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A DIY Jessie Toy Story Party on a Budget :: PREPARATION

February 20, 2017 By Deb B. 5 Comments

A Jessie Toy Story Party… On a budget.

What the prep!?!?

Not too long ago (okay, a million years ago… we were a little behind with this post), Little Mama turned into the not-so-little 5 year old she always dreamed of becoming. Even as a 3 year old, she kept talking about turning 5 and how she was going to own her own restaurant, drive a car, and watch Teen Titans, because she will be a “teenager” by then. She wanted to make and see a difference as a 5 year old. She wanted to make some noise!

Alright, so she doesn’t exactly own her own restaurant (unless her playroom kitchen counts, where she hosts a couple hours a day with her favorite diners, Woody, Jessie, and Buzz Lightyear), her car happens to be a yellow scooter, and Teen Titans is still not the first choice of programming in our household. But she definitely made some major noise turning 5. She, with a little help from her mommy, planned a Jessie Toy Story Party otherwise known as a  yodellin’ good time!

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We love to dress up; for Halloween, for themed birthday parties, and for good ol’ fashioned playtime. Even more, Little Mama loves to completely immerse herself in the lives of her most beloved characters. Two years ago, it was Jasmine, during her Make 4 Wishes Birthday Extravaganza. And the year before, Minnie Mouse. The years prior to that were pretty much a blur as far as she’s concerned because her mom took the reins on everything. She was too busy learning how to walk, talk and cause a ruckus in and around the house.

But this year, our 5 year old wasn’t going to have any of that. It was time to speak up, speak loud, and be heard.

These were the items on her Jessie Toy Story Party bucket list:

Building Blocks

I found these fantastic square gift boxes which we later printed out letters on, atop a light wood-inspired background. All we needed – double sided tape, a good quality laser printer (fit a few of the letters on one sheet and saved ourselves some coins and a forest of trees), and a pair of scissors.

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A Gigantic Jessie’s shirt-inspired backdrop

We took a fun trip to the local fabric store and grabbed a large piece of yellow felt which we later cut into Jessie’s western themed silhouette. We also grabbed some silk red material from the out-of-season holiday clearance rack and used it as a simple drape. We dug around our crafts closet to find flexible red piping string to form the western loop accents, which we had hand-sewn on to the yellow felt. We had a red blanket that has sadly been shoved to the back of our linen closet waiting to be attended to. It served as the overall canvas rather than a plain white tarp.

All we needed was a little thread and a needle, somewhere to hang it (we decided instead of putting it up against a window with an adjustable curtain rod, we used my portable photo backdrop frame so we would have more flexibility in location), and a good pair of scissors. Naturally, we had Jessie’s hat laying around so we made sure we found a perfect spot for it since it’s a too big for Little Mama‘s head.

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A life-sized Jessie

As much as Little Mama wanted to greet each and every friend coming through the doors to attend her much-anticipated Jessie Toy Story party, she was adamant that Jessie herself, make an appearance. I grabbed an image of Jessie in her sassiest cowgirl pose, and spread her out onto 4 sheets of 8.5 x 11 paper. To give it a little more strength, I added some foam core to various sections rather than cut out one piece to cover the whole poster, as it that would just be time-consuming and frustrating getting around those tiny details in her silhouette. We later taped her to an upright stand I had lying around in my studio.

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A Little Direction

Most of Little Mama’s Tiny Sheriff friends are in the 4 – 6 age range. So if they (or their parents) need a little help finding the Little Sheriff’s room (in addition to the playroom, the eating area, and of course, where to get their tattoos… I mean, priorities!), they would know exactly where to go. We decided to print out some signs with a wood background (thanks google!), because who can justify etching actual wood pieces and shaping them into arrows? I wouldn’t even know where to start. So wooden facades, it is! (P.S. Don’t forget the foam backing, like Jessie’s above, to keep them sturdy and not flimsy, while hanging off the pole).

Cow Print Accents on… Everything

We spotted the most amazing cowprint decorative tape at Dollar Tree which we never really had solid plans for. We just figured, throwing it on a piece of foam (also a convenient Dollar Tree find) or any of the decor pieces would help tie the theme together. We had big plans for cake pops and a big table centerpiece, so we knew it would behoove us to grab a few cubes of foam, thin pop sticks, and of course, some paper crinkle shred that would serve as mini haystacks. 

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With some of the extra cow print tape, we wrapped it around some yellow juice boxes and slapped on more of Little Mama‘s logo for an added personal touch. Because… well – why not? (Big Daddy thought we were going overboard, but c’mon… how excited were we to find something yellow to coordinate with the rest of our spread. #daddyjustdoesntgetit)

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Buzz Lightyear’s Spaceship

Toy Story isn’t Toy Story without a little love for the Buzz. I wasn’t as keen on making a spaceship from scratch so I did some investigating around the house to see if anything would be stable enough for food, and pointy enough to potentially shoot through the milky way. [A tip from one frugal parent to another… Always shop at home first! You never know what you’ll find!] A cupcake stand made of cardboard from one of Little Mama‘s old birthday parties (word to the wise – keep some of the old stands and trays from previous parties… they WILL come in handy) was the perfect solution to house small square bites of pizza, while looking galactic enough to pass as a base for a spaceship. I grabbed a paper towel tube and took a silver cardboard piece and wrapped it around so it comes to a point and gives it the height it needs to stand out. Can’t wait to show you the finished product. Unfortunately, if anyone at NASA caught wind of this, they would probably laugh hysterically at my interpretation of a spaceship, and then fire me for insulting them and the universe. 

If you’re anything like me, adding a couple accents as far as colour and dimension is all it takes to transform a paper towel roll into a sleek vessel designed solely for interstellar travel.

A “Wishes for the Birthday Girl” Station

Inspired by a very successful “Make 4 Wishes” for the birthday girl station at her 4th birthday Jasmine Party, we decided it would be fun to have little inspiring notes once again for our yodelin’ cowgirl. It’s always such a treat to look back at what Little Mama‘s little buddies and their parents wished for her on her special day. We simply took our yellow plastic play cups from her pretend kitchen, and a matching bowl, blinged it out with self adhesive red sparkle tape, and Woody the Cowboy’s “There’s a WISH in my boot” station was born. Now to get our hands on some boots…

Snacks. Lots of Snacks. And Cute Containers for Them

We got our hands on some Toy Story Digital prints (Thanks Etsy!) so we took full advantage and utilized them for snack containers and the like. Simply cutting square shapes so we can easily manipulate them into little snack cones held together by a couple pieces of transparent tape – was as easy as throwing them in a bowl and letting the kids at it. But why do that when you can keep consistent with the theme, meanwhile keeping the kids’ sticky fingers out of the communal bowl and on to their own containers. Win win for all! 

To keep them standing upright, we added gentle foam floral blocks at the bottom (Yay, Dollar Tree!) to fill the boxes and covered it with paper crinkle shred. Be careful with the foam, they come apart easily if you poke too hard. 

Fancy Dining for the Fancy Guests

My fault. I gave Little Mama the feast of her life, adorned with gold-esque accents for her Jasmine Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party. Now, she only knows of coordinated plates and cutlery. Even if this is not something that happens regularly at home, we definitely pull out the big guns (the hot glue gun, that is…) when it comes to her very special days (and folks, herein lies the reason why “only child syndrome” actually exists…). This year, we kept things fun and bright and alternated colours across the dining table. We rotated between yellow, red, and cow print napkins, and yellow and red cutlery. All was held together with our left over red sparkle self-adhesive tape. (Be sure to use a narrow item like a slippery chopstick to secure the glue without touching the napkin while the glue dries).  

An “Etch A Sketch” Photobooth

We held the party in a big playroom so we were spoiled with a lot of blank walls to play with. We decided to grab one wall and make it into our photo booth area. We spent a whopping $2.50 on a powder blue shower curtain from Dollar Tree (Can you tell, we basically bought out the whole store?), as a backdrop and taped it against the wall. To bring in the the Toy Story theme of clouds, we traced one of Andy’s bedroom screenshots online and cut up card stock into cloud shapes. No need for a glue gun, strong double sided tape did the trick. We then made a giant Etch A Sketch to frame our photo booth. All we needed were:

  • 2 red foam core boards from Michaels
  • An exacto knife (and a person who’s good at using it)
  • Strong transparent tape to hold the pieces together
  • Red tape to cover the seams/transparent tape (we used left over self adhesive red sparkly tape! Yay for leftovers!)
  • Metallic Card stock for the letters
  • Hot glue gun
  • Two foam disks for knobs

Thanks to Kathy at Merriment Design, we were able to do a quick download of pre-made Toy Story signs and editable saying bubbles for the kids to use as props during their photos. Why make life difficult when someone has already done the hard work for you? And handing them over to you on a red, blue, and yellow sparkly platter? Download these adorable props here. The only thing I had to do was take some long sticks at Dollar Tree and tape them on. Voila! A photobooth! 

Jessie Bookmarks

It came to no surprise that originally, my little bookworm, asked for books to be distributed at her Jessie Toy Story party. It was a thought that crossed my mind, but I couldn’t find anything convenient, cute, and in line with our theme that I could add to the kids’ goodie bags. So what’s the next best thing that will promote literacy?

Why, a book mark, of course!

Printing a bunch of sassy Jessies marked “Thank you Sheriff!”, hole punched and adorned with left over natural twine, was as simple as 1-2-3-4-5.   

Art for the Goody Bags

We couldn’t stop at the super easy bookmark thank yous, now, could we? Yay – another reason to use up the rest of our self adhesive sparkle tape – to wrap a colouring sheet of each of the main characters from Toy Story. Because what is a Jessie Toy Story party without the beloved characters and a whole lotta color?

Western Goodies for the Goody Bag

This is where we always get stuck.

GOODY. BAGS. 

Luckily, the ideas basically fell out of the sky and landed on my lap. There is a plethora of western items out there. Thanks to our one stop shop for all things western, Oriental Trading Company, our goody bags were set in one fell swoop. Cowboy boot bubbles, Western hard candy fun packs (which I later discovered tasted a little like soap – so beware), Mini Cowgirl/Cowboy Hats, and Sheriff Badges, with a little help from a spool of paper craft ribbon and natural paper shred filled up these crazy adorable clear western boot plastic mugs given to all the attendees as a thank you (and yahoo!) for coming!

I would like to think the kiddos will think fondly of Little Mama and their yodellin’ good time at her Jessie Toy Story party, every time they take a sip out of their plastic boot cups filled to the brim with cold milk. 

Something for the Extra Teeny Guests

Most parties are limited to the age of the celebrant, however Little Mama specifically requested that her special sibling friends come and join the fun as well. We couldn’t, in all good conscience, hand over candies and sheriff bags, let alone bite-sized cowboy hats right into the welcoming hands of an infant. 

So we decided that western hat sippy cups were in order. 

And we couldn’t forget their Sheriff Badges! 

A Birthday Tutu Inspired by Jessie Herself

With all the time spent planning and prepping for the party, we had very little hunting time for the perfect party wear. Sure, there were a lot of western shirts out there, many of which were the exact colours that Jessie wore. But time was not in our favour, and shipping costs were not helping with our quest. Besides, when have we ever followed the rules of costume wearing? It’s not about replicating styles and patterns. It’s about playing with colours and themes and working with what you’ve got.

So we decided to put our tutu making skills to good use, grabbed ourselves a coarse and narrow roll of blue tulle, and got to work. Making the tutu was so easy – Little Mama took charge of the whole project. She was a little hesitant about mommy posting her creation while she’s wearing her jammies. Since when has modesty ever been a virtue with this monkey of mine?

I guess that’s what happens when you turn 5…

Want to see how it all turned out? Check out what we came up with as far as decor in our Jessie Toy Story Party series. Keep your eye out for the rest of our Jessie Toy Story party posts coming up this week. It was quite the adventure, and preparing for the big day was no easy feat.  

But we all know…

Jessie never gives up! Jessie finds a way!

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Filed Under: party time, playing dress up, the everyday, Tutu Cute Tagged With: Baby, birthday, children, cowgirl, five, Jessie, kids, kindergarten, party, preschooler, theme, Toddler, Toy Story, western

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Ladena says

    February 20, 2017 at 3:31 pm

    Absolutely AMAZING! I love everything about this party. I cannot believe all the ideas you came up with. You are one creative mama. I’m sure your daughter loved her 5th birthday party.
    Reply
    • debalino says

      February 22, 2017 at 2:27 pm

      Aww thank you so much! She loved it. The prep was the grueling part for her, naturally. haha. But I had a lot of fun putting it together. She was just so happy when it was party day, and looking back at the pics always makes her smile.
      Reply
  2. Bonnie Way aka the Koala Mom says

    February 20, 2017 at 9:06 pm

    I need you to come over here and plan some parties for me! You totally ROCK birthday parties. All the details you put into this were FANTASTIC. I can’t believe how much you made yourself!!! Wow. 🙂 #mamaofthedecadeaward
    Reply
    • debalino says

      February 22, 2017 at 2:28 pm

      You’re making me blush!!! Thank you! I know you have amazing ideas for your parties, so you don’t need my help at all! I enjoyed making everything, but it definitely took a lot of time. Thank goodness for our big kitchen table, a patient husband, and good lighting. Otherwise – I would be in big trouble 🙂
      Reply
  3. Jhon MC says

    January 13, 2018 at 1:54 am

    Thanks debalino you are so beautiful.and your blog.
    Reply

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Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

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It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
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Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

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Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

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It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
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And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
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• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
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And for 11 years since, I lost a little bit of me. 

“Lucy” means “light” — and somewhere along this long road of healing, I am really beginning to see it.

It’s no coincidence that the Lantern festival in our community fell on Lucy’s special weekend. We had no plans to go - but at the very last minute, something compelled us to check it out, and somehow we ended up walking through this magical, illuminated pathway wearing Jammies and slippers.

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All of them. 

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Meanwhile, I’m over here… overscrubbing, overthinking, and sometimes… skipping it altogether. 🙈 (shhhh... don’t tell my husband, OR my friends, OR my followers, omg please don’t tell my mom).

Turns out, good #skincare isn’t about burning your face off with 12 products that smell like a tropical fruit basket. It’s about being gentle — even if you’re a chaotic face washer like me.

Watch me get called out (lovingly) in Episode 3 (https://youtu.be/gAg0RXoGiAg) of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Talk, now streaming on ‪@TELUS‬ OptikTV and ‪@storyhive‬ 

Find the link on my BIO or in my stories. 

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When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your village takes over and plans ahead for you. 

Enter, days worth of #waffles and #pancakes for your sweet-breakfast-obsessed family. All so I can focus on working on season 2 of my show @sassandsmalltalkpodcast @Telus @storyhive now in production, whilst #caregiving the parents full time and no summer camps for the kiddos in sight. Let’s just say 24 hours in a day isn’t quite enough… 😴 is kinda out the window too. 

Thank you @caarly.xo for knowing I’m in the season, and just doing what you do… as always. 

Now please go back to your family of 6 😲, because they are probably tired of sharing you with us after all these MONTHS… LOVE you, and THANK you for all you’ve done for our family. 

The waffles were just the delish icing on the cake. There was muuuuuuch much more you supported us with while across the country as we focused on family, and we are grateful to you…  thank you. 

#ittakesavillage #sassandsmalltalk #telus #storyhive
Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #caregiver #s Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️
#caregiver #seekingvalidation #daughterofimmigrants #proudgrandparents

J/K… she was proud (I think). 
And she actually read it (I think)… 🤔🤔

Grab a copy @islandparent on local stands or check out the link on IG stories and in my BIO. 

And read the article @mommamillsblog, my girl, Natasha wrote on the true meaning of wealth in parenthood. 

Lots of gems!
#islandparentmagazine #parenting #homeschool #mentalhealth #mentalwellness 

Do you still find yourself seeking your #elderly parents approval even as a parent yourself?
Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉 When you’re a par Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉

When you’re a parent, caregiver, and running your own show on zero sleep… “sneaking out” mid-day with that cutie (who kinda resembles your spouse 🤷🏻‍♀️ ) for YUUUUUMMMY local @drumroaster #specialitycoffee, is basically the best (and only) date you’ll get. 

And honestly? We’ll take it. ✨

Talk “latte” to me. 💛 

*Tho that Canadian Macchiato ☕️ was next level…* Jus’ sayin’

Catch the @aerobicgeisha.coffee #mobilecoffee #cartonwheels #PopUp 🚲 at @westshoretowncentre — now ‘til Sept 3 (closed Mondays). 

#SupportLocal #ParentDateVibes #BurnoutFuel #CoffeeDate #hubbahubba #coffeeismylovelanguage #westshoretowncentre #aerobicgeisha #geishacoffee #aerobicgeishacoffee
**He had NO idea what he got himself into when he **He had NO idea what he got himself into when he answered that phone call from the crazy big(ish) city girl.**⁣
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Yes… I made the first move.⁣
And yes… I called him on an actual telephone. With a rotary dial. Connected to a wall.⁣ ☎️⁣
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That was 26 years ago.⁣
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10 years later (16 years ago today), he asked me to meet him at the end of the aisle and make it official 🤵🏻👰🏻—which we did, surrounded by everyone we love, and then danced the night away at the bottom of the Seinfeld steps.⁣
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Thank you for doing life with me, George @gjavier5. You’ve always been (and always will be) my #1 go-to for all things Cobra Kai 🐍, the best fellow imperfect-perfect parent to those little humans who look suspiciously like you 👧🏻👦🏻—and of course, co-parent to our two stinky OG furry kids 🦮🐕‍🦺.⁣ Thanks for being the yin to my “extra”🤪. And I’m the yang to your “chill” 😎
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Now stop scrolling and go kill that spider in the living room… or I might have to tell the world who really watches The Bachelor between the two of us 👀🌹
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I love you!! (And no… this is not just a clever way to get you to finally agree that the TV we bought the year we got married is long overdue for retirement 📺🫠)⁣ 😉 
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D&G, finally.
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#16YearsMarried #26YearsTogether #dgfinally #atlast #happyanniversary
Meet Emily. She coped by staying busy. Corporate Meet Emily. 

She coped by staying busy.
Corporate life. 
#Sidehustles. 
Always moving.
Until #burnout stopped her cold.

When Emily Bowman  @emlambow @nevaehjade.beautywellness, at the tender age of 12, began the life of a heartbreaking reality of #caregiving for a loved one, and eventually losing her father after a decade long battle with cancer, she pushed through the pain the only way she knew how — by working harder. 

But #grief always finds a way to surface.

#Fitness became her lifeline.
Now it’s not just her outlet — it’s her saving grace... and her business.

So grateful for @Telus @storyhive  for the platform to share such profound stories on #burnout and reclaiming joy as parents. 

🔥 Watch the full conversation in Episode 2 – live now on #Youtube - Link in BIO and IG Stories! Watch now for amazing INSPO, and please subscribe and support a sis! 🙋🏻‍♀️ (PSSST… “YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls”)
✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out ✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out “talks too much” is a transferable skill. 😉)

Couldn’t resist flipping through the online Summer issue of @islandparent (still chasing down a copy ON PRINT — OMW, #YYJ friends, pls save me one 🙏🙏!!)

Somehow, between #caregiving worries stretching from the West Coast to the Midwest, an unexpected emergency trip with the kids, and a 25-hour boat/train/plane journey (regrets: zero, snack supply: questionable 🙃), I managed to turn the chaos into a story — and landed my first article in one of our Van Island parenting mags.

Even better? I sat down for a feature interview about @sassandsmalltalkpodcast, sharing why these conversations matter, how the show makes space for parents stretched too thin, and why reclaiming joy beyond burnout is actually possible. #SeasonOne is now streaming on @telus @storyhive 🎙️.

A Massive THANK YOU to Stacie Gaetz @islandparent for an energizing interview that made me sound far cooler than I am, and to the whole editorial team for trusting me to bring my slightly unhinged, real-talk parenting chaos to your pages.

Here’s to finding joy in the mess, adventure in the unexpected, and a whole lotta #HappyJ in my carry-on…

📖 Grab a copy, flip to my pages, check out all the amazing contributing writers, and come hang out on the pod!

Also peep appearances from 2 of my 8 incredible guests: @truedad.community, @sarjo08, @toastibeautycollection — and the ridiculously talented @sarah_booth_photography, whose cover shot steals the show.

Non-islanders - the online copy is avail at islandparent.ca. Link on my bio 😉

#SassAndSmallTalk #SandwichGeneration #IslandParent #Storyhive #TelusOriginals #CaregiverLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FilipinoMoms #RealTalkForParents #ChaosAndJoy #ContributingWriter #Storytelling
I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to our father-in-law — who we’d been caregiving for these last couple months in their home on the other side of the country 💔 It’s been a heavy time, so I haven’t been online. 

But I wanted to quickly share that George and I have been keeping up with our daily dose of #HJ, and between that, and prayer, our amazing village both here and at home, and the support of family - our #stressresilience to handle the most challenging time in our lives was nothing short of a miracle. 

Running on virtually no sleep, the constant worry, lack of control, we needed all we could get to show up for the ones we love especially these last couple months. 

I am now a couple weeks into the #Rootist Densify Hair Line (and only a few days since recording this vid), after just a few washes with the Rootist Densify Shampoo + Conditioner (plus the Densifying Serum), I’m already feeling a shift. ✨ Thicker, fuller hair is the goal — and even in the midst of #grief and #caregiving, it’s nice to feel one small thing going right.

If you’re curious, today’s the day to grab it (July 2nd, 2025) —
🛍️ Shampoo + Conditioner are on sale
🇨🇦 Canada Day = FREE shipping Until July 4th 2025
But the 25% off on shampoo and conditioner ends TONIGHT (July 2nd - 1159pm PST) — so don’t wait! 🌿💚

Grab your Shampoo and Conditioner here: 
https://www.amare.com/et/sh43va/1946022

Promo code: Rootist25

DM me, or click the link for the full video on my profile.

#RootistHairCare #ScalpHealth #CaregiverLife #MicrobiomeSupport #CanadaDaySale #Review
S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is your comeback. 💥 SEASON 1 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast is now #bingeable on @TELUS #OptikTV & @StoryHive #YouTube! 8 back-to-back episodes of real talk about #parenting, #caregiving, and life’s beautiful chaos. Hit that link in bio and #getthatsassback. 🎙️✨ #JoyUnlocked #ParenthoodUnfiltered
M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday boy of mine has been such a trooper — the youngest and smallest member of our #sandwichgeneration family. For the third time in his 7 years of birthdays, his special day was quietly placed on hold as we navigated some heavy family matters. 

That meant: 
• no class party
• no birthday play date
• no jumping on trampolines
• no big plan, not even a little one 

… and not one single complaint from this compassionate little guy.

He’s simply grateful to be where he’s needed most — with family. 

To his (and our) surprise, his incredible teacher sent us this beautiful video of his classmates from far away, singing him #HappyBirthday, and the emotion it stirred in our family was something we’ll never forget. It was the very medicine our hearts needed right about now.

I may or may not have shed a tear or two… thousand.

And as for the #birthdayboy?

Well — it’s written all over his sweet face.

#thegiftthatkeepsongiving #itsthelittlethings #ittakesavillage #caregiving #bestgiftever #lovewins #realparentingmoments #sandwichgenerationlife
G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a little while ago… but life had other plans. 💔

It’s been a challenging month — on top of caregiving, moving homes, and homeschooling, we’ve been navigating some heavy family stuff. So I stepped back to focus on what matters most. 💗

That said… I’m slowly finding my way back.

And while it might seem small, leaning into this lighthearted moment — unboxing the full #Rootist kit, the #HJ for scalp — feels like a tiny act of #respite I really need right now. 

I’ve been working on my #guthealth with #Amare, and now I’m turning my attention to my #scalp #microbiome — because healing starts from the inside out… but the outside could use a little love too. 💆🏻‍♀️✨

Here’s to strong, luscious hair (maybe even retiring the ol’ #mombun? We’ll see 😅) and giving myself a moment to feel good again. 💚
#ScalpMicrobiome #GutBrainaxis #MomLifeRecovery #momlifebelike
🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥 We’re closing out 🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥

We’re closing out Season 1 of “Sass & Small Talk” with serious depth, healing, and one heck of a magical mic-drop moment. ✨

In this powerful finale #onthepod, I sit down with @scarletjaxen — a Victoria-based #author, counsellor, and storyteller with years of experience in clinical social work. She brings together sharp intellect and soul-deep wisdom to help us explore #burnout and intuition, through the power of #multisensory storytelling.

Scarlet believes change is possible, healing is available, and that WHO we ARE can evolve—when we’re ready to take the risk to live with intention, while trusting our own instincts.

She takes #trustyourgut to a whole new level.

For every #caregiver, #mama, and recovering #overachiever... this one’s for you.

🎥 NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+

📅 Coming May 27 to @storyhive + @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube + all podcast platforms.

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #womensempowerment
B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds be B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds beauty brands by day and dominates video games by night 🎮💅 

Meet Sara Jonsson @sarjo08 #mama (human & furry), #wifey, #caregiver, #entrepreneur, and low-key savage when gaming with her son 😂. 

As the go-to support for her parents through some tough health-related seasons, Sara’s #familyfirst mindset fuels everything she does—including the business she built from love. 

In Episode 7, we get real about #caregiverburnout, while running multi businesses with heart, and finding joy in the chaos. 

…and,

HOW. THE. HECK. SHE. DOES. IT. ALL. 

NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+ 

Will be available on @storyhive and @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube and all podcast platforms on May 27th. 

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #bossladyvibes @toastibeautycollection
SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes gli SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes glimpse of what feels like the beginning of a powerful shift in #womenshealth right here in #Victoria.

To stand alongside such empowered women — #caregivers, #changemakers, survivors, women from all walks of life — in the very place where the hands and hearts of this hospital held me and my family together (in more ways than one)… it was overwhelming in the best way.

Even more so, to share it with my daughter, my fiercest little survivor. Both of our stories of survival are woven into these hospital walls.

This was more than just a shoot. This was change taking place in real time. Honoured to be a tiny part of this moment as it unfolds.

Thank you for bringing this to life @ourvichospitals @averybrohman @gaellevanerp 💛
✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.co ✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.cochrane.realtor, you and your kiddos are what our world needs more of! And grateful to our dear friend @oliviabozovic who made the connection! SMALL 🌍 BIG 🩷♥️💙! Adore you both!! 

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To the kind dad at the @royalbaycolwood Easter Egg Hunt this past Saturday—

You probably didn’t realize how much you and your kids impacted our day.

My son had just missed the first few minutes of the egg hunt (as usual, this mama was running late with a million things on her plate—homeschooling, caregiving, promoting a show, working from home, managing the home, advocating, feeding the young and old, managing moods... the usual chaos).

He stood in line for the balloon dome and said quietly, trying , “I got zero eggs, mama.”

You heard him. Your son, who seemed a bit overwhelmed himself covering his ears from all the noise, and your little girl, reached into their own baskets and filled my son’s bag.

I watched as kindness bloomed in real time.

You didn’t just hand out chocolate—you gave my son the gift of feeling seen and included. You taught your kids what generosity really looks like.

And for this tired, always-late, sandwich-gen special-needs mom—your gesture meant more than you’ll ever know.

If anyone in the Westshore community knows this lovely family (dad of Grayson?), please tag them or send them our thanks.

This is what #community looks like. 🐣💛

#SandwichGeneration #GlassChild #NeurodivergentMom #MomGuilt #CommunityLove #WestshoreBC #VictoriaMoms #RoyalBayColwood #RealEasterMagic #SmallKindnessBigImpact
She podcasts. She parents. She’s got a 🌶️ She podcasts. 
She parents. 
She’s got a 🌶️ 🧠.
She’s fresh outta burnout mode.
She sips #HappyJ.
And now, with🎙️in hand… she’s streaming on @TELUS @STORYHIVE (because even #actionfigures need a l’il 📺 airtime).

Hey, I’m Deb B., host of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast — a podcast turned video series where we get real about #parenting and #caregiver #burnout, and find joy in the messy middle.

Fueled by my go-to fix-the-gut-fix-the-burnout potion🥤, a l’il bit of tears, and a whole lotta sass, this season brings on the reality of living in the #burnout generation, with guests who will leave you asking yourself “where have they been all my life?”

Because we are DONE glorifying busy.
We’re saying YES to rest.
And HEEEECK YES to finding our joy once again. #INeedMySassBack

Catch the Pod Edition now on TELUS OptikTV Ch 9, Stream+, and on #Storyhive YouTube (Search Storyhive Sass Small Talk) Link on my bio for Episodes 1 & 2.

🦉 Sexy Studio. ✔️ I 👀 @haus.of.owl 
🛋️ Cozy couch. ✔️
🎙️ Good convo. ✔️
🥹 Big feelings. ✔️
🤩 And even bigger lashes. ✔️✔️✔️

LET’S TALK. 

Oh and PS - wanna know how to get your action figure #animated? Follow me, write “SASS”, and let me know what your action figure would be in the comments below and I’ll hook you up. 

#SassAndSmalls #TelusStoryhive #HappyJEnergy #GoodbyeBurnout #SmallTalkBigFeels #actionfigure #barbie #AI #Amare #happyblend #cortisol
When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑 In When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑

In Episode 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast “Reclaiming Joy of #Parenthood Beyond Burnout”, I take on the ultimate #challenge:
Fitting fitness into my already chaotic #caregiving, #homeschooling, always behind the wheel, #neurodivergent navigating, mom-life schedule. 🧠🎢💪

Add to the mix, a busy 🧠 that thrives on chaos and fun? Why not #gamify? Moms- let’s do the #TriggerWordChallenge!! Every time your kids say (aka “demand”, I mean c’mon now…) “MOM!”, do a squat! In the kitchen, while cleaning, cooking, folding laundry. Just don’t do it driving! #safetyfirst

For this episode, Every time *I* said the word “lash” — yep, I squat. 😅

Joining me is none other than Victoria’s go-to #LashLady, who most would call a client-proclaimed “lash-a-pist” and certified #fitness coach, Emily Bowman @nevaehjade.beautywellness, who’s here to talk #burnout, #beauty, and #body movement. And I’m here to try and master the world’s most chaotic squat routine. 🙃

Side note: Psssst… your girl hasn’t done a squat since before the Pandy of 2020 so this may be nbd to the average person, but it’s quite literally a miracle ⛪️ for 🙋🏻‍♀️. #whateverworks #amIright?

Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two…  on the full episode 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, @storyhive YouTube

Comment “Squat” if you want the full episode link on @storyhive‘s YouTube. But it’s even more fun on TV, so try that first! We sure are…

#SassAndSmallTalk #SquatGoals #BurnoutAndBootyGains #bunsofsteel #LashLadyTakesOver #NeurodivergentMomLife #CaregiverFitness #SquatWhileYouCan #HomeschoolChaos #MomLifeUnfiltered #VictoriaBC #StoryHive #ReclaimYourJoy #JLoGotNothingOnMe
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