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Alivia Simone Bristol Wool Dress :: A Darling Look for the Dreary Weather #Review #Giveaway

November 19, 2015 By Deb B. 37 Comments

Living on an island, the weather is all over the place. Yesterday, it was remarkably sunny and beautiful. The day before, there was a 90% chance of drizzle, with a 10% chance of everything else. Today – it’s just cold. But not quite cold enough to throw on our puffy jackets. Darn it. We love our puffy jackets.

In any event, Little Mama and I decided to spend some good ol’ fashioned one-on-one time together. Unlike most days of rushing around doing drop offs and pick ups, appointments here and playdates there – today, was one of those rare occasions where we had the flexibility to sit back, hold hands, and enjoy a good sesh of people watching over a cup of yummy hot chocolate. Side note: Big Mama likes to throw in a couple counting and alphabet exercises in between hot cocoa sips – but it’s so brilliantly subtle, she doesn’t even notice she’s actually learning something.

Back to my date with my mini-me. Days like this, we both agree, it’s best to put on our ladies-who-lunch winter wear. It’s not cute to be shivering in the corner of a quaint cafe, sporting a short sleeve with capris, wishing we brought our blankets and ear muffs. But it sure is faboosh to throw on our most luxurious plaid wool dress, and some fun accessories to match.

And faboosh, are we.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

We love to stay warm and cozy, even at the risk of the sun peeking out (that’s what layers are for, right?). Big Mama always has an extra set of play clothes in the car, so we’re prepared for any extreme weather shift. But today, we knew it was going to be a special day. We made a firm decision to take a break from our typical itinerary of finger painting and jumping in mud puddles, essentially committing to a luxurious day of cozy wool and all around fabulousness.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

We are in love with the Bristol Wool Dress from our friends at Alivia Simone. Like all of their designs, this piece boasts of a contemporary silhouette made only of the best quality wool mix, splashed with a warm and inviting color palette – keeping in trend, flirting with classic sophistication, but ultimately saturated with youthful play.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

We are especially thrilled that it comes with front welt pockets, where Little Mama can hide some of her most beloved treasures. This comes in handy as she reveals the rocks she discovered along the way from the car to the cafe, which she conveniently stores in her super cool pockets. It also keeps her little hands warm as we brave the crisp weather, bearing a striking resemblance to Big Daddy (who coincidentally, cannot live without pockets).

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

And how chic are these faux leather accents? We patted our backs with the flawless pairing of pleather accent tuxedo leggings. It was a match made in microfashion heaven.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

The USA manufactured Bristol Wool Dress is made comfortable and functional. We love the texture and overall feel of this design – lightweight and soft to the touch. With a little lady who is extra sensitive to virtually anything that touches her skin, comfort and a delicate lining is very important to us. But aside from how practical and comfortable it is – let’s face it… this dress is beautiful.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Alivia Simone‘s mission is simple, “create beautiful clothes for beautiful souls.” And nothing is more beautiful than witnessing your little one owning the moment, and feeling every bit themselves in something so lovely, just as they would feel in their jammies curled up to one of their favorite bed time books.

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Why does your little one need a luxury piece like the Bristol Wool dress for the winter? 4 reasons:

  1. It feels warm, but looks oh so cool – Like I said – the alternative is a puffy jacket. But as much as we love being swaddled by a soft layer of goose feathers, we can’t be sporting the Michelin Man look all day while sitting in a quaint cafe sipping on steamed milk, can we?
  2. For spontaneous mommy (daddy) and me dates – I think it’s safe to assume, that most of our kiddos have drawers filled with everyday play wear. They need at least one piece that sticks out of the cottons. Occasions like a special date with their favorite grown up calls for a versatile piece that makes them feel comfy and fab.
  3. In some places, they will get at least half a year’s worth of wear out of it – Sure, this isn’t something Little Mama would be breaking out in the scorching heat we suffer through enjoy throughout the summer months, but I am almost 100% certain we can find 8 different ways to wear this dress for 8 different winter events (a later post on that coming soon), and…
  4. It’s ridiculously adorable – I mean – seriously…

Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

So what are your thoughts on us sharing some of this love with you?! “I WOOLY think so”, says Little Mama!

Together, with our friends at Alivia Simone, we are offering one of our lucky readers a chance to win their very own Bristol Wool Dress for the little lady in their lives!

:: GIVEAWAY TIME ::

Enter to win a gorgeous Alivia Simone Bristol Wool Dress from the Fall/Winter 2015 Collection! Simply fill out the form below. For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

Contest closes Friday, December 4th  – at 11:59PM PST! The winner will be revealed Monday, December 7th , 2015! If you have an Instagram account, check us out at @babystylista for more ways to enter (Bonus points!).

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Alivia Simone FW 2015 Bristol Wool Dress www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Accessories :: Joe Fresh Felt Floppy hat (similar OLD ENGLAND Brown Wool Hat here)  |  Tortoise oversized sunglasses (similar Crazy 8 Tortoise Sunglasses here)  |  H&M Fringe Purse (similar Ralph Lauren Fringed Leather Cross-Body Bag here)  |  Dress :: Alivia Simone Bristol Wool Dress  |  Top :: Hot Chillys Kids Peachskin Turtleneck  |  Bottom :: Girls’ Faux Leather Tuxedo Stripe Leggings  |  Footwear :: Eddie Marc Black Boots (similar GEOX Ankle boots here)

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What are your little one’s fall/winter essentials that keep them warm and feeling fab?

It’s cool to stay warm… 

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About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Anne Taylor says

    November 19, 2015 at 9:23 am

    One of my granddaughters has a super soft and cushy scarf and glove set that she just loves
    Reply
  2. manda says

    November 19, 2015 at 12:05 pm

    Comfy jacket.
    Reply
  3. Little Miss Kate says

    November 19, 2015 at 12:33 pm

    I love the pockets on the dress, it is just too cute!
    My DS is all about the hoodies this fall.
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  4. Brandee H says

    November 19, 2015 at 1:00 pm

    My little one loves hats!! And is way too picky about his shoes!
    Reply
  5. Shoshana says

    November 19, 2015 at 1:12 pm

    My daughters love their cozy hats and mittins!
    Reply
  6. Suzanne G says

    November 19, 2015 at 2:25 pm

    My granddaughter has cute boots and a great parka that help keep her warm and looking styling in the winter.
    Reply
  7. Lindsay says

    November 19, 2015 at 3:19 pm

    My daughter is only 4 months old, so she’s in pajamas and PADRAIGS! Padraig slippers are her wardrobe staple.
    Reply
  8. Bailey Dexter says

    November 19, 2015 at 5:05 pm

    Well if you asked her she would say it’s her purse! But I know she loves the plaid dress coat.
    Reply
  9. Merry120 says

    November 19, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    Do they make this in big sizes? Because I think I would ROCK it. She is so cute (just like her mama).
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  10. Ladena says

    November 19, 2015 at 9:21 pm

    That dress is GORGEOUS! Wow. I want one in my size! Your little mama wears it well. I love the big hat and sunglasses. It really completes the look!
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  11. Caroline M. says

    November 19, 2015 at 10:51 pm

    My daughter has beautiful lined jeans that keep her warm & cute.
    Reply
  12. Aeryn Lynne says

    November 20, 2015 at 8:54 am

    LOVING Little Mama’s fashion sense, that dress is gorgeous WOW!

    For my nephew, right now all I can think are gloves for an essential, since he somehow left his behind for school, doh. *facepalm* Thinking on it, he definitely needs a new pair of killer boots as well, lol.
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  13. Randa @ TBK says

    November 20, 2015 at 9:11 am

    I love this look! Perfect for winter 🙂 Such a stylist icon 🙂
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  14. Elizabeth L says

    November 20, 2015 at 10:41 pm

    Both my girls are definitely into their cute hat and mitten sets! LOVE this dress, it’s amazing!
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  15. Doris H says

    November 21, 2015 at 5:40 pm

    Scarf, hat, gloves
    Reply
  16. Holly MacRitchie says

    November 21, 2015 at 5:45 pm

    My niece loves to wear leg warmers!
    Reply
  17. Melanie Morin says

    November 21, 2015 at 7:40 pm

    Since we live in so cal just a warm jacket is usually enough in the winter
    Reply
  18. Elizabeth Matthiesen says

    November 22, 2015 at 1:57 pm

    here the most important thing is warm winter boots, mitts, scarf, hat and jacket!
    Reply
  19. Laurie P says

    November 22, 2015 at 4:30 pm

    Some warm stylish boots are a must! My girl is fascinated with footwear!
    Reply
  20. Cheryl says

    November 22, 2015 at 4:38 pm

    For our girls they just love scarves and short boots!! 🙂
    Reply
  21. Crystal Porter says

    November 22, 2015 at 6:21 pm

    Scarf, hat and mittens. A nice sweater is great too.
    Reply
  22. Tammy says

    November 23, 2015 at 8:49 am

    a pair of fleece lined Tights!
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  23. Jenny Major says

    November 26, 2015 at 7:25 pm

    Scarf, hat and mittens.
    Reply
  24. ivy pluchinsky says

    November 26, 2015 at 8:41 pm

    my niece stays warm with warm boots and sweaters
    Reply
  25. Viv Sluys says

    November 27, 2015 at 5:54 am

    Lately my 3 year old has been all about her pink velour sweatpants and her pink long sleeve turtle neck (the turtle neck is pretty low as far as they go). My 5 year old is all about layering tights/leggings with shorts. My 7 year old tends to layer her tops more than the bottoms but she is more about comfort than style in these cold months!
    Reply
  26. nicolthepickle says

    November 27, 2015 at 11:18 am

    My kids wear lots of leggings with “dancy” dresses over top.

    I love her style. It’s perfect.

    Reply
  27. Gillian Morgan says

    November 27, 2015 at 2:12 pm

    Sophie has got to have a nice hat and a scarf and mittens that match. She also has to have her UGGs and her pink coat.
    Reply
    • Bonnie Way says

      November 28, 2015 at 3:27 pm

      What an adorable dress! Right now my girls are all about their hats. 🙂
      Reply
  28. Tricia Hope says

    November 28, 2015 at 11:44 pm

    Last Christmas I came arms loaded with gifts and books for my grand daughter.I also got her a few cute outfits for which she abandoned her toys to try on.I got her the cutest pink fuzzy vest that her Mom curses me for I’m sure everyday.It is all she ever wants to wear.
    Reply
  29. Deborah Mullan says

    December 3, 2015 at 1:25 pm

    Annabelle needs this dress!
    Reply
  30. Jennifer Estaris says

    December 3, 2015 at 1:30 pm

    Gorgeous wool dress! We have a pretty Oilily coat that’s themed to Alice in Wonderland that I cannot wait for my 2 year old to use when it gets colder.
    Reply
  31. Melanie says

    December 3, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    My little one loves her patent leather boots for Fall/Winter. Sorels for this girl? No way!
    Reply
  32. Jacqueline Ngo says

    December 3, 2015 at 9:47 pm

    My lil one loves to keep warm with my infinity scarfs and tall boots and white knitted gloves! She likes scarves because she wants to be like her mommy and thinks it’s hilarious so I always am happy to share my stuff with her! She also always have to have her sunglasses too because it’s “sunny outside!” Haha. She’s so practical!
    Reply
  33. Katie says

    December 4, 2015 at 6:38 am

    Socks and boots are a must to keep my little ones toes warm. But this dress! I must win! 👍😄 thank u
    Reply
  34. Kitty says

    December 4, 2015 at 5:18 pm

    A cute sweater with a matching pair of gloves and a hat!
    Reply
  35. Megan says

    December 4, 2015 at 5:49 pm

    My girls live in their Peekaboo beans “frozen” jackets with faux fur , knit headbands and emu boots & no name rubber boots with hunter boot socks when not playing in the snow 🙂
    Reply
  36. Sarah at Journeys of The Zoo says

    December 7, 2015 at 6:29 pm

    Your beautiful girl is growing up so quickly! Time flies when you’re having fun. Thinking of you.

    Besos, Sarah
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Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

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It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

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It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

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It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

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The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

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We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

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Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

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Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

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(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

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All of them. 

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When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your village takes over and plans ahead for you. 

Enter, days worth of #waffles and #pancakes for your sweet-breakfast-obsessed family. All so I can focus on working on season 2 of my show @sassandsmalltalkpodcast @Telus @storyhive now in production, whilst #caregiving the parents full time and no summer camps for the kiddos in sight. Let’s just say 24 hours in a day isn’t quite enough… 😴 is kinda out the window too. 

Thank you @caarly.xo for knowing I’m in the season, and just doing what you do… as always. 

Now please go back to your family of 6 😲, because they are probably tired of sharing you with us after all these MONTHS… LOVE you, and THANK you for all you’ve done for our family. 

The waffles were just the delish icing on the cake. There was muuuuuuch much more you supported us with while across the country as we focused on family, and we are grateful to you…  thank you. 

#ittakesavillage #sassandsmalltalk #telus #storyhive
Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #caregiver #s Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️
#caregiver #seekingvalidation #daughterofimmigrants #proudgrandparents

J/K… she was proud (I think). 
And she actually read it (I think)… 🤔🤔

Grab a copy @islandparent on local stands or check out the link on IG stories and in my BIO. 

And read the article @mommamillsblog, my girl, Natasha wrote on the true meaning of wealth in parenthood. 

Lots of gems!
#islandparentmagazine #parenting #homeschool #mentalhealth #mentalwellness 

Do you still find yourself seeking your #elderly parents approval even as a parent yourself?
Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉 When you’re a par Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉

When you’re a parent, caregiver, and running your own show on zero sleep… “sneaking out” mid-day with that cutie (who kinda resembles your spouse 🤷🏻‍♀️ ) for YUUUUUMMMY local @drumroaster #specialitycoffee, is basically the best (and only) date you’ll get. 

And honestly? We’ll take it. ✨

Talk “latte” to me. 💛 

*Tho that Canadian Macchiato ☕️ was next level…* Jus’ sayin’

Catch the @aerobicgeisha.coffee #mobilecoffee #cartonwheels #PopUp 🚲 at @westshoretowncentre — now ‘til Sept 3 (closed Mondays). 

#SupportLocal #ParentDateVibes #BurnoutFuel #CoffeeDate #hubbahubba #coffeeismylovelanguage #westshoretowncentre #aerobicgeisha #geishacoffee #aerobicgeishacoffee
**He had NO idea what he got himself into when he **He had NO idea what he got himself into when he answered that phone call from the crazy big(ish) city girl.**⁣
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Yes… I made the first move.⁣
And yes… I called him on an actual telephone. With a rotary dial. Connected to a wall.⁣ ☎️⁣
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That was 26 years ago.⁣
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10 years later (16 years ago today), he asked me to meet him at the end of the aisle and make it official 🤵🏻👰🏻—which we did, surrounded by everyone we love, and then danced the night away at the bottom of the Seinfeld steps.⁣
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Thank you for doing life with me, George @gjavier5. You’ve always been (and always will be) my #1 go-to for all things Cobra Kai 🐍, the best fellow imperfect-perfect parent to those little humans who look suspiciously like you 👧🏻👦🏻—and of course, co-parent to our two stinky OG furry kids 🦮🐕‍🦺.⁣ Thanks for being the yin to my “extra”🤪. And I’m the yang to your “chill” 😎
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Now stop scrolling and go kill that spider in the living room… or I might have to tell the world who really watches The Bachelor between the two of us 👀🌹
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I love you!! (And no… this is not just a clever way to get you to finally agree that the TV we bought the year we got married is long overdue for retirement 📺🫠)⁣ 😉 
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D&G, finally.
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#16YearsMarried #26YearsTogether #dgfinally #atlast #happyanniversary
Meet Emily. She coped by staying busy. Corporate Meet Emily. 

She coped by staying busy.
Corporate life. 
#Sidehustles. 
Always moving.
Until #burnout stopped her cold.

When Emily Bowman  @emlambow @nevaehjade.beautywellness, at the tender age of 12, began the life of a heartbreaking reality of #caregiving for a loved one, and eventually losing her father after a decade long battle with cancer, she pushed through the pain the only way she knew how — by working harder. 

But #grief always finds a way to surface.

#Fitness became her lifeline.
Now it’s not just her outlet — it’s her saving grace... and her business.

So grateful for @Telus @storyhive  for the platform to share such profound stories on #burnout and reclaiming joy as parents. 

🔥 Watch the full conversation in Episode 2 – live now on #Youtube - Link in BIO and IG Stories! Watch now for amazing INSPO, and please subscribe and support a sis! 🙋🏻‍♀️ (PSSST… “YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls”)
✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out ✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out “talks too much” is a transferable skill. 😉)

Couldn’t resist flipping through the online Summer issue of @islandparent (still chasing down a copy ON PRINT — OMW, #YYJ friends, pls save me one 🙏🙏!!)

Somehow, between #caregiving worries stretching from the West Coast to the Midwest, an unexpected emergency trip with the kids, and a 25-hour boat/train/plane journey (regrets: zero, snack supply: questionable 🙃), I managed to turn the chaos into a story — and landed my first article in one of our Van Island parenting mags.

Even better? I sat down for a feature interview about @sassandsmalltalkpodcast, sharing why these conversations matter, how the show makes space for parents stretched too thin, and why reclaiming joy beyond burnout is actually possible. #SeasonOne is now streaming on @telus @storyhive 🎙️.

A Massive THANK YOU to Stacie Gaetz @islandparent for an energizing interview that made me sound far cooler than I am, and to the whole editorial team for trusting me to bring my slightly unhinged, real-talk parenting chaos to your pages.

Here’s to finding joy in the mess, adventure in the unexpected, and a whole lotta #HappyJ in my carry-on…

📖 Grab a copy, flip to my pages, check out all the amazing contributing writers, and come hang out on the pod!

Also peep appearances from 2 of my 8 incredible guests: @truedad.community, @sarjo08, @toastibeautycollection — and the ridiculously talented @sarah_booth_photography, whose cover shot steals the show.

Non-islanders - the online copy is avail at islandparent.ca. Link on my bio 😉

#SassAndSmallTalk #SandwichGeneration #IslandParent #Storyhive #TelusOriginals #CaregiverLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FilipinoMoms #RealTalkForParents #ChaosAndJoy #ContributingWriter #Storytelling
I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to our father-in-law — who we’d been caregiving for these last couple months in their home on the other side of the country 💔 It’s been a heavy time, so I haven’t been online. 

But I wanted to quickly share that George and I have been keeping up with our daily dose of #HJ, and between that, and prayer, our amazing village both here and at home, and the support of family - our #stressresilience to handle the most challenging time in our lives was nothing short of a miracle. 

Running on virtually no sleep, the constant worry, lack of control, we needed all we could get to show up for the ones we love especially these last couple months. 

I am now a couple weeks into the #Rootist Densify Hair Line (and only a few days since recording this vid), after just a few washes with the Rootist Densify Shampoo + Conditioner (plus the Densifying Serum), I’m already feeling a shift. ✨ Thicker, fuller hair is the goal — and even in the midst of #grief and #caregiving, it’s nice to feel one small thing going right.

If you’re curious, today’s the day to grab it (July 2nd, 2025) —
🛍️ Shampoo + Conditioner are on sale
🇨🇦 Canada Day = FREE shipping Until July 4th 2025
But the 25% off on shampoo and conditioner ends TONIGHT (July 2nd - 1159pm PST) — so don’t wait! 🌿💚

Grab your Shampoo and Conditioner here: 
https://www.amare.com/et/sh43va/1946022

Promo code: Rootist25

DM me, or click the link for the full video on my profile.

#RootistHairCare #ScalpHealth #CaregiverLife #MicrobiomeSupport #CanadaDaySale #Review
S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is your comeback. 💥 SEASON 1 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast is now #bingeable on @TELUS #OptikTV & @StoryHive #YouTube! 8 back-to-back episodes of real talk about #parenting, #caregiving, and life’s beautiful chaos. Hit that link in bio and #getthatsassback. 🎙️✨ #JoyUnlocked #ParenthoodUnfiltered
M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday boy of mine has been such a trooper — the youngest and smallest member of our #sandwichgeneration family. For the third time in his 7 years of birthdays, his special day was quietly placed on hold as we navigated some heavy family matters. 

That meant: 
• no class party
• no birthday play date
• no jumping on trampolines
• no big plan, not even a little one 

… and not one single complaint from this compassionate little guy.

He’s simply grateful to be where he’s needed most — with family. 

To his (and our) surprise, his incredible teacher sent us this beautiful video of his classmates from far away, singing him #HappyBirthday, and the emotion it stirred in our family was something we’ll never forget. It was the very medicine our hearts needed right about now.

I may or may not have shed a tear or two… thousand.

And as for the #birthdayboy?

Well — it’s written all over his sweet face.

#thegiftthatkeepsongiving #itsthelittlethings #ittakesavillage #caregiving #bestgiftever #lovewins #realparentingmoments #sandwichgenerationlife
G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a little while ago… but life had other plans. 💔

It’s been a challenging month — on top of caregiving, moving homes, and homeschooling, we’ve been navigating some heavy family stuff. So I stepped back to focus on what matters most. 💗

That said… I’m slowly finding my way back.

And while it might seem small, leaning into this lighthearted moment — unboxing the full #Rootist kit, the #HJ for scalp — feels like a tiny act of #respite I really need right now. 

I’ve been working on my #guthealth with #Amare, and now I’m turning my attention to my #scalp #microbiome — because healing starts from the inside out… but the outside could use a little love too. 💆🏻‍♀️✨

Here’s to strong, luscious hair (maybe even retiring the ol’ #mombun? We’ll see 😅) and giving myself a moment to feel good again. 💚
#ScalpMicrobiome #GutBrainaxis #MomLifeRecovery #momlifebelike
🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥 We’re closing out 🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥

We’re closing out Season 1 of “Sass & Small Talk” with serious depth, healing, and one heck of a magical mic-drop moment. ✨

In this powerful finale #onthepod, I sit down with @scarletjaxen — a Victoria-based #author, counsellor, and storyteller with years of experience in clinical social work. She brings together sharp intellect and soul-deep wisdom to help us explore #burnout and intuition, through the power of #multisensory storytelling.

Scarlet believes change is possible, healing is available, and that WHO we ARE can evolve—when we’re ready to take the risk to live with intention, while trusting our own instincts.

She takes #trustyourgut to a whole new level.

For every #caregiver, #mama, and recovering #overachiever... this one’s for you.

🎥 NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+

📅 Coming May 27 to @storyhive + @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube + all podcast platforms.

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #womensempowerment
B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds be B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds beauty brands by day and dominates video games by night 🎮💅 

Meet Sara Jonsson @sarjo08 #mama (human & furry), #wifey, #caregiver, #entrepreneur, and low-key savage when gaming with her son 😂. 

As the go-to support for her parents through some tough health-related seasons, Sara’s #familyfirst mindset fuels everything she does—including the business she built from love. 

In Episode 7, we get real about #caregiverburnout, while running multi businesses with heart, and finding joy in the chaos. 

…and,

HOW. THE. HECK. SHE. DOES. IT. ALL. 

NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+ 

Will be available on @storyhive and @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube and all podcast platforms on May 27th. 

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #bossladyvibes @toastibeautycollection
SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes gli SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes glimpse of what feels like the beginning of a powerful shift in #womenshealth right here in #Victoria.

To stand alongside such empowered women — #caregivers, #changemakers, survivors, women from all walks of life — in the very place where the hands and hearts of this hospital held me and my family together (in more ways than one)… it was overwhelming in the best way.

Even more so, to share it with my daughter, my fiercest little survivor. Both of our stories of survival are woven into these hospital walls.

This was more than just a shoot. This was change taking place in real time. Honoured to be a tiny part of this moment as it unfolds.

Thank you for bringing this to life @ourvichospitals @averybrohman @gaellevanerp 💛
✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.co ✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.cochrane.realtor, you and your kiddos are what our world needs more of! And grateful to our dear friend @oliviabozovic who made the connection! SMALL 🌍 BIG 🩷♥️💙! Adore you both!! 

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To the kind dad at the @royalbaycolwood Easter Egg Hunt this past Saturday—

You probably didn’t realize how much you and your kids impacted our day.

My son had just missed the first few minutes of the egg hunt (as usual, this mama was running late with a million things on her plate—homeschooling, caregiving, promoting a show, working from home, managing the home, advocating, feeding the young and old, managing moods... the usual chaos).

He stood in line for the balloon dome and said quietly, trying , “I got zero eggs, mama.”

You heard him. Your son, who seemed a bit overwhelmed himself covering his ears from all the noise, and your little girl, reached into their own baskets and filled my son’s bag.

I watched as kindness bloomed in real time.

You didn’t just hand out chocolate—you gave my son the gift of feeling seen and included. You taught your kids what generosity really looks like.

And for this tired, always-late, sandwich-gen special-needs mom—your gesture meant more than you’ll ever know.

If anyone in the Westshore community knows this lovely family (dad of Grayson?), please tag them or send them our thanks.

This is what #community looks like. 🐣💛

#SandwichGeneration #GlassChild #NeurodivergentMom #MomGuilt #CommunityLove #WestshoreBC #VictoriaMoms #RoyalBayColwood #RealEasterMagic #SmallKindnessBigImpact
She podcasts. She parents. She’s got a 🌶️ She podcasts. 
She parents. 
She’s got a 🌶️ 🧠.
She’s fresh outta burnout mode.
She sips #HappyJ.
And now, with🎙️in hand… she’s streaming on @TELUS @STORYHIVE (because even #actionfigures need a l’il 📺 airtime).

Hey, I’m Deb B., host of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast — a podcast turned video series where we get real about #parenting and #caregiver #burnout, and find joy in the messy middle.

Fueled by my go-to fix-the-gut-fix-the-burnout potion🥤, a l’il bit of tears, and a whole lotta sass, this season brings on the reality of living in the #burnout generation, with guests who will leave you asking yourself “where have they been all my life?”

Because we are DONE glorifying busy.
We’re saying YES to rest.
And HEEEECK YES to finding our joy once again. #INeedMySassBack

Catch the Pod Edition now on TELUS OptikTV Ch 9, Stream+, and on #Storyhive YouTube (Search Storyhive Sass Small Talk) Link on my bio for Episodes 1 & 2.

🦉 Sexy Studio. ✔️ I 👀 @haus.of.owl 
🛋️ Cozy couch. ✔️
🎙️ Good convo. ✔️
🥹 Big feelings. ✔️
🤩 And even bigger lashes. ✔️✔️✔️

LET’S TALK. 

Oh and PS - wanna know how to get your action figure #animated? Follow me, write “SASS”, and let me know what your action figure would be in the comments below and I’ll hook you up. 

#SassAndSmalls #TelusStoryhive #HappyJEnergy #GoodbyeBurnout #SmallTalkBigFeels #actionfigure #barbie #AI #Amare #happyblend #cortisol
When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑 In When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑

In Episode 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast “Reclaiming Joy of #Parenthood Beyond Burnout”, I take on the ultimate #challenge:
Fitting fitness into my already chaotic #caregiving, #homeschooling, always behind the wheel, #neurodivergent navigating, mom-life schedule. 🧠🎢💪

Add to the mix, a busy 🧠 that thrives on chaos and fun? Why not #gamify? Moms- let’s do the #TriggerWordChallenge!! Every time your kids say (aka “demand”, I mean c’mon now…) “MOM!”, do a squat! In the kitchen, while cleaning, cooking, folding laundry. Just don’t do it driving! #safetyfirst

For this episode, Every time *I* said the word “lash” — yep, I squat. 😅

Joining me is none other than Victoria’s go-to #LashLady, who most would call a client-proclaimed “lash-a-pist” and certified #fitness coach, Emily Bowman @nevaehjade.beautywellness, who’s here to talk #burnout, #beauty, and #body movement. And I’m here to try and master the world’s most chaotic squat routine. 🙃

Side note: Psssst… your girl hasn’t done a squat since before the Pandy of 2020 so this may be nbd to the average person, but it’s quite literally a miracle ⛪️ for 🙋🏻‍♀️. #whateverworks #amIright?

Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two…  on the full episode 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, @storyhive YouTube

Comment “Squat” if you want the full episode link on @storyhive‘s YouTube. But it’s even more fun on TV, so try that first! We sure are…

#SassAndSmallTalk #SquatGoals #BurnoutAndBootyGains #bunsofsteel #LashLadyTakesOver #NeurodivergentMomLife #CaregiverFitness #SquatWhileYouCan #HomeschoolChaos #MomLifeUnfiltered #VictoriaBC #StoryHive #ReclaimYourJoy #JLoGotNothingOnMe
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