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I Choo Choo Chooze you…. Chooze Shoes #Review #Giveaway USA/CANADA

April 15, 2014 By Deb B. 40 Comments

I Choo Choo Chooze You - Chooze Shoes www.BABYSTYLISTA.com

Wondering why LD is looking rather cheeky at this very moment? It’s because, after a long and grueling search, she has now found the perfect shoe. Scratch that. She found a collection of perfect shoes. In fact, she has absolutely no idea which one to choose! Or should we say… CHOOZE!

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Like the Scout in Control CHOOZE Shoes for instance. The fit is as out-of-this-world as its fun print. CHOOZE Shoes exudes confidence and creativity – the two qualities this innovative brand wishes to bring out in every kiddo that wears them. With two different shoes for every pair – you can’t help but be different, and thus, be completely… you! We love how these shoes stop traffic with every stride, as its unique pairing stands out in any crowd of tiny tootsies. And we all know LD is all about standing out.

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As an aspiring dance machine – little mama was immediately drawn to the Dance Mary-janes in BeGood Navy. The insoles are padded and the straps are adjustable – two features that big mama (that’s me) is most attracted to. We love the fit – which allows ample toe room for growth, yet the soft and flexible elastic trim hugs the foot just enough so that it stays on nice and snug. And how incredibly adorable are these shoes to boot??

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The Scout in Rockout2 is one of CHOOZE‘s signature slip-ons. Just like slippers, these little guys are as comfortable as can be. Similar to the mary-janes, they also have padded insoles and soft elastic gussets making it easy to slip on comfortably without the fear of them slipping off. The prints and patterns are cheerful and charming – just like how any kid would want their shoes to be!

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Dance and Roll mary-janes is my absolute favorite. You know me and my obsession for all that is houndstooth. The fit and style is exactly like the BeGood Navy Mary-janes above – but the print… oh the print. So sophisticated, yet so ridiculously delightful for any little mama who wants to follow in her mommy’s footsteps. Quite literally.

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Lovely – is most apropos when it comes to the Dream in Swirl Grey Ballet flats. Living up to its name, the Dream Ballet flat is a splendid match for any princess who enjoys the freedom of a strap-free shoe, and an easy slip on, without the unnecessary, and all too often, slip-OFF! Thanks to the gore trim, the shoe remains secure while little mama breaks out her most intricate dance moves. Out of all the shoes in our realm of choice, we gasped at the sight of this ballet flat – but what really swung our vote, was the gorgeous paisley-meets-floral print, and the dainty luminescent cap-toe. Pinch me, I’m dreaming.

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Speaking of dreaming and all that is lovely, we recently celebrated LD‘s birthday, hosted by Mickey Mouse himself. We were in a frantic search for the perfect shoe to coordinate with her red and white themed party, and wouldn’t you know… CHOOZE saved the day! Right in time for a little red and white polka dot action! The red Dance in Behave maryjanes were all we needed for a little afternoon fun with Mr. and Mrs. Mouse and friends.

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Not surprisingly, LD‘s most beloved pair among all of her CHOOZE Shoes is her Dance In Twinkle Fuchsia. After all, pink is the new, well… pink… when it comes to every in-house princess, right?  Little mama couldn’t hold back admiration for her own twinkly tootsies and wanted the world to see her in all the pretty she could muster up in one sitting.

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Even Seth, our pooch couldn’t take his eyes off the glitter that trailed behind the little princess of the house.

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After hours upon hours of prancing around in her abundance of CHOOZE awesomeness – she took a breath and decided to relish in all the glory of her CHOOZE options. She placed every single pair in her handy dandy coordinating backpack just in case the shoe monsters made a surprise visit. I had a slight panic attack with what could have been a disastrous situation of brand new flattened shoes – but was immediately reminded of what brand we were dealing with. Each shoe is made of vegan materials, high quality outsoles, and flexibility to withstand rough and tumble play. In other words – CHOOZE Shoes was designed with KIDS. IN. MIND. Needless to say, the shoes survived the wrath of the backpacking toddler.

We nearly lost our minds upon discovering that Choozepack in Boogie was not your everyday, run-of-the-mill backpack. If it wasn’t enough to have choice in her shoes, little mama also had to make a choice on which backpack she wanted between the reversible designs. Hearts, anyone?

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Or are you more in the mood for butterflies?

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In just one simple flip of the convertible straps – little mama has herself two wonderful and unique backpacks all in one!

As much as we love the overall unique concept encompassing the CHOOZE brand, what is most appealing to us, is their mission to help families find their power of choice. With every CHOOZE shoe a child wears, he/she is helping provide for another child in need – the power to choose. Read more on their involvement with the anti-poverty program here.

And that, my friends, is the beautiful thing about choice, and the freedom to choose. It’s empowering. It supports creativity. And it builds confidence. Isn’t that what we all want for our littles?

So here’s my question for you… WHICH PAIR WOULD YOU CHOOZE!??

*****FREE GIVEAWAY*****

We have teamed up with our friends at CHOOZE Shoes to host a giveaway of a fab and funky pair of CHOOZE Shoes to a lucky stylin’ winner!  To enter for the chance to win, simply fill out the form below!  For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

Contest closes April 27th, 2014 – at 11:59PM! The winner will be revealed April 28th, 2014! If you have an Instagram account, check us out at @babystylista for more ways to enter (Bonus points!).

 

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Filed Under: Too Cool for School, Tots & Tootsies Tagged With: anti-poverty, Baby, backpack, Ballet, children's wear, CHOOZE, confidence, contest, creativity, elastic gusset, fashionista, flats, footwear, giveaway, houndstooth, kids, kidswear, Mary janes, mini-fashionista, mini-me, print, shoes, slip on, style, stylist

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Kristen Tonne says

    April 15, 2014 at 4:22 pm

    I hope this is the form you are talking about!!! Following you on Instagram as well
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 15, 2014 at 4:41 pm

      Hi Kristen! If you can fill out the Rafflecopter form above – you’ll have a greater chance of winning! You’ll also have the opportunity to unlock more ways to gain points and win a pair! 🙂
      babystylista recently posted…I Choo Choo Chooze you…. Chooze Shoes #Giveaway USA/CANADAMy Profile
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  2. Lynn Blair says

    April 15, 2014 at 6:54 pm

    I’m following both on Instagram and Facebook…I’m just unsure where to leave the blog comment. Thank you…
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 15, 2014 at 9:14 pm

      You did it perfectly Lynn! Good Luck!
      babystylista recently posted…I Choo Choo Chooze you…. Chooze Shoes #Giveaway USA/CANADAMy Profile
      Reply
  3. Val Choa says

    April 16, 2014 at 2:30 am

    I've liked the facebook pages and followed on instagram!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 15, 2014 at 9:15 pm

      Wonderful Val! Good luck!! 🙂
      babystylista recently posted…Too Cool for Pre-School #WordlessWednesday #LinkyMy Profile
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  4. Dawn Trudeau says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:04 am

    Love all the Chooze, but those Twinkle Fuschias are too adorable!
    Reply
  5. Monica says

    April 16, 2014 at 7:03 am

    These are super cute shoes and they look like they would be so comfortable! Loving the backpack too 🙂
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  6. Christine says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:01 am

    OMG! I LOOOOOVE!!! I know my 5 yr old will want me to enter this. She LOVES shoes and boots…and bags just like her Mama! I call her Imelda Marcos!
    Christine recently posted…5 Easter Activities for Kids #KINDERMomMy Profile
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  7. Christine says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:37 am

    I follow BabyStylista and ChoozeShoes on Instagram from my christinemcnaughton account 🙂
    Christine recently posted…5 Easter Activities for Kids #KINDERMomMy Profile
    Reply
  8. Christine says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:38 am

    One thing that makes my LO stand out of the crowd is her sense of style! She’s SO unusual! It’s awesome!
    Christine recently posted…5 Easter Activities for Kids #KINDERMomMy Profile
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  9. Jenna Em says

    April 16, 2014 at 10:31 am

    Cute shoes! My daughter would really love those, as she already owns some (purposely) mismatched socks.
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  10. Bonnie Way says

    April 16, 2014 at 2:05 pm

    My daughter already wears mismatches shoes and socks… she’d LOVE these!!! So cute! She also has an awesome sense of style… someday she’ll be helping me with my wardrobe! Thanks for sharing. 🙂
    Bonnie Way recently posted…How to Host a Book-Themed Birthday PartyMy Profile
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  11. CHRISTINA DUTRA says

    April 16, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    i follow on IG @LITTLEBITSOFICE & FB @ christina dutra
    Reply
  12. CHRISTINA DUTRA says

    April 16, 2014 at 6:19 pm

    one thing that makes my daughter stand out is how smart she is. she talks about presidents, and math, and she speaks like she is intelligent. everyone always points out how smart she is when they hear her talk.
    Reply
  13. Sara Ingvoldstad Gable says

    April 17, 2014 at 2:11 am

    I like them both on FaceBook. My little one stand out because of her fierce determination
    Reply
  14. Lisa says

    April 17, 2014 at 2:06 pm

    Super cute!
    Reply
  15. Carolsue says

    April 18, 2014 at 3:03 pm

    I like you both on Facebook (Carolsue Anderson) and Instagram (@Cezovski9)
    My little one is unique because he is so smart (not that I am prejudiced or anything — LOL)
    Digicats {at} Sbcglobal {dot} Net
    Reply
  16. Jessica Nelles says

    April 19, 2014 at 12:21 pm

    I liked them both on Facebook (don't have instagram) My little one has red hair and blue eyes which stand out
    Reply
  17. Heather says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:26 am

    not sure the first one “took”
    I like both on facebook, but am not on instagram. I boycott because of privacy concerns, sorry!!! 🙂
    I have 2 little ones! The first one is unique because she always, and I mean ALWAYS tried to do the right thing. She’s a very old soul and in tune with other’s feelings.
    The second is unique because she radiates pure joy, constantly bursts into song for no apparent reason. She brighten’s the day’s of anyone fortunate enough to be in her space.
    Reply
  18. amber z clark says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:31 am

    Liked on Facebook & instagram. Both my kiddos are unique bc they’ve both got great senses of humor. Little pranksters already!
    Reply
  19. Tasha Detloff says

    April 19, 2014 at 12:33 pm

    I've liked both on Facebook. Love the Scout in Rockiut2. Would be great for our little boy. And match his big personality, smile and cheeks.
    Reply
  20. Laura Burgon Perkins says

    April 19, 2014 at 12:36 pm

    I liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on FB.
    One unique quality that makes my little one stand out in a crowd is her accessories. She loves to wear jewelry, sunglasses, scarves, etc.
    Reply
  21. marie says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:39 am

    Her sense of humor
    Reply
  22. Victoria says

    April 19, 2014 at 5:45 am

    I’m babystylista and chooze Facebook fan!
    Reply
  23. Krystal Eis Withem says

    April 19, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE @ChoozeShoes! My daughter has several pairs of them!
    Reply
  24. Pam says

    April 19, 2014 at 6:06 am

    I like both on facebook
    pam w h

    He stands out because of his easygoing personality.

    Reply
  25. Abby Jacobs says

    April 19, 2014 at 1:08 pm

    I liked both on Facebook and Pinterest and my niece and nephew are unique and would love to try Chooze!
    Reply
  26. Wendy hutton says

    April 19, 2014 at 8:27 am

    have liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on Facebook and Instagram
    Reply
  27. Rachel says

    April 19, 2014 at 8:37 am

    Love these!
    Reply
  28. Maggie says

    April 19, 2014 at 9:36 am

    my favorites shoes!
    Reply
  29. Kelly Skinner says

    April 19, 2014 at 7:21 pm

    My daughter wears chooze shoes every day at school. She loves them and I have been really impressed with the quality 🙂
    Reply
  30. Tracey Hall says

    April 19, 2014 at 10:44 pm

    I’ve liked the facebook pages and followed on instagram!
    Reply
  31. Stephanie Pan says

    April 20, 2014 at 6:33 am

    Liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on Facebook and Instagram!
    A pair of Chooze Dance in Wiggle is sitting in our little girl's Easter basket right now. Everyone that saw the shoes at work LOVED it!
    Our little one stands out in a crowd for being herself.
    She is outgoing, loves meeting/making new people/friends.
    Reply
  32. Helen says

    April 20, 2014 at 1:30 pm

    I love these
    Reply
  33. Victoria K says

    April 21, 2014 at 7:07 pm

    I have liked @Babystylista and @ChoozeShoes on Facebook I don’t have instangram. My daughters extremely long eye lashes and big blue eyes makes her stand out in a crowd.
    Reply
  34. Katy Emanuel says

    April 21, 2014 at 8:32 pm

    I follow both accounts on facebook, but don’t have an instagram account. My daughter has a unique sense of style and her personality which make her stand out in a crowd.
    Reply
  35. Kelly D says

    April 22, 2014 at 10:55 am

    I like babystylista and Chooze on instagram(Kellywcu) and FB(Kelly D Saver)
    Reply
  36. Shereesa Winning Lucas says

    April 23, 2014 at 4:10 am

    I liked @babystylista and @choozeshoes on FB and Instagram. My little last Elliot is special because she has tied out blended family together in the most incredible way. Love my little sweetheart!
    Reply
  37. angela m says

    April 24, 2014 at 10:34 am

    I liked you both on facebook (angela marriott)and instagram (vinyauto). My kids are unique because of how thoughtful they are.
    Reply

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It takes a village. … to bring a vision, a song, It takes a village. 

… to bring a vision, a song, a rebrand to life. 

Everyone celebrates the finished product

But I wanted to celebrate the people who helped create it.

This music video may have my face & voice on it, but it belongs to so many incredible people who gave their time, talent, encouragement and 💗.

From @jakerfilms, who completed 2 seasons of Sass & Small Talk with a bang, producing the most epic rebrand catapulting this whole thing - the very thing I never knew I needed.

To @eric.thebald who shared my vision & skyrocketed it to the next level.
 
To @erinbradleyartist giving my hair & face the ultimate retro beat down, reminiscent of the original Sass 👸🏻 in my life, to my fave @lindakyaw_m who challenged me out of my comfies & into my sass atw from LA 💃

to my leading ladies @rahannavu and @iamharpsra making sure I didn’t walk into a close-up with lipstick on my teeth and a shine on my nose - & hand slapping me if I so much as picked up a prop other than my mic, risking a broken nail or wasting a single breath.

@dn.gib capturing every single moment behind the scenes, so I have something to look back at when I need to remind myself how far we’ve come… 

To @rajinthehouse who proudly clapped the Film Slate like a pro / and looking darn sharp while doing so. 

An entire crew and a small and mighty team showed up simply because they believed in me.

Much more than I believed in myself. 

The laughs.

The nerves.

The tiny moments no one usually sees.

These behind-the-scenes moments are some of my favourite memories because they’re a reminder that none of us create something meaningful alone.

I’ve always said:

It takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise a parent.

Today I’d add one more thing…

It takes a village to help someone find their sass again.

✨ Part 1

➡️ Come back for PT2 where I’ll show you how the magic came together.

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late-night emotional eating became normal.

Four hours of sleep became normal.

Brain fog became normal.

Running on adrenaline became normal.

I wasn’t thriving.

I was surviving.

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• My faith.
• My mornings.
• The truth.

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I’m simply inviting you to watch me find them.

Maybe you’re trying to get your ✨spark back too (@mama_brykin 😉) 

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welcome.

The investigation begins.

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For years, I honestly thought this was just mother For years, I honestly thought this was just motherhood.

Being exhausted.
Forgetting everything.
Feeling overwhelmed.
Running on caffeine and adrenaline.
Wondering why I never quite felt like me.

A while ago I started working on my gut 🥤health, and for the first time in a long time I noticed little shifts.

• More mental clarity.
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It made me ask a question I couldn’t stop thinking about…

What if these weren’t just personality flaws or “mom life”?

What if my body had been trying to tell me something all along?

So I’ve decided to stop guessing.

I’m working with @jac-lyn from @rewildfunctionalhealth , a functional health practitioner, to dig deeper, explore root causes, and document the entire process: the wins, the setbacks, and everything in between.

I’m calling this series “Getting My Sass Back” because that’s exactly what it feels like I’m searching for.

Not perfection.

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For years, we spent so much energy trying to help our daughter fit into a world that wasn’t built for her.

We chased therapies.
We chased milestones.
We chased the idea of what we thought her future was supposed to look like.

Sometimes, if I’m being completely honest, we were trying to fix things we didn’t yet understand.

We heard heartbreaking predictions.

Some professionals told us she would likely never progress beyond the abilities of a five- year-old child.

We were told to prepare for limitations.

We were told to lower our expectations.

What no one told us was that the goal was never to make her more like everyone else.

The goal was to help her find her way to HERSELF.

That shift changed everything.

Over the years, we homeschooled when it was the right fit, even when others questioned it. We searched for programs that understood her. We listened to support workers who saw her strengths. We found camps, social groups, sports programs, and communities where she wasn’t expected to fit into someone else’s mold.

And little by little, she began to thrive.

She found her voice.

She found confidence.

She found belonging.

Most importantly, she found herself.

This year, after finding a school program that truly supports her learning style and focuses on life skills, she said something I will never forget:

“I finally feel like myself, Mommy.”

Those words healed parts of my heart I didn’t even know were still holding their breath.

Because the truth is, I wasn’t waiting for her to become someone different.

I was waiting to know she would be okay.

And she is.

Autism Pride isn’t about pretending there aren’t challenges.

It’s about recognizing that autistic people don’t need to become less autistic to deserve joy, friendship, opportunity, acceptance, or love.

It’s about taking pride in who they are and embracing the community where they belong.

Today, I celebrate my daughter exactly as she is.

She has taught me more about courage, authenticity, resilience, and unconditional love than I could ever teach her.

I am so proud of her.

And if I’m honest, she’s been my teacher all along.
Nine parents. Nine very different stories. (Mine, Nine parents.

Nine very different stories.
(Mine, included).

Military/Naval families. Solo parents. Single parents. Neurodivergent & Profound Needs families. Blended families. Adoptive families. Families navigating loss, burnout, caregiving, infertility, generational trauma, and everything in between.

What surprised me most wasn’t how different we were and how different our journeys were to get here.

It was how much we SHARED in common.

❤️

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk reminded me that behind every smile, every school drop-off, every achievement, and every family photo, there is often a story no one else can see.

And yet, somehow, we keep showing up.

So take that moment to pause, and pat yourself on the back. Better yet, hug a parent in your life, who may be carrying that invisible load too.

It’s a game changer.

@jenny_p1987 
@caarly.xo 
@westislanddesigns 
@drawnpublications 
@nikkye_music 
@of.ocean.and.earth.photo 
@mama_brykin 
@spoletinigiuseppe 
@gjavier5 

Grateful for the platform you provided for us to share our stories @telus @storyhive  @haus.of.owl
FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly mo FUN FACT: making a video podcast takes slightly more than one burntout mom with a microphone and a dream. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Meet the incredible CREW behind Season 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast … the people who made me LOOK good, SOUND good, stay on SCHEDULE, and reminded me to sip on my HAPPY J 🥤. 

Huge thanks to my KILLER 🔥 CREW: @jakerfilms (editor & Sass 🎵 Man/Deb whisperer), @nikkye_music (set designer & Epi 4 Guest that made me 😭), @remy.is.remy (A/V Tech/ Production/ Lifesaver), @eric.thebald (A/V Tech/ Audio Mixer/Dreammaker), @hoelune (Production Assistant/Admin/Best support evah), @gjavier5 (Production Assist/ Moral Support/Lovah ❤️), @esther.driver (Production Assist/ Keep me in check/Mama support), and @telus @storyhive for making this vision into reality.

Special thank you to, Geoff @themurdles 4 keeping this chaos👸🏻 in line, and my 2 Smallies who inspired all of this. 👶🏻👧🏻 Love u 2 the 🌓 and back ♾️.

The GUESTS are AMAZING.
The STORIES are POWERFUL.
The SET is GORG (@haus.of.owl).
And all the episodes will be ONLINE and ready to binge TOMORROW - JUNE 16, 2026 on YOUTUBE!

It takes a VILLAGE to raise a child AND a PODCAST. 🎙️

Thanks my #BTS CREW, for being mine…

Ima go and cry myself to sleep now. I’m the luckiest & most exhausted 😴 Pod-Mom Host in the 🌎. Love you all too much. 

#humbled #letsgooooo
Behind every Momfluencer… It’s still the month of Behind every Momfluencer…

It’s still the month of May, the month moms get their Hallmark spotlight - So in honour of that, I wanted to share a little story.

When I first moved from LA to Victoria as a new mom and began building my brand online from home, I struggled with finding a true sense of belonging. I never felt like I fully belonged in the “mom world”, especially in a new community, not fully in the creative world, and definitely not in the often viral-chasing digital world I could never seem to keep up with.

Ironically, I was a “part” of everything but belonged to nothing.

…or so I thought.

As I opened myself up to the many communities WITHIN my community, I realized something:

The moment I stopped trying to “fit in” and leaned into who I actually am… that’s when everything changed.

And that’s what I love most about this group of women featured by @islandparent Magazine — in all the ways we are different, we are also one and the same.

Different voices. Different lives. Different ways of showing up for the world.

But all rooted in connection, creativity, community, and a deep love for our families.

Beyond being “mamas of influence,” these women use their platforms while opening their hearts and homes.

Some share family life tips, recipes, wellness journeys, sandwich gen truths, and initiate mental health conversations.
Some inspire through faith, fashion, creativity, gardening, travel, and outdoor adventures.
Some advocate fiercely for neurodivergent children while navigating neurodivergence themselves.

Some use storytelling, humour, or podcasts 😉 to help other parents feel seen and less alone.

And somehow, in between school pickups, medical appointments, assessment forms, homemaking, caregiving, and late nights searching for a little silence and brain clarity after long days of “othering” — we are building businesses, brands, and meaningful lives for our families.

We cheer each other on. 
We lift each other up.

And in finding my place within this realm of motherhood… I found home.

“It takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise the parent.” 

#MomsSupportingMoms #VancouverIslan
POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast FULL TILT… but your ADHD brain 🧠 chimed in:

“might as well just release a whole song while we’re at it” 🤷🏻‍♀️

So now my Auntie Norma 🇵🇭 can stream me on Spotify while she washes dishes 😂 #winwin (but still… #whatjusthappened)

Meanwhile:
🏠 messy house
🎥 unfinished podcast clips
🧺 laundry mountain thriving in the background

BUT ANYWAYYYY—

🎧 “I Need My Sass Back” is now streaming on Spotify, iTunes, Amazon Music & everywhere you listen to music 

Your fault, @jakerfilms for writing the darn thing in the first place… 🤣 #dontthinkstraight

Full video link is in my bio if you want the whole vibe 🎬
Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/h Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/how to actually WATCH this podcast I keep talking about… 😂

So here’s how to find @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Seasons 1 & 2 on TELUS Optik TV + Stream+ Ch.9 

And yes… I said TV. 📺 
(“Mom! Look! I’m on tv!” And yes… I did that too… 🤣🤣)

**Thnx to TELUS @storyhive  for making it possible!!

And until June… it will ONLY be available to those who have @telus as their provider or have access to Stream+ & OptikTV, then it will be out in the interwebs for all to see. 👀

My little podcast-that-could is up and running, alive & streaming. Just search within the app on your TELUS TV, “StoryHive Sass”

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk features raw, meaningful conversations with the many faces of parenthood in our beautiful city, here on Vancouver Island (and beyond), caregivers, creatives, and changemakers carrying the mental load, navigating real life parenting, with honesty and heart. I promise you won’t be disappointed…

Featuring guests including @spoletinigiuseppe, @nikkye_music, @of.ocean.and.earth.photo, and more beautiful humans this season. 

MEET MY VILLAGE… 

Be sure to watch our Music vid tribute on YouTube to all of my guests from THEIR kids and I. Find, like, & Subscribe on YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls ALSO NOW AVAILABLE On Spotify and Apple Music/Itunes! 

#ParentingPodcast #CanadianPodcast #TELUSStoryhive #NeurodivergentParenting #mentalloadofparenting
MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a little help from THEIR kids.. 

I didn’t expect this to actually work…

⸻

For the past few weeks, I’ve been working quietly on something really special — a surprise for every guest who’s ever been part of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast… from my Zoom OGs - circa 2022, to my TELUS @storyhive ⁠seasons on the tube 📺, to my crew/village/emotional support squad.

What started as a gift — a piece of music from my out-of-the-box-thinker & editor @jakerfilms, turned into something SO. MUCH. MORE. MEANINGFUL.

With the help of my incredible creative village at @haus.of.owl @remy.is.remy, led by the big beautiful brain 🧠 of Eric Hinch @eric.thebald, my Director 👏🏼🎬 Hinchalot Films (www.filmnow.ca), and the talented Dan @dn.gib & @erinbradleyartist 💄, we brought it to life!

… but the part that gets me right in the gut??

THE SMALLIES…. THESE KIDS….

The very kids who made all of us parents in the first place — including mine, who aren’t normally THIS comfortable “performing” in front of a camera.

Kids who have felt burnout.
Kids who have felt misunderstood.
Neurodivergent kiddos that hold a special place in my ❤️.

Kids who showed up anyway — with courage, joy, and love — to help me create something meaningful for their parents.

And somewhere in all of this…

I found my way back to me.

Back to music.
Back to creativity.
Back to MY SASS.
‘cuz isn’t this what Sass & Small Talk is all about?

⸻

This video is for my village.
For the parents.
For the kids.
For anyone who’s ever felt like they lost a part of themselves along the way.

⸻

👉 The full video is now on YouTube at https://m.youtube.com/@sassandsmalls
(Link in bio)

** Watch and feel COMMUNITY IN ACTION. Gosh - I love you guys!

Ps… If this resonates - keep up with new episodes already streaming on TELUS STORYHIVE - by liking & Subscribing!

“Cuz it Takes a village to raise a child. 

And a community, to raise their parent”

⸻

#SassAndSmallTalk #ParenthoodUnfiltered #MentalLoad MomLife FindYourselfAgain CreativeMom Storytelling VillageSupport TELUSStoryHive @hoelune @rahannavu @iamharpsra @rajinthehouse @lindakyaw_m @nengineermom @i_am_miss_jen @esther.driver
JENN. Meet my village… There are episodes… and th JENN. Meet my village…

There are episodes…
and then there are stories that change your life forever.

This one is both.

She’s not just my guest.
She’s the woman who offered a piece of herself… when our world was falling apart.

Because of her, we have our son.
Because of her, our family feels whole. 

And watching this back—seeing her complete her family too…
full circle doesn’t even begin to cover it.

I wasn’t planning to share this moment.
But this is what this season is about.

The real stories.
The unseen moments of a mama sitting in her living room after the kids are asleep. 
The love that carries families through the unimaginable.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really looks like behind the scenes of motherhood, loss, and rebuilding…

This episode is for you. 🤍

🎧 Episode 1 is out now. 

TELUS OptikTV StoryHive gave me the platform to share these meaningful stories. 

Because it takes a Village to Raise a child. And a community to raise their parent. 
#eggdonor #chosenfamily #infertility #ittakesavillage #mentalload
Meet My Village 🤍 IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!! Season 2 of Meet My Village 🤍

IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!!

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk, filmed at @haus.of.owl studios, on @StoryHive, Sponsored by TELUS, IS HERE 

… and these are the faces behind the real, raw, and beautiful stories of the mental load of parenting.

From Victoria, and beyond, each guest shares how they carry it all… and keep showing up.

Featuring a very special first episode close to my heart… and a full-circle finale with a dear childhood friend now gracing the stages of NYC - you won’t want to miss.

🎬 Watch now on TELUS Optik TV (Channel 9 On Demand) + Stream+

Let’s support local stories, local voices, and the village that holds us all.

Because it takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise their parent.

#SassAndSmallTalk #StoryHive #MeetMyVillage
Easter used to feel like pressure: The perfect m Easter used to feel like pressure: 

The perfect meal. 
The perfect table. 
The kids sitting through the meal and actually eating it. 
The food not burning.

And somehow… still ending the day exhausted, touched out, and a little resentful… 

This year, I let go. I had no choice… with the launch of the new season on the pod, I had to choose my battles…

My 7-year-old — my busy, high-energy, “maybe not spaghetti” kid — decided he was making “superrrrr spaghetti.”
His way. 
His ideas. 
His “special ingredients.”

Was it messy? Yep.
Was it chaotic? Absolutely.
Was it perfect? Not even close.

But something shifted.

He took ownership.
He created.
He plated dinner like a little chef with a vision (volcano spaghetti and all 🌋🍝).

And he was SO proud.
And me?
I rested. I watched. I let go of control — and the mental load that usually comes with it.

THIS is what I’m learning:
• The more we try to control everything, the heavier it gets for us… and the less space our kids have to rise.

• When we let them lead (in age-appropriate ways), they don’t just help… they LEAD.

More pride.
More participation.
More appreciation.
More connection.
Less perfection. 
More magic.
** BONUS: and less craving for screen time #winwin

This wasn’t the Easter dinner I would’ve planned…but it’s the one we’ll actually remember ❤️

Taking a page outta your book @anna_skates ❤️❤️
Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where they’re at. Embrace the chaos, the messy experiments, the unrelenting curiosity. Let their 🧠 do its thing and step aside to see the magic.

Took me an entire lifetime to figure it out:
• Spent all of my childhood trying to “fit in”
• Struggled to mask but did it anyway 
• Met a boy. Also a creative and professional masker.
• Took a “creative” path less travelled as young adult on a one way flight to LA
• Loved life. 
• Received negative feedback from well-intentioned naysayers and loved ones
• Felt shame for not hitting the markers 
• Became a mom. 
• Read ALLLL the parenting books. 
• Spent over a decade fighting against my  first born’s “artist” brain and finding ways to “fix” what was not even broken
• Hated conforming and made some pivots while wearing metaphorical headphones to block out opinions/outside noise
• Loved Life 
• Had my youngest little man - came out of womb loud, intentional, & unapologetic 
• Threw out all parenting books and accepted the beautiful neurodivergent 🧠s taking over our entire household
• Gave both kids creative freedoms and stepped aside (mostly not intentionally. they’re too fast and I’m too old) 
• Learned how to celebrate the curious, comical, and weirdly wired brains that is our family. 
• Let my kids teach ME to have courage, think differently, and not just take the road less travelled - but actually #owningit
• Jumped into creating my own #podcast headfirst and never looked back

“Don’t Think Straight”, by Jacob Insley, is definitely one of our go-tos I’ll be keeping on my bookshelf for years to come. 

@jakerfilms you killed it with all these nuggets and takeaways! We’re all fighting for a turn to read - look at you causing ruckus in our home!?! 🤣 PS - My little guy requests to be in your 2nd book. 🤣🤣

#bebold #getmysassback #create
Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. It’s been a bitter swe Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. 

It’s been a bitter sweet one this year. But we are working through Grief that will never go away. Especially on milestone days like this. 

Not only is it Dad Felix’s first Heavenly Birthday (Valentine’s Day), it’s also a day we lost our 6th pregnancy before we finally had our little guy. I truly believe Dad is as much present with our babies in heaven, as he is with his 4 Grandkids on earth. 

There’s healing in loving family. Thank you for your constant reminders of this Dad/Grandpa Felix. We miss you so much. 

#sandwichgeneration #caregiving #family #multigenerational
It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. When our f It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. 

When our first family friendly white 🥼 party turns into a full blown midlife crisis.🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

(And no… he is NOT okay)… 🤣🤣

#thisis50
#dadlife  #unclelife
#GenXLife
#ParentingMoments 
#TheyGrowUpFast 
#RealLifeParents
#riuwhiteparty
#mexico
#dinerenblanc
He turned 50. Shouting it from the rooftops was no He turned 50.
Shouting it from the rooftops was not an option, so naturally - we had it announced at 40,000 feet ✈️🎂

For context:
This man avoids attention like it’s turbulence.

This??
Actual NIGHTMARE. 😂🤣🤣

But after a rough year of loss, change, and having to step up in so many facets, he deserved a little LOUD love. 📣🎉🥳

Happy 50th to the man I’ve loved for more than half his life.
You chose me, chaos and all… so really, this one’s on you. 😉😉

Thanks @flairairlines for this unforgettable #birthday moment.

If you’ve got a second, send this sweet, shy 50-year-old young man some love… he’ll be back to low-key status in about 72 hours. ⏰💛

@gjavier5 💙💜

#ThisIs50
#50thBirthday 
#MarriageHumor 
#RealLifeMoments 
#PlaneAnnouncement 
#MilestoneBirthday 
#LoveInTheMiddle 
#LifeLately 
#ImperfectAndReal 
#FamilyLife 
#Grief
#caregiving
#GenX
#sandwichgeneration 
#ReelsThatMakeYouSmile
Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — an Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. Also Me: 🎥📹🔦 Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

********************

Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam an 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
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