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17 days with 7 A.M. Enfant

April 5, 2013 By Deb B. 55 Comments

As many of you already know – LD has maintained the status of Mini Jet Setter for most of her toddler years.  So living out of a suitcase for the last month during our bi-coastal design tour, wasn’t a foreign concept to any of us.  What was foreign however, was the biting cold that greeted our warm-blooded, Southern Cali (aka: spoiled) little bodies day after day as we endured the last few weeks of the winter season.  Our morning walks were immediately replaced with quick drive-thru trips to the local Timmys for some hot cocoa, and our nightly routine of taking in a dose of evening air, eventually became nights spent under the heaviest down comforter we could get our hands on while sitting in front of the fire (or manning the house thermostat).

We were at the brink of full hibernation… until we bumped into 7 A.M.® Enfant at the ENK Children’s Club Trade Show, that is.  While visiting the Big Apple attending Kid’s Fashion Week, we had the privilege of meeting the founder of this incredible babies and parenting accessories line – Rebecca Campora, a French designer who later brought her talents (and her family) to New York.  As a mother herself, she understands the necessity of good quality accessories for baby and mama (and daddy) without neglecting functionality, practicality, and convenience.  And as a designer originally from Paris, there is no doubt, innovation and style are a focal point of each and every product in her line.

Even some familiar faces see the value in the 7 A.M.® Enfant Foot muffs for their little ones:

Celebrities and Pookie Poncho Foot Muff 7 A.M. Enfant Babystylista

And I see what all the hoopla is about! We literally did a double take at the sight of her “Pookie Poncho” which acts as a cover for the stroller, car seat, and get this… the baby carrier.  I had to pick my jaw up off the floor after LD gave it a test run.

Like a little Joey, LD was tucked nice and cozy in the cocoon that surrounded her exposing nothing more than her squishy little face .

Babystylista 7A.M. Enfant

So we decided to challenge ourselves to face the last days of winter in the big city centers following our trip to New York.  17 days, to be exact.  That being, chilly Detroit, fab-but-frozen Toronto, and rainy Vancouver.  And this is what we experienced:

Detroit Riverfront: Minus 35 Degree Celsius cold that made our bones quiver.  Our resident photographer, Big Daddy, could barely keep the shot still as he was trembling up a storm.  My bell cloche was ready to blow away across the border, and I eventually could not feel my toes.  And then… there was LD.  Happy as … well… a clam.  All tucked away, warm as can be, without a care in the world.  She wasn’t only content, she was completely oblivious to the air that almost froze her parents to death.  She maintained her composure keeping her cloche and oversized shades in place, unlike her frazzled mother who had not a warm bone in her body – other than her hands which were tucked into the amazing warMMuffs, also from 7 A.M.® Enfant.   These warMMuffs are cleverly attached to the stroller handle via velcro for easy on and off versatility – once again… an ingenius concept brought on by a parent who can appreciate the necessity of easily removable gloves for quick parenting dilemmas.

Detroit Babystylista 7 A.M. Enfant

Downtown Toronto: Not as cold, but definitely lightyears away from warm.  I managed to keep my headgear tightly wrapped around my head, meanwhile, LD continued her Pookie Poncho adventures of her own.  As chilly as it was, we had a very cozy toddler who was far too busy happily maintaining her body temp, meanwhile, her caregivers were far too cold to even enjoy the breathtaking view.  With the exception of my uber warm digits, that is – thanks to our super slick and shiny WarMMuffs. It was no surprise, Canadian passerbys were green (or should I say, icey blue) with envy:

Toronto Babystylista 7 A.M. Enfant

Rainy Vancouver: We were fortunate to have missed the downpour, but with the shiny shell exterior of the warMMuffs, we were ready for anything.  Once again, we welcomed an onslaught of compliments and inquiries about the the warMMuffs and foot muff that seemed to be a sight for sore eyes in a city that has accepted it’s rainy fate.  And if I may say so myself, even all bundled up, we maintained our cute while enjoying a little cozy.

Vancouver Babystylista 7 A.M. Enfant

LD‘s noggin and fingers were kept nice and toasty with the Polar Hat 200 and matching Polar Mittens 200 in bordeaux. Lined with faux fur shearling, this stylish hat was all LD needed as she peeked out of the pookie poncho, while the rest of her squiggly body was kept warm underneath.  Again, we had a happy, snuggly monkey while the other half of us was shivering in our suede tasseled boots. And you know me – I am never one to deny an opportunity to coordinate with the little one.  So you can imagine my delight as I slipped my shivering hands into the matching bordeaux WarMMuffs attached conveniently to the stroller handles.

Babystylista 7A.M. Enfant

My only complaint?  Big Daddy and I surrendered to a quick challenge of rock-paper-scissors determining who among us would be the lucky one to push the stroller with the fabulous matching warMMuffs. We’re still fighting over them as I write this.

Matching Warmmuffs and Polar Hat Bordeaux

Here are the warMMuffs in action, along with the matching Polar Igloo foot muff, as narrated by the designer herself.

 

All in all, the pookie poncho served its purpose and then some, with full coverage, easy assembly (zip, snap, and wrap), and overall versatility.  After roaming around the chilly cosmo cities, we easily transferred the poncho to LD‘s carseat keeping her nice and cozy as she welcomed an afternoon nap.  If only I knew of this lifesaving concept during my days of babywearing.  Note to self – keep this in mind for baby numero 2.

Babystylista 7 A.M. Enfant Car Seat and Carrier Cover

What we love is how the smaller hood attaches with snaps to the back of the cover to protect the wee ones facing inward or outward.  Meanwhile, the larger hood zips onto the cover, for use on the stroller or car-seat, covering your monkey’s little face. So not only is the Pookie Poncho, a stylish and functional must-have for all parents, it also grows with your child.  We’re aiming at utilizing this for at least another 2 – 3 winters to come!  Watch out New York, this coming fall/winter – we’re ready for you!

*****FREE GIVEAWAY*****

As a gift to a lucky winner out there, our friends at 7 A.M.® Enfant is offering an insane giveaway  (If I were qualified to do so – I would enter a million times over)!  To enter for the chance to win this incredible Pookie Poncho, valued at $118.00 it’s super simple:

1.  Like Babystylista on FACEBOOK or INSTAGRAM (@babystylista), if you don’t already…

2.  Like 7 A.M. Enfant on FACEBOOK or INSTAGRAM (@7amenfant)

3.  Come back to this post and write a comment stating you completed the above!

And that’s IT!!! The winner will be revealed April 11th, 2013!  Good luck!

17 days of 7 A.M.® Enfant was all we needed to test drive these fab baby-and-me products.  2 chubby (and chilly) thumbs up for us!!

Stylishly yours,

db

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About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. Deana Lamm says

    April 5, 2013 at 8:06 pm

    done
    Reply
  2. Amelia Beonde says

    April 5, 2013 at 9:30 pm

    I like you both on Facebook! Already like 7 A.M. Enfant on facebook, now off to like you too 🙂 Have a great weekend!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 6, 2013 at 6:19 am

      Fab! Bonus question: Why do you think you should win the Pookie Poncho? Have a great weekend and thanks for liking us! 🙂 Good Luck!
      Reply
    • Amelia Beonde says

      April 6, 2013 at 6:09 pm

      Ooh @babystylista – because I could use it in my little ones stroller for walks and jogs and while wearing him in my ergo! I always feel bad when his pants pull up in the ergo and his legs are cold by the time we finish our walk. The pookie poncho would keep him nice and warm!
      Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 12, 2013 at 8:22 am

      This is so true! It's so great for the ergo too!
      Reply
    • Markee and Me says

      April 23, 2013 at 7:41 pm

      I have never seen anything like this before. It’s neat. Does it cover in the bottom as well?
      Reply
      • babystylista says

        April 27, 2013 at 6:58 pm

        Isn’t it awesome? It is more of a cover for the stroller, but there are other footmuffs at http://www.7amenfant.com that enclose the baby completely and is fastened at the sides with zippers. This one works best for us as it wraps over the stroller and attaches with a velcro. Would love to get our hands on the full coverage one as well at some point. We won’t need that for LA though 🙂
        Reply
  3. NIcole U says

    April 6, 2013 at 12:46 am

    I Like Babystylista on FACEBOOK and I Like 7 A.M. Enfant on Facebook.
    Thanks for the chance to win!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 6, 2013 at 6:13 am

      Fab! Bonus question: Why do you think you should win the Pookie Poncho? Good Luck!
      Reply
  4. Elena says

    April 6, 2013 at 4:06 am

    I like both BabyStylista and 7 A.M Enfant on Facebook!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 6, 2013 at 6:13 am

      Fab! Bonus question: Why do you think you should win the Pookie Poncho? Good Luck!
      Reply
  5. babystylista says

    April 6, 2013 at 6:19 am

    Fab! Bonus question: Why do you think you should win the Pookie Poncho? Good Luck!
    Reply
  6. Jeannie says

    April 6, 2013 at 9:33 am

    Liked BabyStylista and 7 AM enfant on facebook
    Reply
  7. Jeannie Lam says

    April 6, 2013 at 9:34 am

    liked both on facebook. Done and done!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 12, 2013 at 8:21 am

      Wonderful! Good Luck!
      Reply
    • J Jimenez says

      April 23, 2013 at 11:58 pm

      So cute!
      Reply
      • babystylista says

        April 27, 2013 at 7:10 pm

        It sure is! Be sure to check back in for more giveaways!
        Reply
  8. Helene Coyne Herold says

    April 6, 2013 at 3:29 pm

    love the pookie and you style is so great!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 12, 2013 at 8:21 am

      Awesome! Good Luck, and Thank you so much!
      Reply
  9. Rochel S. says

    April 7, 2013 at 3:11 am

    I like both pages on Facebook!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:21 pm

      Thank you so much. The contest is done for this particular giveaway, but we will have more so be sure to check back in 🙂
      Reply
  10. WF says

    April 20, 2013 at 3:32 pm

    You’re awesome
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:21 pm

      No you are! 🙂
      Reply
  11. Patty says

    April 20, 2013 at 4:38 pm

    Wish we were on time for the contest! Love this so much. 🙁
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:22 pm

      Aw – don’t worry! There will be many more giveaways on Babystylista. Keep checking in for another great giveaway coming up for 7 A.M. Enfant. This time for mama! 🙂
      Reply
  12. Vernon says

    April 20, 2013 at 9:55 pm

    We don’t have in China.
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:23 pm

      Are you able to have access to http://www.7amenfant.com? You may want to inquire about international shipping, etc. Good luck! You should definitely have this accessible for you! You would love it!
      Reply
  13. Karen T says

    April 21, 2013 at 8:58 am

    What are the chances of you having another giveaway?
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:24 pm

      The chances are great! We will be hosting another 7 A.M. Enfant Giveaway in a few weeks so be sure to check in. Good luck!
      Reply
  14. Wolfe says

    April 21, 2013 at 10:08 am

    Done and Done!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:25 pm

      Thank you! Be sure to check back in for another giveaway in the next couple weeks!
      Reply
  15. h. Hentley says

    April 21, 2013 at 11:32 am

    ADORABLE!!!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:25 pm

      It sure is, and thank you! 🙂
      Reply
  16. Chen says

    April 21, 2013 at 2:27 pm

    Too bad they don’t have these for parents.
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:26 pm

      Agreed. I would be so cozy in one of these, but nothing would ever get done. ha!
      Reply
  17. SC says

    April 23, 2013 at 12:43 am

    You look awesome even in the cold!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:26 pm

      You’re too kind. Thank you! I didn’t feel too cute! Wish I was in the pookie poncho myself!
      Reply
  18. Godfrey says

    April 23, 2013 at 7:25 pm

    Can’t wait to get this. Love it. Are there other colors though?

    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:27 pm

      There are TONS of colors to choose from. Visit http://www.7amenfant.com. So many to select!
      Reply
  19. GV says

    April 24, 2013 at 10:52 am

    Love you guys. And love the Poncho. Wish I knew about this earlier. Will you be doing another giveaway soon?
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 6:55 pm

      Love you too! Thanks for checking in. We will be hosting many giveaways soon so just keep dropping in!
      Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:16 pm

      We sure will! Different items but I know you’ll love them so be sure to keep stopping by!
      Reply
  20. Heather loves LV says

    April 25, 2013 at 1:44 am

    Would this be warm enough for Kansas?
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 6:51 pm

      ABSOLUTELY! But be sure to check out http://www.7amenfant.com for the faux shearling lined footmuffs that may be more suitable for the harsh Kansas winters. I found the Pookie Poncho to be perfect in Detroit when it was biting cold! Hope this helps!
      Reply
  21. Vicky says

    April 25, 2013 at 5:07 am

    We could never really afford this with the new baby, but we would love a chance to win the giveaway.
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 6:51 pm

      Watch out for more giveaways coming up! Best of luck and thanks so much for entering!
      Reply
  22. Marianne L says

    April 25, 2013 at 7:11 am

    You look great Babystylista! Love the mittens especially! I NEED that!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 6:52 pm

      Awww! Thank you! The mittens are my fave as well! You’d LOVE them! My hubby and I fight over them all the time!
      Reply
  23. Sandy S. says

    April 26, 2013 at 7:25 am

    I am IN love with this! Pick us Pick us!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 6:53 pm

      Keep checking in with us for more contests! Thanks for entering!
      Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:19 pm

      Awww – too late for this giveaway – but we’ll be having other giveaways so be sure to keep checking in!
      Reply
  24. Lisa says

    April 27, 2013 at 9:58 am

    This is DEFINITELY a must-have for all parents! We live in Maryland and we can’t go anywhere without ours!
    Reply
    • babystylista says

      April 27, 2013 at 7:19 pm

      So glad you shared with us! I bet it’s perfect for Maryland!
      Reply

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… and the heels.

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It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

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So be sure to watch this incredibly impactful and emotional episode where we have an honest conversation about #parentingafterloss with the very woman who changed the course of our family’s trajectory. No matter what the journey looks like to become parents, it’s not always #sunshineandrainbows but the intense #gratitude will always carry us through. 

Streaming on @telus @storyhive #OptikTV SPRING 2006! 

#eggdonation #eggdonor #ittakesavillage #rainbow #pregnancylossawareness  #pregnancylossawarenessmonth #rainbowbaby #miraclebaby 

Thnx for saving the day @eric.thebald with your invisible cape and wrangling powers! @jakerfilms  @hoelune @gjavier Couldn’t get through this all without you! 

@sassandsmalltalkpodcast
Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Beauty @glowjar_  says “LESS IS MORE” with skincare.

Meanwhile, I’m over here… overscrubbing, overthinking, and sometimes… skipping it altogether. 🙈 (shhhh... don’t tell my husband, OR my friends, OR my followers, omg please don’t tell my mom).

Turns out, good #skincare isn’t about burning your face off with 12 products that smell like a tropical fruit basket. It’s about being gentle — even if you’re a chaotic face washer like me.

Watch me get called out (lovingly) in Episode 3 (https://youtu.be/gAg0RXoGiAg) of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Talk, now streaming on ‪@TELUS‬ OptikTV and ‪@storyhive‬ 

Find the link on my BIO or in my stories. 

#SkincareHumor #MomLife #BurnoutRecovery #CaregiverLife #SassAndSmallTalk #lessismore #glowjarbeauty #glowjar #skin #glowingskin #JaimePereira #canadianbrand
When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your village takes over and plans ahead for you. 

Enter, days worth of #waffles and #pancakes for your sweet-breakfast-obsessed family. All so I can focus on working on season 2 of my show @sassandsmalltalkpodcast @Telus @storyhive now in production, whilst #caregiving the parents full time and no summer camps for the kiddos in sight. Let’s just say 24 hours in a day isn’t quite enough… 😴 is kinda out the window too. 

Thank you @caarly.xo for knowing I’m in the season, and just doing what you do… as always. 

Now please go back to your family of 6 😲, because they are probably tired of sharing you with us after all these MONTHS… LOVE you, and THANK you for all you’ve done for our family. 

The waffles were just the delish icing on the cake. There was muuuuuuch much more you supported us with while across the country as we focused on family, and we are grateful to you…  thank you. 

#ittakesavillage #sassandsmalltalk #telus #storyhive
Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #caregiver #s Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️
#caregiver #seekingvalidation #daughterofimmigrants #proudgrandparents

J/K… she was proud (I think). 
And she actually read it (I think)… 🤔🤔

Grab a copy @islandparent on local stands or check out the link on IG stories and in my BIO. 

And read the article @mommamillsblog, my girl, Natasha wrote on the true meaning of wealth in parenthood. 

Lots of gems!
#islandparentmagazine #parenting #homeschool #mentalhealth #mentalwellness 

Do you still find yourself seeking your #elderly parents approval even as a parent yourself?
Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉 When you’re a par Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉

When you’re a parent, caregiver, and running your own show on zero sleep… “sneaking out” mid-day with that cutie (who kinda resembles your spouse 🤷🏻‍♀️ ) for YUUUUUMMMY local @drumroaster #specialitycoffee, is basically the best (and only) date you’ll get. 

And honestly? We’ll take it. ✨

Talk “latte” to me. 💛 

*Tho that Canadian Macchiato ☕️ was next level…* Jus’ sayin’

Catch the @aerobicgeisha.coffee #mobilecoffee #cartonwheels #PopUp 🚲 at @westshoretowncentre — now ‘til Sept 3 (closed Mondays). 

#SupportLocal #ParentDateVibes #BurnoutFuel #CoffeeDate #hubbahubba #coffeeismylovelanguage #westshoretowncentre #aerobicgeisha #geishacoffee #aerobicgeishacoffee
**He had NO idea what he got himself into when he **He had NO idea what he got himself into when he answered that phone call from the crazy big(ish) city girl.**⁣
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Yes… I made the first move.⁣
And yes… I called him on an actual telephone. With a rotary dial. Connected to a wall.⁣ ☎️⁣
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That was 26 years ago.⁣
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10 years later (16 years ago today), he asked me to meet him at the end of the aisle and make it official 🤵🏻👰🏻—which we did, surrounded by everyone we love, and then danced the night away at the bottom of the Seinfeld steps.⁣
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Thank you for doing life with me, George @gjavier5. You’ve always been (and always will be) my #1 go-to for all things Cobra Kai 🐍, the best fellow imperfect-perfect parent to those little humans who look suspiciously like you 👧🏻👦🏻—and of course, co-parent to our two stinky OG furry kids 🦮🐕‍🦺.⁣ Thanks for being the yin to my “extra”🤪. And I’m the yang to your “chill” 😎
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Now stop scrolling and go kill that spider in the living room… or I might have to tell the world who really watches The Bachelor between the two of us 👀🌹
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I love you!! (And no… this is not just a clever way to get you to finally agree that the TV we bought the year we got married is long overdue for retirement 📺🫠)⁣ 😉 
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D&G, finally.
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#16YearsMarried #26YearsTogether #dgfinally #atlast #happyanniversary
Meet Emily. She coped by staying busy. Corporate Meet Emily. 

She coped by staying busy.
Corporate life. 
#Sidehustles. 
Always moving.
Until #burnout stopped her cold.

When Emily Bowman  @emlambow @nevaehjade.beautywellness, at the tender age of 12, began the life of a heartbreaking reality of #caregiving for a loved one, and eventually losing her father after a decade long battle with cancer, she pushed through the pain the only way she knew how — by working harder. 

But #grief always finds a way to surface.

#Fitness became her lifeline.
Now it’s not just her outlet — it’s her saving grace... and her business.

So grateful for @Telus @storyhive  for the platform to share such profound stories on #burnout and reclaiming joy as parents. 

🔥 Watch the full conversation in Episode 2 – live now on #Youtube - Link in BIO and IG Stories! Watch now for amazing INSPO, and please subscribe and support a sis! 🙋🏻‍♀️ (PSSST… “YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls”)
✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out ✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out “talks too much” is a transferable skill. 😉)

Couldn’t resist flipping through the online Summer issue of @islandparent (still chasing down a copy ON PRINT — OMW, #YYJ friends, pls save me one 🙏🙏!!)

Somehow, between #caregiving worries stretching from the West Coast to the Midwest, an unexpected emergency trip with the kids, and a 25-hour boat/train/plane journey (regrets: zero, snack supply: questionable 🙃), I managed to turn the chaos into a story — and landed my first article in one of our Van Island parenting mags.

Even better? I sat down for a feature interview about @sassandsmalltalkpodcast, sharing why these conversations matter, how the show makes space for parents stretched too thin, and why reclaiming joy beyond burnout is actually possible. #SeasonOne is now streaming on @telus @storyhive 🎙️.

A Massive THANK YOU to Stacie Gaetz @islandparent for an energizing interview that made me sound far cooler than I am, and to the whole editorial team for trusting me to bring my slightly unhinged, real-talk parenting chaos to your pages.

Here’s to finding joy in the mess, adventure in the unexpected, and a whole lotta #HappyJ in my carry-on…

📖 Grab a copy, flip to my pages, check out all the amazing contributing writers, and come hang out on the pod!

Also peep appearances from 2 of my 8 incredible guests: @truedad.community, @sarjo08, @toastibeautycollection — and the ridiculously talented @sarah_booth_photography, whose cover shot steals the show.

Non-islanders - the online copy is avail at islandparent.ca. Link on my bio 😉

#SassAndSmallTalk #SandwichGeneration #IslandParent #Storyhive #TelusOriginals #CaregiverLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FilipinoMoms #RealTalkForParents #ChaosAndJoy #ContributingWriter #Storytelling
I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to our father-in-law — who we’d been caregiving for these last couple months in their home on the other side of the country 💔 It’s been a heavy time, so I haven’t been online. 

But I wanted to quickly share that George and I have been keeping up with our daily dose of #HJ, and between that, and prayer, our amazing village both here and at home, and the support of family - our #stressresilience to handle the most challenging time in our lives was nothing short of a miracle. 

Running on virtually no sleep, the constant worry, lack of control, we needed all we could get to show up for the ones we love especially these last couple months. 

I am now a couple weeks into the #Rootist Densify Hair Line (and only a few days since recording this vid), after just a few washes with the Rootist Densify Shampoo + Conditioner (plus the Densifying Serum), I’m already feeling a shift. ✨ Thicker, fuller hair is the goal — and even in the midst of #grief and #caregiving, it’s nice to feel one small thing going right.

If you’re curious, today’s the day to grab it (July 2nd, 2025) —
🛍️ Shampoo + Conditioner are on sale
🇨🇦 Canada Day = FREE shipping Until July 4th 2025
But the 25% off on shampoo and conditioner ends TONIGHT (July 2nd - 1159pm PST) — so don’t wait! 🌿💚

Grab your Shampoo and Conditioner here: 
https://www.amare.com/et/sh43va/1946022

Promo code: Rootist25

DM me, or click the link for the full video on my profile.

#RootistHairCare #ScalpHealth #CaregiverLife #MicrobiomeSupport #CanadaDaySale #Review
S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is your comeback. 💥 SEASON 1 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast is now #bingeable on @TELUS #OptikTV & @StoryHive #YouTube! 8 back-to-back episodes of real talk about #parenting, #caregiving, and life’s beautiful chaos. Hit that link in bio and #getthatsassback. 🎙️✨ #JoyUnlocked #ParenthoodUnfiltered
M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday boy of mine has been such a trooper — the youngest and smallest member of our #sandwichgeneration family. For the third time in his 7 years of birthdays, his special day was quietly placed on hold as we navigated some heavy family matters. 

That meant: 
• no class party
• no birthday play date
• no jumping on trampolines
• no big plan, not even a little one 

… and not one single complaint from this compassionate little guy.

He’s simply grateful to be where he’s needed most — with family. 

To his (and our) surprise, his incredible teacher sent us this beautiful video of his classmates from far away, singing him #HappyBirthday, and the emotion it stirred in our family was something we’ll never forget. It was the very medicine our hearts needed right about now.

I may or may not have shed a tear or two… thousand.

And as for the #birthdayboy?

Well — it’s written all over his sweet face.

#thegiftthatkeepsongiving #itsthelittlethings #ittakesavillage #caregiving #bestgiftever #lovewins #realparentingmoments #sandwichgenerationlife
G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a little while ago… but life had other plans. 💔

It’s been a challenging month — on top of caregiving, moving homes, and homeschooling, we’ve been navigating some heavy family stuff. So I stepped back to focus on what matters most. 💗

That said… I’m slowly finding my way back.

And while it might seem small, leaning into this lighthearted moment — unboxing the full #Rootist kit, the #HJ for scalp — feels like a tiny act of #respite I really need right now. 

I’ve been working on my #guthealth with #Amare, and now I’m turning my attention to my #scalp #microbiome — because healing starts from the inside out… but the outside could use a little love too. 💆🏻‍♀️✨

Here’s to strong, luscious hair (maybe even retiring the ol’ #mombun? We’ll see 😅) and giving myself a moment to feel good again. 💚
#ScalpMicrobiome #GutBrainaxis #MomLifeRecovery #momlifebelike
🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥 We’re closing out 🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥

We’re closing out Season 1 of “Sass & Small Talk” with serious depth, healing, and one heck of a magical mic-drop moment. ✨

In this powerful finale #onthepod, I sit down with @scarletjaxen — a Victoria-based #author, counsellor, and storyteller with years of experience in clinical social work. She brings together sharp intellect and soul-deep wisdom to help us explore #burnout and intuition, through the power of #multisensory storytelling.

Scarlet believes change is possible, healing is available, and that WHO we ARE can evolve—when we’re ready to take the risk to live with intention, while trusting our own instincts.

She takes #trustyourgut to a whole new level.

For every #caregiver, #mama, and recovering #overachiever... this one’s for you.

🎥 NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+

📅 Coming May 27 to @storyhive + @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube + all podcast platforms.

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #womensempowerment
B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds be B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds beauty brands by day and dominates video games by night 🎮💅 

Meet Sara Jonsson @sarjo08 #mama (human & furry), #wifey, #caregiver, #entrepreneur, and low-key savage when gaming with her son 😂. 

As the go-to support for her parents through some tough health-related seasons, Sara’s #familyfirst mindset fuels everything she does—including the business she built from love. 

In Episode 7, we get real about #caregiverburnout, while running multi businesses with heart, and finding joy in the chaos. 

…and,

HOW. THE. HECK. SHE. DOES. IT. ALL. 

NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+ 

Will be available on @storyhive and @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube and all podcast platforms on May 27th. 

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #bossladyvibes @toastibeautycollection
SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes gli SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes glimpse of what feels like the beginning of a powerful shift in #womenshealth right here in #Victoria.

To stand alongside such empowered women — #caregivers, #changemakers, survivors, women from all walks of life — in the very place where the hands and hearts of this hospital held me and my family together (in more ways than one)… it was overwhelming in the best way.

Even more so, to share it with my daughter, my fiercest little survivor. Both of our stories of survival are woven into these hospital walls.

This was more than just a shoot. This was change taking place in real time. Honoured to be a tiny part of this moment as it unfolds.

Thank you for bringing this to life @ourvichospitals @averybrohman @gaellevanerp 💛
✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.co ✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.cochrane.realtor, you and your kiddos are what our world needs more of! And grateful to our dear friend @oliviabozovic who made the connection! SMALL 🌍 BIG 🩷♥️💙! Adore you both!! 

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To the kind dad at the @royalbaycolwood Easter Egg Hunt this past Saturday—

You probably didn’t realize how much you and your kids impacted our day.

My son had just missed the first few minutes of the egg hunt (as usual, this mama was running late with a million things on her plate—homeschooling, caregiving, promoting a show, working from home, managing the home, advocating, feeding the young and old, managing moods... the usual chaos).

He stood in line for the balloon dome and said quietly, trying , “I got zero eggs, mama.”

You heard him. Your son, who seemed a bit overwhelmed himself covering his ears from all the noise, and your little girl, reached into their own baskets and filled my son’s bag.

I watched as kindness bloomed in real time.

You didn’t just hand out chocolate—you gave my son the gift of feeling seen and included. You taught your kids what generosity really looks like.

And for this tired, always-late, sandwich-gen special-needs mom—your gesture meant more than you’ll ever know.

If anyone in the Westshore community knows this lovely family (dad of Grayson?), please tag them or send them our thanks.

This is what #community looks like. 🐣💛

#SandwichGeneration #GlassChild #NeurodivergentMom #MomGuilt #CommunityLove #WestshoreBC #VictoriaMoms #RoyalBayColwood #RealEasterMagic #SmallKindnessBigImpact
She podcasts. She parents. She’s got a 🌶️ She podcasts. 
She parents. 
She’s got a 🌶️ 🧠.
She’s fresh outta burnout mode.
She sips #HappyJ.
And now, with🎙️in hand… she’s streaming on @TELUS @STORYHIVE (because even #actionfigures need a l’il 📺 airtime).

Hey, I’m Deb B., host of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast — a podcast turned video series where we get real about #parenting and #caregiver #burnout, and find joy in the messy middle.

Fueled by my go-to fix-the-gut-fix-the-burnout potion🥤, a l’il bit of tears, and a whole lotta sass, this season brings on the reality of living in the #burnout generation, with guests who will leave you asking yourself “where have they been all my life?”

Because we are DONE glorifying busy.
We’re saying YES to rest.
And HEEEECK YES to finding our joy once again. #INeedMySassBack

Catch the Pod Edition now on TELUS OptikTV Ch 9, Stream+, and on #Storyhive YouTube (Search Storyhive Sass Small Talk) Link on my bio for Episodes 1 & 2.

🦉 Sexy Studio. ✔️ I 👀 @haus.of.owl 
🛋️ Cozy couch. ✔️
🎙️ Good convo. ✔️
🥹 Big feelings. ✔️
🤩 And even bigger lashes. ✔️✔️✔️

LET’S TALK. 

Oh and PS - wanna know how to get your action figure #animated? Follow me, write “SASS”, and let me know what your action figure would be in the comments below and I’ll hook you up. 

#SassAndSmalls #TelusStoryhive #HappyJEnergy #GoodbyeBurnout #SmallTalkBigFeels #actionfigure #barbie #AI #Amare #happyblend #cortisol
When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑 In When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑

In Episode 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast “Reclaiming Joy of #Parenthood Beyond Burnout”, I take on the ultimate #challenge:
Fitting fitness into my already chaotic #caregiving, #homeschooling, always behind the wheel, #neurodivergent navigating, mom-life schedule. 🧠🎢💪

Add to the mix, a busy 🧠 that thrives on chaos and fun? Why not #gamify? Moms- let’s do the #TriggerWordChallenge!! Every time your kids say (aka “demand”, I mean c’mon now…) “MOM!”, do a squat! In the kitchen, while cleaning, cooking, folding laundry. Just don’t do it driving! #safetyfirst

For this episode, Every time *I* said the word “lash” — yep, I squat. 😅

Joining me is none other than Victoria’s go-to #LashLady, who most would call a client-proclaimed “lash-a-pist” and certified #fitness coach, Emily Bowman @nevaehjade.beautywellness, who’s here to talk #burnout, #beauty, and #body movement. And I’m here to try and master the world’s most chaotic squat routine. 🙃

Side note: Psssst… your girl hasn’t done a squat since before the Pandy of 2020 so this may be nbd to the average person, but it’s quite literally a miracle ⛪️ for 🙋🏻‍♀️. #whateverworks #amIright?

Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two…  on the full episode 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, @storyhive YouTube

Comment “Squat” if you want the full episode link on @storyhive‘s YouTube. But it’s even more fun on TV, so try that first! We sure are…

#SassAndSmallTalk #SquatGoals #BurnoutAndBootyGains #bunsofsteel #LashLadyTakesOver #NeurodivergentMomLife #CaregiverFitness #SquatWhileYouCan #HomeschoolChaos #MomLifeUnfiltered #VictoriaBC #StoryHive #ReclaimYourJoy #JLoGotNothingOnMe
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