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Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 :: #GIVEAWAY

July 16, 2019 By Deb B. 27 Comments

It’s summer time and you know what that means! Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp ensues! We like to take these next couple months to really hone into Little Mama’s biking and safety skills, now that school is on break. Last year, we had the world’s toughest time teaching her to ride a two wheeler. It was deflating, frustrating, and a big pain in the back (among other things). That was the reason behind us jumping at the opportunity to work with Pedalheads last summer. Within one day at Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp, our little girl gained an immeasurable amount of confidence to bike on a two wheeler.

ONE DAY.

I am still reeling.

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comI’m also convinced the instructors are actual miracle workers.

Miracle workers, because there was about as much hope to get this girl on a two wheeler as it was to get ME on one… while pregnant.

Miracle workers, because they actually brought fun back into the idea of bike riding as far as Little Mama was concerned.

Miracle Workers, because they essentially saved my husband’s back. That, and a whole lotta prayer and chiropractic treatments.

But in truth, we have been so focused on a gazillion other things between other activities, learning at school, raising a baby, sleeping, not sleeping, etc etc, that practicing on her bike was just not top priority.

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comUnfortunately… it showed. Come July, with summer camps in full swing, we noticed that our little one was just too exhausted and lacked the motivation to get back on her bike and strut her stuff.

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comEnter Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Round two:

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comLuckily, what they say is true about riding bikes. You may be rusty, but you never forget. So we banked on that when Little Mama stepped on to her bike for this year’s Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp. At first, we were ambitious and put her into Level 3 “Pedalheads” where they learned:

  • Improved bike control and riding in a group
  • Shoulder checking while riding
  • Hand signals while riding
  • Riding beside a curb & navigating mock intersections

The first day…. my tired little girl was still on “omg I just survived 10 months of grade 2 and need a break” mode and it was practically like pulling teeth to get her out of bed. 

But with a group of high energy instructors leading the camp, an organized and clear itinerary, and awesome games to play (and that was just the first 10 minutes, and no bike in sight), Little Mama was having a blast in no time.

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Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comWarm up was even fun for Little Man who quite literally, stood in the sidelines cheering his big sister on. 

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comAfter the preliminary warm up, they got right into observing the kids’ skills as they made their way through set courses. In other words… they meant business.

Skills were a little rusty at first. Enter… Miracle Workers: 

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comLittle Mama went from, <insert flabbergasted emoji, what did I get myself into?> to, “wait, I can do this”. With just a little push and support from her instructor, she was back where she left off last summer.

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comBy the end of day two, we were able to determine that it would probably make more sense to place her in Level 2 “Advanced Newbies“. Here, she is less focused on trying to keep up with the more complicated course, and more focused on strengthening her skills with starting, pedalling, and steering. Some of the skills developed in Level 2 are:

  • Learn to start independently
  • Improve pedalling, stopping, and steering
  • Improve maneuvering and controlled riding
  • Introduction to shoulder checks and more complex skills
  • Bike safety and parts of the bike
  • Helmet safety

Best decision we made. Keep in mind, this wasn’t a race for Little Mama to advance to the next level as quickly as possible. It was about continuing to build her confidence from the skills she has already learned last year and practiced throughout the year, and tightening up her skills so that she could begin learning about road safety and other basic but necessary skills.

As always, Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp ended on a fun and memorable note – a theme day to end the week. 

Much to Little Mama‘s delight – it was Western day!

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Baby brother, Little Mama‘s biggest fan decided to join in on the fun (as one’s baby brother does…)

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comWithin 5 days of Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp, we got ourselves an enthusiastic, self-proclaimed two wheel riding expert, and a new Pedalheads shirt! Bonus!

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comThe best part is that as always, Pedalheads held a last day parade to showcase all the kids’ going through a fun obstacle course. There really is nothing more adorable than seeing a group of bandana wearing “cow-kids” riding their bikes with balloons tied to their helmets as they feverishly anticipate their turn to go through the course. 

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.com Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comAnd even cuter was seeing Little Mama showing off her Western dancing skills with her favourite dance partner. Now does this look like your everyday bike camp?

Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp Level 2 www.sassandsmalls.comWe are HUGE fans of Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp as it has really brought a new level of confidence when it comes to staying active in general. I love seeing kids gain such confidence while having a grand ol’ time. Now that’s summer to me!

We are especially thrilled that Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp is now available in Little Mama‘s hometown (Los Angeles: West Hollywood, West LA, and Manhattan Beach!!), so her original peeps in SoCal can enjoy a week of Pedalheads.

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So excited, that we collaborated with our friends from Pedalheads to offer one lucky reader from any of the above areas where Pedalheads Summer Bike Camp is available. (See locations here). It’s….

:: GIVEAWAY TIME ::

You know, just as much as we love to share  our experiences of remarkable experiences that have helped our family (especially our kids), we love giving opportunities to our friends to enjoy it themselves. ONE FREE WEEK OF PEDALHEADS SUMMER CAMP, VALUED AT $245.00.  Simply fill out the form below. For further contest rules, refer to the Terms and Conditions within the Rafflecopter.

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Contest closes Tuesday July 23rd, 2019  – at 11:59PM PST! The winner will be revealed Wednesday, July 24th, 2019! 

Do you and your family ride bikes as an activity during the summer?

Get out and get pedalling!

Deb B. www.sassandsmalls.com

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Be sure to follow our friends at Pedalheads on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter to register your little one in Pedalheads summer bike camp and camp throughout the year!

DISCLOSURE: SASS & SMALLS WAS PROVIDED WITH ONE WEEK OF PEDALHEADS SUMMER BIKE CAMP AS A GIFT AND FOR REVIEW. ALL OPINIONS ARE OUR OWN. 

Filed Under: gimme that!, little mama, the everyday Tagged With: activities, bike, bike camp, camp, children, cycling, kids, mom, mom life, Pedalheads, Summer, summer camp

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. nicky says

    July 16, 2019 at 8:29 am

    I love riding my bike, so would enjoy getting the family together for family bike rides this summer!
    Reply
  2. Amber Dawn says

    July 16, 2019 at 1:19 pm

    Riding a bike was such a source of freedom and independence for me as a kid. I miss it and want that for my kids!
    Reply
  3. Raven says

    July 16, 2019 at 4:18 pm

    Considering I can’t even RIDE a bike I clearly need the adult version of pedalheads lol
    Reply
  4. Flossie McCowald says

    July 16, 2019 at 5:55 pm

    What a super-awesome idea for a camp! Too bad our state is one of the many that doesn’t appear orange on the map – but our girls would totally love this!
    Reply
  5. Marysa says

    July 17, 2019 at 5:28 am

    What a cool program! I hear you about being too busy for learning to bike. We were in the same boat as well and it would be neat to have this near us.
    Reply
  6. kara says

    July 17, 2019 at 6:41 am

    This camp looks awesome! Wish I had a program like this near me growing up!
    Reply
  7. Nadalie Bardo says

    July 17, 2019 at 6:45 am

    What this is awesome! I would have loved to go to bike camp. Looks like fun!
    Reply
  8. Mama Maggie's Kitchen says

    July 17, 2019 at 1:59 pm

    Wow! This looks like sooo much fun! My son will surely love this summer bike camp.
    Reply
  9. Marisa says

    July 17, 2019 at 2:08 pm

    Good for her for getting out there and trying something new! It looks like a fun group to be apart of!
    Reply
  10. Rachel says

    July 17, 2019 at 4:46 pm

    My nephew did something similar to this last summer. By the way your daughters bike is super cute.
    Reply
  11. Krystyl Olson says

    July 17, 2019 at 5:16 pm

    we dont, but should, really! my bike needs a tuneup and hubby needs one altogether!
    thanks for the chance to win!!
    Reply
  12. Clarice says

    July 18, 2019 at 10:01 am

    Wow! This is fun. I have no idea that summer bike camps available. Will check with my little girl if she’s keen to join. Thank you for sharing.
    Reply
  13. Larissa says

    July 18, 2019 at 11:12 am

    We are bike riding maniacs over here! The camp sounds great.
    Reply
  14. Andy D says

    July 19, 2019 at 10:53 am

    We love going on family bike rides during the summer! My daughter has training wheels but we are really hoping to take them off this summer – and I know Pedalheads would make this transition soooo much easier!
    Reply
  15. Megan MacDonald says

    July 19, 2019 at 3:20 pm

    My kids are learning but still need a bit of confidence! Pedalheads looks amazing!
    Reply
  16. Jessica Pratt says

    July 19, 2019 at 11:57 pm

    I’ve heard so many good things about this program!
    Reply
  17. Bhanu says

    July 20, 2019 at 7:54 am

    My son bikes but my 6yr old daughter still needs the confidence to take off the training wheels. I m also trying to get more comfortable biking myself. Once we all are set it will be a great family activity during summer.
    Reply
  18. Jenny Wilson says

    July 20, 2019 at 4:01 pm

    I used to mountain bike (before kids ha!). I think Pedalheads is the right place to build confidence and would love to take my son to one of the camps!
    Reply
  19. Lindsey Kosterewa says

    July 21, 2019 at 8:35 am

    Thank you for this opportunity. My daughter is 6 and is terrified for us to take off her training wheels.
    Reply
  20. Dawn says

    July 21, 2019 at 9:35 am

    We would ride more a a family once our youngest is more comfortable and can ride…hence our need of Peddleheads!!
    Right now it’s just at the camp ground which is better than nothing😄
    Reply
  21. Monique Les says

    July 21, 2019 at 5:01 pm

    My girl would love the second chance to do this camp!!! She is absolutely TERRIFIED of the bike!!
    Reply
  22. Steve Wan says

    July 22, 2019 at 10:48 am

    My daughter could definitely use this camp! She needs more confidence and the reinforcement of safe cycling practices!
    Reply
  23. Marisa Pilgrim says

    July 22, 2019 at 1:50 pm

    Sounds amazing. This would be great for my little one.
    Reply
  24. Erin says

    July 22, 2019 at 1:56 pm

    We love to ride bikes. My little man is still so nervous about it. One of the many things he struggles with after losing his Dad. He was on such a good track and now we just end up both frustrated. Love your blog to read how positive this experience is for the nervous nellies!! Would love this opportunity!
    Reply
  25. Bahar says

    July 22, 2019 at 2:57 pm

    I had no idea this existed but was just thinking that I wish someone could give my son the extra push he needs. Thanks for sharing your experience. I would love a week of camp!
    Reply
  26. shanef watson says

    June 18, 2020 at 5:49 pm

    Hey, thank you for sharing this great summer bike amp guide. I’m planning to do camping and tour on my bike. This article is really very helpful for me.
    Reply
  27. Sonu Monu says

    August 8, 2020 at 5:26 am

    It is shame to say that I am a bike lover but I don’t know how to teach my son to ride a bike. I am considering to buy him a balance bike this month. Thanks for sharing your tips! Very helpful.
    Reply

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It’s still the month of May, the month moms get their Hallmark spotlight - So in honour of that, I wanted to share a little story.

When I first moved from LA to Victoria as a new mom and began building my brand online from home, I struggled with finding a true sense of belonging. I never felt like I fully belonged in the “mom world”, especially in a new community, not fully in the creative world, and definitely not in the often viral-chasing digital world I could never seem to keep up with.

Ironically, I was a “part” of everything but belonged to nothing.

…or so I thought.

As I opened myself up to the many communities WITHIN my community, I realized something:

The moment I stopped trying to “fit in” and leaned into who I actually am… that’s when everything changed.

And that’s what I love most about this group of women featured by @islandparent Magazine — in all the ways we are different, we are also one and the same.

Different voices. Different lives. Different ways of showing up for the world.

But all rooted in connection, creativity, community, and a deep love for our families.

Beyond being “mamas of influence,” these women use their platforms while opening their hearts and homes.

Some share family life tips, recipes, wellness journeys, sandwich gen truths, and initiate mental health conversations.
Some inspire through faith, fashion, creativity, gardening, travel, and outdoor adventures.
Some advocate fiercely for neurodivergent children while navigating neurodivergence themselves.

Some use storytelling, humour, or podcasts 😉 to help other parents feel seen and less alone.

And somehow, in between school pickups, medical appointments, assessment forms, homemaking, caregiving, and late nights searching for a little silence and brain clarity after long days of “othering” — we are building businesses, brands, and meaningful lives for our families.

We cheer each other on. 
We lift each other up.

And in finding my place within this realm of motherhood… I found home.

“It takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise the parent.” 

#MomsSupportingMoms #VancouverIslan
POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast POV: You’re SUPPOSED to be working on your podcast FULL TILT… but your ADHD brain 🧠 chimed in:

“might as well just release a whole song while we’re at it” 🤷🏻‍♀️

So now my Auntie Norma 🇵🇭 can stream me on Spotify while she washes dishes 😂 #winwin (but still… #whatjusthappened)

Meanwhile:
🏠 messy house
🎥 unfinished podcast clips
🧺 laundry mountain thriving in the background

BUT ANYWAYYYY—

🎧 “I Need My Sass Back” is now streaming on Spotify, iTunes, Amazon Music & everywhere you listen to music 

Your fault, @jakerfilms for writing the darn thing in the first place… 🤣 #dontthinkstraight

Full video link is in my bio if you want the whole vibe 🎬
Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/h Apparently a lot of you are confused about where/how to actually WATCH this podcast I keep talking about… 😂

So here’s how to find @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Seasons 1 & 2 on TELUS Optik TV + Stream+ Ch.9 

And yes… I said TV. 📺 
(“Mom! Look! I’m on tv!” And yes… I did that too… 🤣🤣)

**Thnx to TELUS @storyhive  for making it possible!!

And until June… it will ONLY be available to those who have @telus as their provider or have access to Stream+ & OptikTV, then it will be out in the interwebs for all to see. 👀

My little podcast-that-could is up and running, alive & streaming. Just search within the app on your TELUS TV, “StoryHive Sass”

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk features raw, meaningful conversations with the many faces of parenthood in our beautiful city, here on Vancouver Island (and beyond), caregivers, creatives, and changemakers carrying the mental load, navigating real life parenting, with honesty and heart. I promise you won’t be disappointed…

Featuring guests including @spoletinigiuseppe, @nikkye_music, @of.ocean.and.earth.photo, and more beautiful humans this season. 

MEET MY VILLAGE… 

Be sure to watch our Music vid tribute on YouTube to all of my guests from THEIR kids and I. Find, like, & Subscribe on YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls ALSO NOW AVAILABLE On Spotify and Apple Music/Itunes! 

#ParentingPodcast #CanadianPodcast #TELUSStoryhive #NeurodivergentParenting #mentalloadofparenting
MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a MY SURPRISE PROJECT for my Podcast Guests - with a little help from THEIR kids.. 

I didn’t expect this to actually work…

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For the past few weeks, I’ve been working quietly on something really special — a surprise for every guest who’s ever been part of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast… from my Zoom OGs - circa 2022, to my TELUS @storyhive ⁠seasons on the tube 📺, to my crew/village/emotional support squad.

What started as a gift — a piece of music from my out-of-the-box-thinker & editor @jakerfilms, turned into something SO. MUCH. MORE. MEANINGFUL.

With the help of my incredible creative village at @haus.of.owl @remy.is.remy, led by the big beautiful brain 🧠 of Eric Hinch @eric.thebald, my Director 👏🏼🎬 Hinchalot Films (www.filmnow.ca), and the talented Dan @dn.gib & @erinbradleyartist 💄, we brought it to life!

… but the part that gets me right in the gut??

THE SMALLIES…. THESE KIDS….

The very kids who made all of us parents in the first place — including mine, who aren’t normally THIS comfortable “performing” in front of a camera.

Kids who have felt burnout.
Kids who have felt misunderstood.
Neurodivergent kiddos that hold a special place in my ❤️.

Kids who showed up anyway — with courage, joy, and love — to help me create something meaningful for their parents.

And somewhere in all of this…

I found my way back to me.

Back to music.
Back to creativity.
Back to MY SASS.
‘cuz isn’t this what Sass & Small Talk is all about?

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This video is for my village.
For the parents.
For the kids.
For anyone who’s ever felt like they lost a part of themselves along the way.

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👉 The full video is now on YouTube at https://m.youtube.com/@sassandsmalls
(Link in bio)

** Watch and feel COMMUNITY IN ACTION. Gosh - I love you guys!

Ps… If this resonates - keep up with new episodes already streaming on TELUS STORYHIVE - by liking & Subscribing!

“Cuz it Takes a village to raise a child. 

And a community, to raise their parent”

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#SassAndSmallTalk #ParenthoodUnfiltered #MentalLoad MomLife FindYourselfAgain CreativeMom Storytelling VillageSupport TELUSStoryHive @hoelune @rahannavu @iamharpsra @rajinthehouse @lindakyaw_m @nengineermom @i_am_miss_jen @esther.driver
JENN. Meet my village… There are episodes… and th JENN. Meet my village…

There are episodes…
and then there are stories that change your life forever.

This one is both.

She’s not just my guest.
She’s the woman who offered a piece of herself… when our world was falling apart.

Because of her, we have our son.
Because of her, our family feels whole. 

And watching this back—seeing her complete her family too…
full circle doesn’t even begin to cover it.

I wasn’t planning to share this moment.
But this is what this season is about.

The real stories.
The unseen moments of a mama sitting in her living room after the kids are asleep. 
The love that carries families through the unimaginable.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really looks like behind the scenes of motherhood, loss, and rebuilding…

This episode is for you. 🤍

🎧 Episode 1 is out now. 

TELUS OptikTV StoryHive gave me the platform to share these meaningful stories. 

Because it takes a Village to Raise a child. And a community to raise their parent. 
#eggdonor #chosenfamily #infertility #ittakesavillage #mentalload
Meet My Village 🤍 IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!! Season 2 of Meet My Village 🤍

IT’s LAUNCH DAY!!!

Season 2 of Sass & Small Talk, filmed at @haus.of.owl studios, on @StoryHive, Sponsored by TELUS, IS HERE 

… and these are the faces behind the real, raw, and beautiful stories of the mental load of parenting.

From Victoria, and beyond, each guest shares how they carry it all… and keep showing up.

Featuring a very special first episode close to my heart… and a full-circle finale with a dear childhood friend now gracing the stages of NYC - you won’t want to miss.

🎬 Watch now on TELUS Optik TV (Channel 9 On Demand) + Stream+

Let’s support local stories, local voices, and the village that holds us all.

Because it takes a village to raise a child… and a community to raise their parent.

#SassAndSmallTalk #StoryHive #MeetMyVillage
Easter used to feel like pressure: The perfect m Easter used to feel like pressure: 

The perfect meal. 
The perfect table. 
The kids sitting through the meal and actually eating it. 
The food not burning.

And somehow… still ending the day exhausted, touched out, and a little resentful… 

This year, I let go. I had no choice… with the launch of the new season on the pod, I had to choose my battles…

My 7-year-old — my busy, high-energy, “maybe not spaghetti” kid — decided he was making “superrrrr spaghetti.”
His way. 
His ideas. 
His “special ingredients.”

Was it messy? Yep.
Was it chaotic? Absolutely.
Was it perfect? Not even close.

But something shifted.

He took ownership.
He created.
He plated dinner like a little chef with a vision (volcano spaghetti and all 🌋🍝).

And he was SO proud.
And me?
I rested. I watched. I let go of control — and the mental load that usually comes with it.

THIS is what I’m learning:
• The more we try to control everything, the heavier it gets for us… and the less space our kids have to rise.

• When we let them lead (in age-appropriate ways), they don’t just help… they LEAD.

More pride.
More participation.
More appreciation.
More connection.
Less perfection. 
More magic.
** BONUS: and less craving for screen time #winwin

This wasn’t the Easter dinner I would’ve planned…but it’s the one we’ll actually remember ❤️

Taking a page outta your book @anna_skates ❤️❤️
Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where Parenting Hack: Meet your child’s 🧠 exactly where they’re at. Embrace the chaos, the messy experiments, the unrelenting curiosity. Let their 🧠 do its thing and step aside to see the magic.

Took me an entire lifetime to figure it out:
• Spent all of my childhood trying to “fit in”
• Struggled to mask but did it anyway 
• Met a boy. Also a creative and professional masker.
• Took a “creative” path less travelled as young adult on a one way flight to LA
• Loved life. 
• Received negative feedback from well-intentioned naysayers and loved ones
• Felt shame for not hitting the markers 
• Became a mom. 
• Read ALLLL the parenting books. 
• Spent over a decade fighting against my  first born’s “artist” brain and finding ways to “fix” what was not even broken
• Hated conforming and made some pivots while wearing metaphorical headphones to block out opinions/outside noise
• Loved Life 
• Had my youngest little man - came out of womb loud, intentional, & unapologetic 
• Threw out all parenting books and accepted the beautiful neurodivergent 🧠s taking over our entire household
• Gave both kids creative freedoms and stepped aside (mostly not intentionally. they’re too fast and I’m too old) 
• Learned how to celebrate the curious, comical, and weirdly wired brains that is our family. 
• Let my kids teach ME to have courage, think differently, and not just take the road less travelled - but actually #owningit
• Jumped into creating my own #podcast headfirst and never looked back

“Don’t Think Straight”, by Jacob Insley, is definitely one of our go-tos I’ll be keeping on my bookshelf for years to come. 

@jakerfilms you killed it with all these nuggets and takeaways! We’re all fighting for a turn to read - look at you causing ruckus in our home!?! 🤣 PS - My little guy requests to be in your 2nd book. 🤣🤣

#bebold #getmysassback #create
Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. It’s been a bitter swe Happy #LOVE Day Weekend…. 

It’s been a bitter sweet one this year. But we are working through Grief that will never go away. Especially on milestone days like this. 

Not only is it Dad Felix’s first Heavenly Birthday (Valentine’s Day), it’s also a day we lost our 6th pregnancy before we finally had our little guy. I truly believe Dad is as much present with our babies in heaven, as he is with his 4 Grandkids on earth. 

There’s healing in loving family. Thank you for your constant reminders of this Dad/Grandpa Felix. We miss you so much. 

#sandwichgeneration #caregiving #family #multigenerational
It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. When our f It’s giving dramatic dad/uncle vibes. 

When our first family friendly white 🥼 party turns into a full blown midlife crisis.🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

(And no… he is NOT okay)… 🤣🤣

#thisis50
#dadlife  #unclelife
#GenXLife
#ParentingMoments 
#TheyGrowUpFast 
#RealLifeParents
#riuwhiteparty
#mexico
#dinerenblanc
He turned 50. Shouting it from the rooftops was no He turned 50.
Shouting it from the rooftops was not an option, so naturally - we had it announced at 40,000 feet ✈️🎂

For context:
This man avoids attention like it’s turbulence.

This??
Actual NIGHTMARE. 😂🤣🤣

But after a rough year of loss, change, and having to step up in so many facets, he deserved a little LOUD love. 📣🎉🥳

Happy 50th to the man I’ve loved for more than half his life.
You chose me, chaos and all… so really, this one’s on you. 😉😉

Thanks @flairairlines for this unforgettable #birthday moment.

If you’ve got a second, send this sweet, shy 50-year-old young man some love… he’ll be back to low-key status in about 72 hours. ⏰💛

@gjavier5 💙💜

#ThisIs50
#50thBirthday 
#MarriageHumor 
#RealLifeMoments 
#PlaneAnnouncement 
#MilestoneBirthday 
#LoveInTheMiddle 
#LifeLately 
#ImperfectAndReal 
#FamilyLife 
#Grief
#caregiving
#GenX
#sandwichgeneration 
#ReelsThatMakeYouSmile
Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — an Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. Also Me: 🎥📹🔦 Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

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Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻
It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam an 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
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