coordinated with everything! 🙂
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Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

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Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_ 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
11 years ago, we lost our little Lucy. 🤍 And f 11 years ago, we lost our little Lucy. 🤍 
And for 11 years since, I lost a little bit of me. 

“Lucy” means “light” — and somewhere along this long road of healing, I am really beginning to see it.

It’s no coincidence that the Lantern festival in our community fell on Lucy’s special weekend. We had no plans to go - but at the very last minute, something compelled us to check it out, and somehow we ended up walking through this magical, illuminated pathway wearing Jammies and slippers.

I don’t ask “why” anymore. 
I’m learning to accept.
And I’m leaning into #faith. 

On milestone moments like these, I hold my two earthside loves a little closer… and feel nothing short of immense #gratitude. And we know with so much certainty, these two, the first and the last of our 12 babes, our two earthside bookends… needed us the most. 

They are my “why”. 

All of them. 

Happy heavenly birthday our sweet “light giver”, Lucy.

#angelbaby #griefjourney #motherhoodjourney #healingafterloss #neurodivergence #setd1bsyndrome #SetD1BNDD #parentingafterloss #faith #multipleloss #sunshinebaby #rainbowbaby #secondtrimester #latepregnancyloss #pregnancylossawarenessmonth #October
#BTS with my lovely #surrosis @jenny_p1987. Have #BTS with my lovely #surrosis @jenny_p1987. 

Have you ever listened to a #podcast where 2 Mamas of Loss talk about how they mixed a little DNA together, and out came a baby? Yeah me neither… 

So be sure to watch this incredibly impactful and emotional episode where we have an honest conversation about #parentingafterloss with the very woman who changed the course of our family’s trajectory. No matter what the journey looks like to become parents, it’s not always #sunshineandrainbows but the intense #gratitude will always carry us through. 

Streaming on @telus @storyhive #OptikTV SPRING 2006! 

#eggdonation #eggdonor #ittakesavillage #rainbow #pregnancylossawareness  #pregnancylossawarenessmonth #rainbowbaby #miraclebaby 

Thnx for saving the day @eric.thebald with your invisible cape and wrangling powers! @jakerfilms  @hoelune @gjavier Couldn’t get through this all without you! 

@sassandsmalltalkpodcast
Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Beauty @glowjar_  says “LESS IS MORE” with skincare.

Meanwhile, I’m over here… overscrubbing, overthinking, and sometimes… skipping it altogether. 🙈 (shhhh... don’t tell my husband, OR my friends, OR my followers, omg please don’t tell my mom).

Turns out, good #skincare isn’t about burning your face off with 12 products that smell like a tropical fruit basket. It’s about being gentle — even if you’re a chaotic face washer like me.

Watch me get called out (lovingly) in Episode 3 (https://youtu.be/gAg0RXoGiAg) of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Talk, now streaming on ‪@TELUS‬ OptikTV and ‪@storyhive‬ 

Find the link on my BIO or in my stories. 

#SkincareHumor #MomLife #BurnoutRecovery #CaregiverLife #SassAndSmallTalk #lessismore #glowjarbeauty #glowjar #skin #glowingskin #JaimePereira #canadianbrand
When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your village takes over and plans ahead for you. 

Enter, days worth of #waffles and #pancakes for your sweet-breakfast-obsessed family. All so I can focus on working on season 2 of my show @sassandsmalltalkpodcast @Telus @storyhive now in production, whilst #caregiving the parents full time and no summer camps for the kiddos in sight. Let’s just say 24 hours in a day isn’t quite enough… 😴 is kinda out the window too. 

Thank you @caarly.xo for knowing I’m in the season, and just doing what you do… as always. 

Now please go back to your family of 6 😲, because they are probably tired of sharing you with us after all these MONTHS… LOVE you, and THANK you for all you’ve done for our family. 

The waffles were just the delish icing on the cake. There was muuuuuuch much more you supported us with while across the country as we focused on family, and we are grateful to you…  thank you. 

#ittakesavillage #sassandsmalltalk #telus #storyhive
Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #caregiver #s Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️
#caregiver #seekingvalidation #daughterofimmigrants #proudgrandparents

J/K… she was proud (I think). 
And she actually read it (I think)… 🤔🤔

Grab a copy @islandparent on local stands or check out the link on IG stories and in my BIO. 

And read the article @mommamillsblog, my girl, Natasha wrote on the true meaning of wealth in parenthood. 

Lots of gems!
#islandparentmagazine #parenting #homeschool #mentalhealth #mentalwellness 

Do you still find yourself seeking your #elderly parents approval even as a parent yourself?
Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉 When you’re a par Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉

When you’re a parent, caregiver, and running your own show on zero sleep… “sneaking out” mid-day with that cutie (who kinda resembles your spouse 🤷🏻‍♀️ ) for YUUUUUMMMY local @drumroaster #specialitycoffee, is basically the best (and only) date you’ll get. 

And honestly? We’ll take it. ✨

Talk “latte” to me. 💛 

*Tho that Canadian Macchiato ☕️ was next level…* Jus’ sayin’

Catch the @aerobicgeisha.coffee #mobilecoffee #cartonwheels #PopUp 🚲 at @westshoretowncentre — now ‘til Sept 3 (closed Mondays). 

#SupportLocal #ParentDateVibes #BurnoutFuel #CoffeeDate #hubbahubba #coffeeismylovelanguage #westshoretowncentre #aerobicgeisha #geishacoffee #aerobicgeishacoffee
**He had NO idea what he got himself into when he **He had NO idea what he got himself into when he answered that phone call from the crazy big(ish) city girl.**⁣
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Yes… I made the first move.⁣
And yes… I called him on an actual telephone. With a rotary dial. Connected to a wall.⁣ ☎️⁣
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That was 26 years ago.⁣
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10 years later (16 years ago today), he asked me to meet him at the end of the aisle and make it official 🤵🏻👰🏻—which we did, surrounded by everyone we love, and then danced the night away at the bottom of the Seinfeld steps.⁣
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Thank you for doing life with me, George @gjavier5. You’ve always been (and always will be) my #1 go-to for all things Cobra Kai 🐍, the best fellow imperfect-perfect parent to those little humans who look suspiciously like you 👧🏻👦🏻—and of course, co-parent to our two stinky OG furry kids 🦮🐕‍🦺.⁣ Thanks for being the yin to my “extra”🤪. And I’m the yang to your “chill” 😎
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Now stop scrolling and go kill that spider in the living room… or I might have to tell the world who really watches The Bachelor between the two of us 👀🌹
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I love you!! (And no… this is not just a clever way to get you to finally agree that the TV we bought the year we got married is long overdue for retirement 📺🫠)⁣ 😉 
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D&G, finally.
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#16YearsMarried #26YearsTogether #dgfinally #atlast #happyanniversary
Meet Emily. She coped by staying busy. Corporate Meet Emily. 

She coped by staying busy.
Corporate life. 
#Sidehustles. 
Always moving.
Until #burnout stopped her cold.

When Emily Bowman  @emlambow @nevaehjade.beautywellness, at the tender age of 12, began the life of a heartbreaking reality of #caregiving for a loved one, and eventually losing her father after a decade long battle with cancer, she pushed through the pain the only way she knew how — by working harder. 

But #grief always finds a way to surface.

#Fitness became her lifeline.
Now it’s not just her outlet — it’s her saving grace... and her business.

So grateful for @Telus @storyhive  for the platform to share such profound stories on #burnout and reclaiming joy as parents. 

🔥 Watch the full conversation in Episode 2 – live now on #Youtube - Link in BIO and IG Stories! Watch now for amazing INSPO, and please subscribe and support a sis! 🙋🏻‍♀️ (PSSST… “YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls”)
✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out ✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out “talks too much” is a transferable skill. 😉)

Couldn’t resist flipping through the online Summer issue of @islandparent (still chasing down a copy ON PRINT — OMW, #YYJ friends, pls save me one 🙏🙏!!)

Somehow, between #caregiving worries stretching from the West Coast to the Midwest, an unexpected emergency trip with the kids, and a 25-hour boat/train/plane journey (regrets: zero, snack supply: questionable 🙃), I managed to turn the chaos into a story — and landed my first article in one of our Van Island parenting mags.

Even better? I sat down for a feature interview about @sassandsmalltalkpodcast, sharing why these conversations matter, how the show makes space for parents stretched too thin, and why reclaiming joy beyond burnout is actually possible. #SeasonOne is now streaming on @telus @storyhive 🎙️.

A Massive THANK YOU to Stacie Gaetz @islandparent for an energizing interview that made me sound far cooler than I am, and to the whole editorial team for trusting me to bring my slightly unhinged, real-talk parenting chaos to your pages.

Here’s to finding joy in the mess, adventure in the unexpected, and a whole lotta #HappyJ in my carry-on…

📖 Grab a copy, flip to my pages, check out all the amazing contributing writers, and come hang out on the pod!

Also peep appearances from 2 of my 8 incredible guests: @truedad.community, @sarjo08, @toastibeautycollection — and the ridiculously talented @sarah_booth_photography, whose cover shot steals the show.

Non-islanders - the online copy is avail at islandparent.ca. Link on my bio 😉

#SassAndSmallTalk #SandwichGeneration #IslandParent #Storyhive #TelusOriginals #CaregiverLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FilipinoMoms #RealTalkForParents #ChaosAndJoy #ContributingWriter #Storytelling
I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to our father-in-law — who we’d been caregiving for these last couple months in their home on the other side of the country 💔 It’s been a heavy time, so I haven’t been online. 

But I wanted to quickly share that George and I have been keeping up with our daily dose of #HJ, and between that, and prayer, our amazing village both here and at home, and the support of family - our #stressresilience to handle the most challenging time in our lives was nothing short of a miracle. 

Running on virtually no sleep, the constant worry, lack of control, we needed all we could get to show up for the ones we love especially these last couple months. 

I am now a couple weeks into the #Rootist Densify Hair Line (and only a few days since recording this vid), after just a few washes with the Rootist Densify Shampoo + Conditioner (plus the Densifying Serum), I’m already feeling a shift. ✨ Thicker, fuller hair is the goal — and even in the midst of #grief and #caregiving, it’s nice to feel one small thing going right.

If you’re curious, today’s the day to grab it (July 2nd, 2025) —
🛍️ Shampoo + Conditioner are on sale
🇨🇦 Canada Day = FREE shipping Until July 4th 2025
But the 25% off on shampoo and conditioner ends TONIGHT (July 2nd - 1159pm PST) — so don’t wait! 🌿💚

Grab your Shampoo and Conditioner here: 
https://www.amare.com/et/sh43va/1946022

Promo code: Rootist25

DM me, or click the link for the full video on my profile.

#RootistHairCare #ScalpHealth #CaregiverLife #MicrobiomeSupport #CanadaDaySale #Review
S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is your comeback. 💥 SEASON 1 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast is now #bingeable on @TELUS #OptikTV & @StoryHive #YouTube! 8 back-to-back episodes of real talk about #parenting, #caregiving, and life’s beautiful chaos. Hit that link in bio and #getthatsassback. 🎙️✨ #JoyUnlocked #ParenthoodUnfiltered
M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday boy of mine has been such a trooper — the youngest and smallest member of our #sandwichgeneration family. For the third time in his 7 years of birthdays, his special day was quietly placed on hold as we navigated some heavy family matters. 

That meant: 
• no class party
• no birthday play date
• no jumping on trampolines
• no big plan, not even a little one 

… and not one single complaint from this compassionate little guy.

He’s simply grateful to be where he’s needed most — with family. 

To his (and our) surprise, his incredible teacher sent us this beautiful video of his classmates from far away, singing him #HappyBirthday, and the emotion it stirred in our family was something we’ll never forget. It was the very medicine our hearts needed right about now.

I may or may not have shed a tear or two… thousand.

And as for the #birthdayboy?

Well — it’s written all over his sweet face.

#thegiftthatkeepsongiving #itsthelittlethings #ittakesavillage #caregiving #bestgiftever #lovewins #realparentingmoments #sandwichgenerationlife
G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a little while ago… but life had other plans. 💔

It’s been a challenging month — on top of caregiving, moving homes, and homeschooling, we’ve been navigating some heavy family stuff. So I stepped back to focus on what matters most. 💗

That said… I’m slowly finding my way back.

And while it might seem small, leaning into this lighthearted moment — unboxing the full #Rootist kit, the #HJ for scalp — feels like a tiny act of #respite I really need right now. 

I’ve been working on my #guthealth with #Amare, and now I’m turning my attention to my #scalp #microbiome — because healing starts from the inside out… but the outside could use a little love too. 💆🏻‍♀️✨

Here’s to strong, luscious hair (maybe even retiring the ol’ #mombun? We’ll see 😅) and giving myself a moment to feel good again. 💚
#ScalpMicrobiome #GutBrainaxis #MomLifeRecovery #momlifebelike
🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥 We’re closing out 🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥

We’re closing out Season 1 of “Sass & Small Talk” with serious depth, healing, and one heck of a magical mic-drop moment. ✨

In this powerful finale #onthepod, I sit down with @scarletjaxen — a Victoria-based #author, counsellor, and storyteller with years of experience in clinical social work. She brings together sharp intellect and soul-deep wisdom to help us explore #burnout and intuition, through the power of #multisensory storytelling.

Scarlet believes change is possible, healing is available, and that WHO we ARE can evolve—when we’re ready to take the risk to live with intention, while trusting our own instincts.

She takes #trustyourgut to a whole new level.

For every #caregiver, #mama, and recovering #overachiever... this one’s for you.

🎥 NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+

📅 Coming May 27 to @storyhive + @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube + all podcast platforms.

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #womensempowerment
B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds be B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds beauty brands by day and dominates video games by night 🎮💅 

Meet Sara Jonsson @sarjo08 #mama (human & furry), #wifey, #caregiver, #entrepreneur, and low-key savage when gaming with her son 😂. 

As the go-to support for her parents through some tough health-related seasons, Sara’s #familyfirst mindset fuels everything she does—including the business she built from love. 

In Episode 7, we get real about #caregiverburnout, while running multi businesses with heart, and finding joy in the chaos. 

…and,

HOW. THE. HECK. SHE. DOES. IT. ALL. 

NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+ 

Will be available on @storyhive and @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube and all podcast platforms on May 27th. 

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #bossladyvibes @toastibeautycollection
SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes gli SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes glimpse of what feels like the beginning of a powerful shift in #womenshealth right here in #Victoria.

To stand alongside such empowered women — #caregivers, #changemakers, survivors, women from all walks of life — in the very place where the hands and hearts of this hospital held me and my family together (in more ways than one)… it was overwhelming in the best way.

Even more so, to share it with my daughter, my fiercest little survivor. Both of our stories of survival are woven into these hospital walls.

This was more than just a shoot. This was change taking place in real time. Honoured to be a tiny part of this moment as it unfolds.

Thank you for bringing this to life @ourvichospitals @averybrohman @gaellevanerp 💛
✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.co ✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.cochrane.realtor, you and your kiddos are what our world needs more of! And grateful to our dear friend @oliviabozovic who made the connection! SMALL 🌍 BIG 🩷♥️💙! Adore you both!! 

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To the kind dad at the @royalbaycolwood Easter Egg Hunt this past Saturday—

You probably didn’t realize how much you and your kids impacted our day.

My son had just missed the first few minutes of the egg hunt (as usual, this mama was running late with a million things on her plate—homeschooling, caregiving, promoting a show, working from home, managing the home, advocating, feeding the young and old, managing moods... the usual chaos).

He stood in line for the balloon dome and said quietly, trying , “I got zero eggs, mama.”

You heard him. Your son, who seemed a bit overwhelmed himself covering his ears from all the noise, and your little girl, reached into their own baskets and filled my son’s bag.

I watched as kindness bloomed in real time.

You didn’t just hand out chocolate—you gave my son the gift of feeling seen and included. You taught your kids what generosity really looks like.

And for this tired, always-late, sandwich-gen special-needs mom—your gesture meant more than you’ll ever know.

If anyone in the Westshore community knows this lovely family (dad of Grayson?), please tag them or send them our thanks.

This is what #community looks like. 🐣💛

#SandwichGeneration #GlassChild #NeurodivergentMom #MomGuilt #CommunityLove #WestshoreBC #VictoriaMoms #RoyalBayColwood #RealEasterMagic #SmallKindnessBigImpact
She podcasts. She parents. She’s got a 🌶️ She podcasts. 
She parents. 
She’s got a 🌶️ 🧠.
She’s fresh outta burnout mode.
She sips #HappyJ.
And now, with🎙️in hand… she’s streaming on @TELUS @STORYHIVE (because even #actionfigures need a l’il 📺 airtime).

Hey, I’m Deb B., host of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast — a podcast turned video series where we get real about #parenting and #caregiver #burnout, and find joy in the messy middle.

Fueled by my go-to fix-the-gut-fix-the-burnout potion🥤, a l’il bit of tears, and a whole lotta sass, this season brings on the reality of living in the #burnout generation, with guests who will leave you asking yourself “where have they been all my life?”

Because we are DONE glorifying busy.
We’re saying YES to rest.
And HEEEECK YES to finding our joy once again. #INeedMySassBack

Catch the Pod Edition now on TELUS OptikTV Ch 9, Stream+, and on #Storyhive YouTube (Search Storyhive Sass Small Talk) Link on my bio for Episodes 1 & 2.

🦉 Sexy Studio. ✔️ I 👀 @haus.of.owl 
🛋️ Cozy couch. ✔️
🎙️ Good convo. ✔️
🥹 Big feelings. ✔️
🤩 And even bigger lashes. ✔️✔️✔️

LET’S TALK. 

Oh and PS - wanna know how to get your action figure #animated? Follow me, write “SASS”, and let me know what your action figure would be in the comments below and I’ll hook you up. 

#SassAndSmalls #TelusStoryhive #HappyJEnergy #GoodbyeBurnout #SmallTalkBigFeels #actionfigure #barbie #AI #Amare #happyblend #cortisol
When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑 In When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑

In Episode 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast “Reclaiming Joy of #Parenthood Beyond Burnout”, I take on the ultimate #challenge:
Fitting fitness into my already chaotic #caregiving, #homeschooling, always behind the wheel, #neurodivergent navigating, mom-life schedule. 🧠🎢💪

Add to the mix, a busy 🧠 that thrives on chaos and fun? Why not #gamify? Moms- let’s do the #TriggerWordChallenge!! Every time your kids say (aka “demand”, I mean c’mon now…) “MOM!”, do a squat! In the kitchen, while cleaning, cooking, folding laundry. Just don’t do it driving! #safetyfirst

For this episode, Every time *I* said the word “lash” — yep, I squat. 😅

Joining me is none other than Victoria’s go-to #LashLady, who most would call a client-proclaimed “lash-a-pist” and certified #fitness coach, Emily Bowman @nevaehjade.beautywellness, who’s here to talk #burnout, #beauty, and #body movement. And I’m here to try and master the world’s most chaotic squat routine. 🙃

Side note: Psssst… your girl hasn’t done a squat since before the Pandy of 2020 so this may be nbd to the average person, but it’s quite literally a miracle ⛪️ for 🙋🏻‍♀️. #whateverworks #amIright?

Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two…  on the full episode 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, @storyhive YouTube

Comment “Squat” if you want the full episode link on @storyhive‘s YouTube. But it’s even more fun on TV, so try that first! We sure are…

#SassAndSmallTalk #SquatGoals #BurnoutAndBootyGains #bunsofsteel #LashLadyTakesOver #NeurodivergentMomLife #CaregiverFitness #SquatWhileYouCan #HomeschoolChaos #MomLifeUnfiltered #VictoriaBC #StoryHive #ReclaimYourJoy #JLoGotNothingOnMe
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