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Alivia Simone Bristol Wool Dress :: A Darling Look for the Dreary Weather #Review #Giveaway

November 19, 2015 By Deb B. 37 Comments

Living on an island, the weather is all over the place. Yesterday, it was remarkably sunny and beautiful. The day before, there was a 90% chance of drizzle, with a 10% chance of everything else. Today – it’s just cold. But not quite cold enough to throw on our puffy jackets. Darn it. We love our puffy jackets.

In any event, Little Mama and I decided to spend some good ol’ fashioned one-on-one time together. Unlike most days of rushing around doing drop offs and pick ups, appointments here and playdates there – today, was one of those rare occasions where we had the flexibility to sit back, hold hands, and enjoy a good sesh of people watching over a cup of yummy hot chocolate. Side note: Big Mama likes to throw in a couple counting and alphabet exercises in between hot cocoa sips – but it’s so brilliantly subtle, she doesn’t even notice she’s actually learning something.

Back to my date with my mini-me. Days like this, we both agree, it’s best to put on our ladies-who-lunch winter wear. It’s not cute to be shivering in the corner of a quaint cafe, sporting a short sleeve with capris, wishing we brought our blankets and ear muffs. But it sure is faboosh to throw on our most luxurious plaid wool dress, and some fun accessories to match.

And faboosh, are we.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

We love to stay warm and cozy, even at the risk of the sun peeking out (that’s what layers are for, right?). Big Mama always has an extra set of play clothes in the car, so we’re prepared for any extreme weather shift. But today, we knew it was going to be a special day. We made a firm decision to take a break from our typical itinerary of finger painting and jumping in mud puddles, essentially committing to a luxurious day of cozy wool and all around fabulousness.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

We are in love with the Bristol Wool Dress from our friends at Alivia Simone. Like all of their designs, this piece boasts of a contemporary silhouette made only of the best quality wool mix, splashed with a warm and inviting color palette – keeping in trend, flirting with classic sophistication, but ultimately saturated with youthful play.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

We are especially thrilled that it comes with front welt pockets, where Little Mama can hide some of her most beloved treasures. This comes in handy as she reveals the rocks she discovered along the way from the car to the cafe, which she conveniently stores in her super cool pockets. It also keeps her little hands warm as we brave the crisp weather, bearing a striking resemblance to Big Daddy (who coincidentally, cannot live without pockets).

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

And how chic are these faux leather accents? We patted our backs with the flawless pairing of pleather accent tuxedo leggings. It was a match made in microfashion heaven.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

The USA manufactured Bristol Wool Dress is made comfortable and functional. We love the texture and overall feel of this design – lightweight and soft to the touch. With a little lady who is extra sensitive to virtually anything that touches her skin, comfort and a delicate lining is very important to us. But aside from how practical and comfortable it is – let’s face it… this dress is beautiful.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Alivia Simone‘s mission is simple, “create beautiful clothes for beautiful souls.” And nothing is more beautiful than witnessing your little one owning the moment, and feeling every bit themselves in something so lovely, just as they would feel in their jammies curled up to one of their favorite bed time books.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Why does your little one need a luxury piece like the Bristol Wool dress for the winter? 4 reasons:

  1. It feels warm, but looks oh so cool – Like I said – the alternative is a puffy jacket. But as much as we love being swaddled by a soft layer of goose feathers, we can’t be sporting the Michelin Man look all day while sitting in a quaint cafe sipping on steamed milk, can we?
  2. For spontaneous mommy (daddy) and me dates – I think it’s safe to assume, that most of our kiddos have drawers filled with everyday play wear. They need at least one piece that sticks out of the cottons. Occasions like a special date with their favorite grown up calls for a versatile piece that makes them feel comfy and fab.
  3. In some places, they will get at least half a year’s worth of wear out of it – Sure, this isn’t something Little Mama would be breaking out in the scorching heat we suffer through enjoy throughout the summer months, but I am almost 100% certain we can find 8 different ways to wear this dress for 8 different winter events (a later post on that coming soon), and…
  4. It’s ridiculously adorable – I mean – seriously…

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

So what are your thoughts on us sharing some of this love with you?! “I WOOLY think so”, says Little Mama!

Together, with our friends at Alivia Simone, we are offering one of our lucky readers a chance to win their very own Bristol Wool Dress for the little lady in their lives!

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Enter to win a gorgeous Alivia Simone Bristol Wool Dress from the Fall/Winter 2015 Collection! Simply fill out the form below. For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

Contest closes Friday, December 4th  – at 11:59PM PST! The winner will be revealed Monday, December 7th , 2015! If you have an Instagram account, check us out at @babystylista for more ways to enter (Bonus points!).

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Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Accessories :: Joe Fresh Felt Floppy hat (similar OLD ENGLAND Brown Wool Hat here)  |  Tortoise oversized sunglasses (similar Crazy 8 Tortoise Sunglasses here)  |  H&M Fringe Purse (similar Ralph Lauren Fringed Leather Cross-Body Bag here)  |  Dress :: Alivia Simone Bristol Wool Dress  |  Top :: Hot Chillys Kids Peachskin Turtleneck  |  Bottom :: Girls’ Faux Leather Tuxedo Stripe Leggings  |  Footwear :: Eddie Marc Black Boots (similar GEOX Ankle boots here)

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What are your little one’s fall/winter essentials that keep them warm and feeling fab?

It’s cool to stay warm… 

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Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

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Comments

  1. Anne Taylor says

    November 19, 2015 at 9:23 am

    One of my granddaughters has a super soft and cushy scarf and glove set that she just loves
    Reply
  2. manda says

    November 19, 2015 at 12:05 pm

    Comfy jacket.
    Reply
  3. Little Miss Kate says

    November 19, 2015 at 12:33 pm

    I love the pockets on the dress, it is just too cute!
    My DS is all about the hoodies this fall.
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  4. Brandee H says

    November 19, 2015 at 1:00 pm

    My little one loves hats!! And is way too picky about his shoes!
    Reply
  5. Shoshana says

    November 19, 2015 at 1:12 pm

    My daughters love their cozy hats and mittins!
    Reply
  6. Suzanne G says

    November 19, 2015 at 2:25 pm

    My granddaughter has cute boots and a great parka that help keep her warm and looking styling in the winter.
    Reply
  7. Lindsay says

    November 19, 2015 at 3:19 pm

    My daughter is only 4 months old, so she’s in pajamas and PADRAIGS! Padraig slippers are her wardrobe staple.
    Reply
  8. Bailey Dexter says

    November 19, 2015 at 5:05 pm

    Well if you asked her she would say it’s her purse! But I know she loves the plaid dress coat.
    Reply
  9. Merry120 says

    November 19, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    Do they make this in big sizes? Because I think I would ROCK it. She is so cute (just like her mama).
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  10. Ladena says

    November 19, 2015 at 9:21 pm

    That dress is GORGEOUS! Wow. I want one in my size! Your little mama wears it well. I love the big hat and sunglasses. It really completes the look!
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  11. Caroline M. says

    November 19, 2015 at 10:51 pm

    My daughter has beautiful lined jeans that keep her warm & cute.
    Reply
  12. Aeryn Lynne says

    November 20, 2015 at 8:54 am

    LOVING Little Mama’s fashion sense, that dress is gorgeous WOW!

    For my nephew, right now all I can think are gloves for an essential, since he somehow left his behind for school, doh. *facepalm* Thinking on it, he definitely needs a new pair of killer boots as well, lol.
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  13. Randa @ TBK says

    November 20, 2015 at 9:11 am

    I love this look! Perfect for winter 🙂 Such a stylist icon 🙂
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  14. Elizabeth L says

    November 20, 2015 at 10:41 pm

    Both my girls are definitely into their cute hat and mitten sets! LOVE this dress, it’s amazing!
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  15. Doris H says

    November 21, 2015 at 5:40 pm

    Scarf, hat, gloves
    Reply
  16. Holly MacRitchie says

    November 21, 2015 at 5:45 pm

    My niece loves to wear leg warmers!
    Reply
  17. Melanie Morin says

    November 21, 2015 at 7:40 pm

    Since we live in so cal just a warm jacket is usually enough in the winter
    Reply
  18. Elizabeth Matthiesen says

    November 22, 2015 at 1:57 pm

    here the most important thing is warm winter boots, mitts, scarf, hat and jacket!
    Reply
  19. Laurie P says

    November 22, 2015 at 4:30 pm

    Some warm stylish boots are a must! My girl is fascinated with footwear!
    Reply
  20. Cheryl says

    November 22, 2015 at 4:38 pm

    For our girls they just love scarves and short boots!! 🙂
    Reply
  21. Crystal Porter says

    November 22, 2015 at 6:21 pm

    Scarf, hat and mittens. A nice sweater is great too.
    Reply
  22. Tammy says

    November 23, 2015 at 8:49 am

    a pair of fleece lined Tights!
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  23. Jenny Major says

    November 26, 2015 at 7:25 pm

    Scarf, hat and mittens.
    Reply
  24. ivy pluchinsky says

    November 26, 2015 at 8:41 pm

    my niece stays warm with warm boots and sweaters
    Reply
  25. Viv Sluys says

    November 27, 2015 at 5:54 am

    Lately my 3 year old has been all about her pink velour sweatpants and her pink long sleeve turtle neck (the turtle neck is pretty low as far as they go). My 5 year old is all about layering tights/leggings with shorts. My 7 year old tends to layer her tops more than the bottoms but she is more about comfort than style in these cold months!
    Reply
  26. nicolthepickle says

    November 27, 2015 at 11:18 am

    My kids wear lots of leggings with “dancy” dresses over top.

    I love her style. It’s perfect.

    Reply
  27. Gillian Morgan says

    November 27, 2015 at 2:12 pm

    Sophie has got to have a nice hat and a scarf and mittens that match. She also has to have her UGGs and her pink coat.
    Reply
    • Bonnie Way says

      November 28, 2015 at 3:27 pm

      What an adorable dress! Right now my girls are all about their hats. 🙂
      Reply
  28. Tricia Hope says

    November 28, 2015 at 11:44 pm

    Last Christmas I came arms loaded with gifts and books for my grand daughter.I also got her a few cute outfits for which she abandoned her toys to try on.I got her the cutest pink fuzzy vest that her Mom curses me for I’m sure everyday.It is all she ever wants to wear.
    Reply
  29. Deborah Mullan says

    December 3, 2015 at 1:25 pm

    Annabelle needs this dress!
    Reply
  30. Jennifer Estaris says

    December 3, 2015 at 1:30 pm

    Gorgeous wool dress! We have a pretty Oilily coat that’s themed to Alice in Wonderland that I cannot wait for my 2 year old to use when it gets colder.
    Reply
  31. Melanie says

    December 3, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    My little one loves her patent leather boots for Fall/Winter. Sorels for this girl? No way!
    Reply
  32. Jacqueline Ngo says

    December 3, 2015 at 9:47 pm

    My lil one loves to keep warm with my infinity scarfs and tall boots and white knitted gloves! She likes scarves because she wants to be like her mommy and thinks it’s hilarious so I always am happy to share my stuff with her! She also always have to have her sunglasses too because it’s “sunny outside!” Haha. She’s so practical!
    Reply
  33. Katie says

    December 4, 2015 at 6:38 am

    Socks and boots are a must to keep my little ones toes warm. But this dress! I must win! 👍😄 thank u
    Reply
  34. Kitty says

    December 4, 2015 at 5:18 pm

    A cute sweater with a matching pair of gloves and a hat!
    Reply
  35. Megan says

    December 4, 2015 at 5:49 pm

    My girls live in their Peekaboo beans “frozen” jackets with faux fur , knit headbands and emu boots & no name rubber boots with hunter boot socks when not playing in the snow 🙂
    Reply
  36. Sarah at Journeys of The Zoo says

    December 7, 2015 at 6:29 pm

    Your beautiful girl is growing up so quickly! Time flies when you’re having fun. Thinking of you.

    Besos, Sarah
    Journeys of The Zoo
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• Sniffly kiddos every few weeks 
• nothing crossed off her to-do list
• hundreds of unanswered texts/emails
• and a #mentalload sometimes too overwhelming to carry 

But unlike all the other gloomy seasons I’ve experienced this tough season, I have never felt such peace. 

WHY: 

• I have been walking through my #faithjourney with George and it’s been giving me a different outlook on everything life has thrown our way. My sistas in faith have kept us afloat this tough season @esther.driver @caarly.xo @lishgarv @nicoleacaldwell 

• I have been intentional on fixing my #guthealth, #cortisollevels, and #cognitivefunction with my daily #HJ #happy blend drink, and it has done wonders to my #mentalwellness  and overall health. <DM me for more info on this game changer drink>.

• I’ve been learning to just live in the moment and not be so caught up with doing EVERYTHING all at once. 

• I’m surrounding myself (albeit virtually and in spirit) with some of my chosen fam who probably get the most neglect of all, but still give me grace while I clumsily navigate this crazy season @nengineermom @rahannavu  @iamharpsra 
@m_stiggity 
@jenny_p1987  @westislanddesigns @kkayjudas @teacuphuman09 @i_am_miss_jen @swanny80 @trishita_namagita 

• Even though my business relies heavily on my #online presence, I’m giving myself grace for fully immersing myself in the needs of my family this last month I’ve been MIA. I know I can pick up where I left off, and lean on my mentors & biz sistas to pull me out of the seasonal funk @caitoaks @mommamillsblog, @happybalancemama @sweetmamalifedaily, and get back on track. 

Busy, overwhelmed mama… I see you. This is just a season. Do what you need to do, especially for you and your loved ones. Everything will still be there ready for you to “tackle” when you’re ready. 

And what losing two loved ones these last couple weeks has taught me - we’re only here temporarily. Spend your time earthside doing what you love, and loving who you love. @gjavier5 ❤️
No amount of “juice” can lessen the exposure t No amount of “juice” can lessen the exposure to elementary school winter bugs, but it sure came in handy when we need it IN & OUT of our household. 

Especially since I have elderly under my care. 

It skipped George and I entirely - but it definitely hit our two little ones, as bugs do. 

After a nice, tall glass of kid’s #HJ (mixed with some mango edge+ for my bigger and pickier smallie) - along with a nice snuggly nap - the symptoms were way less vicious than previous colds, and gone by the time I blended them their dose the next morning. 

It’s not some miracle drink with empty promises - it’s just ALL the good stuff in a glass. 

DM me if you want a sip for yourself or your sniffly kiddos. I’m telling you, our overall health and wellness as a family, has improved, since focusing on our #guthealth.

There is no price too high to pay for overall #wellness.

#happyblend #amare #fluseason
Impromptu check-in with my girl, Nicole from @happ Impromptu check-in with my girl, Nicole from @happybalancemama talking about all things #Amare. The reality behind #burnout,  #mentalwellness, finding our way through the everyday challenges and #mentalload of #motherhood, and how both of our lives have SHIFTED dramatically since starting our journey with fixing our #guthealth. 

#happyblend #juice #GBX #gutbrainconnection #gutbrainaxis #gutbrainhealth #gutbrain #motherhood #overwhelm
C O R T I S O L :: If you’re anything like me, y C O R T I S O L :: If you’re anything like me, you’ve tried to amp up in overall wellness - doing ALL the things…  and nothing worked 🪀🪀🪀🪀🪀 

ME THEN:(4.5 mnths + 4 decades ago)

• Cortisol levels out of control 
• Made self-sabotaging choices 
 • giving into sugar cravings
 • staying up all night doom 
  scrolling & researching 
  how to “fix” my life/kids/home 
  leading to #burnout
• Poor time management
• Emotionally charged and reactive due to poor quality sleep 

• What REALLY needed the most help - was my GUT. <ENTER #HJ #Amare #cortisolcontrol>

ME NOW: 

• Boost in: mood, motivation, metabolism, energy
• reduced bloating and inflammation
• Cravings gone, due to regulated blood sugar
• #cortisol #puffyface gone
• Better quality and DEEPER sleep
• Balanced hormones
• Improved cognitive function and no brain fog

** ADDED BONUS: A more organized home 
** DOUBLE ADDED BONUS: I’m the best mom I have ever been for my kiddos: ⬇️ reactive, ⬆️stress resilience

✨✨What I’m doing 👇🏼✨✨

• I mixed these two (or three) very simple supplements (EASY for my busy brain)
• First Supplement: Mood/Motivation/Metabolism - decreased bloating 
• Second supplement: Balanced hormones & mental wellness, improved skin, deeper sleep

2025 - I’m here for ya. BRING. IT. ON.

Comment CORTISOL OR just DM me, and I’ll send you more info and a link! 🥳
LIVE:: Sass & Small Chats with my girl Nicole @hap LIVE:: Sass & Small Chats with my girl Nicole @happybalancemama, before Mama Duty calls!  Chatting all things “Happy Blend”. We’ll do another spontaneous Live 2.0 when it’s not so nice outside!! For now - here’s a little bit of my personal experience with the Happy Blend  and how it’s made major shifts in mine and my family’s lives.  #30DayMentalwellnesschallenge
G R I N C H :: Just over here dreaming of a #green G R I N C H :: Just over here dreaming of a #greenChristmas when the kids and I had more time, energy, and gumption to do community deliveries to our local heroes. 

Since the #Pandemic, this little tradition of ours have stopped but our gratitude remains. @saanichpolice @saanichfiredepartment, Victoria Fertility Clinic, Sherwood Dental, and some of our buds who held our hands through our #grief and #fertility journey. 

Sigh. Was fun while it lasted. 

Thank you @dee_monster_girl @adammessana  @fiendwithoutaface87 for the inspo.

#throwback #grinch #Christmas
#NationalFamilyCaregiversMonth #november P I N K #NationalFamilyCaregiversMonth #november 

P I N K :: I recently learned that flamingos lose their pink when caring for others (notably, mom flamingos) —and I felt that deeply this past year. When my sweet elderly Mama had an unfortunate fall, resulting in emergency surgery, an extended hospital stay, and complete dependence on full time care, I was torn between moving in and being there for her full-time, caring for my sick kids and husband, homeschooling, and managing my business. 

I lost my pink.

Everything else—work, plans, even my son’s birthday—had to wait. Our home was a mess, appointments were missed, mistakes were made, friendships were tested, and the mental load was heavy. But nothing compared to watching my once strong Mama feel powerless as she leaned into the support she needed but once resisted.

My Mom lost her pink. 

It was a season of sacrifice, but now returning the equipment, that helped with her recovery, is a moment I’ll never forget.  I can now see from a clear lens, that working together as a family (my own family, my brother’s, my parents), we made it through, with the power of faith, a supportive community and amazing and understanding friends, love, and especially prayer.

It feels so good to stand back and see the full picture. And best of all… 

Both my Mama and I got our pink back.

@redcrosscanada 

#Caregiving #FamilyFirst #Gratitude #FlamingoFeels #FaithAndFamily
M A G G I E :: 🎉 Some #BTS #onthepod @sassandsm M A G G I E :: 🎉 Some #BTS #onthepod @sassandsmalltalkpodcast with my long lost twin and the hilariously brilliant MAGGIE of @thecatmompodcast ! We’re diving deep into life with a #SpicyBrain 🧠, talking all things #ADHD, and how she’s been navigating motherhood, chaos, and #burnout like the absolute rockstar she is. 💥

🎂 Oh, and did I mention it’s her #BIRTHDAY today?! 🎈 Be sure to give @minimaggie ALL the love in the comments! 🥳👇🏻

This episode, filmed at @haus.of.owl, is packed with so much relatable insight (and laughter... SO. MUCH. LAUGHTER 😂). Catch it #comingsoon #2025 on @TELUS OptikTV @storyhive! You won’t want to miss this one. 💬🎙️

Life just got a little more interesting @gjavier5 @ianshockeycards. Our apologies in advance… #doubletrouble 👭🏻
MY. FAM. IS. THRIVING. That is all. DM (and Fo MY. FAM. IS. THRIVING. 

That is all. 

DM (and Follow me) for deets on this amazing EASY 30sec Wellness supplement (and other #Amare Go-tos) that has elevated this family from shaking things up in the gut (bye 💩 probs), to clearing things up in the 🧠 (Wait - they actually WANT to learn? 🤯) … NOTHING ELSE has worked THIS GOOD for this family of Neuro-Ds. 

It’s not just some magic fix. 
It’s au naturale. Backed by science.
It’s #guthealth.
It’s #cognitivefunction.
Down to the cellular level.

✨ Sidenote: “Thriving” doesn’t mean, perfect, always happy, or that everyone is ALWAYS on the same page. 

That would just be weird. 

It means: 
• our target areas of concern (individually) are being addressed. 
• less chaos, more peace. 
• less reactive, less defensive
• more motivation, less resistance

We’re all collectively on our way to overall physical and mental wellness. 

And the best part is - all the kids care about is that it tastes darrrrrrrrn good. 

So what are you waiting for?
C O N N E C T I O N :: Now that George and I are b C O N N E C T I O N :: Now that George and I are both focusing on our COLLECTIVE #cortisolbalance - both our relationship and our kids benefit from these changes: 

• no longer reactive (to each other/kids)
• more playful with the kids, no longer irritable 
• have the #mentalclarity to pause and let each other have a say
• more well-rested - due to resisting #sleeprevenge (guys, I actually WANT to sleep now!! WHAT!??) 
• less overwhelm by everyday stressors
• tackle to-dos faster, together - procrastination completely not our thing anymore

** And the best and most shocking of them all… I am no longer impulsive with needless, emotional-spending, and that alone is a 🎁 for George! 

So many men and women in our age group are struggling like we were, only a few months ago.

This healthy cortisol mocktail is a daily favorite, takes 30 seconds to make, and is filled with adaptogens and healthy ingredients!

Comment CORTISOL and I’ll send you what we’ve been using to get to the bottom of our cortisol issues. WITH a $10 discount + 10% savings. 

✨ follow me for more simple tips for cortisol, weight, sleep, and stress for mamas and our partners too!

✨ Make sure you are following me to get the DM!

P. S. my husband prioritizes my daily intake as much as his own because we both know - “Happy wifey, easier Lifey” 😂☺️
P A R T N E R S H I P :: Our live discussion with P A R T N E R S H I P :: Our live discussion with Graham Meckling, Author, Coach, Educator, Community builder - as he launches his amazing and groundbreaking Online community at @truedad.community.

With focus on building the foundation as a team/partnership/family even PRIOR to becoming one, and how it’s a complete Gamechanger when faced with the reality of parenting in the coming years. 

Be sure to share this with any new parents-to-be who might need this resource - a sibling, a friend, a coworker, a distant cousin who you only seem to know on IG - we all know someone who might feel a little lost as they navigate this new chapter in their lives. This is not your everyday community - so grab a spot and find the community you never really know you needed! 

Seasoned parents - Graham’s book “Babies Don’t talk” has wonderful insights that are just as applicable to any stage of parenting as it is for the new parent - so GRAB YOUR COPY! I did and George and I ate it right up!
Found her. • • And right behind this once #b Found her. 
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And right behind this once #burntout #Mama, finding her way back into her element again, sass-inclusive, are these #behindthescenes (behind the camera/desk/computer/headphones) MIRACLE WORKERS at @hausofowl. I have so much love for you guys. Thank you. 

@nikkye_music 
@hoelune 
@remy.is.remy 
@jakerfilms 

Not seen here but will pop up here and there as I catch them in action 🤞🏼 hint hint): @laaain_music @eric.thebald 

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And none of this would’ve even been a thang if it weren’t for the Video Podcast Grant Program with @telus @storyhive. Life changing is an understatement. Thank you @made.by.donny & @thereallindakee for encouraging your girl to take the plunge with @sassandsmalltalkpodcast 

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And the energy and gumption to keep me resilient, and in tip top shape to host my own show, and lead my own project - kudos to my girl @mommamillsblog who introduced me to the very #cortisoldrink I needed to amp up. And @caitoaks who also reminds me I got this. My gut and brain thank you both. #bestteamever

And my love, @gjavier5 - I’m doing this not just for me but for us and our little peeps. Thank you for leading the cheering squad and “assisting”
me when I need it most. Hope to make you guys proud. ❤️ 

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Moral of the story, in getting that dang SASS back: 
✨ Take Risks
✨ Get your gut health in check 🥤
✨ Find your peeps 
✨ Tell them how awesome they are

DM me, watch my stories, click on my bio links if you want in on any of this good stuff! 🥤 + 🎙️ + 💰📺

✨Be sure to give a little ❤️ to my 13 year old Smallie who helped me level up with this reel with her magic touch. #ASD #autism #thisishomeschool #homeschooler #mygirl #techgirl #daughter
I’m 1/2 a century, baby. #HappyBirthday to me, i I’m 1/2 a century, baby. #HappyBirthday to me, indeed.
#thisisme

And life just got a little sweeter. 

It’s not some secret recipe, or some overcomplicated skin regimen. 

It’s #faith
Motivation
The want
The humility to accept help
The unconditional love from family
Learning to say no to the wrong, and yes to the right. 

I took a chance on ME a few months ago, and since then, have seen a shift in myself.

I dreaded this #milestonebirthday for the last 10 years. I dreaded ESPECIALLY, being transparent to ANYONE… even my own kids. 

But it dawned on me. 

(With the help of my fellow #hypewoman gals that gave me the gentle nudge to OWN my age, not hide it) @sweetmamalifedaily  @nengineermom @mommamillsblog  @caitoaks  @lilkeez @iamharpsra  @rahannavu @mstiggity

Why hide it? 
What am I scared of? 

I DID IT!

I hit 1/2 a century, I survived 9 brutal pregnancy losses, and held one of them in my arms. I looked death in the eye, and through prayer and community - I came out of it alive and kicking. AND thriving.

It wasn’t my time. I still have work to do here. 

But even with these life altering moments in my life, I STILL:
• made bad health choices
• stretched myself to max capacity
• said YES to things that stifled my growth.
• said NO to hard things that meant growth
• lived in debilitating fear, daily
• allowed my #adhd to paralyze, not enhance my life
• had horrible boundaries… correction… I had no boundaries 

It took 50 years, (3 months ago, to be exact), but I found exactly what I needed: 
• A deeper connection with God
• Gratitude
• A go-to, easy #cortisol #drink that balances out those darn hormones, and targets my #Mentalwellness #HJ 
• Forgiveness and freedom from past hurts 
• An awesome studio to do my craft @haus.of.owl
• A killer program that funds said craft @Telus @storyhive 
• A loving approach #wifey, #specialneeds Mama & #caregiver Daughter
• Self Compassion
• And the GUMPTION to follow (FIX) my Gut. 

Thank you to those who remembered when I chose to forget, that turning 50 is a blessing, not a curse. 

DM me or comment 50 if you want in on this big secret.
✨ I N S I D E * O U T ✨ :: If you wanna see ho ✨ I N S I D E * O U T ✨ :: If you wanna see how HAPPY J blend has made a difference for me, and coincidentally - the family - take a look at our Behind the scenes of this year’s Inside Out FAM-O-WEEN —an honest, messy, and very real snapshot of our year. 2024 was a DOOZY. 

From frustration, to resistance, to acceptance, to finding Joy again (with a DAILY DOSE of HAPPY J and a whoooooole lotta Jesus) - each character felt like a reflection of this year’s whirlwind of emotions. It’s been a time of big decisions, finding our footing, embracing transitions, more sleepless nights,  a diagnosis we’ve been waiting a decade for, falls, accidents, sickness - the whole shebang of emotions. 

And then #anxiety reared its ugly head.  In full force. 

But, alongside family and close friends, Faith, and some yummy sips of a healthy supplement, carried us through. 

In a year that stretched us to our limits, this shoot felt like the perfect way to honour all the “inside out” moments we’ve faced. So here’s to the messy, the joyful, and even the challenging times that shape who we are. From deep #burnout and anxiety to discovering our faith and mental wellness, I’m stepping into the next chapter with a full heart and maybe a few more laughs (even if I’m a year older 😉).

Here’s to growth, gratitude, and whatever’s next. #FamOWeen2024 #InsideOutLife #EmotionalYear #insideout #FindingJoy #Milestonebirthday
#NewChapter #amare #happyblend #hj #happyjuice

Music - AndreaDatzman, 
BENJIxScarlett, TheeOnlyJanessahhh
E M O T I O N S :: #HAPPYHALLOWEEN #FAMOWEEN editi E M O T I O N S :: #HAPPYHALLOWEEN #FAMOWEEN edition! 

2024 has been quite the year of change for us all. Emotions have been all over the map!
• #Caregiving has been amped up with unexpected falls and hospital stays 
• Our little not so little teen is on her last year of Middle school #homeschool version - not so easy but hey, surviving. #Disgust
• Our little guy cut his once curly locks and became a little man overnight - no tears except a very #sad dad who suffered from FOMO #Anger
• George also cut his hair that was once down to his waist. He was ready to let go of the weight of the world literally on his shoulders.
• I got selected for a wonderful @TELUS @Storyhive project to do a broadcast version of my #podcast and got my Juju back #happytears
• and yes… I found the perfect match for me to deal with my very neglected #guthealth, and yes… it’s a Gamechanger that has been behind the true shift in my mental health, productivity, and my road to a better me. Hence, “Happy” #Joy. #happyjuice

All these emotions check out. #insideOut we have thrived and survived. 

Happy Halloween!
S N E A K * P E E K :: I’m so excited to share a S N E A K * P E E K :: I’m so excited to share a little sneak peek of @theoutpostboardgamecafe, our good friend’s soon-to-be-opened #boardgame café, right here in the #Westshore 🎲🎲. The ONLY ONE of its kind in THIS part of town!! 🎉🎉We’ve ALL been waiting for this… 

Mamas… I’m looking at you… 👀

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It’s been amazing watching this space come together - already such a fun vibe and a cozy spot to hang out, play some games, and connect with friends. And I already got my #gameschool curriculum ready to go for my #homeschooler (and her game lovin’ mama-teacher 🙋🏻‍♀️) to enjoy. And of course date nights with my guy and girls night with my ladies!! 

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They’re getting so close to opening, and I can’t wait for everyone to experience it in person!! 

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Be sure to SHARE THIS POST AND SPREAD THE WORD - #Grandopening is Nov 1st!! 🎗️✂️ Stay tuned for more updates—it’s going to be a game-changer! 😉 

#TheOutpostCafe #supportlocal #supportsmallbusiness #supportlocalbusiness #YYJ #vancouverisland #Victoria #langford #boredombuster #family
F E A R L E S S :: Becoming a mom changed me, and F E A R L E S S :: Becoming a mom changed me, and along the way, my confidence started to slip. The bold, carefree version of me was replaced by someone who worried about the little things—like making a simple left turn onto a highway (with nothing but a stop sign and a prayer).

For years, I avoided that turn. I’d ask trusted adults to drive my kid for these once a year field trips, while I anxiously waited for updates. Sometimes, if I couldn’t arrange a ride, I’d keep her home. No amount of spawning salmon is worth my sanity.

It sounds trivial to the average person, but that turn felt like a mountain I couldn’t climb - for 12 years!!! A really winding, single lane, high speed, intolerant and unforgiving mountain to climb.

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Enter my Happy Blend Morning supplement.

After a few weeks of working on my gut health and balancing hormones, including cortisol, I feel lighter—mentally and emotionally. The anxiety that used to grip me just… doesn’t anymore.

Something in me felt COMPELLED to make that turn. It was my actual, nurtured, gut telling me to not take the backroad out (which is 3 times the distance), and it felt like freedom. 

I’ve learned it’s not just about turning left on a highway; it’s about letting go of fear and no longer caring what others think. My people-pleasing feature was activated as I approached the turn - worrying about the driver behind me, but now, I prioritize what’s best for me and my loved ones. And what’s best for my loved ones is that they get the chance to enjoy an educational experience, without my anxious brain standing in the way.

I am mentally clear, more logical, and becoming resilient where stress once controlled me. I’m ME again, free from imbalanced hormones, and the fear of inconveniencing others.

If this resonates with you, drop “FEARLESS” in the comments, and I’ll share what I’ve been using to get here. You’re not alone. #MomLife
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