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A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin Inspired Party on a Budget

April 28, 2015 By Deb B. 14 Comments

A few months ago, LD discovered A Whole New World outside of Anna and Elsa (umm, What?!?!), and upon discovery, she was amazed.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

So amazed, that she decided she wanted to celebrate her 4th birthday, not just with Jasmine… but AS Jasmine.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

In fact, we all got into the spirit. Meet pseudo Aladdin, and the ultra pseudo Abu, the monkey. I’m not quite sure what we were actually… however, we served a very important role at LD‘s Royal Princess Ball.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

We were pretty much… her lackeys.

It was a mad dash to set up. We weren’t missing a beat. Not today.

With gold paper plates, utensils, and tulle, a touch of blue to tie in Jasmine’s colors, accented with hues of purple throughout – it was definitely an Arabian night for our little Royal friends (held in the middle of the afternoon).

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

But the Queen… err, I mean, Abu the monkey (that’s me) decided that we had to do a little prep work at home first.

The plastic mini goblets, trimmed with sequined stickers…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Elegant mini-sized gold candle holders (holding fake candles, of course) to set the mood…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

An oversized ornate sign spray painted in matte gold, just in case our guests forgot what they were attending…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Which was the final touch to our Arabian Night photo booth, decorated with silk pillows, golden butterflies, holiday lights, and animals of the kingdom…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Food tents were displayed with all the characters of Aladdin, and topped off with a crystal sticker stud. Some of the favorites were “Sultan’s Crackers, “Genie’s Juice“, and “Magic Choco-ride“…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

A coloring station was made available where each child was given a Princess shaped crayon and a scroll of Genie and his friends. The kids had a blast choosing their favorite colors.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

We had the most fun preparing the “loot bags”. But these weren’t just any loot bags. Each royal guest received their very own genie lantern filled with gold beads, sparkly foam stickers with their initials and their age, and of course “4” dollars worth of Chocolate toonies. (the Princess put us to work, indeed!)

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

But what made this take-home lantern so special, was the little Princess‘ 4 wishes for each of her royal friends…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

The final display was well received, with the added gold coins and all the guests’ individual names.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

The most lovely display created by a good friend added the perfect personalized touch. This included the Princess‘ favorite sayings, foods, things to do, and aspirations (which was essentially, to one day become Princess Jasmine – that’s my girl, always shooting for the stars). It was truly magical to see her current interests contained all in one piece.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

 

It was important that the celebrant had a little something to bring back home as well – to add to her box of memories. All of our guests wrote down a special wish or words of wisdom that was placed in an embellished faux-glass jar. Many brought a tear to my eye. I can’t wait for her to be able to read them when she becomes a Tween-cess. I sure hope she follows some of the great advice she received. Especially the one that said “Always listen to your mom. She knows best.” Yeah. That one.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

And what is a Princess Ball without breaking out a couple moves? The little and big people alike, were thrilled to dance the day away in the studio where LD normally takes her preschool dance program. All of LD‘s fave jams were played, including, of course, “Genie in a Bottle”. The kids were all smiles while following the lead of one of the celebrant‘s most beloved dance instructors.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

The ball was wrapped up with a surprise visit from LD‘s favorite person of all time – Princess Jasmine herself from Cafiker Castle. The kids were so excited to see a Disney Princess up close.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Then, it was time for the feast.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

We only had one table to work with, so we used up every inch. Since it was a kid’s party, most of the food was finger food – fruits and veggies, peanut-free PB&J sandwiches shaped as a crown, an arabian elephant, and Abu the monkey, bowls of popcorn, and of course donut pops. The adults enjoyed quiche and spanakopita dishes which never ran out, as we kept an extra stash hidden only steps away. I mean, a lackey’s gotta eat, right?

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

And let’s not forget Genie’s Juice. That was definitely a crowd pleaser.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

As the adults were clearing off the table, Jasmine brought the kids into a circle and played the “hot lantern” game (think, hot potato, or poisoned apple, but Aladdin inspired – after all, it’s all in the details right?)

LD had many questions to ask of the Princess and was certainly not shy to do so.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

She sang a special song for all the kids, who in turn, were silenced in pure amazement.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

The energy in the room was palpable. Aladdin Disney songs filled every corner of the room (and lingered in my head for the week to follow), laughter and screams of sweet delight were heard from within the enclosed dance studios, and all relished in the magical atmosphere. Kids, both big and small truly had a ball…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

The wee ones kept close to their Queens throughout the party, but had a healthy dose of the royal treatment.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Especially, when the cake made its grand appearance. LD was over the moon when Jasmine carried the cake over to her to blow out the candles.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Every cupcake was made specifically with little hands in mind:

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

We held a quick game of “Who has Jasmine under their plate” and Princess Jasmine presented each of the winners an Aladdin book, or a Fez hat. It was either that, or pin the genie on the lamp, and we knew that would be a gong show, so we kept it simple.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

LD continued her cupcake-fest as she and her royal guests enjoyed a corner of Princess dress up games.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Followed by a very important photo opp moment with her favorite Princess – cupcake still in hand…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

All of the families enjoyed a good dose of the visiting with the Princess, including Poppy and Grammy – who quietly enjoyed the blissful atmosphere from the sidelines.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

The kids all received a gold balloon presented by Jasmine (boy, we kept the poor Princess busy, didn’t we?), along with their genie lamps and coloring scrolls. With all the excitement and laughter, it was definitely not easy to clear the room.

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Once home, our exhausted little Princess was overwhelmed with all the gifts of love from her very special friends. From a Jasmine card, to an Easy Bake Oven (WHAT?), to coloring books, to a fancy salon chair, to lovely home made cards (her fave), she is sure to be kept entertained for the entire year!

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Of course, Queen Mama was pretty excited that she received a Minnie Mouse Tee that says “BLOG – Let’s Talk Fashion”. Was this LD‘s birthday, or MINE??

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

All in all – we couldn’t have asked for a better way to celebrate my sweet Princess‘ big 4.0. I am certain there were varying thoughts on my level of crazy – but there is nothing I wouldn’t do to bring a smile on my little mama‘s face. Much like this…

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

The best part – every single piece of decor you see here, were fun finds from the local Dollarama Store, or the clearance rack at Michaels‘ moving sale (we’re talking 70% off everything, say what!?), “going going gone” clearance shelves at Target, some super sharp sleuthing skills around the house (every single pillow you see belongs on some sort of piece of furniture in our house which usually goes ignored), stuffed animals that I literally had to pull out of the “ready to goodwill” bags, and most importantly, the support and assistance of my loving family and friends that helped before, during, and after the party. It was for the kids after all.

All this.. and not one nail broken. How’s that for a magical way to end the day?

A Whole New World – Make 4 Wishes Birthday Party with Princess Jasmine – A Fancy Aladdin-themed Party on a Budget

Happy 4th Birthday to my sweet girl. You are our miracle, and we want to give you some of that magic back. Make those 4 wishes, my love. And we’ll try our best to make at least one of them come true.

Accessories:: J Crew Gold elastic headband | Mama’s gold knotted necklace (similar Disney Jasmine Jewelry set here) | Costume:: Disney Princess Jasmine Deluxe Sparkle Costume  | Footwear:: Joe Fresh Sparkle Maryjanes (similar Kenneth Cole Reaction Maryjane here)

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How do you usually celebrate birthdays in your household? Do you keep it simple and intimate? Do you go all out? Somewhere in between? What do your kids prefer?

Think outside the Princess box,                                                                                    

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Filed Under: party time, playing dress up, the everyday Tagged With: Aladdin, Arabian night, Baby, dancing, Disney, fashion, fashionista, Genie, Jasmine, kid's party, Lamp, lantern, party, preschooler, princess, Royal, style, Toddler

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Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Bonnie Way says

    April 28, 2015 at 4:12 pm

    Wow you plan the BEST parties! This looks absolutely FANTASTIC!!!
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    • debalino says

      May 14, 2015 at 3:14 pm

      Thank you Bonnie! We would have loved to have the kids join us. The dancing was such a hit for the princes and princesses. 🙂
      Reply
  2. Jennifer Van Huss says

    May 7, 2015 at 8:51 pm

    You throw the best parties EVER!!!I don't think you missed a single detail!! What a fabulous event! Happy bday to your little one!
    Reply
  3. Layne says

    May 8, 2015 at 4:47 am

    I love all the gold accessories and treasure! So beautifully put together!
    Reply
  4. Shannon Leverette says

    May 8, 2015 at 3:16 pm

    I love this party idea! It is princess-y without pink overload. 🙂 I think my girls would want tot come to your parties! We usually GO somewhere for our kiddos parties. May reconsider now though.
    Reply
  5. Christy Sutherland Jolliffe says

    May 8, 2015 at 4:24 pm

    Ok, seriously, WOW. That was an amazing party you threw!!! What a lucky little girl you have!
    Reply
  6. Kerrie Mendoza says

    May 9, 2015 at 2:19 am

    Absolutely amazing! Love the decorations and the passion that went into creating something so special. A birthday party to remember!
    Reply
  7. babystylista says

    May 14, 2015 at 10:07 pm

    Thank you so much Jennifer! It was the details that took the most time (in which I spent many a day wondering what the heck I got myself into…), but it was definitely worth it. 🙂
    Reply
  8. babystylista says

    May 14, 2015 at 10:08 pm

    Yes – we aren't big fans of princess pink overload. Haha! i braced myself when my little one told me which princess theme she wanted. I was personally relieved when she chose Jasmine. Phew! haha!
    Reply
  9. babystylista says

    May 14, 2015 at 10:11 pm

    Thank you so much Kerrie! I put a lot of my heart into some of the elements as I wanted to do something super special for the little mama… but at the end of the day – it was so awesome just to see so many happy little faces running around the place. They didn't care too much about the decor (hahah!) but it makes for good memories for the big people. 🙂
    Reply
  10. babystylista says

    May 14, 2015 at 10:12 pm

    Awww – thanks Christy. I'm the lucky one for sure. 🙂
    Reply
  11. Sarah at Journeys of The Zoo says

    May 28, 2015 at 6:11 am

    Incredible. Makes me wish that it was my 4th birthday party! My 5-year-old daughter loves princesses too. Funny how that works.

    Have you every thought about hosting events for other kids!?

    Besos Sarah.
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  12. Ashley says

    April 20, 2016 at 4:49 pm

    super cute decorations !! I was wondering where you got the little genie bottles? I have a party on April 30th and I can’t seem to find any genie bottles online !
    Reply
    • debalino says

      May 6, 2016 at 10:28 am

      I am SO sorry I missed this! We have been traveling for the last few weeks. We found these lamps at Oriental Trading company. I’m so sorry I missed getting back to you in time for your little one’s birthday party. It would have taken a few weeks to get them though depending where you’re located. I would love to see how your party turned out if you have a link?
      Reply

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We ditched the gifts. 
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It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
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Watch me get called out (lovingly) in Episode 3 (https://youtu.be/gAg0RXoGiAg) of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Talk, now streaming on ‪@TELUS‬ OptikTV and ‪@storyhive‬ 

Find the link on my BIO or in my stories. 

#SkincareHumor #MomLife #BurnoutRecovery #CaregiverLife #SassAndSmallTalk #lessismore #glowjarbeauty #glowjar #skin #glowingskin #JaimePereira #canadianbrand
When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your village takes over and plans ahead for you. 

Enter, days worth of #waffles and #pancakes for your sweet-breakfast-obsessed family. All so I can focus on working on season 2 of my show @sassandsmalltalkpodcast @Telus @storyhive now in production, whilst #caregiving the parents full time and no summer camps for the kiddos in sight. Let’s just say 24 hours in a day isn’t quite enough… 😴 is kinda out the window too. 

Thank you @caarly.xo for knowing I’m in the season, and just doing what you do… as always. 

Now please go back to your family of 6 😲, because they are probably tired of sharing you with us after all these MONTHS… LOVE you, and THANK you for all you’ve done for our family. 

The waffles were just the delish icing on the cake. There was muuuuuuch much more you supported us with while across the country as we focused on family, and we are grateful to you…  thank you. 

#ittakesavillage #sassandsmalltalk #telus #storyhive
Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #caregiver #s Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️
#caregiver #seekingvalidation #daughterofimmigrants #proudgrandparents

J/K… she was proud (I think). 
And she actually read it (I think)… 🤔🤔

Grab a copy @islandparent on local stands or check out the link on IG stories and in my BIO. 

And read the article @mommamillsblog, my girl, Natasha wrote on the true meaning of wealth in parenthood. 

Lots of gems!
#islandparentmagazine #parenting #homeschool #mentalhealth #mentalwellness 

Do you still find yourself seeking your #elderly parents approval even as a parent yourself?
Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉 When you’re a par Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉

When you’re a parent, caregiver, and running your own show on zero sleep… “sneaking out” mid-day with that cutie (who kinda resembles your spouse 🤷🏻‍♀️ ) for YUUUUUMMMY local @drumroaster #specialitycoffee, is basically the best (and only) date you’ll get. 

And honestly? We’ll take it. ✨

Talk “latte” to me. 💛 

*Tho that Canadian Macchiato ☕️ was next level…* Jus’ sayin’

Catch the @aerobicgeisha.coffee #mobilecoffee #cartonwheels #PopUp 🚲 at @westshoretowncentre — now ‘til Sept 3 (closed Mondays). 

#SupportLocal #ParentDateVibes #BurnoutFuel #CoffeeDate #hubbahubba #coffeeismylovelanguage #westshoretowncentre #aerobicgeisha #geishacoffee #aerobicgeishacoffee
**He had NO idea what he got himself into when he **He had NO idea what he got himself into when he answered that phone call from the crazy big(ish) city girl.**⁣
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Yes… I made the first move.⁣
And yes… I called him on an actual telephone. With a rotary dial. Connected to a wall.⁣ ☎️⁣
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That was 26 years ago.⁣
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10 years later (16 years ago today), he asked me to meet him at the end of the aisle and make it official 🤵🏻👰🏻—which we did, surrounded by everyone we love, and then danced the night away at the bottom of the Seinfeld steps.⁣
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Thank you for doing life with me, George @gjavier5. You’ve always been (and always will be) my #1 go-to for all things Cobra Kai 🐍, the best fellow imperfect-perfect parent to those little humans who look suspiciously like you 👧🏻👦🏻—and of course, co-parent to our two stinky OG furry kids 🦮🐕‍🦺.⁣ Thanks for being the yin to my “extra”🤪. And I’m the yang to your “chill” 😎
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Now stop scrolling and go kill that spider in the living room… or I might have to tell the world who really watches The Bachelor between the two of us 👀🌹
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I love you!! (And no… this is not just a clever way to get you to finally agree that the TV we bought the year we got married is long overdue for retirement 📺🫠)⁣ 😉 
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D&G, finally.
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#16YearsMarried #26YearsTogether #dgfinally #atlast #happyanniversary
Meet Emily. She coped by staying busy. Corporate Meet Emily. 

She coped by staying busy.
Corporate life. 
#Sidehustles. 
Always moving.
Until #burnout stopped her cold.

When Emily Bowman  @emlambow @nevaehjade.beautywellness, at the tender age of 12, began the life of a heartbreaking reality of #caregiving for a loved one, and eventually losing her father after a decade long battle with cancer, she pushed through the pain the only way she knew how — by working harder. 

But #grief always finds a way to surface.

#Fitness became her lifeline.
Now it’s not just her outlet — it’s her saving grace... and her business.

So grateful for @Telus @storyhive  for the platform to share such profound stories on #burnout and reclaiming joy as parents. 

🔥 Watch the full conversation in Episode 2 – live now on #Youtube - Link in BIO and IG Stories! Watch now for amazing INSPO, and please subscribe and support a sis! 🙋🏻‍♀️ (PSSST… “YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls”)
✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out ✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out “talks too much” is a transferable skill. 😉)

Couldn’t resist flipping through the online Summer issue of @islandparent (still chasing down a copy ON PRINT — OMW, #YYJ friends, pls save me one 🙏🙏!!)

Somehow, between #caregiving worries stretching from the West Coast to the Midwest, an unexpected emergency trip with the kids, and a 25-hour boat/train/plane journey (regrets: zero, snack supply: questionable 🙃), I managed to turn the chaos into a story — and landed my first article in one of our Van Island parenting mags.

Even better? I sat down for a feature interview about @sassandsmalltalkpodcast, sharing why these conversations matter, how the show makes space for parents stretched too thin, and why reclaiming joy beyond burnout is actually possible. #SeasonOne is now streaming on @telus @storyhive 🎙️.

A Massive THANK YOU to Stacie Gaetz @islandparent for an energizing interview that made me sound far cooler than I am, and to the whole editorial team for trusting me to bring my slightly unhinged, real-talk parenting chaos to your pages.

Here’s to finding joy in the mess, adventure in the unexpected, and a whole lotta #HappyJ in my carry-on…

📖 Grab a copy, flip to my pages, check out all the amazing contributing writers, and come hang out on the pod!

Also peep appearances from 2 of my 8 incredible guests: @truedad.community, @sarjo08, @toastibeautycollection — and the ridiculously talented @sarah_booth_photography, whose cover shot steals the show.

Non-islanders - the online copy is avail at islandparent.ca. Link on my bio 😉

#SassAndSmallTalk #SandwichGeneration #IslandParent #Storyhive #TelusOriginals #CaregiverLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FilipinoMoms #RealTalkForParents #ChaosAndJoy #ContributingWriter #Storytelling
I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to our father-in-law — who we’d been caregiving for these last couple months in their home on the other side of the country 💔 It’s been a heavy time, so I haven’t been online. 

But I wanted to quickly share that George and I have been keeping up with our daily dose of #HJ, and between that, and prayer, our amazing village both here and at home, and the support of family - our #stressresilience to handle the most challenging time in our lives was nothing short of a miracle. 

Running on virtually no sleep, the constant worry, lack of control, we needed all we could get to show up for the ones we love especially these last couple months. 

I am now a couple weeks into the #Rootist Densify Hair Line (and only a few days since recording this vid), after just a few washes with the Rootist Densify Shampoo + Conditioner (plus the Densifying Serum), I’m already feeling a shift. ✨ Thicker, fuller hair is the goal — and even in the midst of #grief and #caregiving, it’s nice to feel one small thing going right.

If you’re curious, today’s the day to grab it (July 2nd, 2025) —
🛍️ Shampoo + Conditioner are on sale
🇨🇦 Canada Day = FREE shipping Until July 4th 2025
But the 25% off on shampoo and conditioner ends TONIGHT (July 2nd - 1159pm PST) — so don’t wait! 🌿💚

Grab your Shampoo and Conditioner here: 
https://www.amare.com/et/sh43va/1946022

Promo code: Rootist25

DM me, or click the link for the full video on my profile.

#RootistHairCare #ScalpHealth #CaregiverLife #MicrobiomeSupport #CanadaDaySale #Review
S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is your comeback. 💥 SEASON 1 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast is now #bingeable on @TELUS #OptikTV & @StoryHive #YouTube! 8 back-to-back episodes of real talk about #parenting, #caregiving, and life’s beautiful chaos. Hit that link in bio and #getthatsassback. 🎙️✨ #JoyUnlocked #ParenthoodUnfiltered
M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday boy of mine has been such a trooper — the youngest and smallest member of our #sandwichgeneration family. For the third time in his 7 years of birthdays, his special day was quietly placed on hold as we navigated some heavy family matters. 

That meant: 
• no class party
• no birthday play date
• no jumping on trampolines
• no big plan, not even a little one 

… and not one single complaint from this compassionate little guy.

He’s simply grateful to be where he’s needed most — with family. 

To his (and our) surprise, his incredible teacher sent us this beautiful video of his classmates from far away, singing him #HappyBirthday, and the emotion it stirred in our family was something we’ll never forget. It was the very medicine our hearts needed right about now.

I may or may not have shed a tear or two… thousand.

And as for the #birthdayboy?

Well — it’s written all over his sweet face.

#thegiftthatkeepsongiving #itsthelittlethings #ittakesavillage #caregiving #bestgiftever #lovewins #realparentingmoments #sandwichgenerationlife
G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a little while ago… but life had other plans. 💔

It’s been a challenging month — on top of caregiving, moving homes, and homeschooling, we’ve been navigating some heavy family stuff. So I stepped back to focus on what matters most. 💗

That said… I’m slowly finding my way back.

And while it might seem small, leaning into this lighthearted moment — unboxing the full #Rootist kit, the #HJ for scalp — feels like a tiny act of #respite I really need right now. 

I’ve been working on my #guthealth with #Amare, and now I’m turning my attention to my #scalp #microbiome — because healing starts from the inside out… but the outside could use a little love too. 💆🏻‍♀️✨

Here’s to strong, luscious hair (maybe even retiring the ol’ #mombun? We’ll see 😅) and giving myself a moment to feel good again. 💚
#ScalpMicrobiome #GutBrainaxis #MomLifeRecovery #momlifebelike
🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥 We’re closing out 🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥

We’re closing out Season 1 of “Sass & Small Talk” with serious depth, healing, and one heck of a magical mic-drop moment. ✨

In this powerful finale #onthepod, I sit down with @scarletjaxen — a Victoria-based #author, counsellor, and storyteller with years of experience in clinical social work. She brings together sharp intellect and soul-deep wisdom to help us explore #burnout and intuition, through the power of #multisensory storytelling.

Scarlet believes change is possible, healing is available, and that WHO we ARE can evolve—when we’re ready to take the risk to live with intention, while trusting our own instincts.

She takes #trustyourgut to a whole new level.

For every #caregiver, #mama, and recovering #overachiever... this one’s for you.

🎥 NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+

📅 Coming May 27 to @storyhive + @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube + all podcast platforms.

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #womensempowerment
B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds be B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds beauty brands by day and dominates video games by night 🎮💅 

Meet Sara Jonsson @sarjo08 #mama (human & furry), #wifey, #caregiver, #entrepreneur, and low-key savage when gaming with her son 😂. 

As the go-to support for her parents through some tough health-related seasons, Sara’s #familyfirst mindset fuels everything she does—including the business she built from love. 

In Episode 7, we get real about #caregiverburnout, while running multi businesses with heart, and finding joy in the chaos. 

…and,

HOW. THE. HECK. SHE. DOES. IT. ALL. 

NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+ 

Will be available on @storyhive and @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube and all podcast platforms on May 27th. 

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #bossladyvibes @toastibeautycollection
SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes gli SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes glimpse of what feels like the beginning of a powerful shift in #womenshealth right here in #Victoria.

To stand alongside such empowered women — #caregivers, #changemakers, survivors, women from all walks of life — in the very place where the hands and hearts of this hospital held me and my family together (in more ways than one)… it was overwhelming in the best way.

Even more so, to share it with my daughter, my fiercest little survivor. Both of our stories of survival are woven into these hospital walls.

This was more than just a shoot. This was change taking place in real time. Honoured to be a tiny part of this moment as it unfolds.

Thank you for bringing this to life @ourvichospitals @averybrohman @gaellevanerp 💛
✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.co ✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.cochrane.realtor, you and your kiddos are what our world needs more of! And grateful to our dear friend @oliviabozovic who made the connection! SMALL 🌍 BIG 🩷♥️💙! Adore you both!! 

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To the kind dad at the @royalbaycolwood Easter Egg Hunt this past Saturday—

You probably didn’t realize how much you and your kids impacted our day.

My son had just missed the first few minutes of the egg hunt (as usual, this mama was running late with a million things on her plate—homeschooling, caregiving, promoting a show, working from home, managing the home, advocating, feeding the young and old, managing moods... the usual chaos).

He stood in line for the balloon dome and said quietly, trying , “I got zero eggs, mama.”

You heard him. Your son, who seemed a bit overwhelmed himself covering his ears from all the noise, and your little girl, reached into their own baskets and filled my son’s bag.

I watched as kindness bloomed in real time.

You didn’t just hand out chocolate—you gave my son the gift of feeling seen and included. You taught your kids what generosity really looks like.

And for this tired, always-late, sandwich-gen special-needs mom—your gesture meant more than you’ll ever know.

If anyone in the Westshore community knows this lovely family (dad of Grayson?), please tag them or send them our thanks.

This is what #community looks like. 🐣💛

#SandwichGeneration #GlassChild #NeurodivergentMom #MomGuilt #CommunityLove #WestshoreBC #VictoriaMoms #RoyalBayColwood #RealEasterMagic #SmallKindnessBigImpact
She podcasts. She parents. She’s got a 🌶️ She podcasts. 
She parents. 
She’s got a 🌶️ 🧠.
She’s fresh outta burnout mode.
She sips #HappyJ.
And now, with🎙️in hand… she’s streaming on @TELUS @STORYHIVE (because even #actionfigures need a l’il 📺 airtime).

Hey, I’m Deb B., host of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast — a podcast turned video series where we get real about #parenting and #caregiver #burnout, and find joy in the messy middle.

Fueled by my go-to fix-the-gut-fix-the-burnout potion🥤, a l’il bit of tears, and a whole lotta sass, this season brings on the reality of living in the #burnout generation, with guests who will leave you asking yourself “where have they been all my life?”

Because we are DONE glorifying busy.
We’re saying YES to rest.
And HEEEECK YES to finding our joy once again. #INeedMySassBack

Catch the Pod Edition now on TELUS OptikTV Ch 9, Stream+, and on #Storyhive YouTube (Search Storyhive Sass Small Talk) Link on my bio for Episodes 1 & 2.

🦉 Sexy Studio. ✔️ I 👀 @haus.of.owl 
🛋️ Cozy couch. ✔️
🎙️ Good convo. ✔️
🥹 Big feelings. ✔️
🤩 And even bigger lashes. ✔️✔️✔️

LET’S TALK. 

Oh and PS - wanna know how to get your action figure #animated? Follow me, write “SASS”, and let me know what your action figure would be in the comments below and I’ll hook you up. 

#SassAndSmalls #TelusStoryhive #HappyJEnergy #GoodbyeBurnout #SmallTalkBigFeels #actionfigure #barbie #AI #Amare #happyblend #cortisol
When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑 In When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑

In Episode 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast “Reclaiming Joy of #Parenthood Beyond Burnout”, I take on the ultimate #challenge:
Fitting fitness into my already chaotic #caregiving, #homeschooling, always behind the wheel, #neurodivergent navigating, mom-life schedule. 🧠🎢💪

Add to the mix, a busy 🧠 that thrives on chaos and fun? Why not #gamify? Moms- let’s do the #TriggerWordChallenge!! Every time your kids say (aka “demand”, I mean c’mon now…) “MOM!”, do a squat! In the kitchen, while cleaning, cooking, folding laundry. Just don’t do it driving! #safetyfirst

For this episode, Every time *I* said the word “lash” — yep, I squat. 😅

Joining me is none other than Victoria’s go-to #LashLady, who most would call a client-proclaimed “lash-a-pist” and certified #fitness coach, Emily Bowman @nevaehjade.beautywellness, who’s here to talk #burnout, #beauty, and #body movement. And I’m here to try and master the world’s most chaotic squat routine. 🙃

Side note: Psssst… your girl hasn’t done a squat since before the Pandy of 2020 so this may be nbd to the average person, but it’s quite literally a miracle ⛪️ for 🙋🏻‍♀️. #whateverworks #amIright?

Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two…  on the full episode 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, @storyhive YouTube

Comment “Squat” if you want the full episode link on @storyhive‘s YouTube. But it’s even more fun on TV, so try that first! We sure are…

#SassAndSmallTalk #SquatGoals #BurnoutAndBootyGains #bunsofsteel #LashLadyTakesOver #NeurodivergentMomLife #CaregiverFitness #SquatWhileYouCan #HomeschoolChaos #MomLifeUnfiltered #VictoriaBC #StoryHive #ReclaimYourJoy #JLoGotNothingOnMe
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