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How to Prepare a DIY Ninja Birthday Party on a Budget

May 10, 2017 By Deb B. 16 Comments

It’s a SIX & KICKS DIY ninja birthday party for Little Mama this year! Where did the last 6 years go? Didn’t we throw her a Toy Story Jessie Party  for her 5th birthday just the other day? I literally blinked, and out of nowhere, a 6 year old appeared!

A cake-loving, wish-making, excited little 6 year old, may I add…

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

Every year, a transformation takes place. My once 4 year old Princess Jasmine glitter gal, seamlessly transformed into a 5 year old Toy Story cowgirl fanatic, bringing us to current day – a self proclaimed fierce, yet fun-loving purple obsessed 6 year old ninja.

So, as always… I took her cue and ran with it. 

Life isn’t cheap, and mama’s got an obscene amount of creative ideas when it comes to Little Mama and her birthday festivities, but let’s be real… who has hundreds of dollars to throw away on ready-made party supplies for a group of kids who really could care less about anything other than having fun? 

So what to do? Why, get through the natural obstacles of a creative block, of course.

Scour Pinterest.

First stumbling block. When doing a search on ninjas, what do I see? Black and red ninjas, hard-to-find asian inspired designs, and a lot of dollars to be spent. No sign of stealthy ninjas dressed in black, accessorized in purple. So I decided to attack this challenge like any other mother of a mini, and of course, sparkly ninja would: with needle-sharp focus. I decided to make the ninja celebration into a full-blown DIY ninja birthday party, sprinkled with purple… on a budget.

Like on her 5th Toy Story party, I knew that Dollar Tree would have most, if not all of what I needed to add some color and life to my decor.

As always, I essentially planned the party around the goody bags, because it makes it all worth the fuss keeping our tiny ninja guests full, blissfully exhausted, and most of all… appreciated. 

GOODY BAGS

Not surprising, the goody bags weren’t actual bags. Similar to last year’s cowboy boot mug of goodies, and the prior year’s genie lamp – I took the bag out of goody bag and decided to hand out ninja plush goodies instead.

Sounds easy enough right? Well… in theory it was. I mean, considering, I had about 30 ninjas to come up with, it wasn’t as time consuming as I thought it would be. It would have been an easy purchase of 3 sets of 10 ninjas online, decorated in red accents. But for my purple-loving (and incredibly particular) little ninja, a batch purchase of black and red anything was just not going to happen. Plus, it was pretty pricey. 

So, with some inspo from our friends at Madi Unnie, I made them… from scratch. 

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

It started with 5 pairs of socks from Dollar Tree. At a whopping $1.25, I was able to get 10 single black socks per pack. That meant, I only needed 3 of these packs. And the rest of the items for our DIY ninja birthday party was merely an aisle away:

  1. Three packs of 5 ankle black socks for the ninja body
  2. A big bag of stuffing (you can get a large bag at Michaels, or small batches at Dollar Tree)
  3. Sequin rolls (in purple, of course) for the belt
  4. A couple small sheets of white felt for the ninja face
  5. Black and white thread to close up the body/sock and to sew on the face
  6. A small amount of black felt for the eyes (and a steady hand to cut a ridiculous amount of eyes. Apparently the Cricut Explore Air 2 Machine can cut your efforts in half!)
  7. A hot glue gun for the eyes
  8. A really good pair of Razor-edge Softgrip Scissors

Making these ninjas by hand was quick and dare I say, relaxing. Every night for a little over a week, I would just sit on my couch, put on my favorite primetime show (it was of course, The Bachelor at the time), shut my brain off, and sew. I stuffed each sock with filling until I got it to the size I wanted. And like every unique tiny ninja that will be receiving this gift at Little Mama‘s party, each ninja stuffy would be a different size and shape. Once I determined its basic size, I cut the extra material at the end of the sock and sewed it shut. Many profanities came out of that particular step until I finally got the hang of sewing without almost poking myself. Then I took the black felt and cut them into tiny circles. That was the most time-consuming part. This is when a Cricut Machine would have come in handy – note to self: get one for next year’s party. I also cut out oval shapes of white felt for the ninja faces, and sewed them with a simple overcast stitch. I didn’t want to work too hard trying to hide the thread, as I found the visible stitch added to the charm of the ninja. Plus… who has time for fancy stitch work?

Speaking of which, I recruited the loving services of Grammy and Auntie Sheena to help expedite the completion of what would have otherwise been a gruelling and repetitive project. Rule of thumb – when dealing with matters of sewing, always recruit the sewing pros in your network. They work the fastest, and complain the least. 

The hot glue gun comes in real handy when you have 60 fingertip sized black felt eyes to work with. For the first couple of ninjas, I sewed on each of the eyes and after spending what seemed like hours on a simple task, I quickly replaced my needle with the hot glue gun (thanks for the gentle nudge, Auntie Sheena). It sped up the process, while keeping parts of the stuffy intact, safe from the hungry hands of toddler siblings in attendance. Besides, what is a DIY ninja birthday party, or DIY anything for that matter, without a glue gun to seam things up?

As much as Little Mama prides herself in being a rough and tumble tomboy (on some occasions), she is still as sparkly and shiny as she was in her ornate Jasmine and Aladdin days. So instead of placing a proverbial Minnie-style bow on the ninjas to add the feminine flair (ugh), or to succumb to the pink alternative (c’mon… who does that anymore?), I decided to use the “bling” of the purple sequin to act as the belt. It was as shiny and pretty as it was bada** for our stealthy stuffed ninja. Plus, it helped me find a place to tuck in the sword.

So let’s talk about swords…

I needed to figure out a way to integrate this “what’s your ninja name?” sheet that I found all over pinterest, as part of the goody bag. Also, with so many mini ninjas running around, I thought it was wise to create ninja swords made out of paper. 

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

I decided to roll them up at a slight angle to avoid it from looking like a basic roll (aka paper cigarette… that wouldn’t be ideal for a 6 year old birthday party, now would it?), making them more pointed, like a sword. I placed a few self adhesive white rhinestones to emulate somewhat of a sword handle, and voila! A sword was born!

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

How did these ninja sock stuffies turn out? Well… take a look!

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

These little guys set the tone for the rest of the party. Inspired by our self-made birthday girl ninja logo, (essentially we photoshopped an existing ninja shape off google and made it as Little Mama inspired and “purple-lized” as possible), we continued with our DIY ninja birthday party plans.

HEADBANDS

The one thing we take pride in when throwing one of our crazy Little Mama shindigs, is our highly interactive flair. We love involving our guests in the overall theme. Not only did we request our mini ninjas to come in their stealthiest ninja black comfies (or any color, but comfy – for optimal ninja movements!), we also decided to accessorize and essentially, initiate every ninja that walked through our door with their very own ninja-tastic headband. This is the problem with a DIY ninja birthday party and my creative juices flowing at high speed – every piece of material I come across, turns into another one of my grand ideas. 

All we needed was a cutting mat, a Fiskars 45mm contour rotary cutter, a long ruler, and a roll of black felt, and we were ready to rumble.

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

But you know us – we’re all about the bling. To commemorate Little Mama‘s 6th birthday, we placed 6 self adhesive lavender rhinestones in the middle of each headband. We didn’t have much creative energy (I mean… after all that cutting!) to come up with other ideas to decorate the headbands, so we knew 6 little dots would be both simple, clear, and representative of what we were all celebrating that day. 

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

WISH CARDS FOR THE BIRTHDAY NINJA

Every birthday thus far, Little Mama loves getting special messages from her friends. Last year, during her Toy Story party, we had a station, “There’s a Wish in my Boot” where her friends would write special wishes for the 5 year old celebrant and throw it into her cowgirl boot on display. The year before, with her Make 4 Wishes Jasmine party, we asked for special wishes to be written in the back of gold paper cards placed in an embellished genie lamp. We love this tradition, because in the future when Little Mama experiences lonely moments in her life, she can always read these special messages and feel the love that she’s received all these years. 

This year – naturally… we needed to go with our Six and Kicks theme, accented with (of course) purple rhinestones as the headband. It helped, since we weren’t too keen on the mini ninja shapes, until we decorated it with the headband. I got a couple silver markers for guests to write their messages with, and cut it out of black card stock. I managed to fit 30+ ninja silhouettes on one big black poster. 

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

Let’s not forget the purple container to pull out all the fun messages for the preteen ninja, when she’s really needing reminders of how awesome she is!

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

TABLE DECOR

You know us, we can’t just set a table with plates and forks and call it a day. Somehow, I had to figure out a way to make a ninja themed table display, that is both child friendly and thematic, that didn’t require much work, and a crazy amount of funds. 

Ninja plates it is. 

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

When planning DIY ninja birthday party decor, I never felt like I actually had to look for ninja themed plates. That’s no fun! Once I settled with the colors, I decided to think about shapes and unique accents to bring the theme together. I printed out eyes (2 dots) all over 4 pages of cardstock and had a cutting party with only myself and my scissors in attendance (alongside, a glass of prosecco while enjoying a Netflix binge fest).  Inspired by our friends at Lilabos Blog I didn’t want to get too fancy with the table set up, so I used a little adhesive (non toxic, of course) for the eyes, and covered the rest of the alternating black and purple plates with a ninja-like napkin mask. Easy breezy!

But what about the adult ninjas? Don’t they get to eat too? 

Of course! 

Ninja star napkins was the perfect addition to the highly decorated snack table (and because, yes, I’m crazy). But it was rather apropos to add a little pizazz to our otherwise bland plate pile, don’t you think? Here’s how easy it was:

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

I retired my ninja star making efforts after a dozen or so, and decided to leave the purple ones well enough alone. #smartmove #tiredmama #onecanonlydosomuch

Ninja cups followed suit, and they were just as adorable and easy as the plates. Again – I printed smaller versions of the eyes and cut out oval shapes. I highly recommend using double sided tape and placing each cup inside the other until the party, so they take the shape of the rounded sides, as they tend to come apart otherwise.

And to add a little ninja flair to our DIY ninja party decor, the table was dressed with glitterized faux fighting gear, from foam swords, to purple accent nunchucks. Check out how the ninja feast turned out here.

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

But what good is a table for the feast, without the food? 

We kept things ultra simple this year, in contrast to the feast we painstakingly held for the last 2 years! It was easy to stick to a more asian theme limiting the options to snacks and desserts rather than full blown meals (ie: Since this wasn’t a Ninja Turtle Party, how to integrate pizzas and ninjas?).

Enter – Sushi sandwich rolls…

Here are the steps: 

  1. Slice cucumbers and cheese into long strips
  2. Choose a deli meat
  3. Flatten white pieces of bread (this is key to a good roll)
  4. Spread some mayo and veggie sauce (or avocado) on flattened bread
  5. Rock and ROLL! 

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

Voila! Uramaki-inspired sushi for kiddos!

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

Rice Square Nigiri Sushi was next on my list of to-dos.

First, we had to sort out the rice cakes. Luckily, my “assistant” Big Daddy happens to be quite the rice cake connoisseur. Here’s his go-to recipe for Rice Krispie Squares (he likes to go right to the source). 

It was difficult to score ourselves a pack or two of Red Swedish fish, but we finally found a variety pack at the local London Drugs. Not surprising, as that is our go-to stop to find the un-findables.

Normally I would be all about Fruit Roll ups to finish up the sushi pieces, but I couldn’t find a dark one that would go well with the theme. So I settled with easy to roll Black Wilton Fondant. 

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

I have always been threatened by fondant, but this was incredibly easy to roll out, flatten, and cut. 

Even more incredible, was the colorful sushi that took less than 10 minutes to make!

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

DIY Ninja Birthday Party

Nunchucks aren’t terribly age-appropriate for a 6 year old birthday party, I know. But if it’s made out of Little Debbie Chocolate Swiss Rolls and rainbow licorice, well… that’s enough to knock anyone out!

We cut them in half after inserting them carefully into each roll (not-so-fun fact: they tend to crack if you insert them too quickly), as there’s no way a 5 or 6 year old could handle an entire chocolate nunchuck set! Even better, cut the licorice in half once they’re locked in place, for an easy grab by tiny ninja fingers. You’ll thank me later.

Although this was a DIY ninja birthday party, I would be remiss not to supplement our snack spread with some of our fave asian-inspired snacks. These include and are definitely not limited to the likes of Baked Snapea Crisps, Astick Wafer Sticks, Pocky Biscuit Sticks (because, yum…), and of course fruits and veggies. Here was the final snack table layout. 

MILESTONE POSTER FOR THE GUEST OF HONOR

At the end of the day, our celebration was all about our little Ninja of Honor. As much as I got tied up with the DIY ninja birthday party planning, I had to take a step back and remember who this was all for. Thinking about how much my tiny ninja has grown into such a delightful Little Mama, I reflect on all the wonderful things that make her so darn special. Similar to the themed milestone posters from the previous years, I made one just for the occasion. 

As always, we like to plan our post-party thank yous ahead of time. This year, we decided to keep it simple. We printed out “So Grateful” cards which included a photo of the tiny ninjas in action (from the party), as well as Little Mama playing, reading, and simply enjoying the generous gifts that were given to her. Without words, it was easy enough to convey just how grateful we were by showing them Little Mama‘s gratitude in pictures. It’s also a perfect learning opportunity for Little Mama to appreciate each individual gift and card (most of which were homemade). Win win for all! 

And I almost forgot… 

Our little ninja herself.

Can’t have a DIY ninja birthday party without a do-it-yourself ninja costume….

With mommy’s wide black cotton belt tied at the back of her head, temporarily pieced together (loose, removable stitch, because we’re all for reusing and recycling) with a black chiffon scarf, we were able to create a safe and flexible face mask that she can use as mouth cover, or a fabulous light scarf (that’s more MY kind of ninja outfit). Topped off with an adorable Purple Hair Extension Clip, this little ninja went from stealth to slick.

Since we were able to get her mask finalized and fab-u-tized, a basic black Earth Elements crew neck long sleeve tee, and her go-to  Junior Gaultier harem paneled pants were the perfect alternative to a full-blown purchased (and $$$) costume. Instead of getting too complicated, we used leftover purple felt strips to crisscross around one of her calves while simply wrapping a make-shift belt around her waist. Since she’s an active and tiny ninja, an untied belt could be quite an annoyance, so I fastened a couple spots by hand sewing a loose stitch in case either of her ties became undone in the heat of all the excitement.

To be honest, I left her outfit to the very last minute. However, I know me, and if time was abundant (like that would ever happen!), I would have  gone a little overboard. Luckily with only a couple nuances here and there, we were able to transform a basic black outfit into a stealthy ninja inspired look. And it didn’t cost us a dime. This is one of those moments where going closet shopping is the best kind of shopping.

We absolutely loved preparing for this year’s DIY ninja birthday party – needle pokes and hot glue gun burns, inclusive. Little Mama asked for a DIY ninja birthday party sprinkled (more like doused) in purple glitter, and purple glitter she got. Check out our follow up post on how the party all turned out…

The LOOK:: Want it? GET it!

Why spend the mula, when you can just DIY? 

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Filed Under: party time, playing dress up, the everyday, Tomboy Chic Tagged With: asian, Baby, birthday, children, DIY, do it yourself, events, kids, kindergarten, mini-fashionista, ninja, party, purple

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

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Comments

  1. Aeryn Lynne says

    May 12, 2017 at 3:57 pm

    OMG, that all looks so very awesome!

    Ninja star napkins!! I’m thinking the nephew and I need to learn this just for everyday usage, lol.

    The headbands rock, as do those plush stuffies. So cool!
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  2. Lian says

    May 12, 2017 at 7:47 pm

    I LOVED your Ninja Birthday Party ideas! The rice ceral sushi rolls are an amazing snack that kids woudl love to snack on . So are your Sushi Sandwich rolls. The cherry on top of this party had to be teh gift bags. They were so adorable! I hope your daughter had the most awesome day!
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  3. Aimee Geroux says

    May 13, 2017 at 5:01 am

    This is so awesome. You are extremely creative and always throw amazing parties. Can I just hire you to execute my kids parties? LOL
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  4. Shubhada Bhide says

    October 7, 2017 at 1:24 am

    Wow! These ninja party themed looks so amazing. I am sure that your kid will enjoy this so much. I am looking forward to do these to my son.
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  5. Elizabeth O says

    October 7, 2017 at 1:33 am

    These ninja party themed looks so cool. You are such a creative and talented mom. You did it all perfectly. I am sure that your daughter will enjoy this so much. You did a great job.
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  6. Lucy - Travel Textbook says

    October 7, 2017 at 3:57 am

    This is SUCH a cool theme! I have a birthday coming up and might just use this — love it.

    Lucy x

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  7. Katie says

    October 7, 2017 at 6:51 pm

    This is so cute and creative! I love the headbands and throwing star napkins. Kids’ parties are so much fun.
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  8. Tanvi Rastogi says

    October 7, 2017 at 7:23 pm

    Wow … so much work went into it … but it turned out so great! So creative and so much fun. I hope your daughter enjoyed it.

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  9. Cia Black says

    October 8, 2017 at 5:49 am

    This is completely and absolutely the cutest thing ever. You put in some serious work for this one and my goodness everything look fabulous. How in the world did you come up with all these goodies.
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  10. Laura Charles says

    October 8, 2017 at 10:34 pm

    What a fun post! I love how much creativity you put into planning this ninja party. I recently helped my sister planned a disney princess party, and quite honestly we could’ve gotten much more done if we DIY some of the decorations. Although it may require additional work, I think the outcome is worth it.
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  11. Afroz says

    October 8, 2017 at 11:22 pm

    What a fabulous theme birthday party.. your girl and her friends must be thrilled. Love the minute details.
    Love the idea of head bands and nunchucks.
    Happy birthday to the birthday girl!
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  12. Nicole Flint says

    October 8, 2017 at 11:46 pm

    I love all of the decor! Very creative. All of your hard work definitely paid off! Seems like such a fun party!
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  13. Linda says

    October 9, 2017 at 8:39 am

    So many creative ideas for the Ninja party! My godson would love this, I will steal some of the ideas 😉
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  14. MinhNguyen says

    October 9, 2017 at 8:43 pm

    I follow you, you are always creative with good ideas. This idea I will perform at the birthday party for an upcoming friend.
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  15. Oyinkan says

    October 10, 2017 at 8:50 pm

    So lucky that you were able to get your decor from the dollar tree. Parties can get so pricey!
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  16. Thena says

    October 14, 2017 at 7:08 am

    This is adorable. Love the dollar tree so much!!! Great job saving money on the party, looks awesome!
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I carried so much guilt this past year. June hit I carried so much guilt this past year.

June hit hard. Work. Caregiving. Mental load to the nth degree. End-of-school-year chaos. Health stuff. Heavy news. Financial stress. And loads of the dreaded Mama Guilt - of not being able to celebrate my son’s birthday for the 3rd year in a row due to unforeseen circumstances…

Then another mama, also tired, also busy, also carrying her own invisible load in the realm of business and caregiving, invited my son to join in for her already-planned birthday celebration for HER son…

And even if he was surrounded by new faces in a higher grade - it ended up being everything my son would’ve wanted: laughter, friends - new and old, Nerf battles, a waterslide bouncy castle of his dreams, a killer last minute donut cake tower from @pacificplatterscharcuterie (Thank you to another Mama that gets it!), and memories to last a lifetime…

It reminded me of something I think many of us need to hear:

Leaning on your village doesn’t mean you failed your child.

It means you SHARED a load you were never meant to carry alone.

There is something powerful about mothers who see each other’s invisible load… and quietly decide to help carry it.

The village I needed wasn’t made up of people with more time or more energy.

Sometimes our village looks like another mom simply saying,

“Don’t worry - I gotchu. Let’s do this together.”

And that is more than enough. ❤️

Bless your big, beautiful, busy heart my friend @sarjo08 and @jasonhemz for inviting us and filling my little man’s cup at a time we weren’t as equipped to. He had a blast and absolutely loved celebrating with him and all his friends … ❤️❤️❤️
For years, I honestly thought this was just mother For years, I honestly thought this was just motherhood.

Being exhausted.
Forgetting everything.
Feeling overwhelmed.
Running on caffeine and adrenaline.
Wondering why I never quite felt like me.

A while ago I started working on my gut 🥤health, and for the first time in a long time I noticed little shifts.

• More mental clarity.
• Less brain fog.
• More creativity.
• Better stress resilience.

It made me ask a question I couldn’t stop thinking about…

What if these weren’t just personality flaws or “mom life”?

What if my body had been trying to tell me something all along?

So I’ve decided to stop guessing.

I’m working with @jac-lyn from @rewildfunctionalhealth , a functional health practitioner, to dig deeper, explore root causes, and document the entire process: the wins, the setbacks, and everything in between.

I’m calling this series “Getting My Sass Back” because that’s exactly what it feels like I’m searching for.

Not perfection.

Just me.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve been living in survival mode, I hope you’ll join me.

❤️ The investigation has already begun, and continues - so be sure to subscribe on YouTube (sass and smalls). Some pretty 👀 opening stuff… 

So grateful to you @i_am_miss_jen for the impeccable matchmaking. My health thanks you… 

#GettingMySassBack #FunctionalHealth #HealthJourney GutHealth BrainFog MomLife MentalLoad HealingJourney Women’sHealth HTMATesting VictoriaBC
It happened on Autism Pride Day. — For years, we It happened on Autism Pride Day.

—

For years, we spent so much energy trying to help our daughter fit into a world that wasn’t built for her.

We chased therapies.
We chased milestones.
We chased the idea of what we thought her future was supposed to look like.

Sometimes, if I’m being completely honest, we were trying to fix things we didn’t yet understand.

We heard heartbreaking predictions.

Some professionals told us she would likely never progress beyond the abilities of a five- year-old child.

We were told to prepare for limitations.

We were told to lower our expectations.

What no one told us was that the goal was never to make her more like everyone else.

The goal was to help her find her way to HERSELF.

That shift changed everything.

Over the years, we homeschooled when it was the right fit, even when others questioned it. We searched for programs that understood her. We listened to support workers who saw her strengths. We found camps, social groups, sports programs, and communities where she wasn’t expected to fit into someone else’s mold.

And little by little, she began to thrive.

She found her voice.

She found confidence.

She found belonging.

Most importantly, she found herself.

This year, after finding a school program that truly supports her learning style and focuses on life skills, she said something I will never forget:

“I finally feel like myself, Mommy.”

Those words healed parts of my heart I didn’t even know were still holding their breath.

Because the truth is, I wasn’t waiting for her to become someone different.

I was waiting to know she would be okay.

And she is.

Autism Pride isn’t about pretending there aren’t challenges.

It’s about recognizing that autistic people don’t need to become less autistic to deserve joy, friendship, opportunity, acceptance, or love.

It’s about taking pride in who they are and embracing the community where they belong.

Today, I celebrate my daughter exactly as she is.

She has taught me more about courage, authenticity, resilience, and unconditional love than I could ever teach her.

I am so proud of her.

And if I’m honest, she’s been my teacher all along.
Nine parents. Nine very different stories. (Mine, Nine parents.

Nine very different stories.
(Mine, included).

Military/Naval families. Solo parents. Single parents. Neurodivergent & Profound Needs families. Blended families. Adoptive families. Families navigating loss, burnout, caregiving, infertility, generational trauma, and everything in between.

What surprised me most wasn’t how different we were and how different our journeys were to get here.

It was how much we SHARED in common.

❤️

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk reminded me that behind every smile, every school drop-off, every achievement, and every family photo, there is often a story no one else can see.

And yet, somehow, we keep showing up.

So take that moment to pause, and pat yourself on the back. Better yet, hug a parent in your life, who may be carrying that invisible load too.

It’s a game changer.

@jenny_p1987 
@caarly.xo 
@westislanddesigns 
@drawnpublications 
@nikkye_music 
@of.ocean.and.earth.photo 
@mama_brykin 
@spoletinigiuseppe 
@gjavier5 

Grateful for the platform you provided for us to share our stories @telus @storyhive  @haus.of.owl
FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly mo FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly more than one burntout mom with a microphone and a dream. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Meet the incredible CREW behind Season 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast … the people who made me LOOK good, SOUND good, stay on SCHEDULE, and reminded me to sip on my HAPPY J 🥤. 

Huge thanks to my KILLER 🔥 CREW: @jakerfilms (editor & Sass 🎵 Man/Deb whisperer), @nikkye_music (set designer & Epi 4 Guest that made me 😭), @remy.is.remy (A/V Tech/ Production/ Lifesaver), @eric.thebald (A/V Tech/ Audio Mixer/Dreammaker), @hoelune (Production Assistant/Admin/Best support evah), @gjavier5 (Production Assist/ Moral Support/Lovah ❤️), @esther.driver (Production Assist/ Keep me in check/Mama support), and @telus @storyhive for making this vision into reality.

Special thank you to, Geoff @themurdles 4 keeping this chaos👸🏻 in line, and my 2 Smallies who inspired all of this. 👶🏻👧🏻 Love u 2 the 🌓 and back ♾️.

The GUESTS are AMAZING.
The STORIES are POWERFUL.
The SET is GORG (@haus.of.owl).
And all the episodes will be ONLINE and ready to binge TOMORROW - JUNE 16, 2026 on YOUTUBE!

It takes a VILLAGE to raise a child AND a PODCAST. 🎙️

Thanks my #BTS CREW, for being mine…

Ima go and cry myself to sleep now. I’m the luckiest & most exhausted 😴 Pod-Mom Host in the 🌎. Love you all too much. 

#humbled #letsgooooo
Behind every Momfluencer… It’s still the month of Behind every Momfluencer…

It’s still the month of May, the month moms get their Hallmark spotlight - So in honour of that, I wanted to share a little story.

When I first moved from LA to Victoria as a new mom and began building my brand online from home, I struggled with finding a true sense of belonging. I never felt like I fully belonged in the “mom world”, especially in a new community, not fully in the creative world, and definitely not in the often viral-chasing digital world I could never seem to keep up with.

Ironically, I was a “part” of everything but belonged to nothing.

…or so I thought.

As I opened myself up to the many communities WITHIN my community, I realized something:

The moment I stopped trying to “fit in” and leaned into who I actually am… that’s when everything changed.

And that’s what I love most about this group of women featured by @islandparent Magazine — in all the ways we are different, we are also one and the same.

Different voices. Different lives. Different ways of showing up for the world.

But all rooted in connection, creativity, community, and a deep love for our families.

Beyond being “mamas of influence,” these women use their platforms while opening their hearts and homes.

Some share family life tips, recipes, wellness journeys, sandwich gen truths, and initiate mental health conversations.
Some inspire through faith, fashion, creativity, gardening, travel, and outdoor adventures.
Some advocate fiercely for neurodivergent children while navigating neurodivergence themselves.

Some use storytelling, humour, or podcasts 😉 to help other parents feel seen and less alone.

And somehow, in between school pickups, medical appointments, assessment forms, homemaking, caregiving, and late nights searching for a little silence and brain clarity after long days of “othering” — we are building businesses, brands, and meaningful lives for our families.

We cheer each other on. 
We lift each other up.

And in finding my place within this realm of motherhood… I found home.

“It takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise the parent.” 

#MomsSupportingMoms #VancouverIslan
POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast FULL TILT… but your ADHD brain 🧠 chimed in:

“might as well just release a whole song while we’re at it” 🤷🏻‍♀️

So now my Auntie Norma 🇵🇭 can stream me on Spotify while she washes dishes 😂 #winwin (but still… #whatjusthappened)

Meanwhile:
🏠 messy house
🎥 unfinished podcast clips
🧺 laundry mountain thriving in the background

BUT ANYWAYYYY—

🎧 “I Need My Sass Back” is now streaming on Spotify, iTunes, Amazon Music & everywhere you listen to music 

Your fault, @jakerfilms for writing the darn thing in the first place… 🤣 #dontthinkstraight

Full video link is in my bio if you want the whole vibe 🎬
Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/h Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/how to actually WATCH this podcast I keep talking about… 😂

So here’s how to find @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Seasons 1 & 2 on TELUS Optik TV + Stream+ Ch.9 

And yes… I said TV. 📺 
(“Mom! Look! I’m on tv!” And yes… I did that too… 🤣🤣)

**Thnx to TELUS @storyhive  for making it possible!!

And until June… it will ONLY be available to those who have @telus as their provider or have access to Stream+ & OptikTV, then it will be out in the interwebs for all to see. 👀

My little podcast-that-could is up and running, alive & streaming. Just search within the app on your TELUS TV, “StoryHive Sass”

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk features raw, meaningful conversations with the many faces of parenthood in our beautiful city, here on Vancouver Island (and beyond), caregivers, creatives, and changemakers carrying the mental load, navigating real life parenting, with honesty and heart. I promise you won’t be disappointed…

Featuring guests including @spoletinigiuseppe, @nikkye_music, @of.ocean.and.earth.photo, and more beautiful humans this season. 

MEET MY VILLAGE… 

Be sure to watch our Music vid tribute on YouTube to all of my guests from THEIR kids and I. Find, like, & Subscribe on YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls ALSO NOW AVAILABLE On Spotify and Apple Music/Itunes! 

#ParentingPodcast #CanadianPodcast #TELUSStoryhive #NeurodivergentParenting #mentalloadofparenting
MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a little help from THEIR kids.. 

I didn’t expect this to actually work…

⸻

For the past few weeks, I’ve been working quietly on something really special — a surprise for every guest who’s ever been part of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast… from my Zoom OGs - circa 2022, to my TELUS @storyhive ⁠seasons on the tube 📺, to my crew/village/emotional support squad.

What started as a gift — a piece of music from my out-of-the-box-thinker & editor @jakerfilms, turned into something SO. MUCH. MORE. MEANINGFUL.

With the help of my incredible creative village at @haus.of.owl @remy.is.remy, led by the big beautiful brain 🧠 of Eric Hinch @eric.thebald, my Director 👏🏼🎬 Hinchalot Films (www.filmnow.ca), and the talented Dan @dn.gib & @erinbradleyartist 💄, we brought it to life!

… but the part that gets me right in the gut??

THE SMALLIES…. THESE KIDS….

The very kids who made all of us parents in the first place — including mine, who aren’t normally THIS comfortable “performing” in front of a camera.

Kids who have felt burnout.
Kids who have felt misunderstood.
Neurodivergent kiddos that hold a special place in my ❤️.

Kids who showed up anyway — with courage, joy, and love — to help me create something meaningful for their parents.

And somewhere in all of this…

I found my way back to me.

Back to music.
Back to creativity.
Back to MY SASS.
‘cuz isn’t this what Sass & Small Talk is all about?

⸻

This video is for my village.
For the parents.
For the kids.
For anyone who’s ever felt like they lost a part of themselves along the way.

⸻

👉 The full video is now on YouTube at https://m.youtube.com/@sassandsmalls
(Link in bio)

** Watch and feel COMMUNITY IN ACTION. Gosh - I love you guys!

Ps… If this resonates - keep up with new episodes already streaming on TELUS STORYHIVE - by liking & Subscribing!

“Cuz it Takes a village to raise a child. 

And a community, to raise their parent”

⸻

#SassAndSmallTalk #ParenthoodUnfiltered #MentalLoad MomLife FindYourselfAgain CreativeMom Storytelling VillageSupport TELUSStoryHive @hoelune @rahannavu @iamharpsra @rajinthehouse @lindakyaw_m @nengineermom @i_am_miss_jen @esther.driver
JENN. Meet my village… There are episodes… and th JENN. Meet my village…

There are episodes…
and then there are stories that change your life forever.

This one is both.

She’s not just my guest.
She’s the woman who offered a piece of herself… when our world was falling apart.

Because of her, we have our son.
Because of her, our family feels whole. 

And watching this back—seeing her complete her family too…
full circle doesn’t even begin to cover it.

I wasn’t planning to share this moment.
But this is what this season is about.

The real stories.
The unseen moments of a mama sitting in her living room after the kids are asleep. 
The love that carries families through the unimaginable.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really looks like behind the scenes of motherhood, loss, and rebuilding…

This episode is for you. 🤍

🎧 Episode 1 is out now. 

TELUS OptikTV StoryHive gave me the platform to share these meaningful stories. 

Because it takes a Village to Raise a child. And a community to raise their parent. 
#eggdonor #chosenfamily #infertility #ittakesavillage #mentalload
Meet My Village 🤍 IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!! Season 2 of Meet My Village 🤍

IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!!

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk, filmed at @haus.of.owl studios, on @StoryHive, Sponsored by TELUS, IS HERE 

… and these are the faces behind the real, raw, and beautiful stories of the mental load of parenting.

From Victoria, and beyond, each guest shares how they carry it all… and keep showing up.

Featuring a very special first episode close to my heart… and a full-circle finale with a dear childhood friend now gracing the stages of NYC - you won’t want to miss.

🎬 Watch now on TELUS Optik TV (Channel 9 On Demand) + Stream+

Let’s support local stories, local voices, and the village that holds us all.

Because it takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise their parent.

#SassAndSmallTalk #StoryHive #MeetMyVillage
Easter used to feel like pressure: The perfect m Easter used to feel like pressure: 

The perfect meal. 
The perfect table. 
The kids sitting through the meal and actually eating it. 
The food not burning.

And somehow… still ending the day exhausted, touched out, and a little resentful… 

This year, I let go. I had no choice… with the launch of the new season on the pod, I had to choose my battles…

My 7-year-old — my busy, high-energy, “maybe not spaghetti” kid — decided he was making “superrrrr spaghetti.”
His way. 
His ideas. 
His “special ingredients.”

Was it messy? Yep.
Was it chaotic? Absolutely.
Was it perfect? Not even close.

But something shifted.

He took ownership.
He created.
He plated dinner like a little chef with a vision (volcano spaghetti and all 🌋🍝).

And he was SO proud.
And me?
I rested. I watched. I let go of control — and the mental load that usually comes with it.

THIS is what I’m learning:
• The more we try to control everything, the heavier it gets for us… and the less space our kids have to rise.

• When we let them lead (in age-appropriate ways), they don’t just help… they LEAD.

More pride.
More participation.
More appreciation.
More connection.
Less perfection. 
More magic.
** BONUS: and less craving for screen time #winwin

This wasn’t the Easter dinner I would’ve planned…but it’s the one we’ll actually remember ❤️

Taking a page outta your book @anna_skates ❤️❤️
Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where they’re at. Embrace the chaos, the messy experiments, the unrelenting curiosity. Let their 🧠 do its thing and step aside to see the magic.

Took me an entire lifetime to figure it out:
• Spent all of my childhood trying to “fit in”
• Struggled to mask but did it anyway 
• Met a boy. Also a creative and professional masker.
• Took a “creative” path less travelled as young adult on a one way flight to LA
• Loved life. 
• Received negative feedback from well-intentioned naysayers and loved ones
• Felt shame for not hitting the markers 
• Became a mom. 
• Read ALLLL the parenting books. 
• Spent over a decade fighting against my  first born’s “artist” brain and finding ways to “fix” what was not even broken
• Hated conforming and made some pivots while wearing metaphorical headphones to block out opinions/outside noise
• Loved Life 
• Had my youngest little man - came out of womb loud, intentional, & unapologetic 
• Threw out all parenting books and accepted the beautiful neurodivergent 🧠s taking over our entire household
• Gave both kids creative freedoms and stepped aside (mostly not intentionally. they’re too fast and I’m too old) 
• Learned how to celebrate the curious, comical, and weirdly wired brains that is our family. 
• Let my kids teach ME to have courage, think differently, and not just take the road less travelled - but actually #owningit
• Jumped into creating my own #podcast headfirst and never looked back

“Don’t Think Straight”, by Jacob Insley, is definitely one of our go-tos I’ll be keeping on my bookshelf for years to come. 

@jakerfilms you killed it with all these nuggets and takeaways! We’re all fighting for a turn to read - look at you causing ruckus in our home!?! 🤣 PS - My little guy requests to be in your 2nd book. 🤣🤣

#bebold #getmysassback #create
Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. It’s been a bitter swe Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. 

It’s been a bitter sweet one this year. But we are working through Grief that will never go away. Especially on milestone days like this. 

Not only is it Dad Felix’s first Heavenly Birthday (Valentine’s Day), it’s also a day we lost our 6th pregnancy before we finally had our little guy. I truly believe Dad is as much present with our babies in heaven, as he is with his 4 Grandkids on earth. 

There’s healing in loving family. Thank you for your constant reminders of this Dad/Grandpa Felix. We miss you so much. 

#sandwichgeneration #caregiving #family #multigenerational
It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. When our f It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. 

When our first family friendly white 🥼 party turns into a full blown midlife crisis.🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

(And no… he is NOT okay)… 🤣🤣

#thisis50
#dadlife  #unclelife
#GenXLife
#ParentingMoments 
#TheyGrowUpFast 
#RealLifeParents
#riuwhiteparty
#mexico
#dinerenblanc
He turned 50. Shouting it from the rooftops was no He turned 50.
Shouting it from the rooftops was not an option, so naturally - we had it announced at 40,000 feet ✈️🎂

For context:
This man avoids attention like it’s turbulence.

This??
Actual NIGHTMARE. 😂🤣🤣

But after a rough year of loss, change, and having to step up in so many facets, he deserved a little LOUD love. 📣🎉🥳

Happy 50th to the man I’ve loved for more than half his life.
You chose me, chaos and all… so really, this one’s on you. 😉😉

Thanks @flairairlines for this unforgettable #birthday moment.

If you’ve got a second, send this sweet, shy 50-year-old young man some love… he’ll be back to low-key status in about 72 hours. ⏰💛

@gjavier5 💙💜

#ThisIs50
#50thBirthday 
#MarriageHumor 
#RealLifeMoments 
#PlaneAnnouncement 
#MilestoneBirthday 
#LoveInTheMiddle 
#LifeLately 
#ImperfectAndReal 
#FamilyLife 
#Grief
#caregiving
#GenX
#sandwichgeneration 
#ReelsThatMakeYouSmile
Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — an Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. Also Me: 🎥📹🔦 Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

********************

Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam an 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
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