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Frosty The Snowman Gifts :: A Delivery by Frosty the Smallie

December 22, 2017 By Deb B. 12 Comments

Frosty the Smallie is up to her old Christmas delivery tricks again. Frosty the Snowman gifts! 

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Similar to that of years past, we happen upon a theme that evolves into a full blown plan, as the countdown to Christmas continues. Last year Tiny Rudolph made her Christmas deliveries. The year prior was our little Elf delivering Elf feet. And surprise surprise, her first year of deliveries, she was Mini Santa. This year, Frosty the Smallie – delivering Frosty the Snowman gifts.

As many of our readers know, our little family of three has been through the ringer – like many families. But by some crazy stroke of luck (and a whole lotta prayer), we’ve managed to come through the other side unscathed. Stronger even. Why? Because, with a little help from our friends, we get through the everyday, and not so everyday challenges life throws our way. So every Christmas, we want to extend our utmost gratitude to these very people with our little tradition of mini gift drops from Smallie. 

It’s become a ritual for us, and now that she’s in school full time, I was concerned that we wouldn’t be able to swing a whole day of deliveries. It took some careful planning, but we managed to squeeze in some Frosty the Snowman gift drop offs in between mandatory medical visits, so playing hooky didn’t even have to be an option. Most of our gifts are for our medical team anyway, so win win. 

Like all the other thematic deliveries of Christmases past, it evolved gradually. We started off with our gift wrap. 

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It’s been a year of out-of-pocket medical and fertility expenses for 2 members of our family, and our wallets have never felt so light. So we decided it made the most sense to work with what we had, instead of contributing to the 3.2 billion dollar gift wrap industry – at least this year anyway. Little Mama had a giant roll of White Ikea Mala Drawing Paper that cost all of $12.99 from years ago (and yes, it wrapped ALL of our gifts with plenty left over!). She also happened to have tons of black and red 1 inch Pom Poms and random pieces of self-adhesive sparkly foam (apparently, my wallet wasn’t as empty back then. <Insert my husband’s rolling eyes here>). I picked up a big roll of Red Sparkle Wired Ribbon from Michaels as well as No-Sew fabric Glue and got to work. 

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And out from nowhere came these easy peasy lemon squeezy Frosty the Snowman Gifts! It took no time, at all, and we both enjoyed every minute (or 45) of it. 

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We had some Brown recycled paper too, along with Super Fuzzy Green Pipe Cleaners and Self Adhesive Plastic Googly Eyes (my husband is still rolling his eyes at our barely utilized craft closet), so we threw in a handful of Rudolphs to balance things out. 

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I never realized how fun thematic Frosty the Snowman gifts (sprinkled with some Rudolph accents) would look under our sparkly tree. We had so much fun putting it together, I almost forgot there were actual presents under all the wrapping. 

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Up next, was our classroom Frosty the Snowman gifts. Kids go crazy for hot chocolate, don’t they? I bought 2 boxes of Nestle Coffee Crisp Hot Chocolate with individual sachets. I covered them with cut up envelopes (you can just use two pieces of card stock to cover each individual sachet), and threw on some glittery orange for the carrot nose, and some leftover Removable Black 1.5″ dot stickers for the eyes. 

Yes – I had some black foam on hand for the hat (I’m finding one should always have black foam sheets as an essential in their craft closet) and red self adhesive glitter foam for the accent. I picked up a couple sheets of Snowflake foam stickers for added effect. And threw all of that and a couple handfuls of Mini Marshmallows in a mini cellophane baggy. 

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If I could do it all over again, I would grab dots closer to 1/2″ as these little guys look less Frosty and more Owl-y. But they’re for a bunch of 6 year olds. They just want their hot cocoa – owl-y or otherwise. 

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For the folks we wanted to thank that aren’t necessarily in offices and would also enjoy a couple cups of hot cocoa – we decided to utilize flat clear plastic Ornament Discs and fill them with extra rich chocolate mix and more than a couple handfuls of mini marshmallows. Make sure to find ornaments that have wide enough openings for the marshmallows to come out. And don’t forget the adorable Kraft Paper Tags Gift Tags with Twine to finish it off. These guys were a hit!

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And now… for the grandpoppy of Frosty the Snowman gifts for office sharing. Frosty himself!

I’m by no means, a baker. I’m more of a melter, pourer, dipper, wait-er, and refridgerator-er. Meaning to say – this was the easiest thing ever, and if I can do it, so can the rest of the world. White chocolate pretzels. I got the very limited, no brainer steps here. And if you’re feeling extra fancy, try the white yoghurt chocolate pretzels. Either way, they’re easy, and delicious. If these fine folks don’t feel our love and gratitude with the delectable mix of savory and sweet – I know nothing. How yummy do these look right?

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I always had in mind how we wanted these presented. I was inspired by this adorable mason jar snowman gift. But since Smallie is handling these little guys, I wasn’t about to hand her a tray of heavy glass mason jars. So we got our hands on these awesome larger than life Plastic Ball Ornaments. Since they’re more on the pricier side, I only made these for our office, family, or group drop offs. This is definitely a shared gift. And a yummy one at that. 

To make things as uncomplicated and as thrifty as possible – I bought one sheet of glittery red felt for the scarf, a bag of small buttons as an added embellishment, and utilized our glitter foam sheets for the hat and glue that we had for our other Frosty The Snowman gifts. The hat was a simple round cut and one long piece to give the hat some height. We need this height to wrap the scarf around it. The jewel fabric glue was tricky on the plastic, but after I let it sit to dry, it was by far the best adhesive for this type of project. Like the hot cocoa gifts for Little Mama’s classmates above, the foam snowflakes were the final touch.

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My little elf did her part and filled each ball with a generous amount of treats, but only while fueled by a couple bites for herself. Don’t worry friends – her mommy’s a stickler for handwashing, so we’re all good in that department!

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And voila – Frosty the Snowman gifts! 

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Now it was time to get the outfit ready. I spent our weekend up on the ski hill knitting her red snowman scarf that later accidentally turned into a last minute infinity scarf. And yes, we had a plastic top hat from a magician party I was about to hold for her (that inadvertently turned into an Aladdin party) when she was four. And THIS is why I keep things JUST IN CASE (much to my husband’s chagrin). 

Side note: I do not knit. But when desperate times call for desperate measures…

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Here’s Frosty the Smallie in all her Frosty the Snowman gifts and delivery glory! All proud of her creation (with a little help from mommy). But mostly – she’s excited to see the faces of all the people she wanted to thank personally this Christmas. 

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And so it began. The police department, our dentist, our priest, our family doctor, her pediatrician, the lovely woman who helped us with our burial arrangements and grief, and of course, the miracle workers at the fertility clinic. After all, Smallie’s biggest wish to Santa is to finally have her baby sibling. We’ll have to see if one day that will come to be… 

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But the highlight for Smallie (and any 6 year old Frosty delivery kiddo for that matter) was her drop off at the firestation. Oh my goodness, these heros gave my little Frosty an experience she’ll never forget. They took out one of the trucks, let her sit in it and turn on the siren. Which scared the snow outta her, but that was soon forgotten when they sang and danced with her around the station. These aren’t just heros, they are amazing human beings. And they LOVED Frosty the Smallie’s surprise treat, and did they ever show her how much!

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Our day of drop offs can never end without my baby visiting ‘her’ babies. Every holiday (and at least once a month) we visit our angel babies who have taken up a lot of real estate at the Little Spirits Garden at the cemetary. During Christmas, Smallie likes to visit to show her bragging rights of all the good stuff going on in her life. This particular moment she wanted to show them her fabulous outfit and coordinating treats she brought around the city. She decided they weren’t hungry enough to want one for themselves, but “they sure were proud of their big sis”. Ugh. That’s enough to break my heart in two, but I am so in love with the kind of love she has for her siblings gone too soon. They sure inspire us to be better people. 

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We wish all of our friends, readers, and visitors the most amazing Christmas and blessed new years! Frosty the Smallie is so thrilled you stopped by for some Frosty inspo. 

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As I write this, Smallie is handing her treats to her teachers and support staff at her school as a thank you for giving her the best gift of all – knowledge :).
 
Be sure to take some time to be good to you, and love on those awesome people around you that give you a reason to smile this beautiful holiday!
 
Christmas blessings to you and the Mini Frosties in your life!

Deb B. www.sassandsmalls.com

 

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Filed Under: posh play, Sass & Smalls gets real, the everyday Tagged With: chocolate pretzels, fireman, Frosty the snowman, gift giving, gift ideas, gifts, holiday, hot chocolate, marshmallows, Police, pretzels, teacher, treats, white chocolate

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Ithfifi says

    December 23, 2017 at 12:31 pm

    This is such a festive and lovrly post, I love the creations you made together, I would never have thought of these ideas but they have turned out great! Merry Christmas!
    Reply
  2. Kristiana Wajnblom says

    December 23, 2017 at 3:40 pm

    This is a really cute craft and way to cutesy up wrapping paper without spending a ton on the expensive, flashy paper. I love the snowman theme’d gifts for the classmates and others that you all handed out, so fun! Many prayers to you and your family. My husband and I lost our first pregnancy this year and it was absolutely devastating. This time of year seems bitter sweet because of what could have been, but we are so very thankful for the beautiful life we’ve been blessed with. Merry Christmas!
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  3. Indu says

    December 24, 2017 at 8:38 am

    Merry Christmas my friend. I am sure you are having wonderful celebrations. Pic of adorable child in festive mood is illuminating your post.
    Reply
  4. Melanie says

    December 24, 2017 at 12:02 pm

    These are really super cute ideas. I love the idea of crafting and then gifting what you have made shows real thought. The baubles look lovely. Merry Christmas x
    Reply
  5. Megan says

    December 24, 2017 at 12:26 pm

    Wow, these are such beautiful creations. The snowman theme is just too damn adorable!
    Reply
  6. Stephanie Jeannot says

    December 26, 2017 at 8:05 am

    These are the cutest and most creative ideas I have seen yet. How sweet to get creative and put your whole heart into making the perfect gift for your loved ones.
    Reply
  7. Helene says

    December 27, 2017 at 3:04 am

    Wow i really loved this concept… its reall nice i can feel the smiles and happiness sitting right over here..
    Lovely post i just loved it … the deco of the gifts too is just Perfect!
    Reply
  8. Ra'Nesha says

    December 29, 2017 at 6:06 am

    Simple, but awesome idea and a great way to squeeze in some craft time get the creative.
    Reply
  9. Tiffany Yong says

    December 29, 2017 at 10:02 am

    I love how you make these gifts with your kid. It’s so beautiful and way cooler than the usual gift wrap! Christmas is over but I’m definitely keeping this in mind next time!
    Reply
  10. Thena Franssen says

    December 30, 2017 at 6:51 am

    Adorable, lovely and thoughtful! Love it, thank you for sharing!!!!
    Reply
  11. Ellie Plummer says

    December 30, 2017 at 3:25 pm

    These gifts are so adorable. I love how thoughtful these are!
    Reply
  12. Ana Vukosavljevic says

    January 5, 2018 at 5:31 pm

    Woow! This was so inspiring. It’s so beautiful that you are making them with your daughter and gifting them. At the end of the day, that’s what Christmas is about and I love how you teach your daughter that you should give more than you should ask for. And the most beautiful part is making it and not just buying it to gift it. Amazing!
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… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

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Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

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It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
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And for 11 years since, I lost a little bit of me. 

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All of them. 

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Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Beauty @glowjar_  says “LESS IS MORE” with skincare.

Meanwhile, I’m over here… overscrubbing, overthinking, and sometimes… skipping it altogether. 🙈 (shhhh... don’t tell my husband, OR my friends, OR my followers, omg please don’t tell my mom).

Turns out, good #skincare isn’t about burning your face off with 12 products that smell like a tropical fruit basket. It’s about being gentle — even if you’re a chaotic face washer like me.

Watch me get called out (lovingly) in Episode 3 (https://youtu.be/gAg0RXoGiAg) of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Talk, now streaming on ‪@TELUS‬ OptikTV and ‪@storyhive‬ 

Find the link on my BIO or in my stories. 

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When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your village takes over and plans ahead for you. 

Enter, days worth of #waffles and #pancakes for your sweet-breakfast-obsessed family. All so I can focus on working on season 2 of my show @sassandsmalltalkpodcast @Telus @storyhive now in production, whilst #caregiving the parents full time and no summer camps for the kiddos in sight. Let’s just say 24 hours in a day isn’t quite enough… 😴 is kinda out the window too. 

Thank you @caarly.xo for knowing I’m in the season, and just doing what you do… as always. 

Now please go back to your family of 6 😲, because they are probably tired of sharing you with us after all these MONTHS… LOVE you, and THANK you for all you’ve done for our family. 

The waffles were just the delish icing on the cake. There was muuuuuuch much more you supported us with while across the country as we focused on family, and we are grateful to you…  thank you. 

#ittakesavillage #sassandsmalltalk #telus #storyhive
Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #caregiver #s Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️
#caregiver #seekingvalidation #daughterofimmigrants #proudgrandparents

J/K… she was proud (I think). 
And she actually read it (I think)… 🤔🤔

Grab a copy @islandparent on local stands or check out the link on IG stories and in my BIO. 

And read the article @mommamillsblog, my girl, Natasha wrote on the true meaning of wealth in parenthood. 

Lots of gems!
#islandparentmagazine #parenting #homeschool #mentalhealth #mentalwellness 

Do you still find yourself seeking your #elderly parents approval even as a parent yourself?
Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉 When you’re a par Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉

When you’re a parent, caregiver, and running your own show on zero sleep… “sneaking out” mid-day with that cutie (who kinda resembles your spouse 🤷🏻‍♀️ ) for YUUUUUMMMY local @drumroaster #specialitycoffee, is basically the best (and only) date you’ll get. 

And honestly? We’ll take it. ✨

Talk “latte” to me. 💛 

*Tho that Canadian Macchiato ☕️ was next level…* Jus’ sayin’

Catch the @aerobicgeisha.coffee #mobilecoffee #cartonwheels #PopUp 🚲 at @westshoretowncentre — now ‘til Sept 3 (closed Mondays). 

#SupportLocal #ParentDateVibes #BurnoutFuel #CoffeeDate #hubbahubba #coffeeismylovelanguage #westshoretowncentre #aerobicgeisha #geishacoffee #aerobicgeishacoffee
**He had NO idea what he got himself into when he **He had NO idea what he got himself into when he answered that phone call from the crazy big(ish) city girl.**⁣
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Yes… I made the first move.⁣
And yes… I called him on an actual telephone. With a rotary dial. Connected to a wall.⁣ ☎️⁣
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That was 26 years ago.⁣
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10 years later (16 years ago today), he asked me to meet him at the end of the aisle and make it official 🤵🏻👰🏻—which we did, surrounded by everyone we love, and then danced the night away at the bottom of the Seinfeld steps.⁣
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Thank you for doing life with me, George @gjavier5. You’ve always been (and always will be) my #1 go-to for all things Cobra Kai 🐍, the best fellow imperfect-perfect parent to those little humans who look suspiciously like you 👧🏻👦🏻—and of course, co-parent to our two stinky OG furry kids 🦮🐕‍🦺.⁣ Thanks for being the yin to my “extra”🤪. And I’m the yang to your “chill” 😎
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Now stop scrolling and go kill that spider in the living room… or I might have to tell the world who really watches The Bachelor between the two of us 👀🌹
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I love you!! (And no… this is not just a clever way to get you to finally agree that the TV we bought the year we got married is long overdue for retirement 📺🫠)⁣ 😉 
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D&G, finally.
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#16YearsMarried #26YearsTogether #dgfinally #atlast #happyanniversary
Meet Emily. She coped by staying busy. Corporate Meet Emily. 

She coped by staying busy.
Corporate life. 
#Sidehustles. 
Always moving.
Until #burnout stopped her cold.

When Emily Bowman  @emlambow @nevaehjade.beautywellness, at the tender age of 12, began the life of a heartbreaking reality of #caregiving for a loved one, and eventually losing her father after a decade long battle with cancer, she pushed through the pain the only way she knew how — by working harder. 

But #grief always finds a way to surface.

#Fitness became her lifeline.
Now it’s not just her outlet — it’s her saving grace... and her business.

So grateful for @Telus @storyhive  for the platform to share such profound stories on #burnout and reclaiming joy as parents. 

🔥 Watch the full conversation in Episode 2 – live now on #Youtube - Link in BIO and IG Stories! Watch now for amazing INSPO, and please subscribe and support a sis! 🙋🏻‍♀️ (PSSST… “YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls”)
✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out ✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out “talks too much” is a transferable skill. 😉)

Couldn’t resist flipping through the online Summer issue of @islandparent (still chasing down a copy ON PRINT — OMW, #YYJ friends, pls save me one 🙏🙏!!)

Somehow, between #caregiving worries stretching from the West Coast to the Midwest, an unexpected emergency trip with the kids, and a 25-hour boat/train/plane journey (regrets: zero, snack supply: questionable 🙃), I managed to turn the chaos into a story — and landed my first article in one of our Van Island parenting mags.

Even better? I sat down for a feature interview about @sassandsmalltalkpodcast, sharing why these conversations matter, how the show makes space for parents stretched too thin, and why reclaiming joy beyond burnout is actually possible. #SeasonOne is now streaming on @telus @storyhive 🎙️.

A Massive THANK YOU to Stacie Gaetz @islandparent for an energizing interview that made me sound far cooler than I am, and to the whole editorial team for trusting me to bring my slightly unhinged, real-talk parenting chaos to your pages.

Here’s to finding joy in the mess, adventure in the unexpected, and a whole lotta #HappyJ in my carry-on…

📖 Grab a copy, flip to my pages, check out all the amazing contributing writers, and come hang out on the pod!

Also peep appearances from 2 of my 8 incredible guests: @truedad.community, @sarjo08, @toastibeautycollection — and the ridiculously talented @sarah_booth_photography, whose cover shot steals the show.

Non-islanders - the online copy is avail at islandparent.ca. Link on my bio 😉

#SassAndSmallTalk #SandwichGeneration #IslandParent #Storyhive #TelusOriginals #CaregiverLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FilipinoMoms #RealTalkForParents #ChaosAndJoy #ContributingWriter #Storytelling
I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to our father-in-law — who we’d been caregiving for these last couple months in their home on the other side of the country 💔 It’s been a heavy time, so I haven’t been online. 

But I wanted to quickly share that George and I have been keeping up with our daily dose of #HJ, and between that, and prayer, our amazing village both here and at home, and the support of family - our #stressresilience to handle the most challenging time in our lives was nothing short of a miracle. 

Running on virtually no sleep, the constant worry, lack of control, we needed all we could get to show up for the ones we love especially these last couple months. 

I am now a couple weeks into the #Rootist Densify Hair Line (and only a few days since recording this vid), after just a few washes with the Rootist Densify Shampoo + Conditioner (plus the Densifying Serum), I’m already feeling a shift. ✨ Thicker, fuller hair is the goal — and even in the midst of #grief and #caregiving, it’s nice to feel one small thing going right.

If you’re curious, today’s the day to grab it (July 2nd, 2025) —
🛍️ Shampoo + Conditioner are on sale
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But the 25% off on shampoo and conditioner ends TONIGHT (July 2nd - 1159pm PST) — so don’t wait! 🌿💚

Grab your Shampoo and Conditioner here: 
https://www.amare.com/et/sh43va/1946022

Promo code: Rootist25

DM me, or click the link for the full video on my profile.

#RootistHairCare #ScalpHealth #CaregiverLife #MicrobiomeSupport #CanadaDaySale #Review
S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is your comeback. 💥 SEASON 1 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast is now #bingeable on @TELUS #OptikTV & @StoryHive #YouTube! 8 back-to-back episodes of real talk about #parenting, #caregiving, and life’s beautiful chaos. Hit that link in bio and #getthatsassback. 🎙️✨ #JoyUnlocked #ParenthoodUnfiltered
M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday boy of mine has been such a trooper — the youngest and smallest member of our #sandwichgeneration family. For the third time in his 7 years of birthdays, his special day was quietly placed on hold as we navigated some heavy family matters. 

That meant: 
• no class party
• no birthday play date
• no jumping on trampolines
• no big plan, not even a little one 

… and not one single complaint from this compassionate little guy.

He’s simply grateful to be where he’s needed most — with family. 

To his (and our) surprise, his incredible teacher sent us this beautiful video of his classmates from far away, singing him #HappyBirthday, and the emotion it stirred in our family was something we’ll never forget. It was the very medicine our hearts needed right about now.

I may or may not have shed a tear or two… thousand.

And as for the #birthdayboy?

Well — it’s written all over his sweet face.

#thegiftthatkeepsongiving #itsthelittlethings #ittakesavillage #caregiving #bestgiftever #lovewins #realparentingmoments #sandwichgenerationlife
G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a little while ago… but life had other plans. 💔

It’s been a challenging month — on top of caregiving, moving homes, and homeschooling, we’ve been navigating some heavy family stuff. So I stepped back to focus on what matters most. 💗

That said… I’m slowly finding my way back.

And while it might seem small, leaning into this lighthearted moment — unboxing the full #Rootist kit, the #HJ for scalp — feels like a tiny act of #respite I really need right now. 

I’ve been working on my #guthealth with #Amare, and now I’m turning my attention to my #scalp #microbiome — because healing starts from the inside out… but the outside could use a little love too. 💆🏻‍♀️✨

Here’s to strong, luscious hair (maybe even retiring the ol’ #mombun? We’ll see 😅) and giving myself a moment to feel good again. 💚
#ScalpMicrobiome #GutBrainaxis #MomLifeRecovery #momlifebelike
🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥 We’re closing out 🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥

We’re closing out Season 1 of “Sass & Small Talk” with serious depth, healing, and one heck of a magical mic-drop moment. ✨

In this powerful finale #onthepod, I sit down with @scarletjaxen — a Victoria-based #author, counsellor, and storyteller with years of experience in clinical social work. She brings together sharp intellect and soul-deep wisdom to help us explore #burnout and intuition, through the power of #multisensory storytelling.

Scarlet believes change is possible, healing is available, and that WHO we ARE can evolve—when we’re ready to take the risk to live with intention, while trusting our own instincts.

She takes #trustyourgut to a whole new level.

For every #caregiver, #mama, and recovering #overachiever... this one’s for you.

🎥 NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+

📅 Coming May 27 to @storyhive + @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube + all podcast platforms.

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #womensempowerment
B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds be B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds beauty brands by day and dominates video games by night 🎮💅 

Meet Sara Jonsson @sarjo08 #mama (human & furry), #wifey, #caregiver, #entrepreneur, and low-key savage when gaming with her son 😂. 

As the go-to support for her parents through some tough health-related seasons, Sara’s #familyfirst mindset fuels everything she does—including the business she built from love. 

In Episode 7, we get real about #caregiverburnout, while running multi businesses with heart, and finding joy in the chaos. 

…and,

HOW. THE. HECK. SHE. DOES. IT. ALL. 

NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+ 

Will be available on @storyhive and @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube and all podcast platforms on May 27th. 

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #bossladyvibes @toastibeautycollection
SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes gli SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes glimpse of what feels like the beginning of a powerful shift in #womenshealth right here in #Victoria.

To stand alongside such empowered women — #caregivers, #changemakers, survivors, women from all walks of life — in the very place where the hands and hearts of this hospital held me and my family together (in more ways than one)… it was overwhelming in the best way.

Even more so, to share it with my daughter, my fiercest little survivor. Both of our stories of survival are woven into these hospital walls.

This was more than just a shoot. This was change taking place in real time. Honoured to be a tiny part of this moment as it unfolds.

Thank you for bringing this to life @ourvichospitals @averybrohman @gaellevanerp 💛
✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.co ✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.cochrane.realtor, you and your kiddos are what our world needs more of! And grateful to our dear friend @oliviabozovic who made the connection! SMALL 🌍 BIG 🩷♥️💙! Adore you both!! 

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To the kind dad at the @royalbaycolwood Easter Egg Hunt this past Saturday—

You probably didn’t realize how much you and your kids impacted our day.

My son had just missed the first few minutes of the egg hunt (as usual, this mama was running late with a million things on her plate—homeschooling, caregiving, promoting a show, working from home, managing the home, advocating, feeding the young and old, managing moods... the usual chaos).

He stood in line for the balloon dome and said quietly, trying , “I got zero eggs, mama.”

You heard him. Your son, who seemed a bit overwhelmed himself covering his ears from all the noise, and your little girl, reached into their own baskets and filled my son’s bag.

I watched as kindness bloomed in real time.

You didn’t just hand out chocolate—you gave my son the gift of feeling seen and included. You taught your kids what generosity really looks like.

And for this tired, always-late, sandwich-gen special-needs mom—your gesture meant more than you’ll ever know.

If anyone in the Westshore community knows this lovely family (dad of Grayson?), please tag them or send them our thanks.

This is what #community looks like. 🐣💛

#SandwichGeneration #GlassChild #NeurodivergentMom #MomGuilt #CommunityLove #WestshoreBC #VictoriaMoms #RoyalBayColwood #RealEasterMagic #SmallKindnessBigImpact
She podcasts. She parents. She’s got a 🌶️ She podcasts. 
She parents. 
She’s got a 🌶️ 🧠.
She’s fresh outta burnout mode.
She sips #HappyJ.
And now, with🎙️in hand… she’s streaming on @TELUS @STORYHIVE (because even #actionfigures need a l’il 📺 airtime).

Hey, I’m Deb B., host of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast — a podcast turned video series where we get real about #parenting and #caregiver #burnout, and find joy in the messy middle.

Fueled by my go-to fix-the-gut-fix-the-burnout potion🥤, a l’il bit of tears, and a whole lotta sass, this season brings on the reality of living in the #burnout generation, with guests who will leave you asking yourself “where have they been all my life?”

Because we are DONE glorifying busy.
We’re saying YES to rest.
And HEEEECK YES to finding our joy once again. #INeedMySassBack

Catch the Pod Edition now on TELUS OptikTV Ch 9, Stream+, and on #Storyhive YouTube (Search Storyhive Sass Small Talk) Link on my bio for Episodes 1 & 2.

🦉 Sexy Studio. ✔️ I 👀 @haus.of.owl 
🛋️ Cozy couch. ✔️
🎙️ Good convo. ✔️
🥹 Big feelings. ✔️
🤩 And even bigger lashes. ✔️✔️✔️

LET’S TALK. 

Oh and PS - wanna know how to get your action figure #animated? Follow me, write “SASS”, and let me know what your action figure would be in the comments below and I’ll hook you up. 

#SassAndSmalls #TelusStoryhive #HappyJEnergy #GoodbyeBurnout #SmallTalkBigFeels #actionfigure #barbie #AI #Amare #happyblend #cortisol
When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑 In When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑

In Episode 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast “Reclaiming Joy of #Parenthood Beyond Burnout”, I take on the ultimate #challenge:
Fitting fitness into my already chaotic #caregiving, #homeschooling, always behind the wheel, #neurodivergent navigating, mom-life schedule. 🧠🎢💪

Add to the mix, a busy 🧠 that thrives on chaos and fun? Why not #gamify? Moms- let’s do the #TriggerWordChallenge!! Every time your kids say (aka “demand”, I mean c’mon now…) “MOM!”, do a squat! In the kitchen, while cleaning, cooking, folding laundry. Just don’t do it driving! #safetyfirst

For this episode, Every time *I* said the word “lash” — yep, I squat. 😅

Joining me is none other than Victoria’s go-to #LashLady, who most would call a client-proclaimed “lash-a-pist” and certified #fitness coach, Emily Bowman @nevaehjade.beautywellness, who’s here to talk #burnout, #beauty, and #body movement. And I’m here to try and master the world’s most chaotic squat routine. 🙃

Side note: Psssst… your girl hasn’t done a squat since before the Pandy of 2020 so this may be nbd to the average person, but it’s quite literally a miracle ⛪️ for 🙋🏻‍♀️. #whateverworks #amIright?

Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two…  on the full episode 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, @storyhive YouTube

Comment “Squat” if you want the full episode link on @storyhive‘s YouTube. But it’s even more fun on TV, so try that first! We sure are…

#SassAndSmallTalk #SquatGoals #BurnoutAndBootyGains #bunsofsteel #LashLadyTakesOver #NeurodivergentMomLife #CaregiverFitness #SquatWhileYouCan #HomeschoolChaos #MomLifeUnfiltered #VictoriaBC #StoryHive #ReclaimYourJoy #JLoGotNothingOnMe
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