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I Choo Choo Chooze you…. Chooze Shoes #Review #Giveaway USA/CANADA

April 15, 2014 By Deb B. 40 Comments

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Wondering why LD is looking rather cheeky at this very moment? It’s because, after a long and grueling search, she has now found the perfect shoe. Scratch that. She found a collection of perfect shoes. In fact, she has absolutely no idea which one to choose! Or should we say… CHOOZE!

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Like the Scout in Control CHOOZE Shoes for instance. The fit is as out-of-this-world as its fun print. CHOOZE Shoes exudes confidence and creativity – the two qualities this innovative brand wishes to bring out in every kiddo that wears them. With two different shoes for every pair – you can’t help but be different, and thus, be completely… you! We love how these shoes stop traffic with every stride, as its unique pairing stands out in any crowd of tiny tootsies. And we all know LD is all about standing out.

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

As an aspiring dance machine – little mama was immediately drawn to the Dance Mary-janes in BeGood Navy. The insoles are padded and the straps are adjustable – two features that big mama (that’s me) is most attracted to. We love the fit – which allows ample toe room for growth, yet the soft and flexible elastic trim hugs the foot just enough so that it stays on nice and snug. And how incredibly adorable are these shoes to boot??

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

The Scout in Rockout2 is one of CHOOZE‘s signature slip-ons. Just like slippers, these little guys are as comfortable as can be. Similar to the mary-janes, they also have padded insoles and soft elastic gussets making it easy to slip on comfortably without the fear of them slipping off. The prints and patterns are cheerful and charming – just like how any kid would want their shoes to be!

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Dance and Roll mary-janes is my absolute favorite. You know me and my obsession for all that is houndstooth. The fit and style is exactly like the BeGood Navy Mary-janes above – but the print… oh the print. So sophisticated, yet so ridiculously delightful for any little mama who wants to follow in her mommy’s footsteps. Quite literally.

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I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Lovely – is most apropos when it comes to the Dream in Swirl Grey Ballet flats. Living up to its name, the Dream Ballet flat is a splendid match for any princess who enjoys the freedom of a strap-free shoe, and an easy slip on, without the unnecessary, and all too often, slip-OFF! Thanks to the gore trim, the shoe remains secure while little mama breaks out her most intricate dance moves. Out of all the shoes in our realm of choice, we gasped at the sight of this ballet flat – but what really swung our vote, was the gorgeous paisley-meets-floral print, and the dainty luminescent cap-toe. Pinch me, I’m dreaming.

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Speaking of dreaming and all that is lovely, we recently celebrated LD‘s birthday, hosted by Mickey Mouse himself. We were in a frantic search for the perfect shoe to coordinate with her red and white themed party, and wouldn’t you know… CHOOZE saved the day! Right in time for a little red and white polka dot action! The red Dance in Behave maryjanes were all we needed for a little afternoon fun with Mr. and Mrs. Mouse and friends.

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Not surprisingly, LD‘s most beloved pair among all of her CHOOZE Shoes is her Dance In Twinkle Fuchsia. After all, pink is the new, well… pink… when it comes to every in-house princess, right?  Little mama couldn’t hold back admiration for her own twinkly tootsies and wanted the world to see her in all the pretty she could muster up in one sitting.

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Even Seth, our pooch couldn’t take his eyes off the glitter that trailed behind the little princess of the house.

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

After hours upon hours of prancing around in her abundance of CHOOZE awesomeness – she took a breath and decided to relish in all the glory of her CHOOZE options. She placed every single pair in her handy dandy coordinating backpack just in case the shoe monsters made a surprise visit. I had a slight panic attack with what could have been a disastrous situation of brand new flattened shoes – but was immediately reminded of what brand we were dealing with. Each shoe is made of vegan materials, high quality outsoles, and flexibility to withstand rough and tumble play. In other words – CHOOZE Shoes was designed with KIDS. IN. MIND. Needless to say, the shoes survived the wrath of the backpacking toddler.

We nearly lost our minds upon discovering that Choozepack in Boogie was not your everyday, run-of-the-mill backpack. If it wasn’t enough to have choice in her shoes, little mama also had to make a choice on which backpack she wanted between the reversible designs. Hearts, anyone?

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Or are you more in the mood for butterflies?

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

In just one simple flip of the convertible straps – little mama has herself two wonderful and unique backpacks all in one!

As much as we love the overall unique concept encompassing the CHOOZE brand, what is most appealing to us, is their mission to help families find their power of choice. With every CHOOZE shoe a child wears, he/she is helping provide for another child in need – the power to choose. Read more on their involvement with the anti-poverty program here.

And that, my friends, is the beautiful thing about choice, and the freedom to choose. It’s empowering. It supports creativity. And it builds confidence. Isn’t that what we all want for our littles?

So here’s my question for you… WHICH PAIR WOULD YOU CHOOZE!??

*****FREE GIVEAWAY*****

We have teamed up with our friends at CHOOZE Shoes to host a giveaway of a fab and funky pair of CHOOZE Shoes to a lucky stylin’ winner!  To enter for the chance to win, simply fill out the form below!  For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

Contest closes April 27th, 2014 – at 11:59PM! The winner will be revealed April 28th, 2014! If you have an Instagram account, check us out at @babystylista for more ways to enter (Bonus points!).

 

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Filed Under: Too Cool for School, Tots & Tootsies Tagged With: anti-poverty, Baby, backpack, Ballet, children's wear, CHOOZE, confidence, contest, creativity, elastic gusset, fashionista, flats, footwear, giveaway, houndstooth, kids, kidswear, Mary janes, mini-fashionista, mini-me, print, shoes, slip on, style, stylist

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Kristen Tonne says

    April 15, 2014 at 4:22 pm

    I hope this is the form you are talking about!!! Following you on Instagram as well
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 15, 2014 at 4:41 pm

      Hi Kristen! If you can fill out the Rafflecopter form above – you’ll have a greater chance of winning! You’ll also have the opportunity to unlock more ways to gain points and win a pair! 🙂
      babystylista recently posted…I Choo Choo Chooze you…. Chooze Shoes #Giveaway USA/CANADAMy Profile
      Reply
  2. Lynn Blair says

    April 15, 2014 at 6:54 pm

    I’m following both on Instagram and Facebook…I’m just unsure where to leave the blog comment. Thank you…
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 15, 2014 at 9:14 pm

      You did it perfectly Lynn! Good Luck!
      babystylista recently posted…I Choo Choo Chooze you…. Chooze Shoes #Giveaway USA/CANADAMy Profile
      Reply
  3. Val Choa says

    April 16, 2014 at 2:30 am

    I've liked the facebook pages and followed on instagram!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 15, 2014 at 9:15 pm

      Wonderful Val! Good luck!! 🙂
      babystylista recently posted…Too Cool for Pre-School #WordlessWednesday #LinkyMy Profile
      Reply
  4. Dawn Trudeau says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:04 am

    Love all the Chooze, but those Twinkle Fuschias are too adorable!
    Reply
  5. Monica says

    April 16, 2014 at 7:03 am

    These are super cute shoes and they look like they would be so comfortable! Loving the backpack too 🙂
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    Reply
  6. Christine says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:01 am

    OMG! I LOOOOOVE!!! I know my 5 yr old will want me to enter this. She LOVES shoes and boots…and bags just like her Mama! I call her Imelda Marcos!
    Christine recently posted…5 Easter Activities for Kids #KINDERMomMy Profile
    Reply
  7. Christine says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:37 am

    I follow BabyStylista and ChoozeShoes on Instagram from my christinemcnaughton account 🙂
    Christine recently posted…5 Easter Activities for Kids #KINDERMomMy Profile
    Reply
  8. Christine says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:38 am

    One thing that makes my LO stand out of the crowd is her sense of style! She’s SO unusual! It’s awesome!
    Christine recently posted…5 Easter Activities for Kids #KINDERMomMy Profile
    Reply
  9. Jenna Em says

    April 16, 2014 at 10:31 am

    Cute shoes! My daughter would really love those, as she already owns some (purposely) mismatched socks.
    Jenna Em recently posted…Eddie Bauer 2014 Spring & Summer Collection – A Review!My Profile
    Reply
  10. Bonnie Way says

    April 16, 2014 at 2:05 pm

    My daughter already wears mismatches shoes and socks… she’d LOVE these!!! So cute! She also has an awesome sense of style… someday she’ll be helping me with my wardrobe! Thanks for sharing. 🙂
    Bonnie Way recently posted…How to Host a Book-Themed Birthday PartyMy Profile
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  11. CHRISTINA DUTRA says

    April 16, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    i follow on IG @LITTLEBITSOFICE & FB @ christina dutra
    Reply
  12. CHRISTINA DUTRA says

    April 16, 2014 at 6:19 pm

    one thing that makes my daughter stand out is how smart she is. she talks about presidents, and math, and she speaks like she is intelligent. everyone always points out how smart she is when they hear her talk.
    Reply
  13. Sara Ingvoldstad Gable says

    April 17, 2014 at 2:11 am

    I like them both on FaceBook. My little one stand out because of her fierce determination
    Reply
  14. Lisa says

    April 17, 2014 at 2:06 pm

    Super cute!
    Reply
  15. Carolsue says

    April 18, 2014 at 3:03 pm

    I like you both on Facebook (Carolsue Anderson) and Instagram (@Cezovski9)
    My little one is unique because he is so smart (not that I am prejudiced or anything — LOL)
    Digicats {at} Sbcglobal {dot} Net
    Reply
  16. Jessica Nelles says

    April 19, 2014 at 12:21 pm

    I liked them both on Facebook (don't have instagram) My little one has red hair and blue eyes which stand out
    Reply
  17. Heather says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:26 am

    not sure the first one “took”
    I like both on facebook, but am not on instagram. I boycott because of privacy concerns, sorry!!! 🙂
    I have 2 little ones! The first one is unique because she always, and I mean ALWAYS tried to do the right thing. She’s a very old soul and in tune with other’s feelings.
    The second is unique because she radiates pure joy, constantly bursts into song for no apparent reason. She brighten’s the day’s of anyone fortunate enough to be in her space.
    Reply
  18. amber z clark says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:31 am

    Liked on Facebook & instagram. Both my kiddos are unique bc they’ve both got great senses of humor. Little pranksters already!
    Reply
  19. Tasha Detloff says

    April 19, 2014 at 12:33 pm

    I've liked both on Facebook. Love the Scout in Rockiut2. Would be great for our little boy. And match his big personality, smile and cheeks.
    Reply
  20. Laura Burgon Perkins says

    April 19, 2014 at 12:36 pm

    I liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on FB.
    One unique quality that makes my little one stand out in a crowd is her accessories. She loves to wear jewelry, sunglasses, scarves, etc.
    Reply
  21. marie says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:39 am

    Her sense of humor
    Reply
  22. Victoria says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:45 am

    I’m babystylista and chooze Facebook fan!
    Reply
  23. Krystal Eis Withem says

    April 19, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE @ChoozeShoes! My daughter has several pairs of them!
    Reply
  24. Pam says

    April 19, 2014 at 6:06 am

    I like both on facebook
    pam w h

    He stands out because of his easygoing personality.

    Reply
  25. Abby Jacobs says

    April 19, 2014 at 1:08 pm

    I liked both on Facebook and Pinterest and my niece and nephew are unique and would love to try Chooze!
    Reply
  26. Wendy hutton says

    April 19, 2014 at 8:27 am

    have liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on Facebook and Instagram
    Reply
  27. Rachel says

    April 19, 2014 at 8:37 am

    Love these!
    Reply
  28. Maggie says

    April 19, 2014 at 9:36 am

    my favorites shoes!
    Reply
  29. Kelly Skinner says

    April 19, 2014 at 7:21 pm

    My daughter wears chooze shoes every day at school. She loves them and I have been really impressed with the quality 🙂
    Reply
  30. Tracey Hall says

    April 19, 2014 at 10:44 pm

    I’ve liked the facebook pages and followed on instagram!
    Reply
  31. Stephanie Pan says

    April 20, 2014 at 6:33 am

    Liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on Facebook and Instagram!
    A pair of Chooze Dance in Wiggle is sitting in our little girl's Easter basket right now. Everyone that saw the shoes at work LOVED it!
    Our little one stands out in a crowd for being herself.
    She is outgoing, loves meeting/making new people/friends.
    Reply
  32. Helen says

    April 20, 2014 at 1:30 pm

    I love these
    Reply
  33. Victoria K says

    April 21, 2014 at 7:07 pm

    I have liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on Facebook I don’t have instangram. My daughters extremely long eye lashes and big blue eyes makes her stand out in a crowd.
    Reply
  34. Katy Emanuel says

    April 21, 2014 at 8:32 pm

    I follow both accounts on facebook, but don’t have an instagram account. My daughter has a unique sense of style and her personality which make her stand out in a crowd.
    Reply
  35. Kelly D says

    April 22, 2014 at 10:55 am

    I like babystylista and Chooze on instagram(Kellywcu) and FB(Kelly D Saver)
    Reply
  36. Shereesa Winning Lucas says

    April 23, 2014 at 4:10 am

    I liked @babystylista and @choozeshoes on FB and Instagram. My little last Elliot is special because she has tied out blended family together in the most incredible way. Love my little sweetheart!
    Reply
  37. angela m says

    April 24, 2014 at 10:34 am

    I liked you both on facebook (angela marriott)and instagram (vinyauto). My kids are unique because of how thoughtful they are.
    Reply

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Me Neither! 

But it sure helped me understand my #neurdodivergent not-so-baby teen daughter who has been in #burnout mode for years. Gaining understanding of this aspect of burnout helps us find ways to cope when it creeps up on us as parents - and especially for our children. 

Here’s a #behindthescenes look of my talk on @sassandsmalltalkpodcast filmed at the amazing creative studios of @haus.of.owl with @kkayjudas at @sacred_advantage. She is our wonderful guest and a dear friend (and incredible advocate for my daughter specifically), who shares insight and personal experience on #autisticburnout in this raw and honest interview about how she navigated (continues to navigate) life on the spectrum especially during burnout. I may or may not have shed a tear… or 10… 🤷🏻‍♀️

Tune in on @telus OptikTV Channel 9, stream+ on MAY 6th, and @storyhive YouTube on May 27th  to watch this compelling episode. 

And giving extra love to my beautiful and talented daughter who fine tuned the edit of this video! How blessed am I to be the mama of this creative young lady. Now gimme my phone back!!! 🤨

Have you or a loved one experienced Autistic Burnout?
Behind every #sandwichgeneration #entrepreneural # Behind every #sandwichgeneration #entrepreneural #homeschool #mom with #ADHD and #spicy kids, is: 
• a floor filled with painful-to-step-on toys and crafts
• Sniffly kiddos every few weeks 
• nothing crossed off her to-do list
• hundreds of unanswered texts/emails
• and a #mentalload sometimes too overwhelming to carry 

But unlike all the other gloomy seasons I’ve experienced this tough season, I have never felt such peace. 

WHY: 

• I have been walking through my #faithjourney with George and it’s been giving me a different outlook on everything life has thrown our way. My sistas in faith have kept us afloat this tough season @esther.driver @caarly.xo @lishgarv @nicoleacaldwell 

• I have been intentional on fixing my #guthealth, #cortisollevels, and #cognitivefunction with my daily #HJ #happy blend drink, and it has done wonders to my #mentalwellness  and overall health. <DM me for more info on this game changer drink>.

• I’ve been learning to just live in the moment and not be so caught up with doing EVERYTHING all at once. 

• I’m surrounding myself (albeit virtually and in spirit) with some of my chosen fam who probably get the most neglect of all, but still give me grace while I clumsily navigate this crazy season @nengineermom @rahannavu  @iamharpsra 
@m_stiggity 
@jenny_p1987  @westislanddesigns @kkayjudas @teacuphuman09 @i_am_miss_jen @swanny80 @trishita_namagita 

• Even though my business relies heavily on my #online presence, I’m giving myself grace for fully immersing myself in the needs of my family this last month I’ve been MIA. I know I can pick up where I left off, and lean on my mentors & biz sistas to pull me out of the seasonal funk @caitoaks @mommamillsblog, @happybalancemama @sweetmamalifedaily, and get back on track. 

Busy, overwhelmed mama… I see you. This is just a season. Do what you need to do, especially for you and your loved ones. Everything will still be there ready for you to “tackle” when you’re ready. 

And what losing two loved ones these last couple weeks has taught me - we’re only here temporarily. Spend your time earthside doing what you love, and loving who you love. @gjavier5 ❤️
No amount of “juice” can lessen the exposure t No amount of “juice” can lessen the exposure to elementary school winter bugs, but it sure came in handy when we need it IN & OUT of our household. 

Especially since I have elderly under my care. 

It skipped George and I entirely - but it definitely hit our two little ones, as bugs do. 

After a nice, tall glass of kid’s #HJ (mixed with some mango edge+ for my bigger and pickier smallie) - along with a nice snuggly nap - the symptoms were way less vicious than previous colds, and gone by the time I blended them their dose the next morning. 

It’s not some miracle drink with empty promises - it’s just ALL the good stuff in a glass. 

DM me if you want a sip for yourself or your sniffly kiddos. I’m telling you, our overall health and wellness as a family, has improved, since focusing on our #guthealth.

There is no price too high to pay for overall #wellness.

#happyblend #amare #fluseason
Impromptu check-in with my girl, Nicole from @happ Impromptu check-in with my girl, Nicole from @happybalancemama talking about all things #Amare. The reality behind #burnout,  #mentalwellness, finding our way through the everyday challenges and #mentalload of #motherhood, and how both of our lives have SHIFTED dramatically since starting our journey with fixing our #guthealth. 

#happyblend #juice #GBX #gutbrainconnection #gutbrainaxis #gutbrainhealth #gutbrain #motherhood #overwhelm
C O R T I S O L :: If you’re anything like me, y C O R T I S O L :: If you’re anything like me, you’ve tried to amp up in overall wellness - doing ALL the things…  and nothing worked 🪀🪀🪀🪀🪀 

ME THEN:(4.5 mnths + 4 decades ago)

• Cortisol levels out of control 
• Made self-sabotaging choices 
 • giving into sugar cravings
 • staying up all night doom 
  scrolling & researching 
  how to “fix” my life/kids/home 
  leading to #burnout
• Poor time management
• Emotionally charged and reactive due to poor quality sleep 

• What REALLY needed the most help - was my GUT. <ENTER #HJ #Amare #cortisolcontrol>

ME NOW: 

• Boost in: mood, motivation, metabolism, energy
• reduced bloating and inflammation
• Cravings gone, due to regulated blood sugar
• #cortisol #puffyface gone
• Better quality and DEEPER sleep
• Balanced hormones
• Improved cognitive function and no brain fog

** ADDED BONUS: A more organized home 
** DOUBLE ADDED BONUS: I’m the best mom I have ever been for my kiddos: ⬇️ reactive, ⬆️stress resilience

✨✨What I’m doing 👇🏼✨✨

• I mixed these two (or three) very simple supplements (EASY for my busy brain)
• First Supplement: Mood/Motivation/Metabolism - decreased bloating 
• Second supplement: Balanced hormones & mental wellness, improved skin, deeper sleep

2025 - I’m here for ya. BRING. IT. ON.

Comment CORTISOL OR just DM me, and I’ll send you more info and a link! 🥳
LIVE:: Sass & Small Chats with my girl Nicole @hap LIVE:: Sass & Small Chats with my girl Nicole @happybalancemama, before Mama Duty calls!  Chatting all things “Happy Blend”. We’ll do another spontaneous Live 2.0 when it’s not so nice outside!! For now - here’s a little bit of my personal experience with the Happy Blend  and how it’s made major shifts in mine and my family’s lives.  #30DayMentalwellnesschallenge
G R I N C H :: Just over here dreaming of a #green G R I N C H :: Just over here dreaming of a #greenChristmas when the kids and I had more time, energy, and gumption to do community deliveries to our local heroes. 

Since the #Pandemic, this little tradition of ours have stopped but our gratitude remains. @saanichpolice @saanichfiredepartment, Victoria Fertility Clinic, Sherwood Dental, and some of our buds who held our hands through our #grief and #fertility journey. 

Sigh. Was fun while it lasted. 

Thank you @dee_monster_girl @adammessana  @fiendwithoutaface87 for the inspo.

#throwback #grinch #Christmas
#NationalFamilyCaregiversMonth #november P I N K #NationalFamilyCaregiversMonth #november 

P I N K :: I recently learned that flamingos lose their pink when caring for others (notably, mom flamingos) —and I felt that deeply this past year. When my sweet elderly Mama had an unfortunate fall, resulting in emergency surgery, an extended hospital stay, and complete dependence on full time care, I was torn between moving in and being there for her full-time, caring for my sick kids and husband, homeschooling, and managing my business. 

I lost my pink.

Everything else—work, plans, even my son’s birthday—had to wait. Our home was a mess, appointments were missed, mistakes were made, friendships were tested, and the mental load was heavy. But nothing compared to watching my once strong Mama feel powerless as she leaned into the support she needed but once resisted.

My Mom lost her pink. 

It was a season of sacrifice, but now returning the equipment, that helped with her recovery, is a moment I’ll never forget.  I can now see from a clear lens, that working together as a family (my own family, my brother’s, my parents), we made it through, with the power of faith, a supportive community and amazing and understanding friends, love, and especially prayer.

It feels so good to stand back and see the full picture. And best of all… 

Both my Mama and I got our pink back.

@redcrosscanada 

#Caregiving #FamilyFirst #Gratitude #FlamingoFeels #FaithAndFamily
M A G G I E :: 🎉 Some #BTS #onthepod @sassandsm M A G G I E :: 🎉 Some #BTS #onthepod @sassandsmalltalkpodcast with my long lost twin and the hilariously brilliant MAGGIE of @thecatmompodcast ! We’re diving deep into life with a #SpicyBrain 🧠, talking all things #ADHD, and how she’s been navigating motherhood, chaos, and #burnout like the absolute rockstar she is. 💥

🎂 Oh, and did I mention it’s her #BIRTHDAY today?! 🎈 Be sure to give @minimaggie ALL the love in the comments! 🥳👇🏻

This episode, filmed at @haus.of.owl, is packed with so much relatable insight (and laughter... SO. MUCH. LAUGHTER 😂). Catch it #comingsoon #2025 on @TELUS OptikTV @storyhive! You won’t want to miss this one. 💬🎙️

Life just got a little more interesting @gjavier5 @ianshockeycards. Our apologies in advance… #doubletrouble 👭🏻
MY. FAM. IS. THRIVING. That is all. DM (and Fo MY. FAM. IS. THRIVING. 

That is all. 

DM (and Follow me) for deets on this amazing EASY 30sec Wellness supplement (and other #Amare Go-tos) that has elevated this family from shaking things up in the gut (bye 💩 probs), to clearing things up in the 🧠 (Wait - they actually WANT to learn? 🤯) … NOTHING ELSE has worked THIS GOOD for this family of Neuro-Ds. 

It’s not just some magic fix. 
It’s au naturale. Backed by science.
It’s #guthealth.
It’s #cognitivefunction.
Down to the cellular level.

✨ Sidenote: “Thriving” doesn’t mean, perfect, always happy, or that everyone is ALWAYS on the same page. 

That would just be weird. 

It means: 
• our target areas of concern (individually) are being addressed. 
• less chaos, more peace. 
• less reactive, less defensive
• more motivation, less resistance

We’re all collectively on our way to overall physical and mental wellness. 

And the best part is - all the kids care about is that it tastes darrrrrrrrn good. 

So what are you waiting for?
C O N N E C T I O N :: Now that George and I are b C O N N E C T I O N :: Now that George and I are both focusing on our COLLECTIVE #cortisolbalance - both our relationship and our kids benefit from these changes: 

• no longer reactive (to each other/kids)
• more playful with the kids, no longer irritable 
• have the #mentalclarity to pause and let each other have a say
• more well-rested - due to resisting #sleeprevenge (guys, I actually WANT to sleep now!! WHAT!??) 
• less overwhelm by everyday stressors
• tackle to-dos faster, together - procrastination completely not our thing anymore

** And the best and most shocking of them all… I am no longer impulsive with needless, emotional-spending, and that alone is a 🎁 for George! 

So many men and women in our age group are struggling like we were, only a few months ago.

This healthy cortisol mocktail is a daily favorite, takes 30 seconds to make, and is filled with adaptogens and healthy ingredients!

Comment CORTISOL and I’ll send you what we’ve been using to get to the bottom of our cortisol issues. WITH a $10 discount + 10% savings. 

✨ follow me for more simple tips for cortisol, weight, sleep, and stress for mamas and our partners too!

✨ Make sure you are following me to get the DM!

P. S. my husband prioritizes my daily intake as much as his own because we both know - “Happy wifey, easier Lifey” 😂☺️
P A R T N E R S H I P :: Our live discussion with P A R T N E R S H I P :: Our live discussion with Graham Meckling, Author, Coach, Educator, Community builder - as he launches his amazing and groundbreaking Online community at @truedad.community.

With focus on building the foundation as a team/partnership/family even PRIOR to becoming one, and how it’s a complete Gamechanger when faced with the reality of parenting in the coming years. 

Be sure to share this with any new parents-to-be who might need this resource - a sibling, a friend, a coworker, a distant cousin who you only seem to know on IG - we all know someone who might feel a little lost as they navigate this new chapter in their lives. This is not your everyday community - so grab a spot and find the community you never really know you needed! 

Seasoned parents - Graham’s book “Babies Don’t talk” has wonderful insights that are just as applicable to any stage of parenting as it is for the new parent - so GRAB YOUR COPY! I did and George and I ate it right up!
Found her. • • And right behind this once #b Found her. 
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And right behind this once #burntout #Mama, finding her way back into her element again, sass-inclusive, are these #behindthescenes (behind the camera/desk/computer/headphones) MIRACLE WORKERS at @hausofowl. I have so much love for you guys. Thank you. 

@nikkye_music 
@hoelune 
@remy.is.remy 
@jakerfilms 

Not seen here but will pop up here and there as I catch them in action 🤞🏼 hint hint): @laaain_music @eric.thebald 

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And none of this would’ve even been a thang if it weren’t for the Video Podcast Grant Program with @telus @storyhive. Life changing is an understatement. Thank you @made.by.donny & @thereallindakee for encouraging your girl to take the plunge with @sassandsmalltalkpodcast 

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And the energy and gumption to keep me resilient, and in tip top shape to host my own show, and lead my own project - kudos to my girl @mommamillsblog who introduced me to the very #cortisoldrink I needed to amp up. And @caitoaks who also reminds me I got this. My gut and brain thank you both. #bestteamever

And my love, @gjavier5 - I’m doing this not just for me but for us and our little peeps. Thank you for leading the cheering squad and “assisting”
me when I need it most. Hope to make you guys proud. ❤️ 

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Moral of the story, in getting that dang SASS back: 
✨ Take Risks
✨ Get your gut health in check 🥤
✨ Find your peeps 
✨ Tell them how awesome they are

DM me, watch my stories, click on my bio links if you want in on any of this good stuff! 🥤 + 🎙️ + 💰📺

✨Be sure to give a little ❤️ to my 13 year old Smallie who helped me level up with this reel with her magic touch. #ASD #autism #thisishomeschool #homeschooler #mygirl #techgirl #daughter
I’m 1/2 a century, baby. #HappyBirthday to me, i I’m 1/2 a century, baby. #HappyBirthday to me, indeed.
#thisisme

And life just got a little sweeter. 

It’s not some secret recipe, or some overcomplicated skin regimen. 

It’s #faith
Motivation
The want
The humility to accept help
The unconditional love from family
Learning to say no to the wrong, and yes to the right. 

I took a chance on ME a few months ago, and since then, have seen a shift in myself.

I dreaded this #milestonebirthday for the last 10 years. I dreaded ESPECIALLY, being transparent to ANYONE… even my own kids. 

But it dawned on me. 

(With the help of my fellow #hypewoman gals that gave me the gentle nudge to OWN my age, not hide it) @sweetmamalifedaily  @nengineermom @mommamillsblog  @caitoaks  @lilkeez @iamharpsra  @rahannavu @mstiggity

Why hide it? 
What am I scared of? 

I DID IT!

I hit 1/2 a century, I survived 9 brutal pregnancy losses, and held one of them in my arms. I looked death in the eye, and through prayer and community - I came out of it alive and kicking. AND thriving.

It wasn’t my time. I still have work to do here. 

But even with these life altering moments in my life, I STILL:
• made bad health choices
• stretched myself to max capacity
• said YES to things that stifled my growth.
• said NO to hard things that meant growth
• lived in debilitating fear, daily
• allowed my #adhd to paralyze, not enhance my life
• had horrible boundaries… correction… I had no boundaries 

It took 50 years, (3 months ago, to be exact), but I found exactly what I needed: 
• A deeper connection with God
• Gratitude
• A go-to, easy #cortisol #drink that balances out those darn hormones, and targets my #Mentalwellness #HJ 
• Forgiveness and freedom from past hurts 
• An awesome studio to do my craft @haus.of.owl
• A killer program that funds said craft @Telus @storyhive 
• A loving approach #wifey, #specialneeds Mama & #caregiver Daughter
• Self Compassion
• And the GUMPTION to follow (FIX) my Gut. 

Thank you to those who remembered when I chose to forget, that turning 50 is a blessing, not a curse. 

DM me or comment 50 if you want in on this big secret.
✨ I N S I D E * O U T ✨ :: If you wanna see ho ✨ I N S I D E * O U T ✨ :: If you wanna see how HAPPY J blend has made a difference for me, and coincidentally - the family - take a look at our Behind the scenes of this year’s Inside Out FAM-O-WEEN —an honest, messy, and very real snapshot of our year. 2024 was a DOOZY. 

From frustration, to resistance, to acceptance, to finding Joy again (with a DAILY DOSE of HAPPY J and a whoooooole lotta Jesus) - each character felt like a reflection of this year’s whirlwind of emotions. It’s been a time of big decisions, finding our footing, embracing transitions, more sleepless nights,  a diagnosis we’ve been waiting a decade for, falls, accidents, sickness - the whole shebang of emotions. 

And then #anxiety reared its ugly head.  In full force. 

But, alongside family and close friends, Faith, and some yummy sips of a healthy supplement, carried us through. 

In a year that stretched us to our limits, this shoot felt like the perfect way to honour all the “inside out” moments we’ve faced. So here’s to the messy, the joyful, and even the challenging times that shape who we are. From deep #burnout and anxiety to discovering our faith and mental wellness, I’m stepping into the next chapter with a full heart and maybe a few more laughs (even if I’m a year older 😉).

Here’s to growth, gratitude, and whatever’s next. #FamOWeen2024 #InsideOutLife #EmotionalYear #insideout #FindingJoy #Milestonebirthday
#NewChapter #amare #happyblend #hj #happyjuice

Music - AndreaDatzman, 
BENJIxScarlett, TheeOnlyJanessahhh
E M O T I O N S :: #HAPPYHALLOWEEN #FAMOWEEN editi E M O T I O N S :: #HAPPYHALLOWEEN #FAMOWEEN edition! 

2024 has been quite the year of change for us all. Emotions have been all over the map!
• #Caregiving has been amped up with unexpected falls and hospital stays 
• Our little not so little teen is on her last year of Middle school #homeschool version - not so easy but hey, surviving. #Disgust
• Our little guy cut his once curly locks and became a little man overnight - no tears except a very #sad dad who suffered from FOMO #Anger
• George also cut his hair that was once down to his waist. He was ready to let go of the weight of the world literally on his shoulders.
• I got selected for a wonderful @TELUS @Storyhive project to do a broadcast version of my #podcast and got my Juju back #happytears
• and yes… I found the perfect match for me to deal with my very neglected #guthealth, and yes… it’s a Gamechanger that has been behind the true shift in my mental health, productivity, and my road to a better me. Hence, “Happy” #Joy. #happyjuice

All these emotions check out. #insideOut we have thrived and survived. 

Happy Halloween!
S N E A K * P E E K :: I’m so excited to share a S N E A K * P E E K :: I’m so excited to share a little sneak peek of @theoutpostboardgamecafe, our good friend’s soon-to-be-opened #boardgame café, right here in the #Westshore 🎲🎲. The ONLY ONE of its kind in THIS part of town!! 🎉🎉We’ve ALL been waiting for this… 

Mamas… I’m looking at you… 👀

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It’s been amazing watching this space come together - already such a fun vibe and a cozy spot to hang out, play some games, and connect with friends. And I already got my #gameschool curriculum ready to go for my #homeschooler (and her game lovin’ mama-teacher 🙋🏻‍♀️) to enjoy. And of course date nights with my guy and girls night with my ladies!! 

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They’re getting so close to opening, and I can’t wait for everyone to experience it in person!! 

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Be sure to SHARE THIS POST AND SPREAD THE WORD - #Grandopening is Nov 1st!! 🎗️✂️ Stay tuned for more updates—it’s going to be a game-changer! 😉 

#TheOutpostCafe #supportlocal #supportsmallbusiness #supportlocalbusiness #YYJ #vancouverisland #Victoria #langford #boredombuster #family
F E A R L E S S :: Becoming a mom changed me, and F E A R L E S S :: Becoming a mom changed me, and along the way, my confidence started to slip. The bold, carefree version of me was replaced by someone who worried about the little things—like making a simple left turn onto a highway (with nothing but a stop sign and a prayer).

For years, I avoided that turn. I’d ask trusted adults to drive my kid for these once a year field trips, while I anxiously waited for updates. Sometimes, if I couldn’t arrange a ride, I’d keep her home. No amount of spawning salmon is worth my sanity.

It sounds trivial to the average person, but that turn felt like a mountain I couldn’t climb - for 12 years!!! A really winding, single lane, high speed, intolerant and unforgiving mountain to climb.

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Enter my Happy Blend Morning supplement.

After a few weeks of working on my gut health and balancing hormones, including cortisol, I feel lighter—mentally and emotionally. The anxiety that used to grip me just… doesn’t anymore.

Something in me felt COMPELLED to make that turn. It was my actual, nurtured, gut telling me to not take the backroad out (which is 3 times the distance), and it felt like freedom. 

I’ve learned it’s not just about turning left on a highway; it’s about letting go of fear and no longer caring what others think. My people-pleasing feature was activated as I approached the turn - worrying about the driver behind me, but now, I prioritize what’s best for me and my loved ones. And what’s best for my loved ones is that they get the chance to enjoy an educational experience, without my anxious brain standing in the way.

I am mentally clear, more logical, and becoming resilient where stress once controlled me. I’m ME again, free from imbalanced hormones, and the fear of inconveniencing others.

If this resonates with you, drop “FEARLESS” in the comments, and I’ll share what I’ve been using to get here. You’re not alone. #MomLife
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